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SonOfZeus:
My own case is real.

Met this girl, shes okay and all, about 32 years old.

I’m the type of man that tells you exactly how it is without mincing words cause I no wan hear things like “you’re a pretender etc”

We dated for two months and when I said I wanted to taste her cookies, she told me till after marriage lol

This is someone that must have given it for free in her early and ripe year but e reach my turn she dey talk till after marriage lol.

Told her plain, I don’t do like that, I must taste what I want to live with for the rest of my life, that’s how I dropped her like a bad habit, till today she isn’t yet married, always posting Bible verse on her WhatsApp status.

Who will marry you will marry you even after tasting your cookie, but telling me after marriage while you’re at 32 is laughable, what if that place don condemn? Make I con spend my hard earned money only to find out after I have said “I do?”

Never!!!

There’s on I’m seeing now, shes telling me she saving her sef for the right one but Everytime you’re always billing me… women always think they are smart but studies have shown that most of them just have fish brains, anyways I’ll be telling her that we aren’t gonna work again cause you can’t be saving yourself for the right man and trying to debit me wey in your mind be the wrong man.

If a woman can make demand, have standards on who they want to date why can’t we?

Like I said before…. Fish brains!

When next she ask you for money .. tell her you saving it for the right woman or future wife.

Haydens:
Take your life very seriously.

Quit junk food, that's the beginning of good and healthy Living. Any food that is processed is bad for the health and when you start eating it, that is the beginning of your problem health-wise.

Take fasting and workout seriously, those two are non-negotiable when it comes to your health.

So do all these and you become immortal or never fall ill abi ??

[quote author=Richtaiwo post=138791296]So, because judges are provided with official residences befitting their status, they should stop being judges?

Does Sowore understand that the judiciary is a coequal arm of government? While the heads of the executive and legislature live in official mansions, head of the judiciary should live in 1 room apartments?

Even if previous administrations neglected the welfare of the judiciary, the current administration appears to be addressing it. Criticism should be guided by reason, not a show of madness.

If there is anyone mad here its you. Where does this happen. You sound as if yiu dont know what you doing. Judges collecting gifts, mansions from a ruling party and you dont know the implications.. There is nothing constitutional about buy house for judges who are also public servants.. Wike and tinubu are only buying the judiciary simple

FreeStuffsNG:
Nigeria will be useless to you even when armed robbers attack you, when you urgently need medical emergency and when you need benefits citizens are entitled to.

When you sow in the land Nigeria, it shall not grow too.

You curse Nigeria, Nigeria curses you back.

If you think the country isnt cursed then i am sorry for you..

FreeStuffsNG:
Previously, Italians who moved abroad could pass citizenship to their children as long as they didn’t renounce or lose it, often by acquiring another nationality. What many now see as the country of the “dolce vita” was once an impoverished nation that, between 1861 and 1918, saw 16 million citizens emigrate for a better life.
Japa syndrome that has now cost their descendants to lose Italian citizenship.

Same thing SA is planning to do to the white South Africans that heeded Trump's call to relocate to US and exchange their citizenship for American citizenship.

Our National Assembly must look into these developments and introduce barriers against unpatriotic elements in diaspora.

Your citizenship is an obligation of responsibility and not your right.

Italy and South Africa have made a bold statement. Nigeria should look into reviewing citizenship obligations. Enough of being irresponsible from generation to generations and then come to claim citizenship. That violates the principle of social contract between the state and citizens.

What does bee ln a nigeria gain you Useless country , with some cocobut head citizens..

The idiot is confused..

So what about all the peoplr you killed from stealing the money meant for building roads, hospitals,etc

callmetade:
I will say it one more time ,.. Liverpool was a one time fluke last season,.. ask Trent A Arnold... They obviously lack the credentials but yet, whatever happened, I wan see their moral now and too I want to see arne slots credentials too

Do you know the meaning of one time fluke....

A team that has won the league 20times. Abi you are learning english..

Doyou2019:
Brother, na so una talk at half-time against Spurs when Citeh led by 2goals.

This City side no special at all. They are an overrated bunch.

But Arsenal isnt special too... they also draw wolves after leading by 2 goals. Wolves is a worse team

Makinaki:
Your own mumu na follow come. How dem marital status and baby take concern Police?

