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TravelRe: Talking About Schengen Point Of Entry Preference by doubletroublmum(f): 5:12pm On May 27, 2017
Sorry I meant I T Computer knowledge. Did he study? Then maybe he can go for blue card
TravelRe: Nairalanders In Deutschland And E.U Zone. by doubletroublmum(f): 9:36am On May 27, 2017
unipol:
Nice meeting you. You are in position to lecture us about having kids, benefits and the stress. I heard that kids is money in Deutschland. Tell us more about eltern geld, kinder geld, betreuers geld and every other financial gains for having kids. I am planning to have kids, though not for financial benefits. Thanks in advance.
Hello, sorry for responding late, but since i work a lot, i could not get back earlier.

Kindergeld: is a monthly paid money that you have to apply for at Familienkasse. The money is around 180 Euro monthly for one child and increases with every child. The government pays this money, til the child is turning 18 yrs, no matter how high your income is. But be careful, they only pay Kindergeld to germans or foreigners with residence permit. Asylum seekers are excluded, since they get social money from another place.

Elterngeld: You can apply for it once the child is born. Starts from 300 Euro monthly, depending on if you have worked before in Germany or not. They pay it maximum 2 yrs, to cover for times you are not working. Asylum seekers are excluded aswell, you have to have a residence permit.

If you dont have enough money, you can apply for social support anyway.

Kids are costly here in Germany, cause you have to pay everything by yourself. Normally clothes and food, Kindergarten / nursery school fees, even Fees in primary school. Here in most primary scholls they end their lesson by around 12 to 1 pm. But if you are working and cant pick up your child so early, you can book OGS, its afternoon service at school. They offer lunch, homework help and so on. Also freetime activities like sports and so on, you have to pay yourself.
Finally most of the Kindergeld i get for the kids, is spent for such things, school books and so on...
But better than nothing.

Living in Germany is good, cause you have running water, electricity and its a bit more peaceful than living in Nigeria...but at the same time, one is missing family and friends from Nigeria. Live is different here, work has high priority to Germans. As a black person, you have to work twice as hard to get a job or a good house...

if you live in small towns, sometimes its harder to connect.

But let me tell you one funny thing i discover. If your child goes to Kindergarden or school, try and take part in their activities, parties and so on. By this way you easily connect to other parents and get to know Germans too. Try and learn German a little but, they will appreciate and be kind to you - at least most of them.

Happy weekend
TravelRe: Nairalanders In Deutschland And E.U Zone. by doubletroublmum(f): 5:25pm On May 24, 2017
Hi folks. I live in Dortmund, married to German since almost 15 yrs, 3 kids. Dortmund is ok, people are friendly and enough job to do. The lesson I learned: Education is the key!! Helps you to get a good job and to know good people. Nice to meet all of you
TravelRe: Talking About Schengen Point Of Entry Preference by doubletroublmum(f): 7:46am On May 23, 2017
Hi, by law there is no way to turn visiting visa into working permit. They will tell your friend to leave and reapply for working visa. Is he skilled in it?? Maybe he can apply for blue card then.
TravelRe: General German Visa Enquiries Part 3 by doubletroublmum(f): 6:53pm On May 10, 2017
I met people already doing it that way. Naturally they spend some of the money at the beginning, but through working here they were able to pay the wasted money back into the account. I'm not saying that everybody can do it this way, it depends on your will and hard work.
TravelRe: General German Visa Enquiries Part 3 by doubletroublmum(f): 10:21am On May 10, 2017
Rapahel1116:
Shit....its renewed yearly?I tot differently ....so one must pay 8700euros every year?
Hi. You don't need to pay this amount every year, but make sure, that this amount stays in your account. If you come to Germany, look for a student job to support yourself, so you don't need to take the money from this account.
FamilyRe: Have I Disappointed My Unborn Child? by doubletroublmum(f): 6:42am On May 09, 2017
Sad story. What do you want at all?? You don't want to marry her, but at the same time you want to play a big party in your child live?? Make a decision!!! Maybe your child will grow happily with the mother and the new husband?? Let her go, if you are not ready to care for them....
TravelRe: Benin City by doubletroublmum(op): 6:07pm On May 08, 2017
No. Basically I wonder if Yoruba or Igbo people don't travel anymore. Cause you hardly meet them in my area....
TravelRe: Benin City by doubletroublmum(op): 9:33am On May 08, 2017
True, have never been to Benin city. Only Lagos, my home town, and port Harcourt, cause my auntie lives there...
TravelBenin City by doubletroublmum(op): 8:13am On May 08, 2017
Hi, first of all I don't intend to insult anyone with this topic, I'm just very curious.

