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sorextee:
I have 25gig left..

Bro, how far nah? Let's strike a deal.

analice107:
Hmmm. This guy, I just don't want to talk to you not because I don't know what to say to you, for whatever reason am not moved to engage you. So pls keep off my mention.
Only men commits the sin of lust, women don't, fine. In Eden who committed the sin of lust? Was it Adam or Eve? Am not moved to have a discussion with you, so stop dragging me into your banters.

Madam what do you mean @the boldened? That question is out of phase, ridiculous and Nonsensical. There is nothing like the sin of lust committed by Adam or Eve in the Bible.
The Bible only told us that Eve was deceived by the devil(serpent) into eating the forbidden fruit. The sin there and obviously the first sin committed by human was "disobedience"

I think you are one of those Christians that believe sex was the original sin committed by Adam and Eve that led to their punishment. Even though the Bible didn't teach us that.

please show me where it is written in the Bible that Adam or Eve committed the sin of lust

Please show me where it is written. Even after they were cursed and driven out of the garden of eden the Bible didn't give account of the sin of lust between them.

Now you are asking me who committed the sin of lust between them? You can see how senseless your question is.

YourMajesty:
Will they ever listen?


They sent you to study not to jump from one car to another.

A lesson to those potential runs girls.

They will never listen nor change. Ladies of nowadays are too obsessed with money and material things. They dont even want to know the source, once they know you have money they are ready to overlook other things.

Naija girls and gold digging be like

plappville:
You must be joking man. I see you are not a woman, no wonder you rejected facts!!

Who is joking? Shut up there! Which facts did i reject? you mean the bloody lies that women also lust from analice107 and Omudia11? now you also want to corroborate their claims?

Both of them are bloody liars. They are talking from a man's point of view or probably what they heard. Do you want facts/proofs? I have given biological as well as religious proofs. So what are you talking about? Please don't quote me again if you don't have anything reasonable to say.

neocortex:
You are wrong check out this christians;

1. A pastor, Bromleigh McCleneghan ; https://www.nairaland.com/3307679/bromleigh-mccleneghan-sex-before-marriage

2. Christian Nairalanders;













These christians can't be all wrong you know ?

It's obvious those guys you quoted are not ardent or born again Christians.
By their fruit we shall know them. Imagine their comments.

Imagine, she saw the signs and Still went ahead to marry him, now she is claiming she was blinded by love, this woman is a bloody liar.

She must have married him due to his money and other material things she saw. True Love doesn't exist nowadays.

The only thing women of nowadays understand is money. They don't even want to know the source, once you have the money they are ok with you and will overlook other things about you.

Maxtermind:
PARENTS TEACH YOUR CHILD THE WAY HE or SHE SHOULD GROW..

Lagos big boy king t black of house of cash show off is latest girls..

Now please share and check if your sister,gf, daughter or neighbours daughter is one of them and beg them to stop ooo

View all photos : http://www.nairawall.com/lagos/lagos-mainland/news/viewpoint/954

Most, if not all of the ladies he is parading are not Nigerians.

Omudia11:
your ignorance is sky high.... well done.

Are you also a woman? If yes then speak for your self alone or do you want to dispute biological facts?
If you are a guy then shut up and don't quote me again because you do not know what you are saying.

If you are a woman then maybe your own androgen level is elevated above normal for women. If it equals that of men then it means you are a nymphomaniac.

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Justdulla:
Thank God you ain't a doctor or you might have been tha most senile that Nigeria has ever produced. Imagine someone is complaining of recurring boil,you didn't inquire about her hygiene condition,her environment, her well being or think of other factors,the first stewpid thing you could spit was Weak Immune System then conclusion HIV..Mehn your pathetic to say,you weren't asked to contribute, you should have just shut the F up. If you mentioned yes for staphylococcus I wud ave said your on track buh instead you goofed big time.shame on you mehn,u suck

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This is very rude and uncultured of you. You hide behind a faceless and anonymous forum to insult people.You must be a coward. you didn't see that i told her to visit a doctor., and also couldn't read the condition of "may" attached to the HIV test.

