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brownsoldier:
I absolutely love your comment and adore your approach to her problem. The kindness that accompanied it is heartwarming. I must admit I have silently read your comments on other threads on various issues in the past and may have misjudged you. I know different now. God bless you

cangoallnyt:
nice words from u
i pray u have more wisdom
u are d only person who ignored prejudice,instead u tried to show care and understanding
May God bless
nobody is perfect

oluspicy:
That's one of Martin Luther King Jnr's quote, not Seal7.

thelish:
I like u sha. lol

Haute:
I'm sorry, but anytime I see the word "twerk", I just remember you. Can't help it.

Ishilove:
Okay. I wish you the best

Ishilove:
Best of luck, aunty.

LadyMercedes:
Don't worry, I'll send you pictures once I've done them.

They aren't that painful, depending on what part of your body you're tattooing. Maybe you should try getting a small one, for starters.

What d'you think?

LadyMercedes:
I have an appointment with my tattoo artist this weekend. Almost forgot sef.

Haute:
Hmm...Dyt. I dey see your handwork.

raumdeuter:
Yesterday I was reading a thread from Mercedes and it disappeared.

First person to get into the other room and give me details will win $10 that you can only redeem in North Korea

Maaamaaa:
Thank you all for your words.

I don't want to call off the engagement because he says I don't understand his personality, he is not romantic and I want a fairy-tale romance and he can't do that.

My mother says my pregnancy hormone is making me overreact.

My dad says out state of finance is affecting us.

His parents say I should tolerate him.

I still do love him and I can't explain why, He is not a bad person but I feel he does not love me. I do not want to anyone to get married to me out of pity and that's why I was asking for a solution.

He assist with the chores at home and bills. He does not keep late nights and he is always at home with me but he just wants to be alone always and I feel like he is irritated by me.

He says I demand too much attention from him.

I actually want to plan the wedding together but he is like he does not care and I should do the planning while he will look for the money...

He is 32years and I'm 23years.

Maaamaaa:
I was not desperate for marriage... I'm 23yrs and he is 32yrs

Timbuktou:
I may be a pathetic fool, emphasis on may. But cam you state one other reason why this woman, and her husband are famous?

Mimzyy:
Akara balls?

If you don't stop putting you phone(s) in your pocket, you'll have your balls fried pretty soon. Don't say i didn't tell you o.

SalomonKane:
I don't like tattoos. Like I said before, I don't wanna spill stuff about myself here.

masam:
I still don't understand why people re asking u to leave the guy asap. I say no to that.I simply see colleagues who re dating and and the lady happen to get pregnant. The guy did d honourable thing by accepting to marry her and move further to meet both parents.

Do u think its easy to walk up to both parents as a guy to say u want to marry a lady? You will be drilled and for the guy to still stand his ground means he is not marrying out of pity rather a calculated decision.

Maaamaa, it could be his financial state and unpreparedness that is working him up and not love as u guys posit. Asking u to do abortion is a suggestion even married couples make when finance is not stable. Pls don't leave the guy at ur state now because it won't be easy for you, unless u want to come to Nairaland tomorrow and be asking for contributions for baby food and things.

You guys should go ahead and do ur formal introduction and leave it at that, pending when u deliver ur baby. Love could be cultivated by ur good manners and support for each other.

The guy is not a bad guy from my assumptions and u sound naive to me, pls involve ur sibling and trusted friends before heeding to any online suggestions.

Chubhie:
You are a free spirit milady. Namaste.

Chubhie:
Like I know you from past incarnation.

SalomonKane:
The only thing I can't do is birth a baby and breast feed a baby. Heck, why you ask all this, hope you ain't looking for a house boy?

Chubhie:
The feelings mutual. The "affairs" of yesternight's all wiped off as predicted?

SalomonKane:
Wouldn't it be nicer if you keep the 'head' it came from?

Chubhie:
To imagine I once made some crazy choices and decisions. such days of ignorance!

Onegai:
So, if you don't call off the wedding, are you hoping he will do it for you? And if he doesn't, will you go through with it in December?

I see, just read the post before mine. You want tips and encouragement to win him back. Alright girl, best of luck to you.