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SMH

Even if the dog was worth 10millionnaira is that enough to beat a pregnant woman to the point of bleeding.

What you are implying now is that if a wife takes a wrong business decision and it costs her husband millions of naira he is justified to beat her which is bad enough not to talk of being pregnant.

What happened to reprimanding her calmly, Like you said something is really wrong with that family. Even If it was his child that was beaten he shouldn't react that way.

Please don't even try to give reasons why he did what he did.

The man has issues, serious one at that and YES he was wrong.

@ mostyg nairaland property section would help there should be architects there that would help you design what you want so that there would be very little friction between the wives.


I really don't understand why people are questioning why he wants to marry a 2nd wife. He asked for architectural advice I believe that's the scope any advice should cover, its not as if he's asking for financial assistance to marry/build the house from anyone. The fact that I am not/cant be a polygamist doesn't mean I should judge others who see it as okay.

OP please you don't owe anybody an explanation.

I got an invite, attended this event and honestly I was wowed, The staff were very friendly and professional.
I learnt so much from the professionals that came to talk to us, I had fun and also made new friends. The lunch was superb . Thank you for hosting us BI solutions I had a really pleasant day.

".....doling out money as if it was going out of fashion"

prissyluv:
Thanks for taking out time to answer me dear.
I dont really know which one is which.lol A friend suggested 'net' material. Besides the bride is paying for the material.

You are welcome
There are so many different types of material that are nice. Just find the one that suits your taste though I feel a lot of people use chiffon nowadays.

The pix attached is chiffon (lower part of dress) and another material (I think its a type of lace) And its affordable. Someone did something like this recently and everything cost around 4k materials and sewing. I think the materials itself cost around 2k-2,300.

prissyluv:
Brides to be pls help me out here. A friend said satin is now outdated for bridesmaids. How true is this?
Last wedding I attended was satin they used ooo

cc chiefwedslolo,classicqueen and others

I also feel its outdated and the reason some people do not like using satin is because they feel after the event they may not be able to wear it for other occasions since it will be obvious its a bridesmaid dress hence people go for other materials like chiffon etc.

Personally I do not like satin even when it was in vogue but I think I even saw a bride wearing satin recently it depends on what you want but you should also ask your bridesmaid's opinion since they will be wearing and paying for the dress.

Hmm our rice seller also complained of the same but this was at Iyana-era garage rice stores just before Fed govt college Ijanikin.

They(soldiers and custom officials) came in the mid night broke the stores open, collected the phones of the vigilante and the boys that sleep in the garage and loooted massively. She said she lost about 1million naira worth of rice and vegetable oil. The poor woman was very sad while narrating the story. She said its contribution money.

After the first raid they(the sellers) now decided to hide at one of the shops at the other side of the express(where tippers park) around past 12am they came again she said they came with big guns and a truck and they were using a big plier like object to break into the shops(which are mostly all those fabricated containers) she said they couldn't even come out to challenge them because they were scared being hurt by them but she confirmed that they were customs and soldiers and there was no one to report to.

But why come in the midnight?
Is it not the customs officials that allow the rice cross the border in the first place

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Ournaija, what was your decision ?

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OP I guess your fiancee is Yoruba.

I suppose you should consult with your wife on the type of clothes she wants. It might even be better if your wife chooses her self since she will be the one to wear them.

Some husband families can give the wife the money to choose get them herself.

Some families decide to buy the clothes themselves without input of the wife.

You can also go with a wife of a friend to get the clothes.

But since you are spending your money consult with your wife and you guys may go together,she chooses what she wants,you pay and then you take them home and place in the box. This is just to ensure the clothes is her choice.

Honestly it all depends on you and how you and your folks want to go about it.

About quality of materials, depends on your pocket ooo. Just make sure theres at least 3 high quality materials and then you can supplement with other ones. But if you have got lots to spare you can spend a lot.