Others are suggesting diabetes and blood sugar without putting her age into consideration.(knowing that type 1 is not common) you didn't say anything about that.

The best thing for her to do is to see a doctor as i have suggested. Had it been the first prescription was from a doctor, this time around she will definitely need to do a blood test. But now, it's likely the doctor will first try out some drugs on her, depending on his observations.

But next time learn to be respectful when addressing strangers.

innovestor:
Why Is This Common With Most Wives? They Need To CHANGE!

Hello NLers.

I am here basically to sample thoughts and opinions on this matter from matured minds. No insults or names calling. Just address the issue with suggestions.

There is a saying (by me ) that goes thus: Learn to appreciate what you have now. Don't wait till it's gone to find out its value. There is also another saying (not by me ) that goes thus: Wives don't suck dick; only girlfriends do.

So to the matter. I am married to this lovely lady. She is good by good standards (details will be given later if need be). I am also good by good standards (details will be given later if need be ). However when it comes to making love, this is where the "matters arising" comes to play; yes sex.

Firstly, I am not necessarily the over demanding type, however i am not sexually satisfied completely in my home. I am very understanding when she actually is not in the right frame of conditions to make love, however for me making the moves every time for us to make love is tiring (and yes ladies you should make the moves sometimes, if not more).

Secondly, i am the type with a conscience. I have not raped and will never rape any one even my wife because this is practically impossible for me as my man-hood (which lives on) will suddenly slump in such situation (that's why i said practically impossible). So what am i driving at? Once my wife tells me she is a bit tired, she has a slight waist pain, head-ache, leg ache etc. i practically refrain from making love to her. It has happened most times that i am all up and doing and ready to hit the road and then she says she has a head-ache (unconsciously i must admit most times) i just pack-up and hit the bed to dream world.

Now the challenge is this. Being sort of sexually deprived by my wife, being a hardworking good citizen of Nigeria that makes an average earning (at least i dey drive motor and can comfortably take care of my family and one or two more outsiders despite the harsh economy) I am exposed to falling into countless number of temptations. In order not to brag, i have ladies calling me almost on a daily basis now and literally begging me to "shine their congo". Yes they know i am married with kids but don't care. Na me dey dodge them sef and avoid picking some calls.

Now the question is this: what can i do to solve this issue? What can i do to make my wife get off her relaxed state to make the moves for us to be more sexually engaged (and i am not talking of just missionary alone, i love adventure)? Should i just ignore her talks of head aches and find a means of forcing myself to do it with her ( I have actually asked her if this is what she wants - no response received). What can i do?

I am asking as we have had this sex talk twice and i have told her what i felt about the whole thing (of course she shed tears na). The third time we had the discussion, i told her categorically that this would be the last time for such discussion because if there is not improvement, i will not talk to her about it anymore and would seek other means to "help myself out". This is where i am at the moment.

So you ideas are welcome ladies and gentlemen.

P.S. Wow! So the write up long reach like this? be patient to read through.

Op, i will be frank with you. This is one of the effects of female genital mutilation (FGM) I'm afraid you married a woman that has been grossly circumcised while young.

Biologically we know women have low androgen secretion hence low libido/little or no interest in sex.(for the exception of nymphomaniacs which are not very common though)
Circumcision further kills it and makes sex a painful experience for women. this is a very common practice in Nigeria.

This practice has a lot of disadvantages, apart from the fact that a man will not be able to enjoy his wife, like you are complaining now, it has other health implications, like obstructed Labour,
VVF, etc. But the FG is trying to ban the practice now.

It's sad Bro, but there is nothing you can do about it. You are not the only one, you can see other married guys complaining on the thread. It's one of the reasons for infidelity amongst Nigeria men. But I won't advice you to be one of them.

biggerboyc:
But the message said otherwise. 12-4. The night plan i used on airtel even last till 5. 10

Bro that is how it is. Speed throttling starts by 3:30am.

