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1Sharon:
And which man/woman will respect a person still in their parents house?

People that are 30 should think, if they haven't left now..when will they leave?

just keep quiet.
you know nothing

tunjijones:
At 39 you still stay in your parents house? That's a definition of failure to me. When do you want to start start your life?

Guy na new year before this, start planning of how to move to your own house.

At 26 when I finished my service. One of my cousins asked me to move to a different city so she can help me get a job. She was staying in the heart of the city and in a house almost like a mansion. I had every thing at my disposal except respect. My cousin wi be telling me to go and make noddles for her 15 years old son. My aunty will be telling me to go and buy recharge card for her when her 15 yrs old son dey. I told myself I wld move out after 6 months. Which I did. I moved to a single room apartment in the suburb and it felt like heaven. The freedom, the peace of mind and all that.

It's 7 years ago now and I have been able achieve a lot. I have even started building my own house.

please just shut the hell up..
you should comment

Kobojunkie:
So a 30-year-old who lives at home in a house that belongs to his parents, enjoying free food which his parents can afford to give him, and all else, all while saving up to build his own house which he can then move out into is not a complete man?
So a 30-year-old man living with his parents and paying a portion of the bills for and with them, thereby enabling his parents to have some funds to put away for a nest egg or other issues, is not a complete man?

Why do some of you set these outrageous standards for others?

I usually disagree with most of your posts.
but this one has made me see reasons that you are still not completely finished

skultrick:
The op made a very valid point. To those condemning him, you're free to continue deceiving yourselves.

Leaving your parents house doesn't mean you're competing with anyone, it gives you that opportunity to be a complete man.

The logic here is that free house, food... means staying in your comfort zone. And staying in your comfort zone may never allow you reach your full potential.


Again, you can continue staying in your papa house.

such a dumb mentality

Ibechris2:
Congratulations to everyone of u out there. Welcome to 2023.

And if u know u are 30 and still in ur parents house...pls,do everything possible to leave them. It can never be easy at first but I am sure it would be easy as time goes by.

I was privileged to have left my parents at the age of 19 and I never came back except I want to visit them and spend some time with them.

To be honest here,i really suffered when i relocated to a new environment with not enough cash,no brother ,no sister no one to advice me except me alone. I squatted and things became rough that my parents urged me to come back and manage with them,but eventually it became a success story.

This is 2003,take the bold step and leave ur parents and fight ur way to success and see how life would be with u in the near future. I don't mean to insult anyone here but it is imperative to help oneself before it becomes a thing of regret.

Time waits for no one and if u don't take this actions,the thing is,u will regret not taking an action if old age eventually catches up with u.

Thanks and may God bless u guys.

I'm 32 years old and I'm the only one my parents have and they're in their 70's.
so basically I should leave them under whose care?
[uote author=Omoawoke post=119592441]limit your advice to yourself and try get sense this new year. Not everybody lives in room and parlor or self contain.
Some people papa get mansions in big cities and the child has his/her space. So they should park out and go and rent self contain?[/quote]honestly the way some people even reason ehn.
even had this girl I intended Starting something serious with.
she was pressuring me to leave my parents and rent a house so she'll have all the time to be with me.
funny enough my parents place is more closer to my place of work, also my apartment in my parents compound is like a boy's quarters so you'll have all the freedom in my parents place, also I can also be checking the sales boy working at the shop I erected at my parents compound.
had to dump the bitch

horlahwaley:
Op, This advice of yours is not true in all cases. If i had left my mothers house.the money i used to invest then would have been spent on getting new apartment, furnishings and still be working under somebody today after i have spend the money finish. Also, it makes me focus and not inviting unnecessary girls around that would have cause distractions. And also, if it is only your mother you have got, and only you she has got. You cant just leave her house and go rent a place na. If you doing well with that your decision keep it to your self. No cause depression for some people.

Maxxim:
Bruh not everyone living with their parents sits idle all day, I work really hard and I know people who also does, the idea is not rushing out when there's no one pursuing you.

Let's assume your place is few minutes to your workplace and you now intentionally leave home to where you'll now commute for hours to your workplace cause you want to feel independent and to feel uncomfortable.
It doesnt make sense moreover living comfortably isn't a bad thing as long as you're working and making the dough, don't let motivational speakers use comfort zone whine your head.

Moreover I believe it's the women that'll be more worried about this cos all they've always been concerned about their territory which they know might be affected if the husband is still living with his family.

Honestly, this is one of the best comment.

