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He slapped that poor girl........ Because she is just " a witch for Jesus".......

viexcey: Please,help me with the gtbank emails in ph. My frnd nid it. I only v d 1s 4 lag. Thanks

Pls help me with the gtbank emails and phone nos for Lag. Thank you.

Thanks everybody for your contributions.... I guess I know where to work on myself now....

One reason why Nigeria still fail in developing is because Nigeria is filled n ruled by people like you guys who do not think and see the need to develop but argue without contructive points

We are a country blessed with intelligent and hard working people, abundant resources that can make us the richest country in Africa. We have everything it takes to be one of the greatest country in the world yet we are still struggling to catch up with the reality... Ghana is doing everything to make to the top best economy in africa.

I was opportuned to live in ghana for couple of years and I can't help but appreciate the way this people are trying to make life comfortable for themselves, ensuring that their citizens get the best of what is obtainable in a present day democratic society. From good education(a public secondary school graduate in Nigeria can't go head to head with a ghanaian public secondary school grad) to good legal system and infrastructure, Good health care system and importantly, energy and infrastructure facilities. Today, ghana is the destination for Foreign Direct investment, inter-government partnership and currently the safest country for foreigners thanks to their high level of ssecurity and a law protecting foreigners.

In terms of economy, Ghana is trying to break out from the vicious cycle of poverty, making laws that protect citizens businesses from the claws of foreigners so today you can't just come into Ghana and set up business because you think you are smart. Talk about the devaluation and re- denomination of their currency, you can just walk into ghana with few nairas expecting to have huge cedis for business... NO.

I think you also need to put in check the realities of development, things won't be as easy as they used to be. Ghana is developing and if Nigeria is not fast enough, they will catch up. Remember they discovered their oil, they have functional refineries, good electricity.

When it comes to tourist sites and destinations in west africa. Ghana is also a nice place to enjoy your vacation. They ensure they kept the old memories and develop the new ones.... Had fun watching live elephants and wildlife in ghana....

I am a proud Nigerian but being sentimental about realities is not my thing. Good day.

One reason why Nigeria still fail in developing is because Nigeria is filled n ruled by people like you guys who do not think and see the need to develop but argue without contructive points

We are a country blessed with intelligent and hard working people, abundant resources that can make us the richest country in Africa. We have everything it takes to be one of the greatest country in the world yet we are still struggling to catch up with the reality... Ghana is doing everything to make to the top best economy in africa.

I was opportuned to live in ghana for couple of years and I can't help but appreciate the way this people are trying to make life comfortable for themselves, ensuring that their citizens get the best of what is obtainable in a present day democratic society. From good education(a public secondary school graduate in Nigeria can't go head to head with a ghanaian public secondary school grad) to good legal system and infrastructure, Good health care system and importantly, energy and infrastructure facilities. Today, ghana is the destination for Foreign Direct investment, inter-government partnership and currently the safest country for foreigners thanks to their high level of ssecurity and a law protecting foreigners.

In terms of economy, Ghana is trying to break out from the vicious cycle of poverty, making laws that protect citizens businesses from the claws of foreigners so today you can't just come into Ghana and set up business because you think you are smart. Talk about the devaluation and re- denomination of their currency, you can just walk into ghana with few nairas expecting to have huge cedis for business... NO.

I think you also need to put in check the realities of development, things won't be as easy as they used to be. Ghana is developing and if Nigeria is not fast enough, they will catch up. Remember they discovered their oil, they have functional refineries, good electricity.

When it comes to tourist sites and destinations in west africa. Ghana is also a nice place to enjoy your vacation. They ensure they kept the old memories and develop the new ones.... Had fun watching live elephants and wildlife in ghana....

I am a proud Nigeria but being sentimental about realities is not my thing. Good day.

Cikoloko: There's this girl I like so much,but I could not approach her to let her know I had to get her bbm pin,just few dayz after we started chatting we became good frndz wit benefit shaaa..shez about 20yrs very cute she have two annoying cousin brothers n they always harass her when ever they see her with a guy..theirs this particular one that wanted to harass me one day before she told him who I was he calmed down..let me cut d story short ,just dis evening she called me n told me she was going home because her mum sells food in my area,I do see her off most times 2day on our way we saw her cousin brother with a friend of mine she wanted to hide but I told her not to I shook hands wit him n started moving her. Cousin called her back @d top of his voice before I could say jack he started bitting d girl pepo came n was begging Him but he refused I had to leave d scene n told far because my frnd told me to leave..I tried calling her But she refused to pick I feel ashamed of my self m jes confuse...pls guyz wat he did was it right?guyz if u wher in my shoes wat wil u do?

When you dey chop punana, u no run... Now when d guy dey beat ur girl, u ran pass usain bolt.....

enomasly: Guy dis d same thing am goin thru urs is little sef mine in a space of 1 semester ave dated about 6-9 girls n had open secret admires from 3 girls makin it about 12 n at d end it all just gets borin n i walk away

Interesting getting to see I'm not the only one in dis ship..... I believe some of the advices will help you and make u a better man....

kajole: Do you ecpect me to contribute

guy relax

iam getting tips to

one love

Good to see you are also learning....

Matildachinyere: OP I hope wen u said u called off d relationship, I hope u meant *removing ur shoes,dusting it and running like hell without looking back* cos dat Guy is One hell Of A Selfish Blind Insensitive Obnoxious and Arrogant Motherf**ker and @abo wen d lady sacrificed her iPad so dat she could help him out financially didn't it look like she carrying his problem on her head?! u are just d same as her.ex-ignorant bornfool! u don't deserve ladies Like her I swear down!

