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sinequanon:
Don;t get me wrong...

[size=18pt]If[/size] a girl is interested, there comes a point where she wants you to be led by your mind, heart and d1ck (even though they may not put it that way). It is a question of reading if, and when.

Too early, and she will feel awkward. Too late and she will usually feel insecure. So, you've got to be laid back, let things take their course, and be able to read the signals, as well as spot the girl players, who act out and put on a pretence.

sinequanon:
Never had the problem.

If you have no problem meeting people, you should have no problem meeting girls.

If you are not led by your d1ck, and you are able to meet her as a person, she will make the rest easy, if she is interested.

So, my advice is not to bother with "game", just with general social skills.

sinequanon:
Nothing.

You got what you wanted. You met her "officially", whatever her name is, and she politely told you to get lost.

And you got a bonus of a warm glow of excitement and gratitude in your stomach.

sinequanon:
...and you left, feeling dizzy with excitement?

MRBODMAS:
I can't remember if any lady av turned me down or disgrace me, bcso i always do my klin job by making her fall in love and thirsty to receive my proposal and i always break their quotable quote of nt having sex on first visit. I be ekun to n je igbin ati ikarahun e. U cant just see a lady and jump to her anyhow, bro u will jump back again. #Make a perfect impression.

sinequanon:
oh, that's different. How did you approach?

sinequanon:
Insecurity is at the root of feeling good about snubbing somebody.

sinequanon:
You must be insecure.

Anyway, I always approach women with the intention of getting to know them, first. It never goes wrong.

Women who do what you say you did, gradually lose the ability to communicate normally, and can only hook up with players.

vizkiz:
don't you have anything better to do than create threads about women?

Djboosting:
Now this is a message I got recently from a new member of our team, who want to make a change in his approach with women he come in contact with.

His question is quite similar to what is up in quote there, and in my VIP mail team (Team-Diamond), we already discussed this and fully talked about it.

So I'll like to make some references to it so some guys who have similar approach too might learn this.


Yo, what's going on bruv.

How are you today?

Hope good positive emotions are radiating from your private parts.

Awesome.

I've been really really busy dominating my path all day, anyway....

You see...

I really love your question, it is similar to most of the questions I get from guys.

I love the "rapport creation" you used there.

But do you know where you get it wrong?

Do you really know where you made the mistake?

Okay?

No?

No...

Alright let me make use of your mind for a moment.

*****
If I prescribe movie ABC for you to watch, and you're really excited to watch the movie... You're feeling great to discover what the suspense of the movie is, and to know what happened in the movie.

Picture that for a second..


Now, I later ended up telling you what ended the movie, maybe I tell you how the main actor died or ended up falling in love with the girl-enemy.

**** (cuts)


My question is, will you really feel COMPELLED to re-watch the movie?

Of course not.

Why?

Because I've already told you what ended the movie.
Even if you want to watch, there will be no suspense anymore, and you will only be doing that for fun. NO COMMITMENT to the movie again.

Good.

Now this is exactly the same way the interaction between you and a woman is.

You are the MOVIE, and She's the SPECTATOR (the one watching the movie).

Now when you tell her how you feel about her, what you have just done is...

You've already told her what ended the movie (you).

Now the movie (you) is not interesting anymore.

There's no suspense in the movie (you) anymore.


I always tell my clients (Team-Diamond) this...

"You don't fvcking tell a girl how you feel."


Throw away that sh¡t of you "manning-up" (whatever the fvck that means).


This is you, and you want your movie to be interesting.

You want your movie to be different from the one she's been watching all day long from other guys who talk to her.


So you don't fvcking tell her the end of the movie.

Let her wonder about you... Let her mind think about you..

The more you can let her mind wander about you, the higher your value in her eyes become.

"Does he like me?".... "Does he not like me?".... "He's not proposing to me, why?"... "Am I not beautiful enough?"

And stuffs like that..

When you propose to a girl, or in your words "tell her how I feel", you're only boosting her ego.
Meaning, you are giving her power over you to say YES or NO.

YES = just 3% of the time.

NO = 97% of the time.

And when she says NO, some guys start chasing her, start taking her out on dates, just to show her they like her and thinking she'll like them too (Friendzone materials)


That's why you don't see a girl that tells a guy how she feel?

Why?

Because she's not fvcking retãrded.

I'm not fvcking retãrded.

You are not fvcking retãrded.

And guys on Team-Diamond are not fvcking retãrded.


So now, how do you show a girl you like her?

