Lots of marriages fail these days as a result of the
unrealistic goals and expectations that couples set
before marriage. Many people venture into marriage
for the wrong reasons; some cannot even say why
they are in it. Ladies most times are to be blamed here; they
always seem to have certain standards the men are
expected to meet before they agree to marry them.
They keep chasing vague things and pay little or
no attention to important matters. Many women
get married because of the pressure placed on them by their family members or the society. Some of them feel the need to get married because
their mates are doing it and they want the man
they would end up with to fit some fictional
characters in their heads. These wrong choices or
criteria often make them fall into the wrong hands
and ruin their chances of being happy.


Find below some of the weird things ladies check in
men before marrying them:


1. Height This is the first thing a woman is likely to say when
you ask her about the things she desires in a man.
Every woman wants men that are tall. No one
wants a short man. Some women would even say they cannot date
men that are taller than they. Thus, when they
meet men who are tall and have one or two traits
that fit their vague qualities, they tune in and fall in
love with them.


2. Well-furnished apartment Ladies do not want to settle for less now when they
are planning for marriage. Every woman wants a
man who is successful and has different properties
to show with it. Men who have their own houses
are presumed to be better than men who don’t. These houses have to be furnished to taste and
classy for the women to fit into them. If a man does
not have this or something close enough, some
women would not agree to marry them.


3. Wealth Every woman wants a man that can see to her
financial needs. Money is important to a lot of
women out there and they would not settle down
with men who are struggling financially. Men who cannot meet their needs may not even
make the list of suitors they would be considering.
It does not matter whether the man has some
hidden demons as long as he has enough money in
his account.


4. Cars Now, it would amaze you to discover that some
ladies would not date men who do not have a car.
As soon as you approach them on with your
‘leggedbenz’ and they do not see you holding
a car key, it is a no-no. Some ladies love comfort and would not trade
anything for it. Before you stand a chance to talk to
them at all, your appearance has to speak a ton
about you.


Some ladies simply love it when they meet guys
who are romantic; they love men who would read
lines of poems to them and make them feel like
princesses. They enjoy the attention they get from
men like these and would immediately fall for their
gentle and romantic gestures. As far as some of these women are concerned, the
men’s ability to show love and care while being
romantic is more than enough.


6. Citizenship As soon as some ladies get to know the guys
asking them out are not Nigerians or they have
dual citizenship, love happens. Ladies love the
concept of marrying foreigners or men who would
give them the fair chance of stepping outside the
shores of this country. You would be shocked to discover that some ladies
would be willing to marry some men as soon as
they know they have passports to other countries.


7. Presence of six packs Women certainly love men who are physically fit;
they believe guys that are well-built are manly and
would be able to perform better than men who are
not. The presence of six packs would make some of
the ladies melt and get wet on the spot. They
would always choose a man with a firm body over a man with a pot belly.


8. Sexual performance Women no doubt love men whose strength in bed
can be likened to that of a stallion; they love men
who can drive them to different peaks of desire
when it comes to sexual activities. Knowing fully well that many women end up
cheating in marriage as a result of sex, they would
rather go for men who would make them go wild
with desire and leave their bodies limp after being
satisfied.


9. Occupation Many ladies want to get married to men who have
good jobs. They will always ask about the men’s
place of work within the first few minutes they
meet and would use the details to map out their
plans about them. Men who work in oil and gas
companies are seen as better suitors as compared to those who teach. In the same light, bankers are preferred to
mechanics. Women love the idea of being known
with men who have good jobs in the society.


10. Talent and fame Some ladies want to marry men who are talented
and famous. It is highly ridiculous finding women
who are ready to spend the rest of their lives with
certain men because of the talents the men have
and how famous they have become. Therefore, it is not strange when you see some
women who have dreams of getting married to
some artistes and public figures they do not know
personally. As long as they have talents they like,
then getting married to them is no big deal.


Cc_ Dominique, Rocktation, Farano

Not so true

let them creat that kind of men n marry.

very true, tiny brain everywhere

Na wa o
So these are wat i will consider for husband life partner?

God forbid in a million times

If na tosyn2much post this now, i for bilivit

95% true

La copy la paste! Citizenship kwa

What trash. This isn't true at all!

8 & 9 is not bad to me. Atleast a man should have a reliable source of income before getting married.........do u want me to wish for a 'one minute man'

they consider up to 10 things?.. the mind of a woman has alotta messed up shi I going on in it!

for guys its just 2;
•do I love her?
•can I live with her excesses?.. dassor

Xclusivegrin007:
If na tosyn2much post this now, i for bilivit

Cc_ tosyn2much... Lol

EazyJ:
95% true

Uh na go wait tire.

Especially now NAIJA bad...
How have u ladies prepared yourselves for MARRIAGE.. ?
MOST LADIES ladies are now prepared to remain as SIDE-CHICKS which is even better for the men.

Why do Ladies, still feel they can CHOOSE from different MEN after all they always say " ALL MEN ARE THE SAME ".... So why choose now..?

Ain't ladies confused.. ?

u just putted up a lotta crap here,yuh tryna make d ladies look bad,seems u woke up in IBIZA b4 writing dis sh*t,no matured lady dat x rdy 4marriage,still looks up 2all doze standards now,some wld not even mind marrying a blind man,so lng as d understanding x dia...

K

Make them carry clay mould the man of their choice.chikena