smallsmall: Whatever l say, l can provide sources for them. I am talking about reputable sources, Western, Russian, Ukrainian Sources. Direct quotes from Leaders of concerned Countries. I am not the typical Nairalander that just spews balderdash or write, based on emotions. This is like my second Work (International Relations and Politics).
BTW: Putin was a KGB Officer, not FSB. He never worked for "East Germany", which was never a part of the USSR, despite being a Communist Country. I think Trump's position on Ukraine, will determine how far the other NATO Countries can go. They dont have the Money nor the Weapons, to carry this on for long, if Trump pulls the plug, which l believe he will do, one way or another That is why they re all in a frenzy, right now..
Appreciate your time and have a nice day ahead.
Check your sources then. I remember reading somewhere that he was posted twice to east Germany. And Putin was definitely once in fsp, I just confirmed it from my sources. I don't want to say you info is flawed cos we all make mistakes so would rather ask you to check your sources again.
As regards your other statement, yes you are right. Trump would "pull the plug" like you stated. The question is not if he would do that but if the reasons he does it are the right ones. We know know is easily manipulated and we all know his narcissistic behaviour and his megalomania and God-complex makes him a very dangerous unstable person. Worse still the other guys know this too and would use it against him. Now he has started appointments of key officials and that is the fear that he would appoint someone incompetent to a very sensitive position. Example the healthcare is trembling from his last appointment. Not trembling from approval but from disapproval cos people know what orientation many of these far right guys stand for. So we know trump would attempt to cripple NATO and that would be playing directly into the playbook of Russia. This would be a dangerous move.
smallsmall: Can you please share EVIDENCE of these claims you're making, that: 1) The Referendum was plagued with Arrest and Imprisonment (I am not aware of such acts, during the Referendum, as it was Peaceful and express the wishes of the people of those Areas)
2) That it was just Russia, that oversaw the Referendum and there aren't International observers from other Nations.
The West (NATO Countries and their Allies) were against Russia in this War and so, no one expects them to greenlight the Referemdum. They would always say they dont accept it. But[b] when the West that conducts the Referendum,, as they did when they split Czechoslovakia, into Bosnia-Herzegovina and Serbia, it was considered acceptable. [/b] We have to do better than think "the West is always right" and "No one else can be right, except the West says so".
BTW: This discussion is not about "who you and i, support", (it is not the typical Nigerian Politics where you are either APShit or PDPit or HellPee), it is about what we see or know or feel is happening over there.
The beauty of it all is that I don't need to prove anything. Just like you can't prove anything as regards what you ate saying. But like you said, this is the west against Russia. Trump won't tip the scale here. The scale has already tipped with Kamala not winning the election. He has no idea what he is doing. Don't forget Putin was a formal spy and head of FSB in Russia and also of the Stasi in east Germany. Trump on the other hand would be railroaded by Putin.
smallsmall: A Referendum, is a legitimate, UN-approved process to breakaway from one Country, and join another. All those former Ukrainian territories that are now with Russia, conducted a Referendum and voted massively 'YES', to join Russia. That is not the same thing as when Iraq annexed Kuwait, by use of military Force.
And come o think of it, did America not annex a large part of Mexico (Texas, New Mexico, etc) till today? And can we imagine a situation where say Canada or Cuba, is allowing Russia or China to stage Nuclear Weapons on their soil, all pointed to America, what do we think American President will do? Have we forgotten about what led to the Cuban Crisis, back then? Every "Super Power Country" will protect its "area of influence", for the sake of its National Security
No One has the right, to act against the WILL of the People, to belong to wherever they want. This is the problem "Biafra" is facing today... they want a Referendum to either Stay or Leave Nigeria but our Government i snot allowing such legitimate process, hence the War and things like UGM in the South East.
Crimea, Donbas and other Areas that voted in a Referendum to join Russia, are gone for good. Just imagine what they would suffer, if by some accident, they were forced back into Ukraine, judging by what they have been suffering in the hands of the Ukrainian Neo-Nazis, since 2014, who call them "Rats" that needs to be snuffed out!