How do you make your intention known to her?

So how do you communicate your interest in her from now on?


Not with your fvcking words!

Not by you taking her out or being nice to her. And NOT by buying her gifts or presents (another mistake that landed you in Friendzone)

Save that sh¡t for marriage or after you guys have done the fvckey-fvckey.

This is it....

This is how you do it...

You do it with your "Sub-Communications".

You give her an handshake 'longer' than normal.

You hold an eye-contact with her longer than normal.

You do it by flirting with her.

When you give her a hug, hug her full-arms like you own her.
Then you say "okay that's enough, get off me".


Tell her, "Hey, stop looking at me like that, you're trying to make me like you, it's unfair".


Say to her, "Hey, you know, the way you are smiling at me, it's unfair and you know we are not couples yet."

Tell her, "OMG, we're really connecting right now, and you're a cool girl, but it's too bad it can't work between us, you're too gentle for me".

She'll catch the hint. She'll playfully hit you. She'll love the fun and emotions you are giving her. She'll know you're flirting with her.


From then the switch in her mind will go "ON", she'll recognize that you are different from other guys who are doing the proposal sh¡t, giving all their powers to her.

When you do and say things like this, she'll be interested in the movie (you).

And now you're recreating her brain to love to watch your movie. And she'll be very happy to watch because you are different.

Have a conversation with her, push her away that she's trying to seduce you...
Again rapport with her, push her away again that she's too gentle for you.

She'll start chasing you all over.

Trying to gain your interest.

Do this with other girls too, see the response you get back from them.

I want you to experience that feeling of having girls chasing you too.

Let me know how it goes...





*****
Now I really appreciate guys who 'know' they have some aspects in their life they really want to get hold of and also to become master in that aspects.

Unlike some percentage of guys who die in silence because of their "ego". Instead of them seeking solution, they'll rather fake their lifestyle to cover their problems.

Martoz mrsuperswag

Anyway, speaking of guys who are ready for transformation in their game life and their interaction with women, I've been getting your mails, and we're selecting a few guys who are really ready for transformation. Why?

Because we want people who are serious and are ready to do what it takes to master their attraction personality on our team and not someone who will only partake to increase our team number. We want just a few selected guys, not multitude.

So if you ever, one way or the other, experience something similar in your interactions and dating with women. This call is for you.

You might want to join us before we close the list number up.

All you have to do is just send me PM..

It is your choice either you want your life changed for better or not.

Seriously bro, you should, before the chance is lifted.

Don't forget...

"Life is about learning and experience."

I believe in You.

I believe in Myself.

And I believe in the guys on Team-Diamond.




I'm out.
Peace beast.

JD

fimbar25:
255, jamb
333, putme
294 agg.
UNN respects merit, just gear up and score up to 250 in jamb, I'll tell you on how to prepare for putme
Best wishes

fimbar25:
Just last year, I was a Jambite
I read a similar post by Lomaxx on how to enter medical school, ie, getting high jamb scores
Here I am, in the Lions den, Varsity of Nigeria, A medical student.
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Listen to the rules and apply, that's all

DrRiley:
Ayaf sent em

Therock5555:
Please this is a long write up so please pardon me

I choosed not to used an alternative moniker because I want my dad to see this, I introduced him to Nairaland and he's a frequent front page reader so I hope he sees this. I hope my fans in the literature section know why I get depressed always.




Sorry for the long epistle, I'm broken and seriously need advice, I hope he gets to see this and then kills me afterwards.


Cc. Ishilove Lalasticlala Sean RoyalRoy

angiography:
Hmm...have u considered the option of pre-degree??.

It may give you an edge. I wrote jamb 4times. Tho had been admitted into Nursing b4, I had to stick with my dream, which is medicine.

The thing is this; 290,000+ applied for medicine this year, only 2700+ were (will be)admitted! The consequence of that is that only the bests have a chance...the question now is 'can u strive to be among this <1% ??'. It's a competition u have to sacrifice some distractions for. Sooo read sir, with a vision of getting it done. And as the bible says, "Persevere therefore,...so that you will attain the crown set aside for the strong"

Perseverance is not endurance. Endurance tells you to 'abide with fate (whatever the mother nature throws at you)', while perseverance tells you to 'strive for excellence with faith- faith in your ability or in God(if you believe in Him).

Catalyst4real:
Well, If you keep up with this attitude, you're going to be down for a very Long time

angiography:
How many times have u tried??

dearpiriye:
U shuld be askin urself that? What was d reason u chose dis field?