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irumole1975:
Starting in 2025, U.S. passport holders traveling to Europe will need to apply for authorization through the European Travel Information and Authorization System (ETIAS) before their visit.

The new rules were set to go into effect in 2024, but E.U. officials announced Friday the rollout would be delayed until the following year.

While U.S. nationals currently enjoy visa-free access to most E.U. countries, this convenience will change once the new law is in effect. Similar to the U.S. Electronic System for Travel Authorization (ESTA) process, ETIAS aims to enhance security and facilitate smoother entry for travelers.

Is this a good thing? This isn’t good at all

It's not a visa

Flangelo12:
Not good.

Trump would have a lot of fires to put out in 2025.

Trump can't stop it. An it's not a visa

TheBillyonaire:
That amount is very considerate. There is no labor charge there, which exist in some climes.

He got a good offer to be honest, I see no reason to complain. The expense is less than 2 month's of average rent in London.

If just bride price is costing 3.5 mil, what would the wine carrying cost? What would the trad wedding cost. Oh sorry did I forget the white wedding?
All cost on the youngman. What is best for the family, that they marry their daughter themselves or that she is married off and in extension less responsibility for the family?
We should think very well, that is not the way

Heavens1stson:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/758254-nigeria-france-sign-mou-on-critical-minerals.html

What I hate about these men is that they are tongue tied and tight lipped about happening in the Biafra era and June 12.
The only ones that have spoken, some tried to distort the truth and it's irritating. They should really open up on what happened. It helps to know how head were thinking then

Kelechi009:
it’s hard not to call it nepotism. The guy is literally his son! Would anyone else get that kind of pardon if they weren’t a family member. Fair point, but presidents do have the right to pardon anyone. It’s in the Constitution. Maybe he thought Hunter was unfairly targeted or that the charges were politically motivated.

There’s a difference between pardoning a political ally and pardoning your kid. It feels way more personal, like blurring the line between public service and family business.

It is nepotism. But this move was made knowing what the next guy coming in would do.
Watch trump pardon every evil miscreants who helped him steal power

Alakoriomo:
Hmm. I won’t deny there are lessons here. You seem like a man that knows what he’s doing regardless. Lessons in here for me too. I understand better now tho. You can’t stop people from doing whatever they want to do, you can only protect urself

Exactly!!!
The heart always wants what the heart wants. Meaning nothing you do would change a person that doesn't want to change for his/herself.

But a sane mind is a logical thinker.
Meaning things become clearer when you think it though.

Cheers!

Alakoriomo:
How about women, who despite how well their husband treated them (I mean we even have women that their husband had to borrow millions of Naira to send them to Australia for nursing degree lol), they still show these men shege? Should we also assume that these men treated these women badly?

I understand that 98% of women are saint and they can never do anything to bad to their husband (other than the normal cheating here and there and giving their husband kids from their ex bfs), but the rest 2% can be just bad, hope u know that?

Most women in Nigeria are heavily funded by their husbands who go out daily to work his ass to death, yet the usual narrative is that all men are bad.

Well. You’re in Australia, I hope you’re doing good to your woman? Give her enough freedom cuz lack of freedom annoy women. If she cheats , just apologise, and increase her monthly allowance. We will all learn some days. Have a nice day ahead

Lol, I see you checked my location. Sorry am not in Australia. I use a VPN that's springs here and there. If you check my location again it would show you another country, I like to keep things private.

Now back to the topic.
Yes there are women that do what you said, but there are also men that do the same when tables are turned. There was a ninja man that came to the UK, brought by his ex gf via marriage route. He kept 2 side chicks in the UK and a family in Nigeria on the side after marrying the UK babe for 10 years. His oldest child on the Nigerian side was 5 so it was a new thing and the side chicks has children for him. Fine you would say that's an extreme case and you would be right but men are not left out.

Now let's take this to a private level.
If you give your better half understanding, love and patience, give her everything she demands ofcos within limits of what you can do. Give her a home, children, comfort and security. It's rare to see that woman look outside only if she is naturally a wayward person and this is the truth. I know someone a friend of a friend that gave his all, everything but the madam was not content. There are also people that are insatiable and can't be pleased. I know another family like that, the man's wife is insatiable. Always demanding things to the extent he has to change her car twice in 1 year, thank God the man is well to do, a professional, has a very good international job. Have warned him though that things can't continue like that ans their is a tendency for her to misstep cos she is too flashy and her crowd of women are divorcée.
His comment was clean and clear and he said and I quote "bros (that's what he calls me), yes I have seen it already and counted my teeth. She is an adult and I can't stop her". He said he will only do what's within his power as a man as her husband and nothing more. If she is not content then so be it, that's the door she can get the hell out. He said he or the kids won't suffer if such a scenario happens, he was prepared". That alone would show you the man actually knows what he is doing. He is playing a waiting game knowing what he knows. Ofcos I won't fight his battles for him, he has to do it himself.

