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I think this is getting more complicated than I had earlier thought. I might be back later.

No one should be talking about guilt now. The brother may have believed God really spoke to him (the pastor may have even encouraged him) considering the fact that 'religion' has blindfolded a lot of folks today. The sister may have believed that she could develop some attraction for the guy later, believing that God really (pre-)ordained the marriage. The brother would only be guilty if he really deceived the lady into the marriage. If the lady went into the marriage, not aware of any lies (if there was any), but because she's been friends with this guy more than the other, then she should just shut up and try to make the marriage work. Like I said earlier, it's not about who is guilty.

I still maintain that the 'sister' needs not get in touch with the other 'brother' because there's just nothing to reveal. It's not really his business why she didn't want to marry him. She owe him no explanations. Please, ladies do you owe guys any explanations why you wouldn't want to date or marry any of us? It's personal to her and she can only talk about it when she wants to and to whom she feels like. What does she hope to achieve with going to reveal anything to the other guy? For God's sake, I want to believe the other guy is already enjoying his own marriage and really doesn't even need the distraction. It only smacks of over-scrupulosity for her to be thinking of going to pour her heart out unto the other guy. She must be a fanatic!

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I actually wanted to write Quantasome.

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waleralpho:
@douzy
Roosevelt, 26th president of the united states of america,

Roosevelt is not an English word. What is the dictionary meaning? I could as well type a word in my dialect.


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waleralpho:
Roose

There's no English word like that.

Roost,

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queen2:
abeg change that to kinder


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Why would you change Kindred to Kindergaten?

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Thanks Ugwumba!

@ Ugwumba

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