I'm living in Germany and recently i came across many women (up to 20), who left Benin city to go to Italy. There they worked mostly as prostitute and finally managed to cross to Germany. Most of them are having babies.

You hardly meet Lagos people or Igbos these days, mostly benin city people, how come??
Are these people aware of working as prostitutes here or are they told lies??

Some years back many Nigerians came as students, or through family reunion, even aduro. But this prostitute thing is getting to much...
TravelRe: I Got Married To A German Woman by doubletroublmum(f): 7:26am On Apr 20, 2017
Check the embassy page for long-term visa. You will need a lot of documents, a valid passport and German skills A1 level. Good luck
FamilyRe: Lovely Nigerian Baby Carrier For Twins (Photo) by doubletroublmum(f): 7:09pm On Apr 17, 2017
doyinbaby:
I pity her breast ....it go flat so tey....make no complain say Her husband they admire another woman
Do you have kidshuh So stupid....
TravelRe: Why Do People Living Abroad Rarely Help Their Relations by doubletroublmum(f): 3:22pm On Apr 16, 2017
Hm i live abroad and we tried to bring my brother and nephew to Europe. Both showed laziness and poor interest, expecting everything on a golden plate, even stealing money meant for visapreparations. So we gave up on helping them, cause we struggle here too, only in a different way.

Living in Europa doesn't mean plenty of money to waste.
TravelRe: The Quest To Travel :An Advice To Intending Travellers(A True Life Story) by doubletroublmum(f): 5:26pm On Apr 13, 2017
Your story is so true!!! Refugees / aduro don't get working permit unless there case has been approved. No hustle without papers.... At least its difficult. No work without speaking proper German in most areas.

And now German government is making fast decision on asylum cases, so they can deport refugees quickly back home. Additional German government signed contract with Nigerian government about refugees. They can now easily send people back even without documents and therefore they pay money to Nigeria...

Best way to enter Europe now is by student visa or if you are highly qualified eg in technical jobs.

Everything here has been difficult especially since many refugees came in 2016...
TravelRe: General German Visa Enquiries Part 3 by doubletroublmum(f): 6:36pm On Apr 10, 2017
gracious136:
Hello house,
Please bear with me and i need your help

I'm trying to get sponsorship letter and my uncle said that he went to the Foreign office in Bremen, Germany and they said that i will have to open 8000 euro blocked account .
Abeg, what do i do cos i dont understand why that is.

Hi, I guess your uncles income is not high enough to cover for you. They will look at your uncles income and also check how many people are living with him (wife, kids). Then they calculate everything together. If your uncle has to support many people it won't be enough to pay for your support as well according to German law. That's why you have to get the money yourself, no sponsorship. Sorry

Thanks and God bless you
TravelRe: General German Visa Enquiries Part 3 by doubletroublmum(f): 8:44pm On Mar 22, 2017
... Hi, it's Easter holidays coming. Guess some workers travel home then....



author=yeancahblack post=54836143]Hello everyone, please has anyone seen the new notice on the consulate's homepage?

PLEASE NOTE: The visa section of the Consulate General in Lagos will be closed on March 28, 2017!

What is going on..From my findings, there are no public holidays in Germany comings this month[/quote]
TravelRe: 12,000 Nigerians In Germany Face Likely Deportation- The Leadership by doubletroublmum(f): 6:47am On Feb 08, 2017
Hi. Im working with refugees in germany and partly its true that government wants to send some nigerians out, but not all at the same time. Second there is no division between christian and muslim nigerian, they are all facing the immigratiin law.

Let me tell you one mistake, nigerians make, that i have seen: They dont integrate. You see loads of nigerians living aduro for years and they refuse to learn german, only stay within nigerian people. And most nigerian women never work here, never school. So goverment should pay social forever? Sure they are send out...

