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Top up the water level in your radiator!!!

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iice:
[color=#9900ff]You'd like that wouldn't you?
Sorry to disappoint you but i got that covered. [/color]

I don't do married women

tkb417:
@Ferlie
she wont see this. .
the thread will move quickly

you sure? You be sharp man. I trust you.

stillwater:
Read my signature again.

forget about your siggy. Don't you think we would make a perfect couple?? I am dying to have you in my world.  

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Friends yeah and i got a few who are special
For anything else?. . .sorry but i have enough problems in my life [/color]

there are problem-shooters on nairaland.  :Pwhy not tap into that resource??

tkb417:
Sam Milla
abeg organise some schitzo for awon boiz to mingle with some fine girls
all wowo are not invited o.

she mustn't see this o

stillwater:
I don't take them seriously. Don't ask why

just be serious for once. my arms are waiting to receive you

E kaaro ni ilu yi oooooooooo.
Mo ki Baale Richylaw, olori fileki, oloye segeoye, iyalode ikamefa, olu ode metodman, oloye tokun, ati gbogbo ilu.
Oodua a gbe gbogbo wa ooooooooo.
Ase.

Needlelady:
ouch, i'm so hurt, another lover off the door{when will men learn to stay one place}. Are you sure you don't love me again? What will happen to our son, Kola? He'll also miss you darling and I'll surely miss you myuuuuum.

Tell the other woman that she didnt do wellooo.

Don't you know our marriage is OPEN?? I want to rock and roll with stillwater so as to satisfy my  unbridled surge.
I will soon be back at home.

gigolo

Needlelady:
Ferlie fell flat forever for fleeing gays fron France, 

ain't that a good tongue twister?

that is why I love you not.

stillwater:
Stop dreaming

Yes o. You are right . Let us face reality . hit me up then

Needlelady:
I creep you out too?
Lol, your name sounds gay, don't mind me sha.

yours sound lesbo.  

Needlelady:
I'm a little bit dissapointed in you for painting the truth white, are you afraid of the immoral or what? open marriage is EVIL.

your opinion doesn't count . you call evil what you know/experience nothing about.    lopsided judgement

Busta:
@Dr Ferlie,

I see u're one of those that enjoy such relationship.
Good for u tho! . . . have fun!

How did you conclude that I partake in it??

stillwater:
Since you are an advocate for open marriages and I'm not, just read my signature.

are you an advocate of likes attracting likes?? You might never tell, we could mingle perfectly

okada man

stillwater:
Those who have tried, were burnt to the third degree. Forewarned is forearmed

Let me try too.

stillwater:
Yep agree, however in my world it is still not morally right.

Good of you.

stillwater:
Nope they are still as still as ever

are you sure??  I am set to stir it romantically .

stillwater:
My analogy was relevant, the poor man satisfied his self that you insinuated in your earlier posts we shouldn't try to subdue, mutual ko mutual ni. I would satisfy self only when it correlates with what I believe is morally correct. If it doesn't I throw it to the gutters, thank you I don't need it. I am bounded by certain principles and I can't be easily thrown by the selfish whims of others.

You are 100% right. open marriage is morally right to those who practice it. The tenets of such relationship is in tune with their principles. what say you??

stillwater:
Ohhh an advocate for the cause. *rolls eyes* no need talking to you.

stillwater, so I have stirred your water.

stillwater:
Suffer myself? So I should respond to every whim of myself? If we respond to every whim of self in order to please oneself every poor man shouldn't douse any feeling of engaging in stealing your hard earned money (without being caught, at least that ascertains he was safe while doing it). When he steals your money congratulate him for not suffering his self

Your analogy is irrelevant. While couples in open marriage willingly and mutually agree to satisfy their feelings, A thief (poor or not) will not seek for permission b4 stealing. The feeling afterward is not mutual. He(thief) feels satisfied( if not caught) while he leaves me dejected.
Stillwater, once a feeling could be satisfied rightly, mutually and safely why should you subdue it??

Needlelady:
ooooh lawd, he creeps me out with his philosophy!

mistress needlelady, the feeling is mutual.

stillwater:
So couples not in an open marriage are oblivious to the dangers of having an STD? Please this is just an avenue to avoid your conscience pricking you.

Everybody knows the danger. However, It is only those that protect themselves adequately that are safe. The slogan is safety first.
Why would conscience prick me when I am doing it rightly and safely??

stillwater:
Anyway let those who want to be ruled by the slightest pricking and itching of their testosterone and eostrogen be ruled, as for me they lack self control. I know where I keep people that lack such.
That's a laugh.

Need you suffer yourself just for self control sake? When self could be satisfied fully and safely, must you subdue it??

stillwater:
And how many people take heed to such?

As to many that heeded, there shall be protection.
A couple in open marriage knows the danger in unprotected sex with others. Therefore, an STD and HIV screening on all the willing patners should be conducted to know their status. This is the first line of defense. PPM is the secondary form of defense.

my gatewoman

Let's just say we are racing for the age where applying self control would become history. I feel it's the easiest way to cover up people's insecurities. Personally, I'm not bothered by people demeaning their relationship in the name of having an open marriage, eventhough I firmly have it at the back of my mind that it is contradictory to my stance in life. If it works for the couple, that is their bloody business. I detest people that do not know the meaning of self control. In these days of STDs flying everywhere, people still contemplate the idea of open marriage .

Why would you be infected with STD if the necessary PPM ( Privates Protective Materials) are used??