About the yams errm shivel looking yams is not too okay at all. Heed to the advice of the poster that suggested you buy about 15 big sized yams. The 15 will be part of the ones on the top, and the others are added as adjustment.

Well about inspection of box,its indirectly inspected by how heavy it is loool,
Just do what you can afford, dnt try to over impress ooo.

Just curious where are you from @ heavyg

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Miniflats still available

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Two decent miniflats

ebankole:
For testifying to the goodness,glory of God over your life and family, I pray that testimonies shall never depart from your life and your testimony shall be sealed.

Amen
God bless you sir.

I want to thank God for what he has done for me so far. After narrating my dreams here followed by prayers God has restored my glory. My dreams have improved no more scary/evil dreams instead its now revelations I have. The heaviness i used experience has gone.

I also want to thank God for defeating the strong woman that has been tormenting my destiny. I thank him for what he has done what he is doing and what he would still do. I give all the glory to God and thank him.
I also want to thank God for the life of Pst ebankole for allowing himself to be used by God, God bless and enrich him.
I also should have given this testimony some weeks back I m sorry Lord about that. I give all glory to him.
Thank God for leading me to this thread.

By Gods grace I am coming back to share more testimony. Amen.

sorry for the triple post

God is here. I personally did not come to this thread by my own volition. its Gods grace that made me post on this thread. I had seen this thread before i just didt see any reason to post my personal dream here though i dream almost every other day.

so that very first dream i posted on NL immediately I woke up from the dream i was scared sha like what kind of wahala is this again. i was still wondering how i will pray about the dream. my mind just went straight to the dream interpretation thread. i was surprised because i dream almost every other day and i have never felt the need or urge to do something like that.

: so i yielded to the promptings. i just went to the thread i was wondering why my i had promptings to check the thread so i read a few pages and i posted my dream quoting sir ebankole.

I thank God i did yield to the spirit prompting to check that thread that early morning. God has done mighty things in my life in less than a week.

Thank you Jesus for what you have done what you will still do.

I m sorry for the long post i just felt i shd say that testimony because i know its God that directed me to this thread. God is here. I personally did not come to this thread by my own volition. its Gods grace that made me post on this thread. I had seen this thread before i just didt see any reason to post my personal dream here though i dream almost every other day.

so that very first dream i posted on NL immediately I woke up from the dream i was scared sha like what kind of wahala is this again. i was still wondering how i will pray about the dream. my mind just went straight to the dream interpretation thread. i was surprised because i dream almost every other day and i have never felt the need or urge to do something like that.

: so i yielded to the promptings. i just went to the thread i was wondering why my i had promptings to check the thread so i read a few pages and i posted my dream quoting sir ebankole.

I thank God i did yield to the spirit prompting to check that thread that early morning. God has done mighty things in my life in less than a week.

Thank you Jesus for what you have done what you will still do.

Good day sir ebankole


I had a dream where i was in my mums sisters house, it was like there was a family gathering and everywhere was busy. it seems its only the children that were around i.e all of us cousins. so i really cant remember what i did to my cousin the daughter of that particular mums sister that we were in the house(there were other cousins there frm my mums other siblings) she just started beefing me unnecesarily and bad mouthing me.

At first feeling bad and trying to talk and make ammends but then she started reporting my matter to family members which suddenly were around I told one that asked me that i dint do anything to her i dont know why shes vexing thats when i was angry within me and thinking that what kind of rubbish is this and in my mind i was like she is far far older than me ( about 18 years) is she my mate that she is supposed to be keeping malice with and doing competition. she was just trying to compete with me unncesarily so i started giving her this I do not send you look.

i just kept my cool wondering 'whats her problem'. An elder finished tea and i was passing there so i tried to take the dirty dishes and here she comes again to compete with dirty cup. I just dropped for her and said sebi she wants to compete she can have it. I just kept wondering why she seemed to want to compete with me I saw her as an 'agbaya'. And then the scene changed.



