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[quote author=JoyChinwe22 post=49378723][/quote]*modified*
Why are you so pained? Because it's evident in your Last post. I can sense you are also a victim of female genital mutilation. and since you can NOT enjoy sex or have any urge for it, you always deny your husband so anytime he demands for it, it seems like he is forcing you.

That is your own problem, and that of your husband. I only feel for him. But he doesn't have a choice other than to live with it. Because it's for better for worse.

I strongly feel that you are a victim, that is why you are advocating on behalf of other women who probably are not even feeling the same way as you are feeling because they are not circumcised. Luckily we still have 30% of uncircumcised women in Nigeria and there are lucky men who get married to them.

You can't find such women creating this type of topic or complaining that their husband is raping them.

JoyChinwe22:
You think you are so knowledgeable. I weep in English. I won't banter words with you, but I just hope, for the sake of our daughters, that other African men stop reasoning like you. No man should force himself on his wife. It is a crime. You may have paid her bride price but you did not buy her. When she says 'no', find out why and deal with it like a loving husband should; don't exhibit your animalistic tendencies by forcing that 'thing' inside her. Remember, you will have daughters too.

I wish I can give you a thunderous slap from here with this rubbish that you just spewed. What is wrong with you? Do you have problems comprehending? Seriously you are a really annoying person.

How many times will I make my Stand known on the issue? I have said it that I'm against forcing and I can't do it. yet you keep laying emphasis on it what is wrong with you?
I posted it here and on the second thread you created and you still don't get it.

Please stop quoting me.,

fellis:
Lmaoooo

men una fit take laff kill me ooo

so women have subpar comprehension capacity? [s]At least we are not the ones that go about killing and robbing innocent people[/s]

The part i canceled is not correct. You talk/reason as if you don't live in this present time or you don't read/listen to the news. Women (especially the ladies) of nowadays are not the ones we use to know in the 70s/before the 70s or early 80s. That was
when women were still women., and very much feminine. Not the ones with masculine tendencies/xtics that we have today.

Today we have a lot of dare-devil women that do things men are even afraid of doing and other unimaginable things.

There are a lot of female robbers now that kill and Carry AK47 rifles, some are even gang leaders.
Alot of women murder their husbands gruesomely nowadays, some even chop off their husband's manhood., how much more a total stranger. And so many other disheartening and sickening practices.

We read this news virtually every day here on Nairaland, and other platforms and you can't deny it.

Berbierklaus:
And they continued with it,even till this 21st century?

The world is fxcked up already,so keep the feminine blame game your forefathers drilled into y'all up.

What an achievement

You are not serious, so you couldn't see where i wrote that even upto today, some men still don't know why most women(African) hate sex and don't enjoy it hence deny their husband".

It's only few educated men especially in the area of FGM that understand or know this. Most people that still practice it are unaware of its disadvantages. They still do it because of the reasons i stated earlier.

dasparrow:
Alright. And whose fault is it that black Africans - Nigerians included - have such barbaric archaic traditional customs that mess up females' private parts and leave them sexually incapacitated for life? Who came up with the idea to cut off a girl's clitoriz so that she would not be promiscuous? was it not African men? Do you see Caucasian men inflict such harmful nonsense on their females? No they don't. It is only the backward African-bred male who sits there and comes up with ways to cause bodily harm on the females of his society. And then tomorrow, you people want to complain about your females being frigid in bed. Why won't they be frigid after you people have completely messed up their God-given varginas?

Secondly, let's not even get started on the topic of pedophilia and how raping innocent little girls have also left them traumatized for life thereby causing them to hate sex as adults. Anyways, until you people change your barbaric and satanic ways all in the name of culture and tradition, expect more of these problems to arise.

You talk as if you are not an African. Well I don't think our fore fathers knew or had the foreknowledge that the practice will greatly affect a woman's sexual life or that her husband won't be able to enjoy her. If they knew it will eventually affect the husband, trust me they won't do it, you know it's men that make the rules.

Even uptill this moment, some men still don't understand why most women hate sex or don't enjoy it. (mostly African women). And this is the reason why most African men are polygamous or unfaithful. Because their wives usually deny them.

The reason why they usually do it is because of the fear that the female core (cl! t) may grow out of proportion and also to avoid promiscuity so that a woman will be able to keep her Virginity for her husband, since Virginity was of high value then.

But it has a lot disadvantages, such as obstructed Labour, VVF, pain during intercourse/lack of interest etc.....

Well, thank God for the federal government and WHO that are trying to put an end to the practice

JoyChinwe22:
by woman..i mean wife. Wat u said implied that only circumsized women complain....but that's not true

I hate chatting or dragging words with women due to their comprehension capacity and data/information interpretation.

You quoted the wrong context. I directed you to my 2nd comment and you went to quote the 1st comment. Na wa for you ooo.
Anyway, i won't repeat myself, go through my second comment, the answer you seek is there.

JoyChinwe22:
Wait? Do u know what u are saying? That only circumsized women complain about sex? Are u saying it is ok to force a woman to sleep with u if she is not circumsized and she won't complain? Do u even understand what u are saying??

Force a woman to sleep with me? What type of rubbish are you vomiting?
This topic deals with married couples so which woman are you talking about? Or you meant to say "wife"?

I can't force my wife or any other woman for that matter for sex.
And Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying it's only circumcised women that complain. Read my comment again and pay close attention to the percentage

JoyChinwe22:
That's not true o. When a woman continually says she's not in the mood, you should learn how to effectively communicate with her to know what the problem is, not rape her.

What are you saying? Communicate with a woman that has been genitally mutilated and can never enjoy sex or wish to have sex?

It's a cross the man has to carry, because it's for better for worse. There is nothing the man can do about it., but endure.
Communication won't/can't solve anything.