U dey mind them.. thats why these police bulky them even in their own country.. No police abroad will make those silly statements... telling you to impregnate a woman..nonsense

AfonjaPriest:
Just as we have uneducated illiterates in police uniforms, we have suffersticated illiterates in agbada, ruining the government.

Ans worse illiterates as citizens who see nothing wrong with the policemans conduct.

FriendsAndFans:
All looks like a friendly conversation to me and no harm intended

Thats not a friendly conversation... thats personal and sexual and display of gross unprofessionalism

Thundafireseun:
What is the purpose of preaching in that area ??

It’s just for trouble

Shut up.. you think every where is like you useless country where some persons dont have freedom of speech or movement in some part of the country due to religion

ponlear:
Omo, people really have time on this internet! One minute they’re digging up old J. Cole fan tweets, the next they’re "finding" posts that look like sexualizing kids. Why nowwww?

​This is exactly why I always say: cruise or no cruise, be careful what you post online. Your "edgy" joke from 2014 can easily become your downfall in 2026.

​On this Simi matter, let’s be real—some of those tweets are actually insensitive and they look bad. But honestly? I don't think she meant it the way it's being painted now. Babies are naturally cute and everyone adores them, but the internet doesn't care about your "intent" once they start dragging you plus there was no such thing as social media etiquette back in 2014 all of us posted anything and everything, go check your tweets and Facebook post back then and I bet you will be embarrassed.

​In all and my bottom line: Watch your digital footprint before "cruise" turns into a court case later on.

When you sexualise a 4 yr old child by thinking of locking your lips with his.. its paedophilic.. intent or not .. Locking lips and 4 yrs shouldmt not be in the same sentence.

These things begins as thought. Then gbam.. the action.
How can you be thinking of kissing kids who are suppose to be under your care. In sane countries... she will be investigated and cant work again with kids.

dominique:
If man cheaty wins this league, it was PGMOL that won it for them. That 2nd Newcastle goal of was a clean goal. Upon say Dan Burn was fouled and pushed over by Rubin Diaz, the weray linesman still raised the offside flag and cancelled the goal. I blame Newcastle players for not protesting that offside call.

No team has been as unfairly favoured as this cheaty yet that salty hyporcite Rodri came out after spurs match to accuse referees of favouring some teams and not wanting them to win the league. This was in an interview following a match where he should have collected a 2nd yellow and sent off. PGMOL pretended to take odfense but watch how they'll sweep everything under the carpet same way the FA will sweep the 115 charges under the carpet.

We all saw how Man Utd crumbled after SAF left and they stopped getting unfairly favoured. Man Cheaty's fall will be far worse insha Allah!

Its really painful been an arsenal fan... you end doing referee for all your rivals..lol. take heart.

callmetade:
normal normal slot no good, he should go back to that yeye highschool league he came from

Club wey dey win trophy na im dey win trophy... dont be surprise slot go first arsenal win trophy again this season

Doyou2019:
You wan win league next season with Slot and Slot's players?
You guys funny o

Liverpool will win a trophy again before arsenal .. if care isnt taken they will win another prem before arsenal even from today.

If this same person has brought an envelope of dollars , pastor would have collected it and wont ask him to give it to the needy or lagos state govt bursary.. lol

ukaface:
Y’all dragging her are dunce o

What’s the dragging for exactly?

She obviously was angry about rape and she wrote about it. So why calling her names?

Should rapists be applauded and appreciated.
Whether the Matabele girl lied or not is rape not happening?
Is there no ochanya case?
Ain’t men raping minors?
At UCH I witnessed a baby less than 2 years rushed to the hospital due to sexual abuse by her father. Are these things new?

So what exactly did she say wrong to warrant this nonsense backlash like as if she has said the worst thing ever to be heard on earth .


Rapists exists, and to hell with them


Any small disapproval to how women are treated Una men go term am feminism. wtf!
Should women not fight for themselves and speak up?
Y’all are sick.

Have you heard of emotional intelligency. And learning to read the room.
At a time like this when false rape accusations is trending.. it shouldnt be a time to be shouting stop raping women.. obviously she is reacting to the situation at hand but her reactions are baseless, lacks intelligence and empathy. Because no one was raped , instead someone or some persons would have been victims of false accusations..

