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May be, she's rather enamoured (by him).

Watch out for Chamillionaire's sophomore album, "Ultimate Victory", reportedly coming out on March 27th. His first single (Not A Criminal - featuring Kelis) from the album is hot and hood and a sure club banger!

For download, go here:
http://www.verzend.be/v/1920554/NotACriminal_kevipodmusic..com.mp3.html

LOL. . . why did he do such? D'you know?

Anywayz, what about you, iice? How many have you seen or met?

Yea. Here, in Abuja, I've actually seen a couple of peeps logging in to Nairaland. So, I've seen some and met one.

Not really, iice. Just that I've not made up my mind whether I'm willing to do so at the moment.

Met one. Actually she introduced me to Nairaland as we were chatting online (before we actually met). . . Dunno if I wanna meet more. . .

Aww, Tonia, what a first post! Welcome to Nairaland! I guess guys don't have 'breakable' hearts. . . lol!

Ceci, make u no feel me too much ooooooooooh

I'm still looking to go back to the university and study my dream course (at the undergraduate level).

@Busta,
Some end up never really loving again, but that's not the best, anywayz.

@ima1,
You're welcome dear. Just take your time, focus on improving your own personality (not for the sake of anyone) and go out there and have fun with your pals, for sitting in the room brooding would make you more vulnerable. Just take a little time to reflect on the past and leave it where it belongs, the past, after picking up the lessons. The future holds more and better promises for those who look up to it with cheerful expectancy.

@ Flodel,
That's just what I'm talking about. Rushing into another relationship after a break-up/heartbreak often leaves us quite vulnerable, which is why there's another heartbreak for some, while hanging out with pals and having fun brings back the charm to our personalities and even increase the charm.

@Free ,
I guess you are a real darling, the way you handled Promise . Hope you had a great night. See you around some time later .

I really wonder.

Eh. . .? Now, I see your gameplan, Promise. . . lol. Well, I'll be waking up once in a while to come and eavesdrop.

BTW, real men know that there is time for everything!

Good night y'all, and don't give away . . . darling.

Kidding. Anywayz, gotsta go to bed now. It's almost 2:30am! C ya laterz. . . darling!

Lol. . . I'm in trouble.

Ok, fine. Now, we're hijacking ima1's thread.

Since when did we start darling each other?

Hm. . . Free!

Free:
_talkative

Free:
good job

Thanks. Just tryna give my two cents.

First, take a break from the relationship stuff. Don't be in a rush to rush into another mess, because you would likely be sending out signals that are likely to attract the same type of guys. Try to be comfortable with yourself, with being single (for a while) and enjoy every 'freedom' that comes with that as much as you can afford to. Learn to love yourself for whom you are not for what others make you think you are. Put yourself before everyother. I repeat, "Put yourself before everyother!", no matter how selfish that may sound. Give yourself exotic treatments, if you know what I mean. Reconnect with your old 'good' friends. Learn some new skills.

By the time you are ready for another relationship, after the steps above (and some more), you would be able to know what you really want from a relationship right from Day One, and not compromise that much. You would be comfortable with and at peace with yourself that you would not be able to allow any guy to get you twisted. You would know when to say "No" and stand to it. You would know when to say "enough is enough".

Finally, remember that you can always try again (and again), for one day you would look back and smile, knowing that each heartbreak had its own lessons making you get better in the dating game. Hence, when your kind of man finally comes around, you would know how to really appreciate him having had a taste of the sour grapes. Some of us must go through these phases. . .pity.

Take heart!

Yea, I guess that's more possible in open relationships and not in serious steady dates.

Well, whoever needs the song (mp3) could PM me on Y!M. It was just played again on the radio a minute ago and I'm really luvin it!

I can only date a girl who cheats if I intend havin a 'sideline ho' while dating her. But then again, what's the use?

I heard the song on radio today (either Rhythm or Cool FM), and it's really hot! The radio presenter rightly noted that the song is not yet being heard on Naija stations, so I guess this might be the first FM station to play it in Naija.

I just downloaded the song few minutes ago.

Gotsta go to bed now. Goodnight y'all!

. . . or may be, we don spoil show for am





BTW, it's Douzy not Donzy, brou.

I thought he said he was bored. . . where's he now? Abi na some kind of gimmick be this one?

Yea, browsing the forum sure can be rather boring sometimes. . . lol.

No, I don't think you need to pretend to get a husband, however, I guess you also have to try not to come off as a 'high maintenance' lady (even though you might be doing the maintenance yourself, at the moment). I would want to believe that real experiences seem to support the friend's opinion.

I'm not saying that living in a flat or buying a Rav4 SUV is not good for a single and searching lady. I think it depends on how much she really earns (and her position in her company). Nonetheless, Rav4 may not really be advisable, except she is Baba's daughter (Iyabo?). . . lol.