But, let us just chillax and see what happens, between now, and end of March, 2025. Let us see how much difference, this "approval" will make to the war effort
The referendum that Russia oversaw, right and one that was plagued with arrest and imprisonment? Sorry but it was trustworthy enough for the west to consider an actual representation of what's on ground. That's why the west is not convinced that
timilehin007: no I think Trump will end the war mutually, Russia would likely hold on top the territories they seized
Watch and see Putin play Trump like a flute. Russia has no rights to territories/ lands gotten by invasion, this is not the 40s. If Putin is allowed to hold those lands nothing stops him from seeking to invade further in the future. That is how Hitler started the war. Trump has nothing to say on that topic though, I assure you. Putin would use him for toilet paper.
Gistmedia10: In a jaw-dropping scene of frustration, a man destroyed his high-end television after 58-year-old boxing legend Mike Tyson lost to 27-year-old YouTuber-turned-boxer Jake Paul. The highly anticipated fight, streamed live on Netflix and held at the AT&T Stadium in front of over 70,000 spectators, ended with Jake Paul securing a unanimous decision victory.
Despite entering the match as the betting favorite, Jake Paul’s win crushed the hopes of the man who had wagered millions on Tyson’s victory, aiming for a massive payout. Overwhelmed by the loss, the man vented his anger in a shocking manner: he was seen hauling a heavy object and smashing it into his television screen. He then yanked the screen off the wall and completely shattered it, leaving those watching the fight with him in stunned.
Many questioning why anyone would risk such a huge sum on a fight where the odds were stacked against the older Tyson. Meanwhile, Jake Paul’s fans celebrated his victory as yet another feather in his cap as he continues to make waves in the boxing world.
ehikwe22: Because they lost, they now approved it. Create more mess and see how Trump fixes it. If you also like, send expedited trillions to Ukraine Because Trump threatened to not send Ukraine anything. Whatever you send is running out fast
Main thing is that the most support reach there before that madman, Putin's minion gets to the while house and destroy Ukraine
mamagee3: [color=deeppink]Hello, a friend of mine that lives in Texas traveled to Abuja for her birthday with her husband and the couple hung out with a popular Nigerian billionaire businessman in an Abuja club . The billionaire followed friend and hubby on instagram during the hangout back (friend was already following billionaire already). After the hangout and they all went home, the billionaire unfollowed friend and hubby.
dboY1123: I have these two girls at hand, I have dated one before, so she's like an ex but we still chat often and even trying to come back again, though what led to the breakup wasn't anything serious, so we are cool. This girl is in her early 20s, not really ready for committed relationship or courtship as she's more concerned about her fashion career which is a good and valid point or reason. She's done with service recently and I think she's not ready to return home soon probably because she's more comfortable where she served..
I met the second girl in NYSC camp in 2022, she's mature, quiet, also a fashion designer and a Christian but we never had anything together like relationship, though we met again after camp, she lives 3 bykes away from my side.. She is ready for something serious, owns her own fashion shop and doing not bad for herself..
Although, I actually like the first girl cz she's pretty and smart. I am thinking of planning myself right now, they both believe in starting up with a guy and they both would add value but the second girl is ready, and also has something doing already while the first is yet to settle herself.
Please advice me, who do you think I should go for?
The unready one is a liability. The ready one makes your life easier. In this ages of high inflation best action is the one that makes most sense
flyinnizam: old biden should keep quiet. if Elon Musk was an illegal migrant, he won't be talking about illegal migrants all the time
Lol, he was an illegal worker not illegal immigrant. Please know the difference before you open your write rubbish. It's all documented so Biden ain't talking out of poin but facts. Difference between Dems and GOP.
kokoA: USA dey always come through for their citizens no matter what.
Actually Nigeria gained here. It is cheaper to release the bagga than run his medical costs here and feed him American food. He won't soak garri like the other detainees. Besides get the Americans to commit to some measures that would benefit the Nigerian government while showing magnanimity.
LocalFARMERS: I stay away from refined Sugar. I mostly use honey instead of Sugar. Recently I decided to use Date fruits as alternative to Sugar. Since Date fruit is a naturally sweet fruits. It's sweetness is extremely high and it has no negative effect on our health.
Ebonygeek: Jennifer carefully adjusted her scarf and stared at her reflection in the adult-sized mirror with a satisfied smile on her face. She looked breathtaking. All the guys in church would definitely notice her that Sunday.
She was wearing a sensual skin-tight hip-length red dress that accentuated her slim hourglass body. And her feet were clad in six-inch black stiletto heels. Around her slender brown neck was a silver choker necklace that one of her ex-boyfriends had given her on her 24th birthday the previous year.
She picked up her black clutch bag from her bedroom table, took one last look at the mirror, and left for service. As she made her way to the bus stop down her street, she had only one goal in mind: she needed to attract a rich nice man for marriage.
