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Stillfire:
Lemme give you an an example. My mentor in university, an older white woman with a doctorate, certified in her field, collaborated with a fellow male scientist. She did most of the work, it was her idea, it went well. She happened to get his resume, you needed to see what he wrote, you would think he was the principal investigator with the way he exaggerated his role in the research project. Who do you think would get hired? Who do you think would be paid more? Nobody told her to go and redo her own resume. Why did she tell me this? She said she noticed that girls are socialized to be modest - the quality or state of being unassuming or moderate in the estimation of one's abilities. Which I definitely agreed to. Now modesty is not bad, but never carry it into your life ambitions. But you find out girls carry that trait into situations that require Assertiveness, doggedness, which we socialize boys to have. And girls who understand this dynamic like my humble self are demonized for having assertive traits.

true with all you are saying infact what you said here reminds me of what Chimamanda Adichie also said,when i first found out about her this year,i knew she's definetly an inspiration to me and many others too

goldengunman:
Some ppl shouting disgusting r already drooling over d man's asset

you wish!you must be probably a pedophile like this man too to say such SO DISGUSTING

great thanks

i have thought about a project,i think recycling is very important,and i plan to put this in thought constantly when i start uni 2017,because its very important that we take care of our environment.it irritates me so much when i see a person throwing rubbish in open places,and not keeping until they find a dustbin.rubbish should be put in dustbin ......(this includes rubbish people too lol).....

my plan is to study chemical engineering after highschool but also recently am thinking of also doing project management because i want to sync it with chem.eng because theirs many chem.eng projects i already got in mind. btw ty4 ths thread

my purpose on earth is a secret,if i told you i'd have to......... Hehe. But maybe check out the thread of 50 questions you have to ask yourself,i would link it but am on a type of phone i cant.its in this section too

nice...i might save these and use them whenever i feel i need introspection ty

wonyi:
Were u disobedient, disrespectful n didn't take corrections? I am still learning n building my relationship with kids . Like someone said it's not a do or die affair. I will visit this section more to learn . I missed it from the beginning by not setting my rules n regulations.

i wasnt but i was still a kid in the sense that their was childishness(which many adults can see as disrespectful)...basically a child is naive.am 17 now and have 10 year old younger sibling and can see the same,i get irritated at times then my mom reminds me that thats how i was kind of.either way,am sorry for what you are going through.maybe the physical ailments are making you more irritable which is understandable.plus having to deal with a child at this stage of yours

tearoses:
Please this girl is only 11
I have a 12 year old daughter too so I know exactly what they can and cannot do
You are expecting her to reason like an adult . . .she is a kid

By the grace of God, you will have your own kids too and one day when that girl is 11, you will look back and say, so my own child can do this

Start again please
You sound like you really want to make a positive difference in this kids life
You need to be the adult here
You pull small, you push small
I go to my daughters room and lie on her bed and we both watch tv together . . .at the same time I am telling her that her room is untidy and where to place things.
Kids need Love, direction and firmness.
The adult needs to balance it
The adult also has to remember that they are dealing with a kid whose brain and physical features are still in development. There is no way my daughter can clean dishes as well as I can. Her hands are much smaller for a start and the sink is much higher for her (most probably more uncomfortable) than it is for me
shey you get what I am saying

greatly said

armyofone:
When you first took her home, you should have bold typed or written down all the rules for her to read. Then you tell her that both of you would sit down and discuss/explain in depth on each rules...

this is great advice especially since she's only 11 because i was 11 a couple of years ago and i remember how i was...

AgbenuAnna:
Number 4 and 5 tried cos the studied in Nigeria

so true

interesting,am curious what religion/belief system you follow?also how old you are? #just_curious

ferdvict2:
Most men today are living with one curse or the other from women. There is hardly any man living that has not been cursed by one woman or the in his life time. Note that if a curse is upon any man's life, without being broken and cancelled from the life of the man, he will never fulfill his destiny.