So back to what I said in my last writeup. It is not what happens but how you handle the situation that matters. You can't gratify bad behaviour with gifts, you punish it. So if she decides she wants to open her legs for a man outside that's fine. She is an adult, let her do so. Just be sure she doesn't came back home after whoring outside and giving you the same pussy. It's just that simple.
Still nothing wrong in forgiving and forgetting for the sake of the family and kids. One can do so too but that's outside the scope of this conversation.

Alakoriomo:
. Your position here sounds cuckhold asf. But I understand. You probably live abroad (US, UK or Aussi). Literally no way you won’t turn progressive living in these countries for years. I can imagine what not having a position that sounds this gynocentric is going to do to you.

Well, you’re happy and convinced with your position . That’s what matters.

It's not cockhold or cocktail or whatever you feel you need to classify it as. It's rather the truth cos women though some can be fishbrained are still human beings and have rights. You can't force your ideology on them or anyone.
Once you know and understand this very well the rest comes easy.

I know a man that tried to suppress his wife here. Did lots including locking her in the house and going to work, mistake or not.
The woman dealt with him later na after tables turned and she became the main source of income. She did nursing that the guy sponsored and after getting her diploma and her residency papers. She showed him pepper. She didn't call police or thrown the man out of the house, they already had 5 children. She made sure the children respect their dad ooh though he stayed home and didn't work anymore cos of a back problem so she had to step up.
But she would tell the man where to stand and he will go and stand there like a good boy.
Respect women and fear them. But never take them for granted and make sure you don't maltreat them. They won't forget and will do back

Alakoriomo:
Exactly. True! Don’t mind all these small minded boy. Obviously they’re not married yet.

Same way if your wife wants to go and sleep with another man, by all means, allow her. That’s what it takes to be progressive. If she brings home pregnancy from the result of her cheating, it’s your responsibility to take care of the baby and ensure the baby , your wife and the maon that is sleeping with her, has a good life.

Well spoken like a very naive child. But I will bite just for the fun of it.
Let me reply the statements you made hoping to get a reaction from me.
This is not politics so there is no room for whatever progressive or what not. Life is not textbook so you can't read it and pass it. Life throws curved balls at you and you have to learn to navigate those murky waters or you would be found wanting.
If your woman wants to sleep around, that is between you and her to navigate. I mean there are open marriages or partnerships around so it's no more new.
If on the other hand she gets pregnant by another man and intend and I quote it here intentionally intend to pass it up as yours, then that's another story. There has been a case or so of woman who got pregnant in a romp and was not aware of the pregnancy and slept with her man. Those things happen, it's how you handle the fallout that is important. There is no wise old man and life is not cast on stone.
At the end of the day the person that decides is you. But that does mean that you would completely be a caveman and sit on her head. If you do that you would suffocate her and these Gen Z ladies can't take that, they would wish to breakout and then do exactly that thing you had been scared off.
That is why you let a woman roam free, keep your eyes open but don't restrict her. If she sees she has freedom she would be more cautious and won't misbehave. If she does misbehave you can show her the door, after all life is too short to hold on to anything that lacks loyalty. Life is too short for rubbish.

nifemi25:
That very day a lady talked about going to a gym is the day I will assumed she is no more responsible.. she can do all exercises at home with the help of Google and doesn't need to hit the gym .. even if she is holy , by the time those devil instructor touches some sensitive part of her... She might fall for the trap

That is not right. If your woman want to go to the gym, let her.

ednut1:
Any evidence this happened And is he the only one they are nacking?

Exactly, the women liked the attention that is why they opened their legs. It is a pity they had to close the man's gym.

Ballzproblem2:
The day my wife or gf wants to pick any stupid instructor wether male or female will be the end of the relationship,if you no fit work out for house forget it.

Lol, you can't force a woman's leg closed. If she wants to close it, nothing would open it.
Be deceiving yourself.
Another proverb for you would be this; you can't keep yam and goat together and expect the goat not to sample the yam

SyrusdeHansome:
I just stumbled on this and I must confess that at this point I don't blame any man who deliberately doesn't wanna get married. 90% of women have the mentality of this woman. They rarely take responsibility for their wrong doing. Sometimes u just ask urself whether most women really possess brains.

Very funny statement. She can take care of the child on her own without the husband. He didn't sign that agreement with them

rubbing what? Is she a genie to make wishes?
Na wah for this generation, men and women

Mnana:
Ukraine plan and fail their plan is to draw NATO close to Russia in other spy or even attack Russia..but Russia react fast .

