Berlin is not good for now. Friends told me they don't issue passport for now cause they don't have booklets.... no more to be said

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WA5Vs6M6OXc

What you see there is a Parc after rainfall. It will dry. But yes they have slum area in almost every country

Thanks a lot to all of you. You helped me a lot to face this situation. I will stay strong and polite. Let's see the reaction

Thank you very much. Ive got to consider everything now.

My husband is never around when she starts her insults. She is smart and she will our a big show for him to believe her.

My moniker has to do with my kids - twins - doubletrouble...

Florblu:
Show her more respect.

See her as your own mother and tolerate her excesses.

Very difficult for me....She is giving me hell

To make it short: 15 years happily married, 4 kids. My mother in law lives in a different country. She came to visit us some years back for 4 weeks and everything was well.

Now she came to visit for 3 months because of distance. She is leaving soon, and we dont get along well this time. She doesn't accept the way we live in Germany, nags a lot when hubby is not around. We had a serious argument today, now hubby wants to leave me since I don't show enough respect to his mother. I'm so tired. What can I do??

Football and beer: Dortmund

So you learned nothing and you think, its so easy to get a job over here?!

Could be a sign of breast cancer. And yes men get that too

Better get warm clothes. Winter in Sweden is not funny....

Yellow eyeballs can be caused by liver problems. Let her see a doctor,if it just started not long ago

Asylum seekers are allowed to look for job after six months of stay., but u have to apply for working permit with the immigration. First of all find a company that wants to employ you then go tothe immigration.
Improve your German skills.

Besides the chances of granted asylum for nigerian men are small. Look for a woman...I don't see another oppurtunity

Visa without appearing at the embassy? I dont think that works. Even my mum at 81 years had to appear at the embassy, though she travelled to Germany already before. Don't fall for fake agents!

Hmm had twins without that stuff. Healthy food helps a lot, not chemistry...

Hi. I do live in Germany, have not heard of this case before.

Second they do give medication to people who run nuts to calm them down. None of us has been there, were don't know what happened.

As far as I know from Germany, you can be released from prison after half the time of your sentence if u behave well.

But usually deportation follows immediately back home, so he will be transferred to Nigeria. If he gets back to Europe without permission later, they can arrest him again to finish his sentence.

seunny4lif:

Nothing more to say
Single mothers are the one on board now in Germany
But German since last December have been Deporting Pregnant ladies claim single mothers.
I saw them deporting father and mother leaving the Children at the airport.
Germany is good but aduro matter has made it change her law

Hi you are right about it. Since last autumn the deport Nigerians anyhow. But still single mothers with small children under 3 yrs stand a better chance compared to others. Single men from Nigeria are deported very often.

skylane:
please are there oportunities for vet doctors dere

Good question. I don't know much about the requirements for vet. doctors.
But a lot of Germans prefer to have a pet instead of having children, so I think its a growing market.

Hi I'm living in North Rhine Westphalia near Dortmund.

If you have finished university, you will get a residence permit I think of 1 year, so you will have enough time to find a job.
I can not tell about job opportunities now, cause i work almost 15 years in the same company.

I just heard that IT / computer technology offers a lot of jobs, aswell as anything in the technical field. They also look for workers in the medical field.

There are also simple jobs like cleaning construction and so on but since many refugees/foreign people came to Germany in the last two years, you will face more applicants for such job. The better your qualification, the easier the job will be found.

In general life over here is peaceful, but once you get a job, you will work a lot. Germans like hard working people, they don't support laziness. You should try and learn the language. If Germans can't talk to you, they might not be ready to give you job (my personal experience).

Hmm good question. I would say mostly the elders visit church regularly. Of the young people it's maybe 50% that believe in god. A lot of people seems to believe in nothing. But if you go to church always you will meet the same people and get a chance to connect.

Most German churches are half filled on Sundays except Christmas and Easter � you can never compare this to Nigeria!!
The are African churches in the bigger cities like lighthouse, they do offer after church activities.

Housing

Most flats are rented out by private people or sometimes companies. You have to check for it only or in the local newspaper. The house rent must be paid monthly.

Social benefits

First of all you must be registered with the aliens authority /Ausländerbehörde and collect your paper, then if necessary you can apply for social money .

Don't mess with drugs, don't commit crimes. It can lead to your deportation.

Hi. I'm living in Germany through family reunion, my hubby is a German.

Immigrating to Germany is not easy anymore like in the past 20 years. Basically I can not recommend to seek asylum here nowadays cause things have changed. Most Nigerian asylum seekers get rejection quickly, sometimes only months after arrival. Secondly asylum seekers are not allowed to work at the beginning for six months. You will also need working permit, without it it's hard to find a job. If you want to go for black job, better try bigger cities.

Try an come as student, it makes your path smoother. Learn German, it will help to find a job and make friends.

Try and mix with Germans, don't stay in the Nigerian community only. It will help you to integrate, maybe your new friends will help you to get a job and know the system.

Qualified workers are also able to apply for blue card (residence and working permit).

Good luck

saintaustine:
Waooooooo
Am impress, that this statement came from a lady.
I respect you

Thank you. Trust me, life was very hard at times, and we have both been working hard all this years in different jobs to survive. Most women don't understand that having work is important, because one must be able to support himself.

Besides money can disappear, but real love will stay. I believe that god put us together. So if you truly love somebody then go for it, no matter the finances. Because if you work together, you can create a better future for both of you!!!

Have a blessed Easter season

Well I don't think so.

I know a rich couple, friends to us, but are they happy?? NO!! Because to much money is changing someone's character.

When I married my husband I was poor and in a bad situation, he was not rich but ok. Now 14 years into the marriage we're are blessed with four kids, having a nice house and doing fine. And you know why?? Because we had to struggle a long time, support each other and work together to ensure our family doing well. It's about love ❤ and believing in god, not about being rich. Money is not everything

dayjeee:
I tire o. Like the country is designed for only science students

Good morning, which security courses are you taking about?? Don't forget, many jobs are trained within Ausbildung /Job training courses, so no need for university, since there are special schools (Berufschule) for it. So normally must courses at university are about science.

Good morning. Please try to get in touch with the marriage registry in charge, they will tell you the required documents. Or your wife's family can ask for it. After the marriage she can apply for family reunion with your embassy. Good luck