Curse is a destiny changer, and funny enough most men do not believe in the existence or power of curses. Destinies of many men today have been changed and diverted due to curses received from women in the past. Before I proceed, it is good to throw a little light on the meaning of Curse and Freedom to buttress the point to be made in this write up.
A curse is a negative pronouncement that is backed up by satanic anointing to make it come to pass. It is the use of negative words as punishment for some one's negative actions or deeds. It can also be seen as the other side of blessing, that is to say the opposite of blessing. Curse is an instrument of punishment and destruction. It can also be seen as a negative form of prayer to afflict one's life.
Freedom is a state of not being enslaved or held bound in bondage. It can also be seen as a state of being at liberty, not impeded or held by any power or force.

WHY DO WOMEN ISSUE CURSES ON MEN:

There are many reasons why a woman can issue curse on a man. Some of these reasons include;
1. When they feel Jilted: If a woman feels that she has been used by a man and dumped, she can issue a curse to the man as a measure to get back at the man.
2. When she feels maltreated: Many women have issued curses to men because of the ways they were maltreated by these men.
3. When they are abused: Most women have been abused mostly sexually by some men. Most women were raped when they were younger and even at their youthful ages. A woman can curse a man when she is abused.
4. When she feels cheated: Most wives have cursed their husbands knowingly and unknowingly when they feel their husbands are cheating on them.
5. Generally women issue curses to men as a punishment for any offence they feel men committed against them. They are the weaker sex and can't engage men in physical fight, so in most cases the resort to curses.

THREE MAJOR TYPES OF CURSES FROM WOMEN:

There are different types of curses issued to men by women. These curses are as follows;
1. Pronounced Curses: These are curses the woman places on a man verbally or vocally. A man cancelled his wedding with his fiancée a day to the wedding day for no just cause. The woman looked at him and told him that he will never prosper and no woman will ever live with him. He thought it was a joke. Evil demons carried the curse and enforced it. The man married many times and none of the women is living with him today and his life was turned upside down.
2. Unpronounced Curses: These are curses that women issue unconsciously. In most cases they don't come out to say this or this will happen to you, but with that anger in them, they may just say, "You did this to me eh, you will see". Especially if the man has really wronged the woman, a curse is already upon his life.
3. Unknown curses: Another type of curse that follows men from women is the unknown curse. The bible says that the sins of the father shall be visited upon the children, even to the third generation. Most men today are suffering from unknown curses from their forefathers. Most of our forefathers were rapists, and they killed many men to take over their wives. They also did worse things than that and curses were issued to them by those women. Such curses are transferred from one generation to the other. Unless a man has discerning spirit and finds out and breaks such curse, he will never fulfill his destiny.

TYPES OF WOMEN THAT MUST NOT CURSE YOU:

Men, let us not fool ourselves. If you are cursed by any of these women that I am about to mention below, you need serious deliverance otherwise you are doomed for life.
1. Your Mother: Most men today are under curse knowingly or unknowingly from their mothers. Most men while they were growing, they were stubborn and caused their mothers great pain. These mothers issued such curses like "Your own child will do the same to you, or it will never be well with you". Most men took it as just one of those talks, but today they are suffering from such curses.
2. Your Wife: Most men turn their wives into punching bags, treat them like trash and even go to the extent of bringing in other women to their matrimonial homes. These women resort to cursing to get back at the men. If you are cursed by your wife, sorry you need to be delivered otherwise, you will never prosper.
3. Your Daughter: Most men will wonder why a curse from their daughter will affect them. Yes it will affect you because she is your flesh and your blood. Most men have received curses from their daughters after abusing them or maltreating them unnecessarily.

