okuta007: pulling out is not the issue - but how did he pull out? did you see the chaos? did u see the equipment they left behind? was that how Obama pulled out from Iraq? think before u type
You have to state things with proof. Biden didn't do a wonderful job but trump's own was worse. Trump inherited that catastrophy from Biden. His administration abandoned those equipments. Bidens priority was getting the personnel out and touching those equipments, the softwares and technology which they did. The hardware was not possible cos it has to be transported. Pls look at what you type before you do and educate yourself before you correct another person.
Mattswaggz: Okay....let's see if your prediction will come to pass....for now Iran seems like someone without direction.
Yes, I fear you are right there. But they released a statement yesterday indirectly asking the US/ Israel when they would have boots on the ground. They said they were ready. This statement came out after the US assessment of the efforts to Israel stated that Iran is now firing less rockets than ast the beginning which in their opinion would mean that they have exhausted all their arsenal. Iran then released the statement of they are ready for boots on the ground.
naptu2: This story has led to a massive debate on Twitter. Some British people are asking how a Nigerian woman can send British youth to go and die overseas. Nigerians reply that she is not Nigerian, she is British. The Britons insist that she is Nigerian, but Nigerians say that she was born in the UK, she said that she does not feel Nigerian and Nigerians have disowned her.
I don't know what the arguement is about. She is just towing party lines. The Torries want Britain to join the war, labour party doesn't. That is the argument not ethnicity
Cyberterror: What happened to the iron dome? Is it why Israeli Defence Force imposed a media blackout to keep their own people from seeing how vulnerable they are? Even with American aircraft carriers and other defences, Iran is still penetrating Israel with ease.
The air Dome can protect against many surface air missiles. But it has been hypothesizes that the hypersonic missile would cross the air Dome sensors that is before it is intercepted it has already struck. That was proven by Iran in that Tel-Aviv attack. Imagine what damage that might have done if it was delivering a war-head? Am sure you know you Iran shot thousand of small rockets and missiles but only a few that is the ones reported for through because of the air dome.
Mattswaggz: Israel and US has an advantage Iran doesn't..... someone who can easily pin point the location of ur leaders can be regarded as having access to possibly all critical informations about you strength and weaknesses and all locations you keep your valuables...... they'll take down everything that makes you strong and ensure you stay weakened.
Story for the gods. Iran is no charlatan. Watch and see how it goes. How many days into the war did Trump start calling for ceasefire? That is a clear case of a man who acted without thinking, without digesting the situation. You will see in the coming days the difference between planning and not planning. This move by trump was no thought through.
Rep9jaCom: A man has stirred debate online after revealing why he walked away from his wedding on the day of the ceremony, Rep9ja reports.
The story, originally shared on X (formerly Twitter), described how a single incident at the venue changed his mind about getting married.
According to the man, trouble began during preparations for family photographs. He said his wife’s mother publicly yelled at her husband for lagging behind.
The groom claimed the manner in which she spoke to her husband alarmed him.
He said the incident made him fear for his future.
The man explained that he created an excuse to leave the venue without raising suspicion.
Unclebayo: What is your take on this, I’ve been shaking my head since morning…
I loose trust in this gender every single day ngl
It's usually with women. They don't like taking responsibility for their actions, it's not in their DNA. That is why we have to teach our daughters better.
Mattswaggz: It won't be another case of Vietnam because no ground invasion on the cards.....the aim is to cripple Irans advanced military capabilities and keep it that way.... anything else is jara and that's what they're doing now.
That's the point, any airstrikes done without boots on the ground won't accomplish anything. Iran knows these and have dug tunnels and bunkers already. Their regime will stay intact. This is a waste of time. Though the funny thing there too is that the American intelligence community know this too. Why they told trump not to attack!! But that man only knows how to shoot himself on the foot.
Mattswaggz: I said it....the US and Israel already knew Iran will put up a good fight and it won't be a walk over but they're ready to see it through till the end.....and once Iran is crippled they'll never let it get this strong again.