Johnchrix:
We're did I go wrong..i told her I can't be meeting her everyday. She got angry. She's a clingy type.

ghosted mine cos I wasn't ready for all those constant and excessive communication she requested for.
omo I spent more than 1k airtime daily and it was affecting my finances, I call almost 5 times per night before we sleep off.
I had to ghost her cos I have plans this year and her clinginess will affect me

DesChyko:
When the bus we took stopped suddenly in the middle of Ore - Benin expressway.. People dey pray sha, forget.

Nigeria don reduce folks to prayer warriors.

fear of herdsmen bro.
these drivers purposely know what they're doing

CandyOps:
I didn't have time for that. I was shocked but I did a short video after the FRSC came and loaded the injured and unconscious in the back of their pickup van. Omo! Like this new year never start people done die already on their way to celebrate it .

Chai... I think I'll never have to use the interstates here again. I'll fly henceforth (if I have the money)

anyone dead?

blakid:
Self development. Though I'm in my thirties, but I believe it's never too late to start afresh..

mine I'm early 30's as well but have nothing to achieve at this age.

zeeace:
I have tried for many years to quit masturbation but I guess this is my year and also quit gambling. I didn't save a dime this year. Lost everything I had to bet.
But this is different because I have finally realised you need certain amount of self discipline to conquer this evil. By this time next year I will tell a better story.

join us here bro

https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread/1580#119602921

Maychang:
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any teaching job?

Saintinoo:
But you will eat the meal twice or even more, that's the logic, but 500 food outside won't even be enough foe you.

that guy's moniker is Bolatinubu01
avoid arguing with APC fanatics

snowland:
Got it. I'm doing some verification on it. I'll get back to you later.

hello sir any hope for me?
just seeing this.
I'm still in school, final year though trying to complete my project so I can round up.
anything would be much appreciated sir

themanderon:
He should check himself well if he did any biribiri to gain that admission. My university then after verifying your results and finding out you got in through fake results would never inform you. You will only get to know you were never a student when its time for your NYSC. Then the rude shock would sink in.

honestly this is wickedness

TheGoodAmerican:
I don't date but maybe I'll start in 2023 and possibly find the love of my life. No Nigerian man. I want beautiful mixed, or blasian kids.

what do you have to offer?

Oyerinde16:
Probably not but year for no end well.... As I de like dis I flexed till this morning... Me n my wife flexing after cross over...

enjoy brother
you fit also send small tips make I take chop rice
na school I dey oo so no new year spending for me sha

Greatzeus:
Wow just checked my pulse balance now

omo your own plenty ooo

lifenija:
I no dey give woman money any how again

you this porn star, you better repent next year

dontrulee:
Not interested in relationship in 2023.
I want to focus on wealth and money making!

In 2022, I focus on relationship. Yeah, I think I dated close to 40 ladies if not more. There was a time I was dating 15 at once. It was all just for fun, to understand the female gender better and to explore. I have had my fill of that, I have loved and I have been loved back in return. I have knowledge and experience in relationship matters, now it's time to go for the bag.

same here boss, mine was so bad cos this year I've been financially down, couldn't even keep up with rent again, had to be taking them to smash at a friend's place.
I've ghosted all of them, 2023 is all about God, savings and establishing businesses, wealth and making money is my only target next year

Oyerinde16:
Took someone to a government hospital lab for some test, took the opportunity to clear doubt... I did HIV, Hapatitis B n C Sugar level test, infection etc, they charged me 5k as per the money will go to thier pocket I waited 3hrs... O told myself it's either I end this year well or find lagoon... My brothers and sisters it all came out. NEGATIVE .... As from tomorrow any lizard or cat fish that smile at me or chat me up na blocking straight...

assuming you were positive to hiv you definitely would have committed suicide?

Sixfeetbelle:
I never dey financially buoyant. Relationship for me will only happen when that happens, so no thoughts concerning relationships this 2023.

hi Chidinmma

Brownshoe:
To stop eating chalk.

how do you eat chalk?

Miracood2:
Make money

Have more fun

Stay fit

Improve my relationship with God and family

why didn't you add staying away from e-begging?

lifenija:
mumu i comment on porn link that i like n watched, why don't u learn to read n understand jeez illiterate

fool you post porn links with your numerous accounts you created with temp mail and comment with your alternate.
I hope the mods finally block you from this site

Divoc19:
Thanks
Don't mind ikennaford, he does not know what real beauty is hence he can not appreciate the beautiful things around him.

let's talk privately please.
I'll like us to know each other.
you're attractive