Nairaland General › Re: Posting Your Achievements On Social Media, Yay Or Nay? by DrAda(f): 4:00pm On Dec 08, 2024*. Modified: 8:52pm On Dec 08, 2024 |
pocohantas: Well said. I have turned down remote work public speaking all because I want to be private. The last one I turned down was less than 3 months ago. I saw the videos on TikTok/Instagram and looking at the ladies that spoke, I felt this pain knowing I could have been one of them. Though my reason for turning down the last one was valid, but can you imagine the benefit that would have come with speaking at that event?
Thanks for your motivation. I really need to look into this. Wow. I simply can't believe you turned that down. But not to worry, another opportunity will definitely come along and this time you will be mentally ready to grab it with both hands and feet. Remember to put yourself out there and actively engage in everything and anything that comes your way. These challenges or opportunities are there for a reason. To help you grow to be the best version of yourself. Well done |
Nairaland General › Re: Posting Your Achievements On Social Media, Yay Or Nay? by DrAda(f): 3:50pm On Dec 08, 2024 |
pocohantas: I think Purple in particular has really bad friends and they come off as classists.
I have two friends that are heavy posters and one took to content creation. I followed the content creator one when she had less than 30 followers and I like/engage all her posts. I must drop comments hyping her. Why would I be angry my friend is winning? Her husband is the doting type. Always buying her this and that. If you no get mind, you fit put her picture for bottle when you see her husband's doings.
I also belong to a group of female remote workers. Some of us are active on TikTok and IG. Some are not. To be sincere, the active ones amongst us have gotten more perks than we that keep hiding behind our private Instagram pages. Sometimes I wish I can be like them. But someday...someday...  Well said. I am a very private person but noticed that that lifestyle was literally doing nothing for me. I have since restrategized and my God, it has been amazing. Putting myself out there and forcing people to take notice of what I have done and can do has turned my life around and I am simply not going back. Never hide your light under a bushel because of outlandish concerns about what people might say or do. You are hurting noone but yourself. We should learn to change our mentality because the misfortunes we face may have nothing to do with the people around you. Learn to take charge of your life no matter what happens. Always remember that good and bad happens to us all, so why not live your life to the fullest whilst you still can. |
Nairaland General › Re: Posting Your Achievements On Social Media, Yay Or Nay? by DrAda(f): 3:29pm On Dec 08, 2024*. Modified: 7:26pm On Dec 08, 2024 |
This life is quite complex.
A number of persons here reported getting negative feedbacks when they post their achievements online.
For me, it has been the absolute opposite. Anytime I post about my successes, more seem to roll in. Thinking back now, I strongly believe that's my primary motivation behind posting my successes online.
It helps me strive to do more and not be complacent but most importantly I attract important clients and stakeholders who are eager to partner with me based on my skill set |
Nairaland General › Re: Posting Your Achievements On Social Media, Yay Or Nay? by DrAda(f): 2:28pm On Dec 08, 2024*. Modified: 7:21pm On Dec 08, 2024 |
It depends. I guess when you get to a certain age, you will yearn to post your achievements for you and you alone and not for anyone else.
More so, why hide it? It literally makes no sense. On LinkedIn, people fabricate all sorts of stories to make it look like achievements. Without a solid portfolio aka CV which consists of nothing but your achievements, then you have to ask yourself if you are living or just existing.
All these is to essentially say that yes I support posting ones achievements for every damn person on the planet to witness. |
Christianity Etc › Re: It Is Wrong For Female Pastors To Travel Leaving Their Husbands Alone by DrAda(f): 9:34am On Dec 08, 2024 |
When you thought you have read it all.... |
Family › Re: Traditional Ijaw Couple Confirming The DNA Of Their Newly Born Baby(Video) by DrAda(f): 8:33am On Dec 08, 2024 |
ShinjaWWest: Okay Mary slessor An honor I presume. Not all babies are born healthy and last I checked, this isn't an enactment of the movie 300. The culture should be abolished with immediate effect and perpetrators sent to jail. |
Family › Re: Traditional Ijaw Couple Confirming The DNA Of Their Newly Born Baby(Video) by DrAda(f): 6:17am On Dec 08, 2024 |
What happens to the sick babies? Abolish this culture |
Politics › Re: Simon Ekpa Partied While Pushing Others To Death – Defence Chief by DrAda(f): 6:05pm On Dec 06, 2024 |
Sounds about right. Same tactics our politicians use but the gullible refuse to learn |
Romance › Re: Why Do Lagos Guys Like Big Butts? Seven Surprising Reasons by DrAda(f): 4:19am On Dec 06, 2024 |
Nice article. I have always wondered why. Now I lnow |
Politics › Re: Dele Farotimi's Book Ranks As #BestSeller On Amazon As Nigerians Rush To Read by DrAda(f): 5:33pm On Dec 05, 2024 |
Hmmm @ Nigerians rushing to read this.. Sounds like an oxymoron |
Education › Re: Need A Research Writer? We Are Available To Write! by DrAda(f): 10:36am On Dec 04, 2024 |