Actually the US can't fight a prolonged war! Iran knows this by the way. Trump saying shit means nothing. You should know trump by now. He is one of those kind of people that once they tell you to go right, pls go left. He never says the truth. That said, Iran has prepared for this and have been preparing for this. This would be another case of Vietnam, Iraq war. The republicans never learn!!!
masterfactor: By their words you can spot a coward. Two against one, and IRAn is still holding up, Iran need to be study in the university
Iran can weather a prolonged war. They have been under sanctions for ever and survived. The US and Israel can't indefinitely continue a prolonged war without boots on the ground. Those boots won't happen from US and Europe wouldn't do anything about it as Russia and Ukraine is still not done. I think Trump opened this front to distract from Epstein and I believe Putin asked him for help. Putin might make another massive offensive for Ukraine.
wildcatter23: Based on 17 years of experience, here is my seasoned perspective:
Until transparency is made the standard in a relationship, issues of deceit and "double-life" behavior will always rear their ugly head.
Stringent emotional boundaries must be established to checkmate future occurrences of this gaslighting.
To the matter at hand, it is best to realize that "love bombing" and prayers for your family cannot right these inconsistencies. This is a shield to enable you drop your guard.
Because as a Man, if a Woman wants to keep you as a shield while maintaining "toasters" and hiding her screen in the dark, all she has to do is introduce you to her father and shed a few tears of affection to cloud your judgment.
The Bottom Line: You are not overthinking; you are observing a pattern of compartmentalization. These are red flags.
Real memories stay consistent, but hers shift to fit the moment.
She is using her family and "warmth" as a credibility shield to mask digital infidelity and phone guarding.
My Advice: Confront her directly before the March visit.
If she reacts with anger or more redirection rather than accountability, you must reconsider this marriage.
A foundation built on "recycled pictures" and hidden chats will eventually collapse.
Do not let her "redirection" stop you from protecting your peace.
Be gided
Actually this is the best advice here so far. Confronting her will show her for who she is. There is no how she will get angry if she is committed to you and those others are just distraction. Unless the OP is the distraction and one of the others is the main guy.
PatientofYabale: I am in a long distance relationship. We have been together 4 months, met physically several times and she has introduced me to her entire family including her father. I am planning a family visit in March. I genuinely care about her but I keep noticing things that disturb my peace and I need honest outside perspective.
What I Have Noticed A Man's Voice In Her Background During a voice note she sent me a man's voice was clearly audible in the background. In the voice note she first talked about her day before mentioning that a man stopped her and that she did not want to answer him because he was acting like an slowpoke. When I asked further she gave three completely different versions of the same story across text and voice notes. Real memories stay consistent. This one kept changing. The fact that she buried the explanation inside other conversation rather than addressing it naturally also stood out to me. Dark Video Call During a video call she was sitting in complete darkness. I could not see her environment or who was around her. It felt deliberate. Chatting Someone During Our Video Call I noticed she was actively typing and chatting someone else while we were on video call together. When I suggested switching to voice call she said her battery was critically low. Recycled Pictures She sent me pictures she had already sent me before. This suggests the same content is going to multiple people. Phone Behavior When We Are Together Physically She quickly turned her phone over when I glanced at it and kept it on silent around me. The Toaster Situation She told me a man is disturbing her but kept his number and was actively watching his WhatsApp status. She even admitted she is curious about one of the guys. She also told me that if she posts our pictures publicly some guys will stop disturbing her. That felt like she was using me as a shield rather than genuinely wanting to show me off. Her Ex Her ex called last month using a new number meaning his original was blocked but he found another way through. The Cheating Post The morning after I was less available than usual she sent me a post about women cheating with strong emotional commentary. The timing felt very deliberate. Never Mentioned Cheating As A Red Flag When I asked her to list relationship red flags she listed many things but never once mentioned cheating. The most obvious one. She avoided it completely. She Checked My Phone She went through my phone behind my back. Consistent Love Bombing After every suspicious moment she immediately floods the conversation with intense affection. She even told me directly not to think after the background man situation. It feels less like comfort and more like redirection.
