₦airaland Forum

Yankee101:
It is prostitution
Call it by any other modern name, it remains what it truly is, prostitution

DMCA:
for where i dey dem dey say 20k short time, Over night 30K
e be like say dem even get union d way wey all of dem the charge at a flat rate.
Kobojunkie go soon come to come defend the professionals
Na only O.S dey dating apps. if u are not and u are on a dating app in Naija, u will still be approached like an O.S
Na who wan go find serious relationship for Tinder

Smartguyboy:
Once dm a lady that says on her profile “NO HOOKUP”
Later paid her TDB 15k

Tenrack:
👏👏👏 I wanted to write about this same topic but you beat me to it and you did an amazing job. I enjoyed every second taking it in. Love the way you write OP abeg teach me nau. 😢

NiRfreak:
No spiritually serious man should be found doing transactional dating business on those hook up app.
It's like trading away your life force and sense of purpose with profane souls that have nothing to offer other than destruction. In fact feasting on those pictures is like focusing on fake aspect of life and mirage that never existed. Only phantom of deceits. It's all vanity.
Wise Men would beware of those site peopled by women of coven, marine spirit and soulless life sucking women

SpencerForbes:
Dating apps flooded with fake profiles😂 It’s so bleeped up that asking a girl out now is scary to an average young man cos the next word is billing.

I pray we find peace ✌️

Kobojunkie:
1. Romance has almost always been up for negotiation, only that up until now, many men have been able to get away with getting their needs met for free, while the women are left carrying the empty bag and baggage left behind.

2. What is the difference between a woman who gives up her body for free to a man and a woman who gives up the same body at a cost to another man?

3. There was never such a line. There was simply a male-dominated past now giving way to a present where females are stepping up to call the shots, as far as the cost of giving it up is concerned.

4. Men brought it down to where women decided it all had to change for the better.

drnoel:
You mean to say even being married to herself failed to work and give her peace.
Means she is the issue

cr7lomo:
They started to shut down mental asylums in western countries and now we all have to deal with mentally unstable people in society ...... they keep on growing in numbers

Jukay:
Which realness.
Imisi was a pretender, from day 1 right to the end of the show.
She knows what Nigerians like and she gave it to them.

sammiewrite:
Only people who want to be pressured will be pressured. I used to care, but not anymore. Most of these parents, uncles, aunties, sisters that are now burdening their sons, daughters, siblings etc. are the architect of their own misfortune when they stupidly believe that they were carrying out God's instructions of "be fruitful and multiply".

In today’s economy, it takes an average of 20 million Naira to raise a child from infancy to 25 years. Yet you will see most poor families giving birth to three, four, five or more. Tell them about family planning, they will say their culture or religious belief forbids it. Talk to them about adoption, they will start looking at you like you are Adolf Hitler or Mussolini. We can pretend or try to shift blame all we want but this is the foundation of generational poverty in Africa.

Imagine having just two kids instead of four or five. The 20 million Naira average cost of raising one child, imagine just 5 million of that saved somewhere, or even investing it on behalf of your two kids. Like I always maintain, most Africans have no business with poverty only if they jettison their inclination to stupid traditional and religious idealogies and choose to be more rational and intentional about their lives.

writeprof:
Which "African Culture" practises this Who gave it the name "Black Tax" also

Walai:
If sending 20k to your mother is the reason why you couldn't break generational poverty then you are not serious.
Tell Nigerian youths to be productive and stop Yahoo, hookup, miracle money and gambling.
All serious countries broke free from poverty when their youths embraced industrialization and productivity.

chidiokay:
Black Tax Negativity only exist on " iDEOLOGY ... givers never lack 100%
the truth is almost people looking to you for help will always be under you why you continue to excel the thought of failing them is enough to keep you on your toes.

Look around every family that one person helping .. remains richer year in year out .. my father raised is siblings children,paid 7children school fee plus his own kids ... that didnt stop him from building a house or changing cars till he died

People forming over educated, using grammar to sugar coat there stingyness weytin dem achieve ... don jazz , david, mr banks are all givers they pay black tax joyfully now bring out that stingy man you know richer than this people
ordinary portable as transformed is family, is broke now or naa house e no see build

if God is blessing your hustle, black tax no fit run you nada, carry your stingy mind with full chest leave story

brain54:
Black tax, there is a term for everything nowadays...


Anyways, I think it has it's origin from our (African) cultural background from communal lifestyle.

I don't think it's necessarily a bad concept. As it's mostly the excess earned that is used to cater for family. Where it becomes a burden is when one begins to struggle to meet such responsibilities.

Many Africans have embraced the western concept of "me, myself and I" but originally we had our communal way of living where everyone looked after each other.

I think most of our old ways of doing things shouldn't be eroded completely in the race to become Westernised rather modifications should be applied where applicable and necessary.


I have a lot of things to say about the Chinese and sticking to and modifying their traditional ways of doing things and how well it has worked for them.

A country or continent that throws away it's cultural identity and original ideology in embrace of foreign cultural norms hardly progresses!

Trueprophet91:
Marriage is not about "love"
Take it from a married man.
Marriage is responsibility

Yong4ever:
I wish they comprehend, they keep risking their lives,pharmacist injecting you,what if he or she punctured your sciatic nerve?that's how you would have become paralysed for life,we hate doing the right in this country, always looking for shortcuts.

cocolacec:
The simple solution to the epidemic of single motherhood is a promulgation of a Child Support Law stating that any man that brings a child to this world instead of zipping up should be made to pay N50,000 /month for a child subject to review every 5 years.

Any man who fails to support his offsprings should be jailed for 6 years.

Dont sleep with a woman you cant marry or befriend.Men need to stop the carelessly of sleeping around like dogs and face the consequences of their actions.

Any male patronising Olosho on the street should be fined N100,000/arrest.This will generate good revenue for the Govt.

creolehunt:
And wht is special about being a consultant?

I insist and from a place of decades of experience in the Nigerian health sector that a pharmacist can neither prescribe nor diagnose.

I dont understand the dribble about abroad and co when the topic is about Nigerian Pahrmacy profession.

In federal Teavhing hospital which is the apex of healthcare in the public setting, a pharmacist cannot prescribe drugs. And I reiterate that even I'm some facilities, they aren't allowed to swap brands.

So if the role is to dispense, what then is special.about it of the cleaner who has been in the outlet for years also knows where the drugs are.

Even in some hospitals, the pharmacist doesn't interface with patients, they basically dispense through a pigeonhole.

creolehunt:
Are pharmacists even licensed to give injections? Please do not ever play with your health, even the smallest of mistakes can be disastrous.

That said, if you walk into any Federal Teaching Hospital today, you'd find that Pharmacy is probably the most useless department amongst the clinical. They are basically dispensers and the task they carry out can easily be performed by anyone who has same access to the doctors prescriptions and knows his way around the shelves of medications. Even the porters assisting the pharmacists, sometimes step in to assist.

In some, Pharmacists aren't even allowed to swap a brand of prescription let alone prescribe by themselves.

In the scheme of things, the hierarchy is Doctors, Nurses, Lab Scientists, before pharmacists and co

cassidy1996:
She was caught cheating on her self


Seun please find attached documents

papiSNEH:
Confused Woman(Gender)... Toys are no longer meeting up now she hungers for better Gbola...

2cribz:
Chat gpt

Empty skulls
Did not even recheck for errors

Chat gpt dondi