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SportsRe: I'm Looking For A Football Academy For My 7-year-old Son. by Duyt1798: 4:48pm On Jun 14
dominique:
I would have suggested the academy where Yohanna was scouted, they've exported a lot of talents to European leagues but it's located in the north and the boy is way too small to travel that far. Do we even have any football academies in Lagos?
Please where in the north, as some of our relatives who might be interested, are located there.
FamilyRe: At What Age Should a man Find His Feet In Life? by Duyt1798: 7:48am On May 30
franchasofficia:
When God and his destiny decides.


The race of life is not for the swift or for the wise or for the strongest or for the most hardworking or the smartest or the most intelligent or for the most beautiful/handsome, but of God that showeth mercy to whom He had decided to show mercy.


Look around you, there are very smart and intelligent people that are still struggling with life. There are strong people that are struggling to survive. There are hardworking men that are very broke and poor. There are very beautiful ladies that are struggling to find a partner while some are married and regretting or struggling to feed in that marriage. There are some handsome guys that are struggling to find just one woman to be with them. On the contrary, there are very dull people that are excelling in life beyond imagination. There are lazy people that are rich and famous. There are ugly women married to very rich and influential men. There are rich ugly women. There are ugly guys married to the hottest women you can only imagine, and etc.


So as a man you can decide that you will stand on your feet before you turn 30yrs or 35yrs and God will say He will bless you abundantly beyond your imagination before you even reach 30yrs.


God can decide to make it 50yrs, if thats your destined time, no matter how smart or hard you work, you will keep struggling and failing until you hit 50yrs and you will just realize that everything you lay your hands on will start working, even the things you once failed trying to do in the past, the stars will start aligning in your favor once you reach your God destined time.


Some people will say its all lies but they are saying it because they are destined to say it right now.


No human can run beyond his or destiny in life. Life is spiritual, we are only a physical manifestation of our spiritual being.
A wise man once said, there are some knowledge too sublime to be contained in pages of books.
CrimeRe: Bishop Clarence Okonkwo's Driver Kills Him With Pestle, Flees With SUV, Phones by Duyt1798: 8:43am On May 14
Hmmm.... Crime knows no colour, no tribe, no gender. SAY NO TO CRIME!
CrimeRe: Police Arrests 39-Year-Old Ex Convict Who Specialises In Stealing Packed Cars by Duyt1798: 5:15pm On Apr 23
Is he re-packing them in a bag pack. grin
PoliticsRe: City Boy Movement Holds Rally In Bayelsa by Duyt1798: 5:56am On Apr 15
I hope say subsequently, this CBM no go turn cornfra. Coz Nigerians are full of surprises fa
CrimeRe: Nigerian Arrested In Thailand Using SA Passport by Duyt1798: 8:39am On Mar 25
It doesn't matter if it's an old or not video, some of us didn't know about it. I get the point that he wasn't caught with a SA passport, how do we confirm that.
EducationRe: Kaduna Polytechnic Students Denied Entry Over ‘Indecent’ Dressing During Ramadan by Duyt1798: 8:48pm On Mar 15
CyynthiaKiss:
You are not safe in the south, join us in campaign in putting these guys in their place
Join us? Who are you guys?
FoodRe: Emotional Video Of Children Seeking Food At Event Gets People Talking (Photos/Vi by Duyt1798: 10:16pm On Jan 30
How are we sure this is Nigeria?
PoliticsRe: Alex Barbir At A Mass Burial In Plateau State, Nigeria (Pictures) by Duyt1798: 4:36pm On Jan 23
If for say the Muslims dey get media coverage like this, you would know say this one na play.

Dem go just do their own burial without noise.
PoliticsRe: 2027: Amaechi Holds Marathon Consultation Meetings With Northern ADC Leaders by Duyt1798: 6:00pm On Jan 21
Lol... Northern ADC leaders Indeed. I no sabi any of these folks up here, they're all jokers. Dem just come collect their share
CrimeRe: Police Arrest Three Suspects Over Killing Of Woman, Six Children In Kano by Duyt1798: 9:26pm On Jan 19
WhiteIverson:
The killings were premiditated. We need to know why or who sent them.
Learnt it was tied to inheritance ish... Dats y dem dey wipe out a whole lineage.
PoliticsRe: I Never Said I Am US Target - Gumi by Duyt1798: 10:20am On Jan 05
It was obvious na, coz the video wasn't played from the beginning, and was cut short, didn't get to the end. Na some overzealous bloggers just dey do cut and join.
CelebritiesIt's All Propaganda by Duyt1798(op): 7:03am On Nov 29, 2025
VDM clarifies how propagandists are pushing agenda against Burna Boy... Watch via the link below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N3ucrXMvN0Y?si=sGH5fhIp4wEOFaQG