The lady's story really pain you o..... U are taking it personal...

I think you just soved the problem.... Welcome back to the singleshood sis

I'm so loving my Nairalanders.... Thanks so much for the responses, I'm begining to see my flaws....

SLIDE waxie: U will definitely outgrow it.
It happened to me too wen i was young and got this hot blood.

Even till now, its still not easy keeping one but bros...

i'm getting old, thinking of settling down so, it doesn't seem i had another choice but to settle down.


But if u want advice, i will tell u some of the things i did:

1. No two ladies are the same. So dnt compare
2. No lady is perfect. Choose a fault u can live with

3. U have a problem. Deal with it. Determine to work ur way with d one u chose.

And lastly,

4. Choose the best u can get....dnt just grab any one...choose carefully...

Thanks so much...

190-the-clown:
thats what happens when kids refuse going back to school

For ur mind..... Where u see kids for here.... This is a very sensitive issue, if u don't have reasonable contribution, don't bother commenting, read n walk away...

Lord_Reed: Don't take this question the wrong way but how old are you? This behaviour IMHO stems from immaturity. You still feel like life is all about fun and excitement. You probably haven't come across the hard knocks of life yet that drain every form of mirth from your psyche and still you are expected to perform like a normal human being (the place where most suicidal tendencies tend to manifest). While you may be above twenty in age still emotional maturity is a whole different ball game. Don't worry I am speaking from experience. You will get to that stage where the truth dawns on you.

What's do u think I shud do sir?

Adeniyi A.:
hmmm mm...well, you didn't tell us if you were the who cuts off the relationships or the other parties.
kindly give us some scenarios of at least two of d crashed relationships

Most times, I end the relationship cos it gets so boring to me. For example, my first gf... I ended the relationship cos I can feel the closeness we had when we are still friends. I knew I'm hurting her tho she didn't complain but finally had to let go... Till date, she still tell me I'm a cool nice guy, same thing for the 2nd, 3rd and fourth. My last relationship ended because she saw a msg where I stated that I'm not sure about her even though we are 2 months into d relationship.

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Hi everyone, this is actually my first time posting on Nairaland because I felt I can get help, advices and guides from members here on relationship.

So, I'm so good with chatting girls up, make them laugh and so it is very easy for me to gain their trust, I can get close to ladies to such extent they share their personal issues with me. It doesn't take me weeks to get a girl screaming YES into my ears, not because I am handsome but because they see me as a cool guy and trustworthy.
But I have a problem and that is staying in the relationship. Within the span of 2 years, I have close to 8 relationships all ending within 1-2 months and this is because I find relationship boring. Once I get into relationship with the lady, it gets boring, I will lose my jovial part, will stop talking like I used to and get unnecessarily jealous. What can I do?... Ur advice and pls no insult abeg.

Dynssy: Thank u so much for ur tip. Just called dem, and guess what; d guy who picked asked for my name. Then he sed dey'll get bak 2 me 2mao and dat I'll probably be scheduled for Lagos centre. (Guess I was ommitted)

If ure 4 abj and ure yet to b reached, call dem. Someone posted d helpdesk number on page 51. All da best...

Happy the tip worked out. Get prepared. Have a successful assessment.

didoladi2: Hi there,pls cn I get d descriptn to d venue frm ogba.........minez on d 7th,7:30am.......Adedoyin

Don't know too... But this is what I planned to do. I will use like a day to seek out the location before the assessment date. If you are outside Lagos or you don't know your way to the venue, I suggest you take a day out before the test to find out the venue. Wish u success.

Dynssy: Wish u da very best in ur AC. Pls wat date is ur AC? Dos it mean dat they'll b rounding up with abj by d 2nd?? What hapns to dos of us who r yet to b scheduled??

Abuja people, pls speak up ooooooo

Mine is on the 7th of November.... I will suggest u call them to know that. Thank you for d prayer

Just got my invite for the AC in lag. @all lagos hopeful, pls check your email. Wish everyone success in Jesus Name.. See you at the training school soon.

drcooleasy: It's a bank because d second sms says I've been scheduled for a bank interview wit work force nd d date,time and venue stated

Ok.... I think you are invited for another bank interview not FBN.... Its should state assessment center if it is FBN. Goodluck in your interview sir.

Can you guys copy and paste a copy of ur invites pls including the Enugu guys pls. Just to be sure. Thks

hereandnow65: are you sure though that it's for FBN cos:
First, it should say assessment centre and not interview.secondly, the first line of the text should tell you that it's FBN graduate trainee phase 2 and third, am not sure those that received the text from enugu n Abuja were told to download and print any form. My thoughts though

I'm with you on ur thoughts.... Pls confirm if its for FBN assessment so we know wht to do. Thank you

youdontknowme: I wrote the test in unilag and I stay in Lag just received the first text scheduling me for an interview in ENUGU, no date though Still hoping for the 2nd text

Are you sure the the text is for FBN assessment?

I don't understand workforce again o.... What's happening concerning lagos center?....

Dfavouredone: thanks so much broda for the concern and advise and also all those who have shown concern. i have been calling their helpdesk number but is not going. l will still continue calling them still l get thru by the Grace of God. Thanks.

Do feel for you bro... Pls do call dis nos, I'm very sure they will pick up... Its a direct line to them and always available
012798941

einstein_e: When did she get the sms? re you sure it is not the old one?

She got it yesterday.

A frd of mine just confirmed she got a msg from workforce inviting for the phase 2 next week wednesday in lagos.... I'm confused. Can someone pls confirm this or can I get workforce phone nos to confirm