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downcasted: Please one quick question,
She mentioned holding grudges or something in her last message
What does she mean,how can someone hold grudge against another person
That has no connection with each other.

We are 2different sects of life so I really can't understand what grudge is been talked about
Cos I'm not even down that line anymore everything died off over a year so what grudge could she be talking about

mondi_cheeks: So u call treating it like a game maturity LMAO! Absolute child's play! God and the Devil is irrelevant cos the devil never seeked reconciliation. U might need to re-check who is "off-point" in this regard. A child let's past hurt and his ego get in the way, why waste time doing something u don't profit from, was that the definition of maturity u got growing up? A matured person goes for what he gains something out of in case u didn't knw. Grown ass men playing villain, what in the hell did u spend ur childhood on. Outgrow ur childish ego-centricity!

mxxpunkxx!:
And once again, my dearest mondi_cheeks; you go offpoint.
It actually takes a mature mind to watch somebody for several months (not hoping for change in your own selfish interest)
But for the interest of the other. Maybe you don't get me? Shall I digress a bit? Ask yourself?
Why has God not forgiven Satan, after thousands of years? Maybe he hasn't begged for forgiveness
Then why has he not destroyed him either? Maybe it's not yet time. What am I pointing to?
There's a time for everytin, and this time it's the boy's turn to play the villain.
He has played the hero, and ended up dying like all heroes do. Let him play the villain,
and let's see if this same girl would heroically conquer back his love. kapish

mxxpunkxx!:
^^^
You needn't reply her. I am sorry, but her post alone reeks of gross immaturity.

mondi_cheeks: so if have already made up ur mind...what's the point of creating the post. Its like tasting cake to find out that its a bar-one cake but u wait for a million others to taste it jus to tell u that its a bar-one cake

holusormi: stupid gehl, so d dude should just leave his current babe and start dating the ex just cos she's sorry ...slap yourself 6 times for beign silly.....

mxxpunkxx!:
That;s not justifiable. I would strongly advise the OP as follows:
[b]-Keep ignoring her and do that for at least 1yr.
-If she's truly repentant and ready to better her life, she would keep bugging you, even for 1yr.
She really wants you back, so she won't even think of seeing somebody else, cos this time she wants you for keeps.
- And I'll say, if this is the case, then you can take her back. That depends on you though.
- But if she gets tired of your ignorant attitude. She would stop bugging you.
At this point, it is crystal clear, that she only wanted you back cos' life has been unfair to her and she had no option.
People like these live with constant regrets until their dying day.
-If you accept her as a friend now, it would becloud your sense of judgement. You'd be distracted by her beauty and good times you had
no matter how hard you try to control yourself. And once you make love to her, it's game over. Consider her back in your life.
- That's why i say, keep off from her, and watch her for the next couple of lengthy months to come.
- A person's real faith is tested by how long they can endure without being around you.[/b]

fasttrack: G, dont reply. Once you reply conversation starts, feelings and all. Just ignore and let her get frustrated bc you arent responding to her messages. Nice1 again. following your updates

skfa1: I love it when a man stands again. Well done bro.
Dnt just reply her message,dnt click that reply buttom!
Forgive her n move on bro!

sexkillz:
[color=#000055][size=14pt]Four fingers pointing back at you![/size][/color]

kelz88:
Dude, you were with her for 5 years, and she's what you described here^
How did you manage to fall for someone like that? And stay with her that long?

She's not even 25 and she's been in a relationship for 5 years? Wow! You guys tried.

You guys aren't meant to be. It's that simple.

Drinking wont turn back the hands of time. You need to show her you are fine without her, even if you have to cry yourself to sleep at night. Be strong. Not every relationship is meant to end in marriage. See it as an experience/eye opener. Be happy about the good times.

When a better chick comes along you wont even remember this one. Na so e dey be. It prolly hurts more cos she was like your first love. You will get over it; it's only a matter of time. BUT PLEASE STOP SULKING. It's not attractive.

Funny im not even crying - i rather lament than cry
I have expected this since June so whats the need crying over someone who's long been lost
and neither imma complaining but simply answering questions to advices from people as each and every one has helped me move on
especially you omolola