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Emirate as useless as arsenal.

Their way

Whos fault?

Who cares

Thank you so much

uboma:
Prayer alone won't take you anywhere.
start saving up for a decent accommodation.
You will stop being wasteful if you start paying your own bills and stop relying on your parents.
As per settling down, don't rush into it.
When you have gained control of your finances, your mind will naturally focus on seeking out your missingrib.

Am so grateful. Thanks

MsLady39:
Hi Dre19,
I can't. really add to what some posters have already said. Only God can deliver you. Like one poster said...you need to fast and pray. Some things only come through prayer & fasting.
You can overcome through Christ Jesus only.
Now one thing I'm learning as I contiue to "mature" is that you can't use other people as your time stick or measuring stick. If people would truly be honest, there is some sin(s) that they are struggling with. First be honest to admit it..which you did & begin the steps that you can to avoid situations that may trigger the need. I know you probably have societal pressure on you..but marrying for the sake of people will surely destroy you if you're nit ready....which you don't seem to be right now. Take this to God...be determined by His grace and strength to overcome!

Thank you. Am so happy for this contribution[quaote author=aflyingbird post=51844602]

Stop spending ur money anyhow , plan ur spending n start saving ur money n move out . Dere's no reason y u can't b saving ur money cuz u r still living wit ur parents n have a good job U r in a better position than many people in Nigeria who r jobless . Find a hobby in place of masturbation . U r 35, u shud start look for a woman to get to know n marry . Once u r married ur masturbation should decrease [/quote]

Thank you for your advice.

eph12:
Plan your finances and stop looking for some spiritual cause of your present predicament. Rent an accommodation.

I am grateful

yomi212:
Bro,google, nairaland will not give you your answer.. It's only God bro.. I pray you, without going to meet anybody u cn get the answer u seek.. Go on a fast 3days... I trust God to answer you.. Jeremiah 33:3

I am

Pidgin2:
Are you a Christian?

I have been prayerful of late

grayht:
U can only overcome it by Gods mercy...



Where's lalasticlacla sef..

I just cant tell.

Pidgin2:
Eyah, what is stopping you from getting married?

Hello nairalanders, i am in distress. I am clocking almost 35, i masturbate, still leave in my parents house and not married. The confusing thing is that i have a job thats pays me a 100k per month and i end up not knowing what i do with the funds. I spend on irrelevant things, at the end i become indebted to people.
All my friends are married with children or about marrying.
I have worked for this particular company for five to six years now and still, i have nothing to show for it. Am confused if i have offended anybody. I use this medium to ask for forgiveness for wrong doing against friends, love ones.
Please fellow nairalanders sincerely advice me on what to do next. ( SERIOUS CONTRIBUTIONS PLEASE)

mazizi tonene: Una mean say militants sabi english like this

yin don speak ijaw finish...talkless of pikin english, come be queens... olodo dokubo

lagos.
rivers
imo states
delta
anambra
enugu
bayelsa
abia
cross rivers
awka ibom
FCT
borno state
Edo state
Ogun state
Osun state

playing "everyday is a holiday Techno ft davido"

Vallotti: As a female. . . I HAVE NEVER MET ANY MALE MY AGE MATE THAT IS AS A DEVELOPMENTAL/COGNITIVE EQUAL.
They tend to act 10 or 20 YEARS IN THE DEFICIENCY column emotionally and spirtually-speaking. To put it directly. . . THEY ACT LIKE IJJJIOTS!

As I get older. . . THE GAP WIDENS. . . .
Sooooooooooooooooo I would have to say NO!
It would not work for me. I NEED A 10 YEAR GAP!!!! So, I CAN HAVE SOME TIME AND PATIENCE WITH HIS AZZZZZZZZZZZE THAT REFUSES TO GROW UP!!!

I need a man. . . not a boy!

SHE WILL OUTGROW YOU IN ABOUT 5 YEARS. . . .AND LOOK LIKE YOUR MOTHER IF SHE AGES LIKE MOST NIGERIAN OR NAIRALAND WOMEN!!!!

Age does not usually correlate with maturity. . . BUT IN MY DEALINGS WITH NIGERIAN MAN. . . .

THE BIGGER THE SHOE SIZE. . . THE SMALLER THE BRAIN!

OP. . . goodluck!

you are sick!

Kairoseki77: Source: http://saharareporters.com/news-page/letter-president-goodluck-jonathan-replies-former-president-obasanjo
Source: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2013/12/jonathans-letter-obasanjo/

[b][/b]Bull sh^t

Corruption +Police= MURDERERS

fr3do: Beauty and the beast

pillock!

Well during the time of formatting, if you have requested windowns stores old file. go to drive C: and open a folder called WINDOWS.OLD. you should be able to see there ..if not then say bye bye to the files

MillionDollars: Mine was GO AND DIE

are you a saddist?

bacteria_24: Who cares whether you tell her or not, it's guys like you who spins lies for ladies that otherwise would have gone for another guy who is honest and well deserving.

please keep quiet.

presidential slut

Mr Knowitall: I actually pack very well thank you. But am a little perplexed by your comment though. How did you come to the conclusion

that i have a bad mouth?

me i be yankee boy too oh...i get the full swag of 9ja.. dont talk shit about ma motherland nigga! There is no place like home!!!

GoodFaith: All your lies are VERY BIG LIES
Please don't justify your BS

a saint is here..define big and small lies..? i have asked God for forgiveness..and i think you should do the same too! if you havent.

joe4christ: You mean, loving you for being a liar

You really must be dumb...

dont be a hypocrite.. swear you have never lied.

Nigerian Police break n enforce d LAW! ...see JUMBO 4 him mouth .....smh

A wolf in dog linen