schumastic:


the question is in a relationship not outside the relationship

Then what did I ask? What do guys contribute IN a relationship that a girl can't get outside?

Drdreyy:


You don't know what you are talking about. The parts i cancelled are nauseating and shows your stark ignorance on the subject of reproduction.

You speak as if women are solely responsible for the act of duplication/replication as if they can produce offsprings without the contribution of a male. Are they Asexual species?

Bro, it's more like a 50/50 affair, without a man, there won't be a woman and vice versa.

Infact, this your comment makes women look nothing more than a sex object. So you want to tell us that women are just for reproduction and nothing more?

It is not a 50:50 affair. You contribute just your sperm. She contributes her eggs, uterus. During delivery, her vagina. After delivery, her breasts etc

stuffs4me:



His Imam, brothers, sisters and other family members have been doing that for him long before he met you.

The question still remain. What do you contribute to his life that is unique? Because you will be the first to accuse him of not caring if all he does is to pray for you. Very likely, you get material and financial assistance from him

Contributing material and financial assistance to your woman's life is not unique either. Anybody outside can do same for her. What else can you contribute? Something unique

stuffs4me:


Go and sit down. You are no different from the rest of gold digging paracites.

Mention what you do for your so called boyfriend and you are telling stories. Mention or shut up.

What do you do for your girlfriend asides giving her money that you don't even have sef

STFUareyouG0d:
cuz he's not even offering the most important; Fvck!

So fvck is the most important ba? Why are you guys complaining then. Sheybi your girlfriends dey fvck you na. That's their contribution which is the most important according to you

Joy1706:

So fvck is the most important ba? Why are you guys complaining then. Sheybi your girlfriends dey fvck you na. That's their contribution which is the most important according to you

which still means, girls have nothing to offer but sexxxx

STFUareyouG0d:
which still means, girls have nothing to offer but sexxxx

STFUareyouG0d:
which still means, girls have nothing to offer but sexxxx

Which is the most important

Joy1706:

Contributing material and financial assistance to your woman's life is not unique either. Anybody outside can do same for her. What else can you contribute? Something unique

At least he does that for you (which you don't even appreciate). Say what you do for him or shut up.

Gold digger

Joy1706:

Which is the most important

There's no such as most important in this case cuz that's the only thing they've got

olihilistic:

Joy1706:

Then what did I ask? What do guys contribute IN a relationship that a girl can't get outside?

Money, Ego, Owo, Kudi, we make more sacrifices than ladies this days and go extra mile to prove how much we love them, just so they don't look outside but at the end they will.
the only thing i know ladies bring in a relationship is drama, sex is out of it cus both parties enjoy it while doing it and funny enough, the guy does most of the hard work in that area as well lol.
you saying a lady can get them outside simply shows that a lady can't contribute anything both in and outside the relationship if she doesn't offer sex, shikena.

Joy1706:

It is not a 50:50 affair. You contribute just your sperm. She contributes her eggs, uterus. During delivery, her vagina. After delivery, her breasts etc

And are you proud that you contribute more? I hope you know it's a curse on all daughters of Eve? I see no reason why someone should be delighted under a curse!

Now do me a favor, shut the fck up and get out of here!

I hate girls dat mensturates. How can blood coming fron your BIG T0TO wet ur pants and skirt,yet u claim to be sophisticated. *Smells*

Drdreyy:


And are you proud that you contribute more? I hope you know it's a curse on all daughters of Eve? I see no reason why someone should be delighted under a curse!

Now do me a favor, shut the fck up and get out of here!

Delighted? It is what it is my dear. And don't tell me to shut up. Are you high?

gbemi514:
They contribute anything the guy couldn't contribute....
Read your Bible...
Women are called men's helpers

most of them contribute nothing because they are very SELFISH. they think only about themselves nothing more.....

gbemi514:
They contribute anything the guy couldn't contribute....
Read your Bible...
Women are called men's helpers

most of them contribute nothing because they are very SELFISH. they think only about themselves nothing more.......

schumastic:


Money, Ego, Owo, Kudi, we make more sacrifices than ladies this days and go extra mile to prove how much we love them, just so they don't look outside but at the end they will.
the only thing i know ladies bring in a relationship is drama, sex is out of it cus both parties enjoy it while doing it and funny enough, the guy does most of the hard work in that area as well lol.
you saying a lady can get them outside simply shows that a lady can't contribute anything both in and outside the relationship if she doesn't offer sex, shikena.