The Confusing Part She is genuinely warm, hardworking and family oriented. She prayed specifically for my sick father. She introduced me to her entire family. The love feels real. But something consistently feels off and I cannot ignore it.
What I Need Advice On Should I confront her directly before the March visit? Is this pattern serious enough to reconsider the relationship? Or am I reading too much into things? I want to make the right decision especially since I am considering this person for marriage. Any honest advice is appreciated. 🙏
You care about her. Get her home with you alone. Sit down and have that conversation. The conversation that reveals all. No topic is taboo! Get the lies out of the way. Talk straight. You will know if she is telling you cock and bull story. She can't lie forever.
But note one thing. People's talk don't always equate to actions. Means she might tell U her own truth based on how she sees it, doesn't mean it's the truth. But then you will see the lies there and the actions that don't fit
essentialone: If "she enjoyed it way more than you did", then she should be thanking me even after Raping her. Use your brain for what it is meant for.
No one was talking about rape here. You are weird and a pervert. Use your brain, thats what it's for.
Pukkalolo: As a Man, You can pay her bride price with blood, sweat… You can slave 12-hour days, six days a week working to provide for her, to fund the house bills, the kids' school fees and feeding, take care of her expenses, send money to her family back home….
You can literally stand in front of a truck to save her life, die for her without a second thought…
Regardless of that… She'd still raise her voice at you in your own house. Still roll her eyes when you open your mouth, as if your words are already beneath her notice. Still talk back to you with that sharp, cutting tone she’d never dare use on her boss, her pastor, or the gym instructor who barks orders at her. Still dismiss your opinion mid-sentence, like it’s background noise, like you’re her annoying younger brother instead of the man who carries the roof over her head.
And worse…sometimes even straight-up punish you by locking her legs and denying you sex for days, weeks or months, just to prove a point.
Meanwhile, the same woman walks into her boss's office, softens her tone, nods quickly, says "Yes sir" without hesitation, stays late if asked, absorbs criticism from her Boss calmly.
The same woman sits in church, hangs on every word her pastor drops, kneels down for him to lay his hands on her, calls him "My Daddy in the Lord," never dares interrupt or question his authority.
The same woman shows up to the gym, lets the instructor bark orders, correct her by sexually touching her hips, ass, thighs, laps… and she obeys, sweats, smiles through the pain, says "Thank you sir" after.
Why?
Why does she highly respect her Boss, Pastor and gym instructors but disrespect you her husband/ loyal boyfriend?
Because her Boss, Pastor and gym instructors occupy frames of unapologetic dominance, consequence, and zero emotional neediness…
Her boss doesn't need her approval to exist. He doesn't plead for her respect. He demand it with consequences baked in: miss a deadline and the salary vanishes… He can fire her tomorrow. Demote her. His world doesn't collapse if she walks away angry. So he gives orders, expects compliance. She feels his dominance. That dominance triggers respect, and subconscious attraction in her.
Her pastor doesn’t need emotional support from her. No “honey, do you think I should bla bla bla?”. He doesn't need her approval… He stands on a pulpit and speaks with confidence, as if he and God just ate breakfast that morning.
Her gym instructor… Same thing. He pushes her limits, doesn't care if she likes him… he cares if she progresses. He punishes laziness with more reps, more pain. No negotiation. No "please babe, can you bla bla bla?" He literally just gives raw directive energy.
Lions roar and the pride moves. Sheep bleat and hope someone listens. Most husbands bleat. Most husbands are Sheeps.
Here's the bitter truth…
The moment you become her "husband," is the moment you lose the very polarity that made her wet for you in the first place.
Why?
Because society, church, media, aunties tell you "husband" means:
- Provider first, leader second (or never).
