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That's the goal.

Sopies:
Lol.....e no fit, me na team virgin

I like the pix you took on the sand wearing White. Your wife is beautiful tho.

lol reminds me of my niece.

Sirlancelot:
I won't bother you guys much. I married my woman last year June during the lockdown. Things were rosy for us as a young couple till we brought in a girl of 15 years from my wife's family to stay with us in order to help my wife with house chores and other things during the time she is heavily pregnant.

Mind you, from day one I have been dating my wife, this girl has been on my neck, telling me how she will come stay with me in Lagos if I get married to her sister. That would be my greatest undoing as I grudgingly obliged after many persuasion from her Mother as well. After my marriage, she came over to Lagos to join us.

Now, she is very useless to me. She will go to school from 7am to 5pm. After coming back from school, she will take another excuse to go for evening church and come back by 8pm. No help in doing house chores. COOKING, she no sabi.. My turn off about her now is that she can eat for Africa. The little provision I manage stock at home don't go anywhere now.

The last straw that break the camel back is that she always steals my babies food, like milk, biscuits etc.

My wife is in dicey situation because she once lived with the girl's mother for like 15 years back then, and such can't just pursue her away like plague.

Right now I am fighting the urge and anger to mess her up. I have advised her on numerous occasions but it seems she can not learn easily except with hard handling. Everything bad about human traits, she has it; Lies, false swearing and the likes.

Mature minded people in the house, if you are in my shoes, what would you do?

idk your future wife might also be like this. While you're paying her bride price, someone is fvcking and shitting in her mouth for free.

Sopies:
Most of the guys are good looking and well to do, someone that can buy a girl a phone of 70k+ and pay her fees is definitely not broke. They even have cars which is almost a guaranty to bed girl easily in naija.....why dem come dey do like this naa

Don't feel bad for them. It's not your fault they turned out that way. I've experienced this thing a lot. Sometimes I just look at the girl and in my mind I say, what's so special about this girl that this men are degrading themselves for?

Sopies:
One of my ex gf turned FWB just visited me for the weekend, and from my observation I could only marvel at the level of simping from guys out there. This is a girl I quietly broke up with when I observed that she's this kind of girl that likes keeping guys around for monetary gains without really being sexually involved with them, she leads them on under the guise of being in a relationship with them promising them sex when she's ready. Of course the sex never comes till the scales falls off the magas eyes.

I just kept her for knacks and other financial perks since mumu guys is always loading her with money. She stumbled on my real gf one day in my house which led to a bitter breakup between us. Some months later we reconciled but based on FWB levels.

Now to the real gist, this girl is dating about four guys, the one she came to my house from his place already paid her school fees and other expenses. She even came with 15k that the guy gave her which we of course squandered together. The painful part was when she was on call with the guy, oga was sounding so clingy and needy, asking the girl to promise him that he won't share her with someone else. Person wey dey stroke my preek in readiness for another round of sex.

The guy brought up the issue of sex starvation and the babe immediately used reverse psychology on him by feigning anger and accusing him of being after her body. Oga started begging.....chain. This is an average looking girl with just small small curves here and there.

The next one called and it was still the same story, that one is based in Lagos and had sent her tp to visit him but she kept spending the money with excuses, Oga sent 22k in my presence for another tp with a promise of giving her 150k for business if she comes. Babe change am for am o, that if her coming is a prerequisite for the 150k that oga should keep his money. Oga started begging that she should give him time to gather the money.....Smh.....of course he hasn't even seen color of tight.

Another one called in the middle of a romance and the phone would occasionally fall of her hand while she's moaning, oga was on the line shouting hello.....hello....baby are you okay??....what are you doing....hello pls talk naa.....what's that sound..... Babe go pick up tell am say she dey experience mensuration cramp hence the sound......chai

I can go on and on, I've advised her to quit that lifestyle cos she might meet a guy that she won't scam and get away with it but she said she's doing nothing wrong.

Who do men this thing abeg I'm just so unhappy what my fellow guys are going through. One of them maga even has my number, I don't even know how he got it , each time dey have issue he would call me and I would tell him how to handle the girl so she will be loyal, the ode go carry every thing go tell the girl.