Money is all you contribute. And your money means nothing

stuffs4me:


At least he does that for you (which you don't even appreciate). Say what you do for him or shut up.

Gold digger

Lolz. Me? Gold digger? Small boy e be like say you wan chop spiritual slap? You don't know me o so don't go assuming. What can a guy give me that I can't get for myself. Nada! I'm not an orphan. I don't need financial assistance from guys.
My first relationship eh, I gave him love, my cash (the guy never bought even 100 naira credit for me in more than 1 year of dating), support and encouragement.
So bobo wetin you dey talk?

Joy1706:

Money is all you contribute. And your money means nothing

so I thought until the day I found out that, no lady wants to date a broke guy...am very sure if I ask you, if you can date a broke guy, you will say no..so my dear, money means everything..funny enough I asked a female friend what is her definition for the word romance and she said, a guy that is rich. I was pissed af first, but after giving it a second thought I found out she was right..cus a guy can't show how romantic he is through words but action n 80% of it has to do with money n the other 20% is his attitude and the rest...so you see that money means everything to you ladies with you included.

While you are all at it, trying to figure out what your ladies have to offer in a relationship, ask why you are even dating them. You could as well just not date a lady and date a fellow guy.

Joy1706:

Lolz. Me? Gold digger? Small boy e be like say you wan chop spiritual slap? You don't know me o so don't go assuming. What can a guy give me that I can't get for myself. Nada! I'm not an orphan. I don't need financial assistance from guys.
My first relationship eh, I gave him love, my cash (the guy never bought even 100 naira credit for me in more than 1 year of dating), support and encouragement.
So bobo wetin you dey talk?

What is this ediat yapping about self.

You are not just a stvppid paracitic gold digger, you are also a liar. Was it not you that said in your earlier post on this thread that you gave him nothing but prayer and encouragement. Now you have come up with a lie that you gave another one money.

You are a gutter brought up which is why you feel you can come on line to make threats on people. Stvppid diabolical worthless child of a habarlist. I pity the man that will marry this one

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chi4ik4:
most of them contribute nothing because they are very SELFISH. they think only about themselves nothing more.....

Most of them are not only selfish but greedy as well.

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Joy1706:

Delighted? It is what it is my dear. And don't tell me to shut up. Are you high?[/s]

schumastic:


so I thought until the day I found out that, no lady wants to date a broke guy...am very sure if I ask you, if you can date a broke guy, you will say no..so my dear, money means everything..funny enough I asked a female friend what is her definition for the word romance and she said, a guy that is rich. I was pissed af first, but after giving it a second thought I found out she was right..cus a guy can't show how romantic he is through words but action n 80% of it has to do with money n the other 20% is his attitude and the rest...so you see that money means everything to you ladies with you included.

You're right tho. Why would I want to date a broke guy? When I'm not broke myself. A broke guy would be a liability. Trust me, I know. Been there, done that and I wasn't even appreciated. So never doing that shit again

saintfellow:
Well i am single, but frankly, this topic is part of the reason i am still single, becaus a larger percentage of ladies out there offer nothing in a relationship.
Honestly speaking i think foreign ladies offer more in a relationship, they are excluded from the sterotyping, its only Nigeria ladies that are lacking in this aspect.

what do they offer?

CrazyQuinn:
what do they offer?

foreign ladies undastand more on the concept of a relationship, they know that they are to love and cherish their man, support their men in times of trouble and needs, they live for their men. But naija ladies live for greed and what they start to gain in the relationship.

saintfellow:
foreign ladies undastand more on the concept of a relationship, they know that they are to love and cherish their man, support their men in times of trouble and needs, they live for their men. But naija ladies live for greed and what they start to gain in the relationship.

when you mean love, cherish and support.....does this have to do with money?

CrazyQuinn:
when you mean love, cherish and support.....does this have to do with money?

CAPITAL YES.

saintfellow:
CAPITAL YES.

this sums up everything then ....guys are no different from girls, guys want material things and money too.... now I understand