***
The female usher standing near the entrance of the church watched in dismay as the beautiful brown-skinned lady sashayed up the steps. From her elevated position, the usher could almost see the lady's underwear as she lifted her legs one at a time to climb the stairs.
The usher moved quickly and stood in front of Jennifer. “I'm sorry, but you can't go into the church dressed like that,” she said calmly, “you have to go home and change.”
Jennifer frowned immediately. “Excuse me?” she replied, scanning the usher from head to toe disdainfuly. The usher repeated the statement.
“What's wrong with what I'm wearing?” she challenged the woman. Not wanting to cause a scene, the usher attempted to take her hand to pull her to a corner, but Jennifer snatched her hand back and tried to enter the church.
Just then, one of the pastors walked up to them and asked what the problem was. He had noticed the lady's outfit too and wondered why satan had decided to send a temptress to the church that day.
Although some ladies usually dressed seductively to church, this woman was particularly daring. Her dress was very short. And it was so tight that he could see the outline of every curve on her body. There was no way they could let her match into the church looking like that. She would distract all the men and make it impossible for them to concentrate.
The female usher told him what was going on. “She's right,” the pastor said, “You can't come into the church like that. If you can't go home and change, you'll have to cover yourself with something or sit at the back where no one can see you.”
But that will ruin my plans, Jennifer thought.
“Why are you people acting like it's a sin or something to look beautiful?”
“It's not a sin to look beautiful my dear. It's a sin to engage in lasciviousness though,” said the man.
“What does that mean?” she asked.
“Galatians 5:19 says: Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness. Lasciviousness means lust. When a person lusts after someone or makes other people lust after them, they are sinning against God. Dressing, talking, walking or acting seductive is sinful in God’s eyes. The people who do so won't enter God's kingdom at the end of their lives,” the pastor explained slowly.
“Young lady, here's a piece of advice: you are beautiful. You don't need to be half-naked to show it. If you're dressed like that because you're trying to attract a spouse, you may end up attracting a wolf masquerading as a sheep. Godly men understand God's word and try to live by it. They would avoid you. Only those interested in your body would come. In addition, God would turn away His face from you, leaving your prayers unanswered.”
“Many people think of the church as a social gathering and completely disregard the spiritual aspect. The scriptures say in Matthew 18:20: For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them. God is here with us, young woman. He sees all and knows all. He hears all our thoughts and sees all our actions. Please don't make Him pour out His anger on you. Accept Jesus today, and I promise you, your life will become incredible. Everything you seek will come. Don't ignore this message please. God bless you.”
With that, the pastor walked away. Jennifer stood rooted to the floor. After hearing all that the man had said, she suddenly felt very uneasy. She no longer wanted to enter the church dressed the way she was.
“Do you have a wrapper I can cover myself with?” she asked the usher. “Wait here,” the lady replied and went to get Jennifer a covering. Jennifer took it and sat at the far back where some nursing mothers were seated.
As she listened to the pastor’s sermon about living an acceptable Godly life that honours and glorifies God, her heart broke. One particular verse kept echoing in her head.
Psalm 4:3 KJV But know that the Lord hath set apart him that is godly for himself: the Lord will hear when I call unto him.
Was that why she had never received answers to her prayers? Suddenly unable to control herself, she broke down in tears. She felt exhausted. Putting in lots of effort to get money, buying clothes, make up and accessories that accentuated her body, and making sure she looked breathtaking everyday was tiring. She spent a great deal of time doing it; time that could be better spent on more productive activities.
And now, here was a man talking about how pointless everything was. She was spending all her time being obsessed with her physical appearance and neglecting what comes after death. She didn't want to go to hell. With tears in her eyes, she bowed her head and begged God to forgive her for all the sins she had committed. She thanked Him for sending His son to die for her sins and asked Jesus to come into her heart. After praying, she suddenly felt lighter and calmer.
*** The female usher stood at a corner watching the brown-skinned lady and rejoicing in her heart that another soul had just been won. Praise God.
Rapmoney: Nigerian men compromise too much in relationship and marriage. A man who is educated and financially stable can marry an uneducated and financially handicapped girl but the reverse can never happen. Only in the dream or Nollywood movies can a financially stable and educated Nigerian lady marry a broke and uneducated man.
If Nigerian men follow the same pattern women employ in relationships, then many women will clock 45 in their parents' homes.
