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Dreamhans1:
Lie lie. Only selfish people does that.
Secondly, aren't you dumb if you can't see through a woman before marriage?
Or not smart enough not to be able to control the aerodynamic of your life

No problem na, abuse me, if you marry and when you do, you would see. Your turn is coming, (Ehn lie that you have been married for 25 years so you have conquered marriage)

policy12:
I read people contribution and all I can say is that every one is right, though different opinions but every comment are on pointing out the problems. Objectively there is no single reasons to this.

From...

1. Women weaponizing sex.
2. The aftermath of knowing the woman you marry after marriage.

My submissions:
3. Women wanting men to always be the sex initiator.
4. The modern day stress, some men come back from work tired and weak.
5. The heart of men is heavy, a lot go through the men's mind, ranging from family issue to other issues.
6. Mental health capacity of the men also matter.
7. Financial stress.

A man cannot be going through aforementioned points and you expect him to be sexually active.

Precisely.
Hence the shock many here are going to get when suddenly the mid life cryses blow beats them.

Anyway, let them keep thinking marriage is built on their joysticks.

2aces:
From a married mans perspective, visiting a particular place constantly for that long wears away the thrill and excitement and eventually seems like a chore, and men don't like chores so they either get frustrated and die in silence or do the sneak out to explore the forbidden forest.

Some Solutions.

Women should always see themselves as the center of attraction in their marriage and endeavor to reinvent themselves in every possible way as often as possible and to keep their marriage as exciting just like the first day.
They should plan get away trips with their spouse as often as possible and keep the peace in the home to make sex approach more comfortable for the man, cos sex is the last thing on the mind of an angry man.

Here you are talking about men who do think marriage is just an adult game of playing mummy andI daddy.

eventainment:
Women who weaponize sex at a younger age when they are married are the ones having this issue. When you tell a man no too many times, he becomes used to it and he moves on to other things that will not give him negative feedback. Many women are just like logs of wood in bed; the man becomes bored and wants adventure somewhere else: some pick a hubby while most get other ladies that will match their bedmatic fantasies.

That is because you are following the op's words whereas what op is talking about is one of the many blows that hits all marriages. but men do not see it coming.

Women using sex as a weapon, is not really here since most people fornicate before they marry, so uncle can see it coming.

But consider this, while you thought she was all over the moon for you is why she married you only for you, over the course of 10 years to start seeing evidences that show you that the other guy who she preferred above you did not want to marry her, and is her spec for now after10years you now know the Truth of what she likes and she would like to and that actually she is just managing you.

Can you deal with that?

And God help you, that you are already suspicious of her chieating with someone close to her who is her spec. oya na, go and lie down next to her not to talk of riding her, let me see.

Fiscus105:
Is it every wife deceived husband?

Is it after like 10 yrs or more that, he now realise that?

Yes!

A few some, who actually have been good and devoted wives did not intend to. (98% of the rest, intended to)

And that is why he is even in this state for in his realeyelisation he sees what she has done;

1) If she is among the 2%, then, he is only very very angry and wishes to kick her out but God saves her, for as bad as her offence is, it still does not justify his putting her away.

2) If she is among the 98%, then bye bye marriage. And this is another time the man thinks it is right to cheat. (Mistake). But bye bye marriage.

He won't even be lying down like that picture shows (maybe you at the beginning of his real eyelisation but it certainly ends with him never being on that bed

And all that 10 years went by because he loved her thinking she was what he thought her to be. But, Truth came and kicked him.

"The truth will set you free, but first it will make you miserable," James A. Garfield,

Because he now sees her for all that she is.

He now understands everything about her and has figured her out.

He now knows and understands how she thinks, why she married him and her meaning of every word or silence.

Now is when he sees she had lied and deceived him and she is not fully all he thought she was and so, problem.

EmperorCaesar:
The ones that didnt travel like that in the past, he was assasinated and nothing sup

GEJ that you worship with all your soul, he still walks about with heavy security

How would PBAT walking freely in the street of Garki help you to achieve your life goals?

How many world President walks around like that.

Rest, Chike

Good. You are confessing that Tinubu is the King!

Ahmback:
Last I went home from town the father had sent the woman packing and remarried to a young lady whom his daughter would have been at the same size if she was alive today.

Aha! i knew it would be a woman who did it.

guobe:
I won't blame him for not forgiving his dad because that act is really dehumanising.

Very Tinubutic

Good2go1:
You Don't need to see me but count me out of your slavery.

i already see you not doing anything so you are a slave

Amudeneogu:
What the man who stole 82billion naira, what will be his faith
A Policeman or an Army man that always stop innocent motorists on the road with gun and collect #200 from them which group did they fall into?

This one is extortion.

But i agree with you. Armed robbery is also extortion.

Thus, extortion by police and army and all gun carriers are armed robbery.

Thus, extortion should be confined to only one per swaytions made by words of mouth and demeanors only. Any use of weapon turns it to armed robbery.

Serendipity2023:
It's sad

but the law has no emotions.

That is actually not The Law but Legal.

https://www.nairaland.com/6989896/lawyers-not-deceit#110283265

Under Law every case is judged on the merits and the evidence obtained and The Law of good and evil aka Natural Law!

And not based on the eyes of the laws made by men (legal) and that is why just is not always given

Good2go1:
It's only slave that make think kind of comment

i do not see you doing anything to stop this evil, so you too are a slave.

Now i see why many would die of heart attack

Because He is "our God".