She's laying on my bed naked while one guy has been calling for like forever, she would pick the call and be rubbing the mouth piece on her hair, oga go dey shout hello hello. When she manage talk na tear she tear for the guy cut call, oga just dey drop text like rainfall, calling himself all kinds of derogatory name like idiot, foolish etc.

Honestly I'm sad, she's been touching me but I'm not just feeling her again.

lol, this is a spin off from that other good Samaritan.

dollynnn:
Hmm

You have something in your mind, say it.

What do you think about this? With the era we live in, is it Christian-like to judge a person by their past? I mean, sure it might save you from STDs and baggages, but is it right?

BABYharder:
How can one close his mouth when sexting? It's psychologically not possible.
Op you no get p

You don't understand. This teeth has to be closed when not speaking. Also, my jobs requires me to type for hours, sometimes 6 hours a day.

Why can't I type with my mouth closed? I've tried everything in my power. Once I start typing, my mouth begins to open gradually. It can only stay closed if I put in conscious effort for it to remain closed. When I say my mouth opens, I mean my upper tooth are not touching the lower tooth but my lips remains closed. I was a mouth breather for twenty years because my noses were blocked so I could only breath through my mouth. But now that has been fixed, I find it hard to shut my mouth (teeth)

Why can't I type with my mouth closed? I've tried everything in my power. Once I start typing, my mouth begins to open gradually. It can only stay closed if I put in conscious effort for it to remain closed. When I say my mouth opens, I mean my upper tooth are not touching the lower tooth but my lips remains closed. I was a mouth breather for twenty years because my noses were blocked so I could only breath through my mouth. But now that has been fixed, I find it hard to shut my mouth (teeth)

Misyarn:
E go too enter ..
Space go still plenty seff

You're saying it can enter the hole in a tissue paper? Damn, that's rough.

And who can call you for one million? I'm guessing nobody.

Ifesinachi22:
Davido just proved that, if 3 phone calls can't solve money problems for you, you need to change your friends.

360clips:
These useless, mannerless, spoilt Bratz who think they can do whatever they want in life because of that smelly thing in between their thighs! How can a pot bellied, stretch marks infected bitch think she can charge a guy 100k to have sex with her! What kind of madness is that?! Is she not mad?! And most of these Runz girls are from wretched homes that have never seen this money they're demanding from Mumu guys. Some are even from good homes. It gets me angry that these foolish guys patronize these spoilt stupid girls. Please guys stop giving these useless girls such large amounts of money to have sex! Just go to 2k brothel or just masturbate!

Post pixs lets see if she's worth the price.

God will punish the people that released this COVID virus. I know it's not natural. This thing crippled the world's economy, it's crazy. Can you imagine that not even up to a year after minumum wage was increased to thirty k now price of things have made that useless too. I just don't have words to describe the level of suffering in this world today. I'm even more shocked that people are not revolting at the price of commodities.

misterme:
And I am very very angry. Gas I used to buy 2800, then 3k, 4k, and 5k. Suddenly it jumped to 7500 and now (today) 9250 in Port Harcourt. I am very very angry. Let no one here disturb me with nonsense news about Buhari and his nonsense South Africa Trade fair and nonsense. No cross me today o. I fit beat person

The gas finished yesterday. I told my wife that yesterday that I will buy the gas today because I needed to get to work and somehow raise money to augment what I have to be able to buy the gas. I told her to use the kerosene stove that yesterday and this morning. Guess her reply? She said she can't use kerosene even for a day. That even her Mum in the village does not use kerosene stove. She said a few other unprintable things.
For the sake of my 3 children I still had to buy the gas today.

I had not eaten in my house for a month now. The reason is that she said that they money I gave her for upkeep in October was not enough (I give her 62.5% of my monthly salary every month for our home upkeep). As a result she refused to give me food from around the middle of the month when she said the money had finished. She cooked for herself and the children (possibly from her own salary). When I gave her upkeep money for this month I told her not bother keeping food for me so that the money will go far enough. That's where we are till now. I have no intention of ever eating her food until she acknowledges that she was wrong and apologizes.

Now I know this WON'T happen. She will rather die than admit she's wrong or apologize. This is why I know that the mistake of a marriage is heading for the rocks and I am ready for it. Nonsense and ingredients. I have endured this nonsense for 15 years. I am done. Anything whe won happen tomorrow, make e happen today.