Ladies should have up to 500k in their bank accounts for a start before they dive into marriage. At least, such can serve as backup so that they don't depend on their partners for every little thing they want. And they should also be working or doing business. No man deserves a liability as a wife. If you don't have up to 500k and above, then go and work or start a trade and leave marriage alone. You are an adult and not a toddler that should be spoonfed.
Don't crucify me. It's my opinion.
You can imagine. Yet another Nigerian guy asked his intended to quit her high paying job cos of ring. Make Una dey continue. Exchange rate na around 1800 to dollars. God help us
advanceDNA: Well...Some pple theorized that.....Elizabeth would never have ruled England without this $imping move...
News flash...... Edward VIII never had children(maybe his fault or Wallis)......so the throne may have passed to his brother, George VI anyways, and would have somehow ended up with Queen Elizabeth II...
still ...the outcome could have been different if he ddnt make this simping move.
because I feel it was Wallis that couldn't have children as she never had any for her two previous husbands....if Edward had married someone's else, he would probably have kids which would have reigned and the throne may not have shifted to George the VI, or his progeny, Queen Elizabeth the II......
While You may see only the funny simping side of this story.....thats not all....see it from the angle that one stupid emotionally driven action could change a lot........one shouldn't always make emotional moves because that's what you want at the time.
Sometimes too much is at stake for you to have what you want... ...If King Edward VIII eventually had kids, the implication of this ridiculous and selfish move would have also relinquished the rights to his unborn kids to the throne along with his
Where is Nlfpmod seff??
That's history, something children these days call simping. It's sad that you didn't learn anything from school
0bjpmb: Onitsha is an industrial city but but it is cleaner and more developed than your dirty slum glorified village state capital. I understand that your governor and is trying but his best is not enough because your state capital is a slum and glorified village full of filth. We all want the best for Igboland but your state is dragging Igboland backwards. We want Igboland to develop
but ur brother-inlaw wife senior you for marriage in a village meeting or group her name comes first before you so she takes right befor you but all these no mater
This exact question popped up in my head a few days ago. don't know why but i just found myself thinking. What if someone marries a first son whose younger brother had already married, what will be the elder brothers wifes' position?
In igbo land, it's very key to know these things because whenever they want to hand over certain things to the wifes' to share or be in charge of, its the senior wife they give it to or put in charge. So, one really needs to know.
Hopefully, some elders will chime in a thing or two about this.
I answered that question. Please look at my answer
goodmorning40: I have seen where this type of issue created a big problem in the family There was an occasion cow was killed and meat shared, the packing of the meat was to be according to seniority, one of the wives made attempt to pack the other objected stressing she is the senior wife since her husband is older than the other wife husband, the other wife refused stressing that she was married first came into the family first so therefore she is senior
Na so kasala burstoo
Please let's not misunderstand issues here. I mean most Igbos know there are unwritten rules to be respected here. As regards the issue you mentioned about sharing meat after killing a cow. Most Igbos know that if it has to be done by family setting, this means that since the head of the house is the man then things like sharing meat for family, the eldest son takes precedence. This means that the wives would take based on the positions of their husbands in the family. I am the last boy in my family so in this case my wife takes last.
If it then happens that the wives are given something to share. For example there was a time my mom was crowned Ezinne and there were so much bails of clothes given to her as gifts that she couldn't wear all. She gave most of them to her daughter's in-laws. In this case they can share by seniority of age or seniority they were married into the family.
Usually in igboland they share by seniority of marriage. In this case our second brother's wife was entitled to take first, the one marrying out eldest brother wanted to make issues and she was put in her place by the rest of the women. She made issues and got her husband involved, they both had to be educated very harshly. Till the first daughter (the one married before her) who was married to our second brother opted to allow her take before her to stop the embarrassment.
0bjpmb: Onitsha is one of the best places to live in Nigeria and Igboland in particular. Onitsha is cleaner than your slum glorified village state capital
Bro, we all know how dirty Onitsha is. Sooudo is trying to make changes to that but am not sure how much he has achieved so far. I mean, if people point out the truth to you, why insult them and call their father lands slum. We Igbos should be careful, nwanne! I mean regardless of how dirty Onitsha can be, it's igboland and am proud to be Igbo.
Romance › Re: Are There Still Responsible Men? by drnoel: 1:37pm On Nov 23, 2024
rubbing what? Is she a genie to make wishes? 