BS, your statement lacks reason

WriterNig:
🇷🇺 Russia steadily improving its missile accuracy and efficiency.

👍🏻 Like for Russia-Putin, share for USA/Nazi/NATO 卍

This guy is a russian spy

educatedfool:
Zelenskyy chose wrong opponent

What world are you from. Russia attacked Ukraine please don't change the narrative to benefit one side. Say the truth always

smallsmall:
Whatever l say, l can provide sources for them.
I am talking about reputable sources, Western, Russian, Ukrainian Sources.
Direct quotes from Leaders of concerned Countries.
I am not the typical Nairalander that just spews balderdash or write, based on emotions.
This is like my second Work (International Relations and Politics).

BTW: Putin was a KGB Officer, not FSB.
He never worked for "East Germany", which was never a part of the USSR, despite being a Communist Country.
I think Trump's position on Ukraine, will determine how far the other NATO Countries can go.
They dont have the Money nor the Weapons, to carry this on for long, if Trump pulls the plug, which l believe he will do, one way or another
That is why they re all in a frenzy, right now..

Appreciate your time and have a nice day ahead.

Check your sources then. I remember reading somewhere that he was posted twice to east Germany. And Putin was definitely once in fsp, I just confirmed it from my sources. I don't want to say you info is flawed cos we all make mistakes so would rather ask you to check your sources again.

As regards your other statement, yes you are right. Trump would "pull the plug" like you stated. The question is not if he would do that but if the reasons he does it are the right ones.
We know know is easily manipulated and we all know his narcissistic behaviour and his megalomania and God-complex makes him a very dangerous unstable person. Worse still the other guys know this too and would use it against him.
Now he has started appointments of key officials and that is the fear that he would appoint someone incompetent to a very sensitive position.
Example the healthcare is trembling from his last appointment. Not trembling from approval but from disapproval cos people know what orientation many of these far right guys stand for.
So we know trump would attempt to cripple NATO and that would be playing directly into the playbook of Russia. This would be a dangerous move.

smallsmall:
Can you please share EVIDENCE of these claims you're making, that:
1) The Referendum was plagued with Arrest and Imprisonment (I am not aware of such acts, during the Referendum, as it was Peaceful and express the wishes of the people of those Areas)

2) That it was just Russia, that oversaw the Referendum and there aren't International observers from other Nations.

The West (NATO Countries and their Allies) were against Russia in this War and so, no one expects them to greenlight the Referemdum.
They would always say they dont accept it.
But[b] when the West that conducts the Referendum,, as they did when they split Czechoslovakia, into Bosnia-Herzegovina and Serbia, it was considered acceptable. [/b]
We have to do better than think "the West is always right" and "No one else can be right, except the West says so".

BTW: This discussion is not about "who you and i, support", (it is not the typical Nigerian Politics where you are either APShit or PDPit or HellPee), it is about what we see or know or feel is happening over there.

The beauty of it all is that I don't need to prove anything. Just like you can't prove anything as regards what you ate saying.
But like you said, this is the west against Russia.
Trump won't tip the scale here. The scale has already tipped with Kamala not winning the election. He has no idea what he is doing.
Don't forget Putin was a formal spy and head of FSB in Russia and also of the Stasi in east Germany.
Trump on the other hand would be railroaded by Putin.

smallsmall:
A Referendum, is a legitimate, UN-approved process to breakaway from one Country, and join another.
All those former Ukrainian territories that are now with Russia, conducted a Referendum and voted massively 'YES', to join Russia.
That is not the same thing as when Iraq annexed Kuwait, by use of military Force.

And come o think of it, did America not annex a large part of Mexico (Texas, New Mexico, etc) till today?
And can we imagine a situation where say Canada or Cuba, is allowing Russia or China to stage Nuclear Weapons on their soil, all pointed to America, what do we think American President will do?
Have we forgotten about what led to the Cuban Crisis, back then?
Every "Super Power Country" will protect its "area of influence", for the sake of its National Security

No One has the right, to act against the WILL of the People, to belong to wherever they want.
This is the problem "Biafra" is facing today... they want a Referendum to either Stay or Leave Nigeria but our Government i snot allowing such legitimate process, hence the War and things like UGM in the South East.

Crimea, Donbas and other Areas that voted in a Referendum to join Russia, are gone for good.
Just imagine what they would suffer, if by some accident, they were forced back into Ukraine, judging by what they have been suffering in the hands of the Ukrainian Neo-Nazis, since 2014, who call them "Rats" that needs to be snuffed out!