What could be the cause?
CelebritiesRe: Rev Fr Kelvin Ugwu Writes On Burna Boy's Arrogance by Duyt1798: 8:36pm On Nov 28, 2025
I dey smell rat for this Rev. Fr. talk. E fit be say as Burna revert back to Islam, na y dis one dey talk. Not justyfing what e did though.
CareerRe: I Just Lost My Job by Duyt1798(op): 8:36pm On Oct 22, 2025
Naijaepic:
Welcome to the other side, surely you will survive.

I was laid off at end of first quarter earlier this year from a remote company. Yet, all gratitude belong to God, we are still surviving.

Earlier this morning, just had another promising interview which may leads to relocation.
Sorry to hear sir, mine was a Hybrid job, I had so much time from it. One of things troubling my mind is that, will I get such job that gives so much time.
CareerRe: I Just Lost My Job by Duyt1798(op): 8:33pm On Oct 22, 2025
FreeStuffsNG:
You didn’t say anything about savings, investments and cumulative contributory pension you made over the period or were you just piling up liabilities over the period ni wink

It is always safe to plan for your exit day right from the day you join an organization so that you will always leave on your own terms with no surprises.

You will be fine and hopefully they could still call you back when donors change their mind.

All the best.
Unfortunately, I can't pinpoint any investment or savings (a very big mistake). Had a chance for investment once, but blew over 2m in the wrong investment.
CareerI Just Lost My Job by Duyt1798(op): 8:03pm On Oct 22, 2025
Chai...

After 3 years and 4 months with a digital health company — where I grew from a Customer Success Coordinator to a Field Account Executive — I received the difficult news today that my role has been affected by a company-wide restructuring due to funding challenges from donors.

This is my first experience being on this side of a layoff. In the past, I’ve always been the one making the decision to move on. But this time, it hit differently — especially with family responsibilities, school fees, and no immediate health insurance coverage. The uncertainty is real, and so is the anxiety.

Still, I’m choosing to look at this as a pause, not an end. I’m deeply grateful for the experiences, the impact we made in transforming primary healthcare through digital innovation, and the relationships built along the way.

For those who’ve walked this path before — how did you navigate the transition, both mentally and professionally?
Any advice or encouragement will be deeply appreciated.
CrimeRe: Man Kills Ex-Lover Ahead Of Her Wedding In Enugu by Duyt1798: 7:58pm On May 20, 2025
😂😂😂 "Igogoro community". What do you expect after taking too much ogogoro.
IslamRe: Four Kwara Hajj Pilgrims Have Died In Saudi Arabia by Duyt1798: 1:07pm On Jun 20, 2024
May they find rest and peace in death.
PoliticsRe: Emir Tussle: Court Slams ₦‎10m Fine On Kano State Over Breach Of Bayero's Right by Duyt1798: 2:59pm On Jun 14, 2024
Ganduje na real politician. The governor messed up by allowing him come back to Kano, them suppose block am by all means
SportsRe: Tijanni Babangida's Son Dies As Wife Losses Eye In Accident by Duyt1798: 10:16am On May 12, 2024
onadana:
Crazy...that same Kaduna Zaria road claimed the life of my wife.They must have being speeding the road is dualised and good so that temptation to step on the accelerator is there.
Condolences Chief 🙏💐
PoliticsRe: May Day: Governor Ododo Extends Health Insurance To Kogi LG Workers by Duyt1798: 7:22pm On May 02, 2024
Lol .... See this one. Something that has been applicable in most states for a while now, na him dis one dey hype. Kogi really dey backwards be dat o
CareerRe: Salary Earners How Much Have You Saved This Year? by Duyt1798: 10:04pm On Apr 29, 2024
Lightway:
You don't have to lie to prove a point... There is no way a married man is able to save 35% of his 4 months salary while having a child...
You never can say, his wife might be of support
Foreign AffairsRe: Alexei Navalny’s Mother Given Hours To Agree To Secret Burial by Duyt1798: 9:36pm On Feb 23, 2024
Some ignorant people go believe say the west dey genuine with these their actions against Russia. No be same west dey cover up the assassination/dismembering of Khashoggi, by their friend. What has been done? Mtchweeee.... Hypocrisy
CareerRe: 400k Salary, but nothing. by Duyt1798(op): 9:51pm On Jan 10, 2024
Awesome 👍
OZIOGU1:
My brother check your lifestyle