For you , its important you also know men and young boys also get raped . Its not just a girl thing. So reactions should be balanced .. all men are not rapist except you think you dad and brothers are.

Naya261:
I am married with Children, my wife is a registered nurse with about 8yrs working experience.

Please which one would you strongly advice Between Sponsoring my wife's Nursing career to the UK or Enroll for Msc in Construction Project Management in the UK?

My aim for the Msc is as a means to jakpa and reside in the UK to continue working not that I really needed the Msc.

Please i need your candid advice. Thanks.

I live in the Uk... if you sponsor your wife ..YOU WILL SURELY REGRET IT.. BUT I CANT TELL THE LEVEL OF REGRET.

Nnamdipapa:
There are other bills, mortgage $2800/month, heating and electricity, about 500$ per month. I was relatively healthy and had no need for the hospital. In Canada or western countries, you get the money and they all go out as bills plus you have to live a super boring life. I would prefer the bad roads and occasional power interruptions to a super boring life where you only exist to pay bills.

Did canada kidnapp you. Go back to your bad road, epileptic power, poor healthcare and banditry. No one is stoping you

Nnamdipapa:
Here is a bunch of banana I bought for N500, this would go for nothing less than $4 in Canada, please note these are organic bananas we are talking about not the extra-sweet, GMO tampered bananas in the west and I got this in Lagos meaning folks living in the suburbs might even be buying cheaper.

I also buy I big avocado for N400, do the maths and convert to $. When next you complain about Nigeria, remember we have cheap and easily accessible fruits and vegetables.

OGA .. CHECK HOW MANY OF THOSE BANANAS YOUR MINIMUM WAGE CAN BUY THERE IN NIGERIA AND COMPARE WITH HOW MANY BANANAS MINIMUM WAGE CAN BUY IN CANADA.. THEN YOU WILL KNOW WHERE THINGS ARE ACTUALLY CHEAPER..

NIAJA.. 80000 ÷ 500 = 160 BANANAS
CANADA... 2500 ÷ 4= 750 BANANAS..

I RATHER EARN MINIMUM WAGE IN CANADA THAN EARN MINIMUM WAGE IN NIGERIA.

Nijaforward:
This is not a bad result for Arsenal as some may think…a win for Arsenal against Wolverhampton which is almost certain will take them to 7 points above Man City who will though have a game in hand against Newcastle…it’s certain Arsenal will win the league but some fools will just keep wishing them not to till their blood pressure sent them to the hospital…Arsenal is still leading with 4 points and getting a draw against Brentford to a snensible football analyst this season even with the injury is not a bad results sensibly

Which injury again... arsenal has the best and most healthy squad in the league. There is always excuse when you loose...

Kobojunkie:
1. You have one life to live, and have been living it in the worst way possible for your mental health and that of your children. What do you think you will regret about this if you decide to choose better for yourself from now on? 🥱🥱

2. You already know that you are literally harming your children and their future by continuing to remain with them in the current state. Children learn from the example shown to them by their parents. And right now, you are showing them that holding on to a miserable life is what marriage means. Is this really what you want for them? 🥱🥱

3. Why ask this question as if remaining in your state, as you described, can ever be considered a better choice?🥱🥱

The jezebels have arrived...

Putindbutt:
This one is a learner, Lol. This is what you get when you make a serial election loser and an incompetent clown your party's spokesman. Who's going to take the party serious?

The other day when they lost all bye elections woefully, they came up with excuses. And now, their useless protest has failed and this clown is coming out to hail their failed protest as a victory.
You protested for mandatory electronic transmission but you didn't get it, so what victory are you talking about?. When some members of your group are crying already.

Tell me a protest which APC embarked upon as opposition party and didn't achieve 100% results?.

These ones are learners masquerading as opposition. A bunch of losers who came together with the aim to get back to power. That's why sensible Nigerians are pissing on them.

Go and learn work, una no sabi nada.

Even if you are paid.. Dont you care about the life and future of your children and grandchilren. How can a man be so foolish to collect money to put a nail on his own head and start hitting it with hammer... And the sane people trying to save you , you here talking nonsense...
Do you like this country the way it is...