Sorry if i sound unkind, but thats the bitter truth...if you integrate, work and learn yiur chances get better.
Also single mothers with small children under 3 yrs stand a goid chance of getting s permanent stay...
FamilyRe: Nausea In 13th Week Of Pregnancy by doubletroublmum(f): 6:23am On Jan 30, 2017
Hi Op try and eat small amounts of food to avoid hunger, makes it worse. I tried to eat small pieces of ginger, helped me a lot. Good luck
TravelRe: Nigerian Passport Renewal Wait Time In The U.K Is A Joke by doubletroublmum(f): 1:07pm On Jan 28, 2017
It's a shame the way this government is working....
TravelRe: Is It Possible by doubletroublmum(f): 11:55am On Jan 28, 2017
Hi. Going from France to UK is difficult. Just been there last autumn. In Calais France they check every person twice from French and British border control. The trucks are being searched by police with dogs and sometimes xray to keep Illegal immigrants away. Many people have been living close to the harbor til government sent them away, check "jungle of Calais" in internet.

I doubt know about train connection, bit ship and bus is controlled.

If you have made it to UK you can stay illegal but it won't be fun i fear. No health insurance, problem of getting job and you can't marry without papers....

TravelRe: General German Visa Enquiries Part 3 by doubletroublmum(f): 6:25pm On Jan 26, 2017
Hi, have you applied for a language school in Germany already cause most courses take some months from registration to start. Did you present your housing contract to the embassy?? Is the embassy aware of all that?? If they still refuse to give out the visa before April , is your visa still valid for Romania"?
TravelRe: Nigerian Passport Renewal Wait Time In The U.K Is A Joke by doubletroublmum(f): 8:32am On Jan 24, 2017
LOL, guess you are right!!! Greetings to UK!!
TravelRe: Nigerian Passport Renewal Wait Time In The U.K Is A Joke by doubletroublmum(f): 10:23am On Jan 22, 2017
Hi, it is the same waiting period in Berlin, Germany. Had to wait five months before collecting my new passport. They told they get it direct from Abuja, that's why. Sad but true
TravelRe: General German Visa Enquiries Part 3 by doubletroublmum(f): 11:04pm On Dec 28, 2016
prizzy2:
Hello everyone, A Freund who is a Pastor here in Nigeria has been transfer to their branch in Deutchland, the invitation from the church in Germany is been received, but the question is: what category of Visum to appy for.

please our Oga in the Haus, your contribution und Vorschlag is welcome!
cc: justwise, futurewise, eke40seven usw.

compliment of the season!
I think it's long term working visa. I guess they do pay him??
TravelRe: General German Visa Enquiries Part 3 by doubletroublmum(f): 6:11pm On Dec 27, 2016
Hi. The cost of living depends on the place you live. Cities like Berlin, Hamburg, Munich are far more costly than smaller towns.
TravelRe: General German Visa Enquiries Part 3 by doubletroublmum(f): 3:13pm On Dec 10, 2016
diggy4real:
I am yet to get info on getting a resdential permit after schooling?....How is it done....must one settle with an oyibo?
Hi, if you study hard enough, you will find a good job later and get a stay.
It's not a MUST to stay with oyibo.... Staying with somebody should never be a MUST. Besides oyibo are human too
TravelRe: General German Visa Enquiries Part 3 by doubletroublmum(f): 5:07pm On Nov 23, 2016
telvinfantasy:
Hello my fellow brothers from another mother. A question has been bothering me which i need to ask. My question is 'can i join my uncle who is married and has a kid in germany with a re-union visa?. I will be glad if i can get an answer from u guys.
Hi

Reunion visa is limited to married couples and children, as long as the children are under 16 yrs. I guess you are older than that. Even if your uncle adopts you, you will not get permanent residence, if you are over 18.

Maybe your uncle can sponsor your stay in Germany??
TravelRe: Which Country Is The Rudest/ Friendliest To Tourists? by doubletroublmum(f): 8:50am On Nov 22, 2016
Hi you're right, French people Su...s.
Try Netherlands. They are very friendly there.

As I live in Germany, there are two kinds of people living here:

1. The unfriendly ones, that will just stare at you, pretending not to understand... Better avoid them

2. The nice ones that even help you at any range and at least try to speak English

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