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From my point of view, when it comes to understanding people I believe there are two categories of people:

#The first category ;

They believe that there are some people that can never be understood and because they can't understand them they are quick to term them crazy, weird or difficult.

#The second category ;

These people believe nobody understands them, so they keep to themselves and don't socialize and since they are termed weird or difficult, they believe they are.
More often than not they wonder why they are different from other people.

That leads us to the big question:
Is it possible to understand everybody?

I'll say YES and before you start to argue with me, READ ON.


There are about 6.7 billion people in the world today and because of our genes and our environment we are all different from each other.
Everybody is unique in his or her own way.
Our character, attitude and personality is borne out of our experiences, especially at the early stage of life.

That guy does not like talking much because as a kid his parents never gave him the opportunity to express himself.

That girl does not like keeping friends because she lost her mom which was her best friend when she was a kid and somehow she believes she will lose another friend so she keeps to herself.

To really understand someone you have to be able to relate to where they are coming from, what they have been through and the experience they have undergone, relating to that will help understand why they behave the way they do.
Despite the fact that humans are complex creatures, they are logical and highly predictable.

Before you open your mouth to call that person weird or crazy. OR
Before you break that girl's heart because you think she can never understand you. OR
Before you leave that guy because you think he's too difficult.

Remember that he or she is like that because of what he or she has been through.

We all can be understood, it will only just take TIME and a little PATIENCE.



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REGARDING DAVID CAMERON'S CONDESCENDING COMMENTS TO THE QUEEN YESTERDAY ABOUT NIGERIA & BUHARI'S PREVIOUS GAFFE:

All over the world Nigerians are setting the pace and becoming the standard by which others measure themselves #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

In the US, Nigerians are the most educated immigrant community. Type it into Google and you'll see it. Not one of the most educated, the most educated #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

60% of Nigerians in the US have college degrees. This is far above the American national average of 30% #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

Nigerians in US are one of the highest earners, typically earning 25% more than the median US income of $53k #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

In Ivy League schools in Europe and America, Nigerians routinely outperform their peers from other nations #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

A Nigerian family, The Imafidon family, have officially been named the smartest family in the UK #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

The designer of the famous car, Chevrolet Volt, Jelani Aliyu, is a super talented Nigerian from Sokoto State #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

The wealthiest Black man and woman on earth are Nigerians, Aliko Dangote and Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

South Africa couldn't have ended apartheid & achieved Black rule if not for the leadership role Nigeria played #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

Of the 3 Presidents who ruled South Africa after apartheid, two of them once lived in Nigeria under asylum #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

Both Nelson Mandela (60s) and Thabo Mbeki (70s) lived in Nigeria before becoming President of South Africa. We gave financial support, human support, boycotted an Olympics and our politicians, musicians and activists campaigned relentlessly. #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

Nigeria spent over $3 Billion and lost hundreds of soldiers to end the wars in both Liberia and Sierra Leone that the world ignored because they have no oil. #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

When there was a coup in São Tomé and Príncipe in 2003, Nigeria restored the elected President back to power #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

Before there were street lights in European cities, ancient Benin kingdom had street lights fueled by palm oil #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

500 years ago, Benin casted metal alloys to create magnificent art including the world famous Queen Ida Mask #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

Amina was a warrior queen who ruled Zaria Emirate in Kaduna state, Northwestern Nigeria 400 years ago in 1610 #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

We gave monetary gifts to Ireland during our oil boom and built a statue for France free of charge.
The first television station in Africa was NTA Ibadan (1960) long before Ireland has their RTE station.
#CelebrateYourNigerianness!

Wherever you look in this great country, Nigeria, heroes abound both now and in our recent and ancient past. #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

If all you do is listen to mainstream Western media, you'll not get the full picture of your Nigerian heritage #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

Do not listen to any leader who says Nigerians are criminals, no matter who he is, or his height and position #CelebrateYourNigerianness!

We're not a nation of scammers, drugs & corruption, but a people with a verifiable track record of greatness. #CelebrateYouNigerianness!

What CNN, BBC, Aljezeera and western media will not tell you about Nigerians.
On the 7th May, 2016 at Howard University in Washington D.C history was made. Out of 96 graduating Doctor of Pharmacy candidates, 43 of them were Nigerians and out of 27 awards given, 16 went to Nigerians.
#CelebrateYourNigerianness!

They will only tell you how Nigerians are scammers and cheats, how Nigerians are into drugs overseas et al.

If you don't blow your trumpet, no one will blow it for you.

You are NOT a criminal . Be proud of Nigeria. Be proud of our heritage. Be enthusiastic of our future greatness #CelebrateYourNigerianness!.

tete7000:
Or you mean what has this world already turned to?

Well,both but it keeps getting worse .

HerexG:
As a sharp guy kindly say " May i get the pics via whatsapp"

Lol And she wud be like 'oh my sub jez finished,save me d stress by turnin on ur bt'

Trump

What is dis world turning into?

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No 10-She wud probably send d pix thru bluetooth/flash share so hw wud he get her number?
Nice tips tho

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Of course he can if he finds a girl that understands

Do you know u had to log in before u cud post?

Soulmate05:
OP don't be deceived, they are both ugly. Girls can package eh! fake faces everywhere!

Lol, u wicked

Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all other things shall be added unto you

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He might be depressed but that still doesn't call for suicide.
Many people are facing one form of hardship or the other and not even considering suicide as an option.

Where are the 4 signs?