soulglo: In Nigeria you are either stupid or smart. The worst abuse you will get over having a learning disability even comes from those entrusted with teaching you and family. I'm glad you got help. I can't tell you the number of people I knew in Nigeria who were regularly called dunce who have thriving careers in the US. Nobody is stupid. We all just have different approach to learning and a good teacher knows this

I couldn't have said it any better !

baby124:
Wow, very interesting information. I did not know such resources existed. Now, do they put you on any medication to help you? Will you recommend more practical professions for people with dyslexia than theoretical. Say skill type of work vs office work.

Medications will not help dyslexia, even though I get stress headaches in confrontational situations in hospitals, I will answer these questions on my blog, so other people following it can benefit from it. You should follow it if you want. If you are working in an office, and your company is supportive, they will make available, resources that will help you transition into your work effectively. I know nurses get support (I am not a nurse). However, this is dependent on the country you are living in and their awareness of dyslexia and other learning disabilities.

baby124: It's good to see that you are overcoming the challenges. Care to tell us about your biggest struggle and how daily you try to succeed in Uni. Does your Uni provide any special accommodation for you?

Yes they do:
1. One to one tuition with an adviser to plan essays in advance before submission
2. Some softwares such as read and write etc to help with spelling (I do not find them very useful, they are time consuming, however it is good to know it is available if i do need it.)

As I am studying a practical as well as a theoretical course, It is extremely difficult to get support in an hospital setting. This is were my dyslexia & dyspraxia kicks my ass...I have tried kicking them back. I am yet to know exactly what works for me...all trial and error right now.

PassingShot: Nice blog you've got. Keep it up!

Thank you

MarvellousGod: Hmmmm...alot of disorders really do exist...

Please what causes a child to be dyslexic or autistic? Because I can't figure out why God will create someone with a kinda disorder

Maybe some drugs taken by mothers during pregnancy?

The exact cause of dyslexia is unknown, however, it has been linked as a disability with underlying genetics, developmental, and neurological causes (Hayes, 2006) *Dyslexia in children*.

I am yet to come across any research that suggests the use as drugs may predispose the foetus to dyslexia. It is a learning disability, that can be managed appropriately, it is not a disorder do not worry! it is well!

Ceasar1:

Okay, I get it.
But you got emotional yourself and ermm, why can't I? - Memories trigger themselves.

#Shrugs and Zips Tea Again.

Lol it was a figure of speech sir! chai

aisha2: Thank You for this.
I was exposed to Dylxesia early because an uncle brought his son to stay with us and even though he was far older he was made to be in the same class with me.
I watched him struggle, read so much and work so hard yet struggle with grades, while others would laugh I would defend him because I knew how hard he worked. Luckily my father picked on it and tutored him at his pace, when I see him today I am so happy because he is doing so well, I am so proud of him because despite all the taunting he never stopped working hard or gave up for a day.

Most Nigerians are ignorant of these issues, it is mostly attributed to spiritual attack, I am so happy you are doing this as someone who faced this would speak more practically than most of us and better still people will realise that it is not an "oyibo thing". It is just recently awareness on Autism is starting to gain grounds, the kind of flogging autistics suffered no be hear, ferrying from one place to the other for "deliverance"

Good Job dear

I am happy he his doing so well...the flogging and constant taunting in Nigeria is just awful. If parents are aware that it exists then they can support their kids a lot more, instead of allowing some yeye uncles to beat the 'stupidity' out of some of us

Ceasar1: Why do I find this thread emotional and my eyes' teary?
#Shrugs and Zips Tea

That wasn't the purpose of the thread. The purpose is to share our knowledge and raise some awareness of dyslexia...no one is expected to cry or be emotional it is not a disease o.

*sips, not zip*

Gboliwe: @OP, I like your strength and zeal. Well done.
You are also doing very well (emphasis is on "very" in writing. You are well above average.
I congratulate you for rising above this "setback". I am following your blog.

Thank you !

Mrval20: Definition - A general term for disorders that involve difficulty in learning to read or interpret words, letters, and other symbols, but that do not affect general intelligence.

@OP, considering the bolded part of the definition, coupled with the fact that you write like a pro, you have nothing to worry about. Just develop any skills you've got, or try to find other latent talents.

And no, your name is not Dyslexic Girl!!!

Hi . It definitely does not affect general intelligence. If only I (and so many other students) were given the right boost and resources to succeed, we wouldn't be doomed to constant humiliation and useless punishments that doesn't make a difference to how to we process and analyse information.

Thank you for reading the blog! (If you did). Dyslexia is unfortunately not only about reading, writing and interpreting words and other symbols, it does more (I wish it didn't)..there is controversy and conflict in it's definition.

I know what I'm capable of now, hence the reason I am raising some awareness for parents, sisters, brothers and anyone that know a child (and, or adult) that might be slower in school, to help and support him her.

@dyslexicgirl: Thanks for sharing dear, I decided to check ou your blog before commenting. You write better than most people I know! You got a new fan
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Thank you!

purplesummer:
Now who is the stupid person here?

Lol

DankemzI:

I did'nt mean to insult. Just did'nt understand what the dyslexia is about. Expantiate on it, am sorry if i've insulted

Oh ok, you can get the information about dyslexia and a lot more from my blog.

http://memoirofadyslexicnigerian..co.uk/

If you have any more questions, do not hesitate to ask me.

DankemzI: Never knew stupidity is an ailment, oP get well soon. Kpe mè kop

Hi, thank you for your comment. Unfortunately, it has nothing to do with the topic. If you feel you have nothing to gain or share, you may keep your comments to yourself. I never said Dyslexia was an ailment, it is a learning disability. Try using google to define your insults before posting them. Take care.

purplesummer: Lol. Sorry for the ill-treatments you received for being dyslexic. Are you also ADHD? Sorry i'm asking.

These are one of the ill-treatments I faced, that example is not bad at all. I do not have ADHD, however, I am dyspraxic. Thank you for comment.

My name is Dyslexic Girl. I completed my nursery, primary and secondary education in Nigeria. Some few years back, I relocated to the UK with my twin. I just started a blog (see link below) less than a week ago, sharing my experience with people affected by dyslexia (and or dyspraxia) as a child as well as an adult and also anyone interested in broadening their knowledge on dyslexia and the impact it has on our activities of daily living.

Throughout my experience with education in Nigeria, I have being part of the very silly group, the olodo group. The group that should be more like the brain boxes in our class. The slowpoke group, you get the point. It is unfortunate that children are compared with one another, according to their intelligence and not according to what they are individually capable of achieving.
It gets worse when my twin sister is soo much better at everything and we are constantly compared to one another. I am yet to understand what my lack of knowledge has to do with me having a large forehead (physical stigma is a pain in the ass). I know everyone gets bullied, thats normal. However, when teachers loose their professionalism and bully student, it impacts on their developmental milestone and increases the fear of school which may lead to social anxiety for the child (see blog for references). Anyways, I was getting too emotional but you get the point
Do you know what dyslexia is? (I am sure some or even most of you do, however, I stand corrected)

How is dyslexia assessed in children and adults in Nigeria?
Does beating cure dyslexia (chai the cane i received for not being able to answer questions on time was outrageous).


I was hoping I could get your point of view on dyslexia, as a student, parent, or a working individual. Also, does anyone amongst you suffer from dyslexia?

Thank you guys for your time.

Link: http://memoirofadyslexicnigerian..co.uk/