- Soften your masculinity to "keep peace."
- Avoid conflict at all costs ("happy wife, happy life".
- Seek her agreement before making any decisions.
- Apologize even when you're right.
This is how a husband becomes predictable, needy for her sex, her “yes.” You trade being a demanding lion for being her accommodating sheep… and then act surprised when the jungle laws still apply.
Remember, lions sit at the top of the food chain. So lions get the best food. That’s exactly why her pastor, her boss, and her gym instructor get her best behavior: submissive, eager-to-please version of her… the soft voice, the quick “Yes sir,” the bowed head, the extra effort…
Look, Men…
Women are wired (evolutionarily, psychologically, call it what you want) to feel a raw attraction toward men who demand… not beg, not negotiate, not explain themselves...
Demanding men create tension. Tension creates heat. Heat creates sexual attraction or submission.
Boss demands output… she delivers or loses income. That create tension and heat. So she works hard to please her Boss.
You: the husband or the loyal boyfriend , demand nothing real from her. Or when you do, it sounds weak like this: “Please don’t talk to me like that…”
No consequence. No grounded dominance.
So she frustrate you,. She pushes. She argues. She gives you attitude.
Not because she’s evil. Not because she’s a bad wife. But because something primal in her is whispering: “Why does this man feel so weak?” or “Did I marry a man… or a boy who needs my approval to function?”
And every time you fold, over-explain, bribe with gifts, or avoid confrontation to “keep the peace,” you don’t create peace. You confirm your own weakness.
And female attraction doesn’t attach to weakness. It slowly detaches from it. Then she starts cheating on you.
Be wise, brothers...
Stay blessed
All this writeup but you didn't make any point. What's your point again?
Iran has said they have long prepared for the eventuality of an American attack. They already have more than 4 Ayatollahs as replacements for anyone that is killed. That is why they rejected Trump's ceasefire call cos they know from history the US can't fight a prolonged war. Imagine the aggressor Trump begging for ceasefire? Trump bite more than he can chew here. He fell into this trap unprepared.
press9jatv: US destroyed ‘9 Iranian Naval ships’ — Trump
I have just been informed that we have destroyed and sunk 9 Iranian Naval Ships, some of them relatively large and important. We are going after the rest — They will soon be floating at the bottom of the sea, also! In a different attack, we largely destroyed their Naval Headquarters. Other than that, their Navy is doing very well! PRESIDENT DONALD J. TRUMP
‘Going after the rest’
Liar liar!! Trump can't shoulder a prolonged war without Congress
daylay7: I came across this on the social media and I want to know the opinion of naira nations. The question is, is payback cheating okay in a marriage?
ADVISE HIM, ONLY FOR MATURE MINDS. I cheated on my wife one time in our 3rd year of marriage.. she saw a text from the lady and confronted me crying and asking me where she went wrong.. she spoke to me in such a way that I felt useless and ashamed of my self.. indeed she’s a good woman who has stood by me all these years and this is how I repay her.. I went sober.. and very remorseful.. I confessed everything to her and exposed the lady In question.. She cried.. for several days and night.. she starved herself.. she was almost slipping into depression but with Gods help and my constant apologizing and actions she pulled through.. she told me she has forgiven me and I should not worry no soul will ever know about it.. I was like God thank you for the blessed wife you gave me.. she returned to being my sweet, loving and affectionate wife again and we were able to heal from the hurt .. I promised her and vowed to God never to ever cheat on her as long as I’m alive and this is our 7th year I have kept that promise by Gods grace.. two weeks ago my wife told me she was traveling to attend a wedding in another state.. her friends baby sisters wedding.. she even bought a lace.. sewed it, bought gele, and a purse.. I helped her book her flight, I drove her to the airport and even gave her extra money for spending.. I took care of the kids while she was away (she was supposed to be gone for 4 days ) the next day.. our fist daughter woke up with a high fever and I was panicking.. I rushed her to the hospital and they put her on admission instantly cos she had severe malaria.. then I tried to reach my wife at least to inform her.. her numbers were all switched off.. I’m not the type to be calling my wife’s friends