That of Airtel is different. MTN don't play with their data allocation.

biggerboyc:
I sub for night plan by 3. 15 am and i browse with my system until 3. 30am when my browsing stopped. I was like wow has 500mb finish or has 4am nack. But non of this is true mtn just exploit me sha despite being a fanboy

3:15am is too late to subscribe for the plan. You are aware that the plan ends by 4:00am. They usually apply speed throttling and disallow downloads immediately it's 3:30am.

Infact just have it in mind that the plan stops by 3:30am

Iamoriekaose:
Good evening all. I'm a young girl of barely twenty years of age. Few weeks ago, I noticed a boil under my armpit and on my forearm. I alerted a pharmacist who prescribed some drugs for me. After a while it subsided.
Last week, the boils reappeared in different parts of my body. I don't know what to do because the scars left are depressing. Pls help. Lalasticlala pls move to the place i'd get faster replies.

Recurrent boils are signs of poor immune function/weakened immune system. Go see a Doctor Asap. They may recommend an HIV test depending on other observations

analice107:
In other words, illiteracy is the reason for my saying Lust is a Spirit? Hokay

I never said you are illiterate. I only gave two major reasons why people attribute things that are completely natural to be spiritual/supernatural.

In your own case, i will say it's due to stark ignorance in that area. I know if you are a medical student/Doctor or at least have some rudimentary knowledge in Biology you wouldn't call lust/fantasizing a spiritual attack.

Please note, I'm not saying Lust/fantasizing is a good or normal thing. Apart from the fact that it's a sin, even in the medical field it's a problem that calls for attention because it can easily lead to addiction/obsession with pornography and can result into other unhealthy practices.

The fact that it's a function of an hormone makes it difficult to approach. For example in males, the testosterone hormone is responsible for lust/fantasizing/urge and anything that has to do with male sexuallity. But it also has other functions like stimulation of hair growth on face, deepening of the voice, increase in muscle mass, Inshort every masculine feature. So we can't remove it or stop it's production completely else it's outcome will be detrimental.

But Drugs and some surgical procedures have been created to address the problem. and as I have stated earlier, drugs like diethylstilbestrol and medroxyprogesterone acetate has proved effective.

DaveHert:
Lolz well I take every "f" status as a lady, why would a guy impersonate a the female gender in the first place, is nairaland giving money to them....psychos

Another guy has been busted today, check this thread:-https://www.nairaland.com/3303443/crazyquinn-busted

analice107:
Okay sir. You win.

I know you do not agree with me, you just don't want to argue any further thinking it's the usual Atheist vs Theist debate/argument.
But I'm not an Atheist. I'm a Christian and mind you, I'm NOT The agnostic type but I'm a graduate and I have a good knowledge of science.

I believe in the spiritual but it's not everything we do not understand that we regard as being spiritual. That is called illiteracy or stark ignorance.

Even God frowns at illiteracy and ignorance. the book of hosea 4:6 says My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.

and proverb 4:7 says Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.
Contrary to what some people think or believe that science can make you reject God or say there is no God, as a Christian/religious person it will only make you appreciate and fear God more.

I remember when I was still interested in reading articles/publications on Astronomy and deep space exploration, if you have an idea of how large and vast the universe is, you will fear God and tremble.

The universe is so large that it has no end. Observations from hubbles telescope and cosmic background radiations shows the universe is constantly expanding thus it's size is infinite, unfathomable inshort unimaginable!

Now back to the issue we are discussing, to further buttress my point and show you lust/fantasizing is not spiritual but a bodily function, there are drugs that have been produced to take care of it. One of such drugs is medroxyprogesterone acetate This particular one is mostly used for males.

Here is an extract from wiki on the drug used on male prison inmates convicted for rape cases

In 1981, 48 males with long standing histories of sexually deviant behaviour were given medroxyprogesterone acetate for as long as 12 months.
Forty of those subjects were recorded as to have diminished desires for sexual behaviour, less frequent sexual fantasies, and greater control over sexual urges

analice107:
Hahahahahahahaha. U really made me laf very hard. Yea, I agree that men are susceptible to lust more than women, but if you say women do not lust or crave for sex as much, then am going to bust out lafing again.
Lust is a thing of the mind. Before the body acts on it, the mind had long established it. Talking about genital mutilation, yes it reduces the frequency with which a woman would normally want to have sex, but that has nothing to do with Lust. Lust is thinking sex.
[s]You talk Science, I talk Spirituality. Lust is a spirit which possesses the mind of people. It's lust that makes people watch porn, and masturbate consistently.