But, let us just chillax and see what happens, between now, and end of March, 2025. Let us see how much difference, this "approval" will make to the war effort

The referendum that Russia oversaw, right and one that was plagued with arrest and imprisonment?
Sorry but it was trustworthy enough for the west to consider an actual representation of what's on ground.
That's why the west is not convinced that

timilehin007:
no I think Trump will end the war mutually, Russia would likely hold on top the territories they seized

Watch and see Putin play Trump like a flute. Russia has no rights to territories/ lands gotten by invasion, this is not the 40s. If Putin is allowed to hold those lands nothing stops him from seeking to invade further in the future. That is how Hitler started the war.
Trump has nothing to say on that topic though, I assure you. Putin would use him for toilet paper.

Gistmedia10:
In a jaw-dropping scene of frustration, a man destroyed his high-end television after 58-year-old boxing legend Mike Tyson lost to 27-year-old YouTuber-turned-boxer Jake Paul. The highly anticipated fight, streamed live on Netflix and held at the AT&T Stadium in front of over 70,000 spectators, ended with Jake Paul securing a unanimous decision victory.

Despite entering the match as the betting favorite, Jake Paul’s win crushed the hopes of the man who had wagered millions on Tyson’s victory, aiming for a massive payout. Overwhelmed by the loss, the man vented his anger in a shocking manner: he was seen hauling a heavy object and smashing it into his television screen. He then yanked the screen off the wall and completely shattered it, leaving those watching the fight with him in stunned.

Many questioning why anyone would risk such a huge sum on a fight where the odds were stacked against the older Tyson. Meanwhile, Jake Paul’s fans celebrated his victory as yet another feather in his cap as he continues to make waves in the boxing world.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8W_UQCJdj6k

No how Tyson was going to beat up a younger man

ehikwe22:
Because they lost, they now approved it. Create more mess and see how Trump fixes it. If you also like, send expedited trillions to Ukraine Because Trump threatened to not send Ukraine anything. Whatever you send is running out fast

Main thing is that the most support reach there before that madman, Putin's minion gets to the while house and destroy Ukraine

Naijjablog:
Never have i seen someone so retarded as Biden, old man wants force us to WWIII by force by fire.

Trump should jail that mf!

If only you knew better

timilehin007:
trump will reverse it

Ofcos we know this. And that will end Ukraine, making Russia win the war annex Ukraine. That is what Putin wants.

Zonefree:
Trump is coming to restore lasting peace.

Be deceiving yourself. That's why Biden Approved this, to quickly end the war

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hello, a friend of mine that lives in Texas traveled to Abuja for her birthday with her husband and the couple hung out with a popular Nigerian billionaire businessman in an Abuja club . The billionaire followed friend and hubby on instagram during the hangout back (friend was already following billionaire already). After the hangout and they all went home, the billionaire unfollowed friend and hubby.

Is this how Nigerian celebrities are?[/color]

Irrelevant

dboY1123:
I have these two girls at hand, I have dated one before, so she's like an ex but we still chat often and even trying to come back again, though what led to the breakup wasn't anything serious, so we are cool.
This girl is in her early 20s, not really ready for committed relationship or courtship as she's more concerned about her fashion career which is a good and valid point or reason. She's done with service recently and I think she's not ready to return home soon probably because she's more comfortable where she served..

I met the second girl in NYSC camp in 2022, she's mature, quiet, also a fashion designer and a Christian but we never had anything together like relationship, though we met again after camp, she lives 3 bykes away from my side.. She is ready for something serious, owns her own fashion shop and doing not bad for herself..

Although, I actually like the first girl cz she's pretty and smart. I am thinking of planning myself right now, they both believe in starting up with a guy and they both would add value but the second girl is ready, and also has something doing already while the first is yet to settle herself.

Please advice me, who do you think I should go for?

The unready one is a liability. The ready one makes your life easier. In this ages of high inflation best action is the one that makes most sense

naijapips04:
Is Joe now admitting that illegal immigrants already in the country are breaking the law? Dementia Joe should go and rest.

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Hilarious 😂😂😂 but silly comment. Please educate yourself and understand he meant something else

Biodun556:
Pls send him back to South Africa or Nigeria if you don't want him

What Elon musk achieve in few years of space exploration is beyond what NASA achieved in decades

Musk already has American citizenship so he ain't going no where

flyinnizam:
old biden should keep quiet. if Elon Musk was an illegal migrant, he won't be talking about illegal migrants all the time

Lol, he was an illegal worker not illegal immigrant. Please know the difference before you open your write rubbish. It's all documented so Biden ain't talking out of poin but facts. Difference between Dems and GOP.