How do you open your heart to Love again after being hurt so many times and being cheated on by someone you loved and gave all your heart to.

First, take a break from the relationship stuff. Don't be in a rush to rush into another mess, because you would likely be sending out signals that are likely to attract the same type of guys. Try to be comfortable with yourself, with being single (for a while) and enjoy every 'freedom' that comes with that as much as you can afford to. Learn to love yourself for whom you are not for what others make you think you are. Put yourself before everyother. I repeat, "Put yourself before everyother!", no matter how selfish that may sound. Give yourself exotic treatments, if you know what I mean. Reconnect with your old 'good' friends. Learn some new skills.

By the time you are ready for another relationship, after the steps above (and some more), you would be able to know what you really want from a relationship right from Day One, and not compromise that much. You would be comfortable with and at peace with yourself that you would not be able to allow any guy to get you twisted. You would know when to say "No" and stand to it. You would know when to say "enough is enough".

Finally, remember that you can always try again (and again), for one day you would look back and smile, knowing that each heartbreak had its own lessons making you get better in the dating game. Hence, when your kind of man finally comes around, you would know how to really appreciate him having had a taste of the sour grapes. Some of us must go through these phases. . .pity.

Take heart!

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good job

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good job

Thanks. Just tryna give my two cents.

yea its obvious

Hm. . . Free!

yes, darling

Since when did we start darling each other?

since i called U darling ,

Ok, fine. Now, we're hijacking ima1's thread.

y'all knock it off. get a room pls

we already in a room

ur disturbing us

Lol. . . I'm in trouble.

why, darling wots da trouble

Kidding. Anywayz, gotsta go to bed now. It's almost 2:30am! C ya laterz. . . darling!

ill take over from here

Real men go all night

Eh. . .? Now, I see your gameplan, Promise. . . lol. Well, I'll be waking up once in a while to come and eavesdrop.

BTW, real men know that there is time for everything!

Good night y'all, and don't give away . . . darling.

sorry,

she already did. you just found out d difference

dnt worry darling, i wnt give in to promise



I promise

that not wat u said few mins ago. u 2 timer

am sorry am not a 2 timer

one at a time

ok i can deal with that. however its my turn for the next 5yrs.

only me. Nothin on the side

lol

i dnt know bout that ooo

well,

Look b4 u leap. Dont let me declare u unfit 4 the job. wheres your pic anyway. kindly forward it to my email. Now!!! That an order.

Remember whos in charge here

ur funny (u know dat)


i dnt take orders , jus so u know

ok. kindly forward it then.

i never argue wt a lady. i know better

still

am glad u know better

so lets leave it there , darling

ill b waiting anyway. i know my expectation will match my reality

wait oooo

@topic,

one way or the other, u'll love again. . i guess

ain't the end of the world!

yea U can love again i guess
if da right or left person comes along

thanks a lot Douzy