but I had to call the friend she told me she was going to see just to inform her of the emergency.. so Was shocked to hear that my wife said she was coming to her place.. at first i greeted her and said ah ah madam how the preparation coming up? She was like what preparation sir?? I said your sisters wedding.. she said which sister? I immediately knew something was not right but I pretended so as not to embarrass my wife any further .. I cut the call and tried to keep my cool.. after series of medication she was stable.. my wife called me hours later and was apologizing that her and her friend (the one I called went to market to do some shopping and decided to leave their fones at home so it won’t get lost) I said okay no problem.. she encouraged me to be strong and even prayed over the fine and sang for our daughter.. she returned home after 3 more days and I was already disgusted by her presence.. I tried to be calm and act normal until our daughter was very strong and recovered fully.. one morning after I dropped them off at school I returned home to my wife who was still in bed.. Then I asked her to get up we needed to talk.. I asked her politely where she travelled to but she was acting clueless and pretending I went for my friends sisters wedding nau.. didn’t I tell you.. why are you asking me again She even tried to call the friend to ask her but I told her it’s fine she should not worry because I already talked to the friend and she told me she hasn’t seen you in a very long time.. I became furious!! Because she was even trying to deny to my face.. I pressed and pressed her until she confessed that she travelled with her lover to Ghana !! I got the shock of my entire life.. my own wife did not just cheat, she travelled all the way to defile herself I asked her why and she said she’s sorry.. that she felt betrayed when I cheated on her.. and that she hasn’t been able to get it of her head.. that’s why she decide to get some distraction.. it’s been 4 years ago since that one Incident I had.. and she was the one who prayed with me and begged God to forgive me.. only for her to be plotting her own.. I o don’t even know what I’m feeling in my heart presently.. I left the house and I’ve been staying at my late moms house .. she’s been calling me and sending me lots of epistles but I’m too weak to even face her right now.. how could she? My chest literally feels like exploding with pain.. the upsetting part is that my wife is extremely beautiful and her body is beyond amazing.. the thought that another man has seen it all and touched it and felt it and been inside her is just killing me I want to die already!! For the first time in my marriage I cried profusely like a baby.. I can’t stand it.. I’m disgusted and perplexed!!!! I don’t even know what to do next.. #copied
What goes around comes around. Marriage is not for the faint hearted. Besides marriage is not by force, it is something you do willingly.
ebubeson: Please if you have a Fiancee, talk to her about whom she visits during your wedding preparation, also caution her never to give her EX wedding card in places where they are all alone. Again, if you feel her Exes should not attend your wedding, especially if they have had sex in the past, please say your mind if it bothers you. Don't be carried away with any complain of "you are insecure etc"
I have actually written on this before, and it is about someone I know about who said of a lady that had affair with her EX when she went to give her wedding card to him. Another lady also talked of a lady who had affair with her EX when she went to give wedding card.
I watched a clergy say: either he said 70% or about 70% of firstborns are not from the husbands. This may be for Nigeria. If it is truly so, then we may be in some serious issues on generational, bloodline and lineage distortion.
If things get worse, one day knowing through DNA that all your children are yours may feel like you have won a trophy.
Only God knows every wedding Saturday, the number of ladies who slept with their EXES before that day.
If you say you are a good wife-material, a good wife-material should not sleep with her EX close to her wedding day.
To guys, it is also bad to cheat before your wedding day and in marriage.
If God has given you a faithful and God-fearing lady as your Fiancée, please treat her well and protect her.
What you can't see you can't stop. Be happy she chose you not him. Move on. If you need DNA for peace of mind then get one. Finish!
Foreign Affairs › Re: "Wars Can Be Fought Forever, The US Is Stocked And Ready To Win" - Trump by drnoel: 8:18am On Mar 06
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