It's part of the price a man has to pay for marrying an African woman (where female circumcision/genital mutilation is still very rampant).

Only few men are lucky to marry an uncircumcised woman in Africa, due to the prevalence rate. It's 70% in Nigeria. Some countries in Africa have it as high as 90%

JoyChinwe22:
Not true, other women complain too, but they can only tell a few people because according to the society, 'there is nothing like rape in marriage', but it's a fat lie.

Who told you it's a lie?

do you want to dispute medical facts? Do you think i made that comment without any backup?

Young woman, that's the fact. Believe it or not.
The "others" you are referring to, constitute an infinitesimal/insignificant percentage of un-circumcised/NOT genitally mutilated women that complain, compared with a large percentage of genitally mutilated women that complain.

All this women that have been genitally mutilated are the ones complaining.

Their husbands hardly enjoy them because they hate sex, it's usually painful for them. they don't even have urge for it. And each time the husband does it, they are just there, lying down like a log of wood.

All this ladies/women that have been genitally mutilated are the ones complaining.

Their husbands hardly enjoy them because they hate sex, it's usually painful for them. they don't even have urge for it. And each time the husband does it, they are just there, lying down like a log of wood., waiting for the man to finish the Nonsense and get up.

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Kentnickole:
1. The V shape that appears in ur lower abdomen when u put on ur tight leggings

2. Pant lines that appear when you are in your leggings or any tight wears

3. The way you walk twisting the waist

4. The wet spot the appears between your legs when u ben over or dock

5. When you seat and open your legs a little showing a climps of ur undies

6. When you are urinating

7. When you are scratching your pvssy whether in public or private.

8. When on a tight queue and you are being groaped by some guy behind.

9. When you have a straight fine legs and your laps are shining and inviting.

10. When your nipples are pointed and firm.

11. When you are on low cuts[/s]

You need deliverance ASAP

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Joy1706:
Delighted? It is what it is my dear. And don't tell me to shut up. Are you high?[/s]

Joy1706:
It is not a 50:50 affair. You contribute just your sperm. She contributes her eggs, uterus. During delivery, her vagina. After delivery, her breasts etc

And are you proud that you contribute more? I hope you know it's a curse on all daughters of Eve? I see no reason why someone should be delighted under a curse!

Now do me a favor, shut the fck up and get out of here!

saintfellow:
MAYB you should ask GOD why he created a woman. For the fact that the king of kings created a woman is to tell you that they contribute a lot.
[s]without this lady, there wont be any relationship in the first place, and without this relationship, there will never be pregnancy and you would not have being born to this earth. so you see, you and i is part of what they contribute[/s]

You don't know what you are talking about. The parts i cancelled are nauseating and shows your stark ignorance on the subject of reproduction.

You speak as if women are solely responsible for the act of duplication/replication as if they can produce offsprings without the contribution of a male. Are they Asexual species?

Bro, it's more like a 50/50 affair, without a man, there won't be a woman and vice versa.

Infact, this your comment makes women look nothing more than a sex object. So you want to tell us that women are just for reproduction and nothing more?

Blazing99:
She's flaunting it with her friend. Not for Nairaland or linda ikeji.

What are you saying? So you want to tell me she is not fully aware of the camera? And the site "metronaija"?

Let me tell you something, the moment you let your pictures or other details appear on a public site, you no-longer have control over it., not even the site owner, the moment it goes public.
If i tell you the site i came across those pics yesterday, you will be shocked!

The best thing to do is not to allow your pics appear on social media sites and If it must appear for any reason then it must be decent and hide as many details as possible.

She is a Muslim, had it been she wore an ijab or a fairly large dress, her boobs wouldn't have been noticed.

If you see her pictures on Facebook and instagram, you will know she likes/wants people to notice the size of her boobs.

Donbigi2:
Working but slow when downloading

Humm, what download speed are you getting? Mine is not even downloading at all.

The much....... Site is not working for me. How did you configure yours?

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Rozaystunna:
egbon shut up your just dumb and looking for what to cry about

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I know your type, but endeavor to repent before it's too late.

i don't have time to argue with kids and cowards like you who hide behind social media to say jargons

Rozaystunna:
Chai pipo are retarded Oo, did you see the actual breast? Wasn't it covered up. You just write garbage thinking youer making sense

You are not serious. So you want to see flesh before you start condemning her?

That dress is revealing her shape. As a Muslim (which she is) even in Christianity. A woman is not permitted/allowed to wear tight dress that reveals her shape.
And considering her size, it's very bad.

You are the one that is slow here, or probably irreligious

skyo78:
You must be joking . What is she flaunting and how is she posing.
There is nothing wrong or too revealing about her dress.

Bro, do you know what "flaunt" means?
Or do you think it's until she shows/reveals some flesh before you consider it flaunting/bad?

The dress is too smart/tight considering the size of her boobs. Ladies like her wear fairly large dress to hide the size and shape of their boobs.

Blazing99:
So cos she has ernomous boobs, she wont come one social media again. Did she grant anybody any interview? Let her be please. She just wants to live a normal life like you and I so don't judge her or make too much news about her.

Is that why she has to flaunt it? Or can't you see the way she is posing?
That dress is too smart and tight for her, and she knows it.

If she is what she truly claims, her dress should be fairly large to hide the shape of her boobs. The fact is that she likes/wants people to notice her enormous boobs. I have seen a lot of her pictures and i know what I'm talking about.

Yes, they have corrected the error. I knew that 10Gb and 20Gb was an error. I tried that of #100 for a test on Saturday and I received 10Gb. As at the early hours of today i still had over 8gb left. But to my surprise, when I checked the balance this evening i only met 54mb