I had a particular hair on which i made not long ago so i just saw d lady thats helps make my hair @ home in real life and then she loosed the one on me (location of this incident was the same house above).

i felt relief when it was loosed. i now said we should make another one so we were contemplating the type to do and she was asking if i will use wool for the hair. so i tink she was plaiting one all of a sudden the scene changed and we were somewhere else with people that look like fellowship people like 3 of them they were nice and looking calm and well dressed. one of the lady threaded her hair with rubber, so the lady that makes my hair continued with it there as both of us were the only ones that appeared on that scene from the my aunty house and I woke up.

after waking up i could feel the after effects of plaiting on that same side of my head.

in real life: i ve been thinking or having an urge to loose the hair i have on its like threaded wool. i m suppose to carry it longer than now ita still relatively new. dont know if this has anyting to do with the dream

this thread should be moved to family section.

OP please do not tell your.sister for now...

Good morning sir ebankole

I saw my self in a car with my mum,her elder sis, a cousin of mine and i guess one other person. seems we were going for a family event. so after small distance. some one said we should go straight to reception so we can get space i think and my self my mum and my cousin came down from the car, it seems my mum elder sister was not happy with us coming down. so from the car she now spoke to my mum. i didnt hear wat she said but my mum gave her this look of i dnt care what you say.

So my mun now said thats where we are going there and that if we just need to pass a short road and we cld see the place was just ahead if we pass the short road so the 3 of us moved towards the place and it faded.



2nd dream

It was like there was a large gathering so we were much. i saw people i knew fron university and people i know currently. it seemed we brought brt buses to the place. somethings happened and people were outside the bus. i eneterd the bus and there were few people also in it. The driver just started speeding, everybody was wondering why he left the others because their luggage wad there. he sped and sped then we were able to tell him about the others and he was like why didnt we say that since, anyway we passed some places and got to where we would drop.

Then the scene changed. it seemed 3of us were in a sort of competition with other groups to do a transaction. it looked like it was suppose to be a market but it doesnt look like a real market. so we went saw a chinese guy and a cheque was given to us. the chinese guy gave us a horse a baby horse wr were comint down from his office and the dream faded.

Alaba international hmmm

The way some of those guys spend money you will wonder if they worked for it.

Things are not always the way they seem to appear for those people. You see them flaunting money you become envious not knowing the source of their wealth.

There are honest ones though but you hardly see them flaunting cash unnecesarily.

There are so many hidden things some of those guys do

Money is truly the root of all evil

Good morning sir e bankole
I dreamt that me my mum and another person were going on a journey. it seemed we had passed where we were supposed to go

we now saw some women farming and we asked them for direction. it seemed there were two places by that name but the pronunciation is different one was still far away but we had passed the other. so we told them the one we were going so they pointed the place to us. it was the one we passed, wr could see it from where we were so we turned and walked towards the place and the dream faded off.

Good morning sir e bankole

I had a dream this morning. i was walking somewhere and i saw this guy that we went to school together. He was actually a friend to my ex. I tried saying hi to him since its been a while we have seen but he ignored me totaly then he entered a house i was surprised at his attitude and i felt bad and was wondering what happened that he behaved like that and i continued my journey.

Then he came out ran up to me and apologised for behaviour so we were walking together going to different places laughing and the dream faded off.

ebankole:
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You are about( or already) experience delay in all that you do or lay your hands on.
Everything will remain standstill and stalled.


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I can see you are trying(praying) but this isn't enough, as you are steal vulnerable.
Being offered food and the person sitting (at the same time) next to you means; an enemies that's very close to you ,knows you,communicate with you, infact such that close to you physically but not known to you as an enemy. It's called domestic/within enemy.



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It's called manipulated glory or powers working against you glory.
You clothes are your garment or a form of shield to cover ones shame(unclothedness),to protect ones body from been expose,to beautiful one and bring about the best of us physically and when that get wet what happened..? It's means,powers of shame,disappointment,poverty or lack of progress on you life.
Obviously, I can see you are praying and trying hence a bit spiritually conscious else? Your case would been worst then it is right now. This battle isn't won yet, rebuking and rejecting attack is not the say as having victory over your attacks/attackers.

