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 Romance › Re: Help - Shes Killing Me by downcasted(op): 11:55am On Nov 19, 2011 |
pendo89:Dont you get it, im not concerned about this guy's call - if he calls im not even interested in speaking with him It could be a set up just to kill issues, I just want you to come out point blank and fair with me, after she went through this thread today, she was quick to say that i didnt address the issue of we having issues during my last 1year here in europe and that's the reason why she started drifting (while still maintaining that she didnt have intercourse with the guy or any other dude) she claims shes been there only once to the dudes place and that was the day i left nigeria to inform him that her introduction by decenmber this year and refused to state her reasons for choosing to tell him - she claims she didnt even go into his house as his friend and his girlfriend were in the house but im still not concerned bout that, i know im foolishly in <3 with this lady here and shes been cheating on me all these while cos the signs are there - i just ____ i dont know what to say again  |
| Romance › Re: Help - Shes Killing Me by downcasted(op): 11:27am On Nov 19, 2011 |
Just a quick update - I sent this link to her and she had a glance through it, we pinged this morning and she was quick to ask which 2nd lady have i taken to see my family, i should inform her about it - (dont know why shes interested in this) and she would assure me that the cheap dude would ring me and tell me there's nothing between himself and my woman (I seriously doubt he would call me) but im more intrested in she getting back to her senses and the sooner she does the better for her till we ended the conversation, she said "He's going to call you" but it makes no difference to me now - i have no issues with the dude but rather with my lady who's drifted apart after having an eye on the outside she has an eye on this thread and is definately seeing all replies on this one |
| Romance › Re: Help - Shes Killing Me by downcasted(op): 8:48pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
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| Romance › Re: Help - Shes Killing Me by downcasted(op): 8:15pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
i dnt knw wat shes really up to. if she doesn want u again,let her jst tel u d plain truth instead of denyin everytin I just need her to come clean and I;ll wish her the best and let her be, we can still be friends and everything, Im no longer financially capable in her life anymore cos ive since stopped giving her money the minute i noticed she was two timing I think i mite send this thread over to her to see but if she could come clean she would sure save me from this depression im currently going through She has kissed the guy (and God knows whats beyond it) sources say she has been seen spending the night at this dudes place and even that she has confessed receiving money from this same guy if she so much cares bout this guy why cant she just come clean so i can move on, what is she trying to do with me why is she trying to emotionally destroy me and make me pratically void to my future, I have other tins to worry bout her issue always make me consider them last - Shes not the first to double date and as some rightfully explained earlier, she isnt wrong if she ends up not dating me but i just need her to kindly tell me she is dating this guy and i would go - Nairalanders why is she finding it so difficult telling me the truth |
| Romance › Re: Help - Shes Killing Me by downcasted(op): 3:42pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
I dont know, I Just dont know what to do, I cant do this on my own, i just need her to push me. Shes the best thing ever happened to me emotionally - why cant she Just come out straight and maintain that shes in a relationship with this guy why keeping me stranded in the wild - if shes happy with him, she should simply tell me and i'll quietly move on, I dont know why this ever happened to me - I feel so empty and lost over here - i should have never left nigeria A close friend of mine said she has used black magic on me (who cares) I just want to face reality, I had an interview today and i messed it up cos i didnt even read last night all cos i couldnt focus on what i want now in life I feel so empty and horrible, spoken to alot of female friends bt this and they've asked me to stop or dont call her which im currently doing, @Iyatrustee, the financial aspects of the relationship was broken as an advice from my mother who said - now u are aware would be the best time to stand the test of this girl and please cut off all financial spendings on this girl so as to see her true being, which i did and landed me in this catatrosphic mess Money isnt my problem and she knows this, but why couldnt she just hang in there, she knows im so weak towards her and cant stand her - the day she apologized after getting arrested, i came running back into her hands cos that was all i needed - I just need advice on how to get my girl back from this 400level dude or Just want her to confirm if shes really dating dat dude so i can move on with my life, why is she denying dating this dude, why cant she be straightforward its not like shes getting any money from me any longer |
| Romance › Help - Shes Killing Me by downcasted(op): 3:00pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
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