We do not know about other territories outside our heaven and earth but in this territory known as heaven and earth, He is The God of it

Brenbentondiaz:
Oook. And Jesus said His followers would do greater works than Him. Meaning they would become greater God, right?

Remember this was said just for the purposes of countering the jw guy for Elisha had double power of Elijah therefore did greater works but did that make him greater than Elijah? No.

The king is moving so who are you to move?

Then let us not forget our minerals, (coke, fanta, sprite, Shwepps bitter lemon, Vitamalt etc) At least 1 crate of minerals, and Beeer (Star, Gulder, Big and Small Stout) Cartons must also be purchased and put in the fridge.

Then Banga must be blown at different times of the day lightly starting in September but increasing in regularity which each day Christmas gets nearer.

Then we must have our Bisco (that fireworks that we hold in hand throwing sparks after you ignite)

Then we had local banga created by using spark plug and matches .

Aha where are those people that do "do you remember this?

The harmattan was not cold like this. I almost want to say that there was no harmattan but i think there was but i think it disappears during the Christmas.

And in those days Christmas period was the long holiday and schools closed around the 15th to 20th. And to open late January to a new class were you were promoted to.

You better get "promoted to..." to enjoy your Christmas and not "To repeat ...." this one you will just suffer throughout the Christmas till school opens.

By your fruits we know you.

And your fruits are the fruits of evil, so we know jw is evil.

MaxInDHouse:
Who is not mad from your viewpoint?

Guy whether you like it or not Jesus said himself with his father and his disciples are One! John 17:22

Insults won't save your face today!

You are mad from everbody's view point and your mad repetitions is just proving it more and more! So keep your showing that jws turn their people to mad people.

grandstar:
Thank you.

Y r welcome

parkervero:
I want to ask if there is any married men in here who have formed their own families without involving their family members (mother, father, and siblings).

Is there any consequences for not involving family members?

I don't want to involve any of my family members in any of my affairs including the time of difficulty, sickness, even to the point of my death.

I want to stay on my own till eternity

Almost did it but because I feared God a Lot and i have learnt to always look for His Opinion, i got to see that even though you may be right to cut off from them, you need God's continuous approval to do so.

Thus, you may find that after a time, you will feel that you are the one doing a wrong in not talking to them.

hakeemhakeem:
It's possible but know that the way you are trying to exclude your father, mother and siblings it the same way your children are going to exclude you when they come of age

This is not true unless he did not explain to them and his reason or reasoms are not reasonable.

MaxInDHouse:
You can't run away using insults as cover this time Jesus with his father along with all his disciples are One! John 17:22

See more display of madness thereby proving that jws are mad people.

grandstar:
How quickly did you get it? I want to get mine within a week if possible.

Till today i have not gotten mine and i plan on traveling on Saturday. So he said he would give me a temporary one tomorrow.

MaxInDHouse:
No let am pain you because you can't escape through your insults today!

Miracles are God's work anyone can be chosen to do it but when it comes to ONENESS it doesn't make two different entities the same rather they agree just as Christ's disciples agree! John 17:22

Clearly your madness will always prevail hence you just must speak like a stupid mad person

Yemike:
How is your sex life? Do you masturbate or watch porn alot especially before sleeping?

Are you serious? You mean you have do not do either?

Then it means God is your Father!

Let me ask, would you say your life is good? And that things just work out for you even when it does not for others?

if yes, then this is means that you are one of God's children. and the devil has started attacking you with sex so that you shall fall and God will leave you permanently.

There is nothing like repentance for people li3 you, hence why you noticed that your situation is different from others.

Also apart from attacks in dreams,girls and beautiful/very very beautiful women of all ages and sizes are going to the throw themselves at you and of course Bleep you for free.

It is still part of Satan's attack and they are all coming to you fulfil Satan's plan and suck out your blessings which God naturally gives to the people like you.

And should they catch you, your own life is finished and your life of blessings will become a life of curses.

There was a thread here of a guy like you who confessed what happened to him when he now had sex with one girl in his compound. if i find it, i will bring it here.

MaxInDHouse:
I and my Father ARE one. John 10:30

Did you not say this before and Ianswered you saying "Jesus did all that His Father can be do" whereas no Christian has walked on water or ascended to heaven.

So, don't let your madness rule you making you repeat yourself like a crazy person.

When you say judges, you should say SANs too.

I don't think i heard it is a judge who approached the contending parties making offers to them to get the judgment they want.

Rather it is known that SANs who approach the Judges offering gifts and monies to them. That is why they get the biggest legal businessness and are over paid excessively

Just saw an old movie last week, where the guy complained "So you want to get the richman's justice"

MaxInDHouse:
Go and argue with Jesus who said it not me!

"And the glory which thou gavest me I have given them; that they may be one, even as we are one:" John 17:22

When Jesus Said it, it was very clear and we understood what He meant hence no dispute. But when you repeated what Jesus said and gave your own understanding of it I have argued with you and you could not counter because there is no valid argument against the Truth.

So go learn what Jesus meant if you like!

MaxInDHouse:
It's OK at least Jesus himself said God, Christ and Christians are One! John 17:22

So whether you accept it or not that's what Jesus said with his own mouth and surely One is One!

Then you need to go find the meaning of one for since Jesus walked on water and no christian has done that, it therefore meant another thing when He Said those Words, so go find it's meaning.for apparently and without doubt, Christians are not the same one as Jesus, whether you accept it or not!