I am married with four kids, My current net is around that amount, I do adashe (contribution) of 150k monthly, give my wife 80k, set aside another 20k monthly for end of the year celebration, give my kids 5,4,3&2k each from senior to junior, 60k for my fuel for the month, the remaining amount goes for unforeseen circumstances that may arise, mind you I don't smoke, drink, but once a while i hangout with colleagues.

going to work, from my shirt, to trouser, shoes and wristwatch is less than 20k, I dey go bend down select well okrika, na my wife way of changing my wardrobe be that...with all these , I was able to erect a 3bed in 3yrs.
CareerRe: 400k Salary, but nothing. by Duyt1798(op): 9:48pm On Jan 10, 2024
Insightful!
Relixy2k:
400k is huge. 89% of families both husband and wife in Nigeria combined, don't earn up to that amount doing legal jobs not referring to yahoo guys and other illegal guys ohh. You ought to be a millionaire even in this economy after 2 yrs plus of earning 400k monthly if well managed. Rent a place not more than 300k a year. Put your children in a school not more than 80k a term. Run from forex, betting etc. I assure you in just a year, you will have huge savings. No mind stories here telling you 400k is small. I can assure you someone on 80k who dream to earn 150k will come here to tell you 400k is small.
CareerRe: 400k Salary, but nothing. by Duyt1798(op): 9:40pm On Jan 10, 2024
Thanks
Jking20:
Start up something for your wife if she doesn't have anything doin. The little things at home are the ones that takes most of the money, but with her doin something that she can frequently settle some bills you will definitely be able to save.
Also, you must set a target of what you want to achieve and work hard for it, otherwise, you will still end up the same way.
CareerRe: 400k Salary, but nothing. by Duyt1798(op): 9:39pm On Jan 10, 2024
Thanks, I'm noting down some of these points
Tealcrestmedia:
There are basic rules that help someone avoid financial pressure. Firstly, everything you do must be in percentages of your salary, the main one being not spending more than 30% of your annual income on rent. Your annual income is 4.8m assuming that is all you earn. Your rent must not exceed 1.2m.

Next, tailor your spending to allow 20% saving monthly which will be your investment funds. The rest will be dependent on your lifestyle choices and the cost of living for where you stay.

I noticed you mentioned forex, because you didn't follow financial management principles, you used almost 40% annual income to invest in something you're not knowledgeable in, you should test the waters with no more than 5% monthly per time.
CareerRe: 400k Salary, but nothing. by Duyt1798(op): 9:36pm On Jan 10, 2024
Okay, thanks.
Joythah:
You need to discuss with your wife... Nothing the elders tell you here will work without her.
Hope she's the prudent type o otherwise you are in soup
CareerRe: 400k Salary, but nothing. by Duyt1798(op): 9:34pm On Jan 10, 2024
Thank you, this makes sense
kelvyn7:
Rule 1 - pay yourself first (10%), into a separate account, without atm card, nothing in this world makes me touch that amount. Do this every month

Rule 2 - if your 3months salary cannot pay your rent, then you are living above your means 😉
CareerRe: 400k Salary, but nothing. by Duyt1798(op): 9:33pm On Jan 10, 2024
Sorry bros, I can't relate to this sir.
AchrafHakimi:
Married men are simps walahi that's why women love them. Girls chase married men because they know they are weak, dumb and easily manipulated.

It takes a certain level of fear to make a man give up his life for a woman.



Tufiakwa!!
CareerRe: 400k Salary, but nothing. by Duyt1798(op): 9:31pm On Jan 10, 2024
Thank you
LagBlogger:
Cost of living plus family responsibilities will make your 400k per month feel like 30k per month.

I don't know what your plans are but if you can find a way to reduce house rent and school fees cost you might be able to save something.

My wife had a friend whose husband was on 60k per month salary in 2015, somehow he managed to save and buy land, started doing uber part time then later resigned his job and faced Uber fully and was able to save to build the house they are living in now.

He moved to Canada in 2022 and she joined him last year with their daughter.

I think their game plan was to set a target e.g buy land, build house, travel abroad, start side hustle and save as if their life depends on it to achieve that target.

Try and set goals then work on those goals as if your life depends on achieving it. It may work, it may not. Just my 2 cents.

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