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Family › Re: 8 Situations In Life Where A Person’s True Colors Always Come Out- Psychology by DrAda(f): 9:50am On Dec 04, 2024 |
TouchNfollow: Solve it up your ass.....weldo Your comment made my day. You sound so frustrated |
Politics › Re: Why We Withheld Identities Of Owners Of Seized 753 Units Duplexes In Abuja by DrAda(f): 6:02am On Dec 04, 2024 |
I thought Emefiele owns them all |
Family › Re: 8 Situations In Life Where A Person’s True Colors Always Come Out- Psychology by DrAda(f): 4:25am On Dec 04, 2024 |
APOPTOSIS: Do you have a personal problem with the Topic? Is there a copyright infringement to it? Just pointing out the obvious. It always help when plagiarism is avoided completely |
Family › Re: 8 Situations In Life Where A Person’s True Colors Always Come Out- Psychology by DrAda(f): 7:27pm On Dec 03, 2024 |
This article was lifted from another source |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Belgium Gives Sex Workers Pensions, Maternity Leave by DrAda(f): 3:54pm On Dec 03, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: It’s Better To Have 774 Thieves In Nigeria Than Only One Big Thief – Oshiomhole by DrAda(f): 8:16pm On Dec 02, 2024 |
This makes absolutely no sense. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Belgium Gives Sex Workers Pensions, Maternity Leave by DrAda(f): 8:13pm On Dec 02, 2024*. Modified: 10:16pm On Dec 02, 2024 |
Good. They are afterall humans and should not be discriminated against |
Politics › Re: Macron's Picture With Wike: Only God Knows What's Running Through Macron's Mind by DrAda(f): 5:14pm On Dec 02, 2024 |
Irritant |
Foreign Affairs › Re: President Biden Pardons His Son, Hunter Biden by DrAda(f): 8:31am On Dec 02, 2024 |
I would have done the same particularly when if I am concerned that he won't be treated fairly with Trump around. |
Politics › Re: Macron Unveils Jersey, Other Gifts For Tinubu (Video) by DrAda(f): 6:11am On Dec 02, 2024 |
Not saying it's exactly the same but this reminded me of the mirrors given out to our ancestors during the slave trade era |
Nairaland General › Re: 3 Things I Learned Late In Life by DrAda(f): 10:35pm On Dec 01, 2024*. Modified: 8:12am On Dec 03, 2024 |
Good and Bad happens to us all |
Health › Re: Can Nescafe Have Effects On My Pregnancy? by DrAda(f): 5:24pm On Dec 01, 2024 |
Afonja44: Your baby will come out with defects because caffeine is no different from cocaine biologically.
Goodluck Funny |
Health › Re: Can Nescafe Have Effects On My Pregnancy? by DrAda(f): 5:23pm On Dec 01, 2024 |
Dey play |
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by DrAda(f): 2:40pm On Dec 01, 2024 |
Entertaining stupid people |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Folu Adeboye Empowers 5,000 Elderly In South Africa by DrAda(f): 2:37pm On Dec 01, 2024 |
Ajinoride: Google is your friend. Don't be stupid I must have touched a nerve or perhaps several. Silly follower claiming to be holier than God but in truth worship baal in spirit. Goodluck pretending to be a shepherd. You too shall be rejected and cast away and we all will be witnesses. |
Christianity Etc › Re: When You Realize Tithing Didn't Make Solomon Or Elon Musk World Richest Men(Pic) by DrAda(f): 1:11pm On Dec 01, 2024 |
gohf: Why would you when you are obeying Jesus
Read it again I feel this conversation will draw out more than it ordinarily should. Please believe what you will... It's hard enough understanding your write up. Later |
Christianity Etc › Re: When You Realize Tithing Didn't Make Solomon Or Elon Musk World Richest Men(Pic) by DrAda(f): 1:06pm On Dec 01, 2024 |
gohf: This here is obedience not quoting because she needs me to tell her but you all reading to see an example of what you should do and not wait till death and hear why didn't you live like her.
We all have a choice follow those doing God's will whether they know bible or not, follow them, no excuse will save anyone on that day Not sure i get you. Are you implying that I am heading straight to hell because I don't pay tithe? Really? You really think that God cares about the pittance that I make enough to conclude my soul deserves to burn because he is not getting some of it? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Folu Adeboye Empowers 5,000 Elderly In South Africa by DrAda(f): 10:30am On Dec 01, 2024 |
Hmmm.
5000 elderly in South Africa. Why not Ghana, Cameroon or Benue Republic?
Who can tell me? |
Christianity Etc › Re: When You Realize Tithing Didn't Make Solomon Or Elon Musk World Richest Men(Pic) by DrAda(f): 9:12am On Dec 01, 2024*. Modified: 1:02pm On Dec 01, 2024 |
I guess you all are becoming enlightened..
Welcome to reality. Tithing is not mandatory. Same with salvation. It's entirely up to you..
Personally, I have never paid tithe to a church. What I occasionally do, emphasis on "occasionally", is to give part of my salary to people in need.
Am I losing favours or grace because of it? I honestly can't say and neither can anyone. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Has 14 Presidents Phone Numbers. He Can Call Them Directly by DrAda(f): 10:01pm On Nov 30, 2024 |
Ayoefa: Mumu always bragging like a money miss road fool. It's incredibly irritating. And with all his so called wealth, he has made zero impact to change the narrative. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Has 14 Presidents Phone Numbers. He Can Call Them Directly by DrAda(f): 10:00pm On Nov 30, 2024 |
Stupid man |