If that penalty was against man city , it wont be given..

Glimpsetv:
What about other states?

Until the death of this young lady over the weekend, I never knew antivenom was so scarce in Nigerian hospitals — not to even talk of hospitals in the FCT. I always thought no one would die from a snake bite if they were rushed to the hospital immediately. But, lo and behold, my ignorance was exposed this weekend when Ifunanya died from a snake bite.

And please, don’t blame me for being unaware. I know we may be behind in some areas here in Nigeria, but the absence of antivenom in hospitals was never something I imagined.

A young, promising, upcoming R&B singer, Ifunanya, brought to light the level of backwardness in our healthcare system.

Now, I have learned not to judge anyone the next time I hear of someone selling their properties just to travel abroad. I can now understand the different reasons why taking such steps may not be a bad decision.

If you watch this video and see this young lady singing without feeling emotional, you must have a heart of stone.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wToQgFRzzak?si=b8hDXM5B1oA9oT9a

My friend the health care sector is even worse than just ASV. Trust me when i say its worse than that... to even sey original anti malaria and paracetamol na by Gods grace.. so people who fall sick and recover there na by Gods grace and the hard working doctors and nurses.

[quote author=budaatum post=138319957]I never said the world revolves around my feelings, because it obviously does not, but my sons are definitely very very different from most of the men commenting here, who lack respect for their wives and think they can treat them like ribs.

And the reason my sons are very different from most of you men on here is because they have been taught to treat their sisters and other women in their life with deep regard and respect, unlike some of you men on here who think a woman is a hole and t¹ts.

There's lots of men in the world out there who don't reason like you too, so my boys are not particularly unique in that regard, they are just not like many of you here. [/quo


Like i said you reason one sided.... that you think your sons are the only ones brought up decently says it all. And you think any man thats against your opinion treat their wives or women less ...explains your one sided argument and why you refused to see the bigger picture. Weather you agree or not... Good men are also victims of women who they percieved to be good women before they married them... Thats a fact you can never change. Being a victim doesnt respect gender. Know that and know reality...

We know your type .. you subconcious hate men and you really dont care if they are the victims... maybe the only males you care about are your sons... Every argument you and your type refuse to see how its affects the male negatively as long as women benefit , even if the man is victim you really dont care. Whereas people like me try to be fair ... that you silently refuse to comment on the part where i said GOOD MEN ALSO FALL VICTIMS.. SHOWS YOUR INNERMOST MIND..

budaatum:
You are funny.

Yes, I have sons. And I have educated them to respect and love their wives, whom they have wisely chosen. And the one thing they will never ever say is "You just another woman", because I brought them up to be loving and caring and respectful of other human beings regardless of gender, race, colour, tribe etc etc etc, so its unlikely their wives will wake up one day and yell rape and divorce.

But if they do divorce, they very likely wouldn't lose all their life work because their wives have jobs too, and earn considerable incomes. And the law where they live might even give the children to my sons and tell her to pay him instead.

Unlike some you see, they married their equal, and not some poor uneducated girl from some village that they can exploit.

The world doesnt revolve around your feelings.. your sons are not different from most men out there.. that have been victims of carefully choosen wives who where loved and cared for , but choose to heed evils ways. Except off course you beleive bad things only happen to bad people.

You dont know what your gender is capable of doing... and i pray you dont experience it directly or indirectly. You not honest and a reslistic person if you think good men dont fall victims...

budaatum:
You are the one who should not be minded since you are obviously far too lazy to read. Because if you were not lazy to read, you'd know I know the person you are telling not to mind is an African man when I was cooking him that African meal he loves so much and was marrying him and worshipping his African bit before he began grunting like a pig I can not stand!

Does that change the fact on ground that you worship every thing white..? No.
You just another woman, who always reason one side , forgetting men too a human first of all , and were given birth to by women.
I think you have male children too and your sons will marry and hope you would be happy to accept anything too you accepted for other men to also happen to you son. Ie loosing all his life work to a woman after divorce, continue to cater and pay child support to kids his wife got from cheating on him. And also be unable to file for divorce on the grounds of no sex even of his wife refuses him sex for years... but i trust you you will do the Achimi mother instead