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Taking pictures in the spirit realms (while at a wedding or during your wedding spiritually)means:
Manipulation on your marital life/potential.

Thee lord said your marital potential has been hijacked,manipulated and twisted by the enemies as the reflection of your marital potentials has been decided and tampered with.
The lord said the glory of your marital potential has been exchanged,manipulated,chain.
Now, picture and or mirror Is our reflection and or another copy of us,while decided, taking into a camera or on paper is means it's been tampered with, men might never come approaching and even if they do..?they will never take you serious or see u as a potential wife. Being hated physically and at the same time spiritual by your aunty/your people goes to show that indeed you are dealing with domestic enemies or manipulated glory hence while u are hated(its not ordinary)

Lastly
That house or your aunty place has lot to do with where these whole attacks emanated from from as the lord said the moment you left that place your tool of success or journey's been exchanged for a rag one.
Mind you the moment you left God grace came upon you to see better and seek solution to your problems but not while you were there.
The lord said it's time to take back your shoe(glory) from that place u used to live as your tool to smooth path/journey has been exchanged and to be honest..? It's all started from that aunt of yours place..:mmm
What a wicked world!!

Bless u

Sir please what can I do. I have prayed and prayed I guess I have not been praying the right prayer during personal prayer or deliverance services, and i have even avoided going to that place for about 2 years now. What can I do please.

Also this morning I went to visit my mum and she said she had a dream where she was looking for a key she said she couldnt find it. then another time she slept and was looking for the key again and this time her mum ( whos dead ) came to join her to look for the key and it faded.

Good morning sir e-bankoke.

let me say the recent dreams.

1. some days back i saw myself driving a car. it was on speed but as it was going. i realized that it was on reverse not moving forward as i thought then it faded.

2. some days back too i dreamt that i was with sumbody a man sitting down and he was trying to offer me food to eat but somehow instead of eating i was pouring each food away i dont know if i did this intentionally or by mistake.

3. i also dreamt of rain falling. i spread clothes outside the verandah and quickly went to pack the clothes but some were drenched with the rain and the rain became quite heavy.

4. this morning i dreamt that i was wearing a white wedding gown, i didnt see the wedding hold oo but we were snapping pictures, i wore white with some one i suppose should be the chiefbridesmaid. There was a.groom, it was as if there was suppose to be another event. i was snapping pictures alone then i removed the gown folded it kept it inside a carton by the entrance. i now called someone to escort me to the house he was delaying so i now called the supposed husband and the scene cleared off.
The next scene was inside my mums elder sister house i grew up till agr 10. in one of the rooms i saw my cousins and the man that was supposed to be my husby. they were telling the guy bad things about me that i m lazy etc. i felt bad but didnt say anything even in real life thats how they do. The guy now said i should feel free i was trying to run around to do somethings. then i noticed some gifts close to where the guy sat. I saw fine shoe (cant really recollect if its more than one). i was looking at it then i woke and seriosly i am bothered because i have finding it a bit difficult to get suitors.


I have had dreams about that house a lot and i had to avoid going there in real life have also had shoe related matters in that house though the dream is a long time now. i saw then that i was leaving the house the shoe i was wearing was not good so i ran down from the car and went to pick a new set of shoe that looks like one i just bought at that time.

A lab result says blood group Bplus and genotype AB. It sounded strange when I heared it so I googled it out. I saw there is actually an AB genotype just like others i ve not heared of before like BB,OO etc but it seems it common to the whites and the person in question is a full Nigerian. Test was carried out at a military hospital here in Nigeria.

I wanted to know if the genotype is a sickle carrier as we have some other uncommon carriers like AD,AE or a carrier of thallesemia it seems not so from my research online.


Anybody seen anyone of african descent with this sort of Lab result. Health professionals kindly help.

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