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finditng: Sily you...who said she should be desperate....if she wants you she'll show commitment....e.g okay hw about our parents meet for now!...don't be shallow in your reasoning...the mentality of a woman transcends beyond all this 1+1 you putting up here...you obviously naïve and reading up loads of junk ...junk data affecting your reasoning.....as you get more enlightened, you'll realize. no need to bash words with you....

The toality of a woman's mind consists of numerous elements that you won't believe can all sum up into just one decission making...it can range from socio-economic tots to emotional to idealogies,peronality, family believes norms and perceptions, environment , life experiences and much more...but one thing a woman is never confused about is if she wants you...trust me..if she realy wants you and you are not some alernative or some dude with loads of vices she's delibrating on...as regards coping with them,she'lld hv commitied...infct you'll hv an idea of wt names she'll like to call your kids...or what she wants your home to look like even if its in the nearest futture.......all in all....move mehn...you most likely are not the one..c'estfini...don't be patchn some bullshit that will tear-open under the pressures of life after a compelled /"he sha won't go" marriage...

The bolded parts summarizes how sensible you are. I wasn't spurred to read your post further.

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I submitted yesterday biko

Please let us argue healthily. Thank you.

idtumzcollection: don't fight na,its ma welcome party u knw

who you be sef?

moyarhtohbadt: My love...what's she up to??u and her

Baby I'm confused too

moyarhtohbadt: lol,sharparly remove dygeasy...i take God beg u

Boo!

Jerrick: Trust me niqqa, I gat this!

For your mind

Ladystewie: maybe

Marry me.

Ladystewie: well,will you?

Do you have black belt?

SMH

You _fucked up when you kept calling. You should have waited for her to call back to explain why she ended your calls. Now that you're the one calling, you have no choice than to probably forgive her.

There's no guarantee that if one of them had died earlier, say in their very young age, the other would have died too few hours later. There's the future to consider.

To me it's just a case of two old people in which one sees no reason to carry on without the other. What's there to carry on? Loneliness go just kill am.

Ladystewie: But you just did

Yeah. But I don't know why.

Harbosede02: ok....

Do dis,do dat and keep d going dear....is dah all??

lmao

I don't even know why I'm commenting.

I'm an everyday romantic.

I was broke at a time and she spent all the money on her to ensure we were together. I almost didn't believe my 'luck'.

Ladystewie: I'll open anoda one
for u bae

lol... Hmm. Okay

Ladystewie: lol

How do we stop derailing threads? You have any other mail address asides your Nairaland email?

Ladystewie: thinkin' bout you lol
I've not been able to fall asleep

the former is a lie.

Sorry about not being able to sleep. You should have counted backwards from 1million to 1. You'd have slept in no time.

Ladystewie: yup! You wake up this early? why? I've been up since tho

lol! I'm a light sleeper.

And what have you been doing?

Ladystewie: why r u awake,boo

this is usually the time I wake up except when I'm lazy. You're awake too.

Ladystewie: taller than me sha
dygeasy baby, you're above 5'3,right

5 4"

zicoraads: Na wa o, came late sha. Coupla peeps I would have loved to see.

Dygeasy, nice. I am a trad fan also.

There's this matured feel to it.

Ladystewie: awwww
so cute
are u Hausa?

I'm Yoruba

Ladystewie: those lips tho

Ladystewie: those lips tho

Ladystewie:

Bae, as promised.

I'll take it down soon.

Tallesty1: Every woman is beautiful.

I disagree.

Wale112: Nigerian girls= stingy girls, They have much men to think about so why would they care!!!! Bet me, meet a girl in europe and won't take much time, they would appreciate you so much,

You're not serious.

Depends on the kind of girls you meet.

papindinho: change is the only constant thing.

Right. Yeah

ITbomb: As in you made life time commitment after being with her for just 4 months?
When you never graduate or get job, abeg the babe no fit dey tied down for that kind arrangement.
Buckle up

lol! You dey mind am?

glare: yes it was only over possessiveness and dominating. but two weeks before she said i will never go anywhere but before one week she said so many things (i am doing harassment etc.) like " i will never marry with u if u will be the last man on earth". i did so much help for her in last year very honestly and her friend motivated her for break up by realizing her she is better than me. so plz help me../thanks in advance

How are we to help you now? It's obvious you're not much changed.

She's not willing to continue. Get it!

Even if you're changed, would she risk it with you again?

You must have turned her off really.

By the statements in bold if I were you I'd get off the top of her matter faast. The first and last time a girl (an ex) used such sentence on me was last year, she said "DYG, can anything good come from you?" That was the last I ever contacted her. A few days ago, she asked me for airtime and I didn't refuse. Lol

Best bet, move on with your life and be a better man.