The lust I mean here is not necessarily thinking it and actually going out to do it, but playing with the act in your mind. Having graphic images in your head. Fantasizing with the opposite sex. This has got nothing to do with the body.

Lust emanates from your consciousness, not your body.
That's what I over came. (thinking and playing with sexual thoughts)[/s]

Madam, this your response is nauseating, especially the parts i cancelled and shows how ignorant you are. Did you even do O-level biology at all?

Do you know the effects of the androgen hormone? Lust has nothing to do with the spiritual, it is a function of that hormone. That is why it happens at a particular stage of life. You don't expect a child that is under 12 yrs old or let's say a child that has not reached puberty to lust after the opposite sex. It's not possible simply because that hormone has not started operation.

If that hormone can be stopped or removed completely, believe me you will be like a child who doesn't even know the difference between male and female talkless of fantasizing or lust.

So madam, it has nothing to do with the spiritual. It's the work of androgen hormone.

analice107:
No I don't. Before I sleep every night after prayers, I say this to myself, "Ana, you do not eat in the dream, you do not have sex in the dream, you do not swim in the dream, you do not smoke in the dream, you do not drink anything in the dream, you do not fly in the dream. If anything confronts you, you confronts it, you don't run. In Jesus Name". And I don't do any of those things in my dreams.

Speak to your subconsciousness. Tell yourself what you want to see, not what you don't want. And, stop, obscenities (talking sex) and sexual thoughts. Flush them out of your mind. Before I was free from lust, I consciously say, 'Enough get out'.

I started by avoiding friends who are given to obscenities. Always describing sex acts. Your mind records these stuff and will play them when your physical body is immobile.
Shalom.

Madam did you just mention "lust"? Oh please give me a break. What are you saying? Are you not a woman? Do women have issues with lust?

Biologically, women have low androgen secretion, thus low or no lust/urge/libido. And coupled with the fact that majority of women in Nigeria have been genitally mutilated while young (about 70%, you must be inclusive) this further kills the lust/urge/libido to almost zero.

So what are you talking about? Even Jesus in the book of Mathew was not addressing women when he said "he who looks at a woman lustfuly has committed adultery with her in his heart. He knows how men are wired, and knew women don't have problems with lust.

As far as I, religion and science is concerned, women don't lust after men/sex.
I don't usually commend nuns or female celibates because it's nothing for them.
A woman can remain as long as possible without any lust or urge to procreate. Only if they are forced by their parents to marry because they want to see their grand children.

I only respect male celibates. So stop talking about lust or sexual matters i hate hearing such thrash from women.

DaveHert:
Your post is what is wrong with me, what is the meaning of this rubbish you posted?? And you are a girl for that matter.....it's really disturbing

At least have consideration for others sanity...Geez

And who told you she is a lady? Are you new on Nairaland? Or you don't know some guys impersonate ladies here by adding "F" to their moniker. A lot of guys have been busted and exposed like that

lefulefu:
So 50 million euros na bad tin?

Don't mind the liar, i have tackled one above. You can see most ladies are not commenting on this thread, the reason is obvious.

This ones saying NO are bloody liars

Laveda:
What truth?

Dude I'm not here to argue with you.

But I'll tell you again

We all like money but would never settle for less, maybe your friends, sisters or close female pals did doesn't mean every other lady will, we all different and we know what we want.

What if he's a wife beater? A man _slut? Just because he has money with his head shaped like what I can't describe?

Gerrarahia mehn!

Shaarap! and don't bring sister/close pals into this issue it's totally uncalled for. If I decide to fire back, you won't like it.

Wife beater, man slut, shape of the head and other Nonsense you stated up there doesn't matter as far as he has the money. You will endure it, this i know.

Now, do me a favor, get the fck outta here liar.!