Source: ezinearticles.com/?Freedom-From-The-Curses-Of-Women&id=3023501

wow

yes,you are right!thanks for the exposure

thank you for this thread.definetly interested

wow,would like to visit this country,apparently has one of the top lowest crime rate and is really clean.

emancipation1:
u need to be very practical in this kinda stat, the statistics u read is what they want you to believe, why dont you do a practical insight of your own and you will see reverse is the case from your stats

didnt see this mention.but this is too funny mister! I disprove your 'facts' and tell you to provide evidence,so you say i should do a practical insight?hehehe,am a human not a machine who can count with my eyes how many people are there etc,thats why census was created.whats even funnier is your small conspiracy theory that this is what they want me to believe...the fact that you even got the science of the chromosomes wrong shows how your facts are wrong more-over in nigeria even with men going to outside countries,theirs still more men.CONCLUSION:THEIRS MORE MEN

well....

omg-oodness,i wonder if this is really true

oh gosh,am so sorry sister.being raped is one of the worst fears of a person,epecially female since it happens most to us

this is so sad,i really wonder what they did to deserve this

joywendy:
What do you mean? There are alot of men here on this thread who have been giving advise to alot of folks here. Maybe you should start from the beginning......

i meant in terms of opening up about their feeling etc,helping each other and other men too without making each other/putting each other down.i see this in real life too

ty this is so interesting but they are both muslim so i wonder how this is working

MrsPhyno:
I must
be present on this thread at least small

definetly my sister

are you talking about "our" forefathers that were enslaves by the white man and 'civilized' by them too? What exactly is difficult in medicine is what intelligent people understand(i.e not you). Now you are talking about all the engineering created by non-blacks?! Hahahahahaha the hypocrisy is laughable......does that mean according to you blacks are less intelligent(as you have listed all engineered creations by mostly whites)!!...according to me,its not. FOOL GET THIS:a group (in power) that discriminated and ostracized another group(in less power) and therefore has most oppurtinities is bound to be ahead. EVERYBODY LOOK AT THIS FOOL who would argue if a white man brought the same tactics against him!! So instead of using intelligence and common sense,he uses assumed personal insults and brute language ..as all fools do.AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA coogar old fool:"Bleep off"...(as you so disrespectfully told the kind wo/man Mindfullness) and "dont ever quote me again on this forum"

this is sad

Mindfulness:
Yes, your choice of words is a problem because it distorts the results of this study.

You said the following:

"Boys will tend to choose to play with toy cars and trucks whereas girls tend to play with dolls."

The study shows, HOWEVER, that ...

1. boys have a strong preference and that
2. girls are flexible and show greater variability.

This is very different from what you have said.

so true,shows his ignorance.i mean if one can say from the greater variability that therefore girls are suitable for all,then they will cry,lol but basically its all about change because the same methods they are using to say all their foolishness,whites were saying about blacks.. Its like a white person looking at our current condition in africa then arrogantly concluding this shows that blacks are not suited for civilisation.

@ FrancisTony and Mindfullness,imagine the ignorance and arrogance from some of thse people!! BIOLOGY IS THE STUDY OF LIFE AND LIVING ORGANISMS,INCLUDING THEIR STRUCTURE,FUNCTION,GROWTH,EVOLUTION,DISTRIBUTION AND TAXONOMY.Biology itself has many subjects or areas of study:aerobiology,anatomy,histology,botany,cell biology,building biology,biotechnology,cognitive biology,biomedical research,bio physics,ebryology and many more .Due to biology and medicine studies the human lifestyle,quality and quantity has greatly improved. Case in point:vaccines,childbirth methods and surgeries are one of the biggest advancements due to biology and medicine studies.YET SOME FOOLS HERE ARE SAYING ITS LESS IMPORTANT/BORING THAN ENGINEERING.....a fool is a person who lacks good sense/judgement ....please one of the fools who was saying theses studies are easy:GO MAKE THE CURE FOR HIV AIDS AND CANCER!!!show us how easy it all is

lol,my fellow teen.instead of focussing on books this is what you are doing!hehe,must be harder to be a teen boy than girl or what!!?.....