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Foreign AffairsRe: 2000-Year-Old Stone Coffin Discovered In Egypt Finally Opened (Graphic Photos) by Eberex(m): 11:55am On Jul 20, 2018
Take a minute to think of how many coffins are still buried under our cities. Don't even try to think about it.
BusinessRe: Have You Heard About Qunqun? Learn How To Make Money by Eberex(m): 2:51pm On Jul 13, 2018
IS THE APP ON PLAYSTORE?
RomanceRe: Should I Forgive Her Again by Eberex(m): 8:30am On Jul 12, 2018
If she is a student or an under-graduate, guy free am. It is part of the process. Let her flirt around until she realizes what she want.
CareerRe: I Recently Lost My High Paying Job And I'm At A Crossroads On What To Do Next by Eberex(m): 9:11am On Jul 11, 2018
Mac2016:
Sheer luck my brother! I expected &O(2.5) in that game...see where we are!
The 100% certainty in the games is FIRST HALF UNDER 1.5
HealthRe: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Eberex(m): 11:00pm On Jul 05, 2018
Get married.
FamilyRe: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Eberex(m): 3:01pm On Jul 04, 2018
MrxxxSmart:
The only reason you've lost interest in your wife is because you don't find her attractive anymore... but if you still find er attractive but not Sexually attractive,all you need is just like a month distance from her...that's all..Just a month without physical contact might spark tat fire... If not you need to see a therapist or check if you ave erectile dysfunction.
The OP doesnt have erectile dysfunction. I think one of the reason this is happening is probably your attention is on other female friends or colleagues or exes. Maybe you chat long with them and also flirt, but that ofcourse doesnt mean you have anything to do with them. But from what i can tell, your mind has been distracted to the extent that you would need to cut off everything you are doing that takes your mind away from your wife. Constantly see her in your mind.
SportsRe: Manchester United Has More Players Still In The World Cup (photos) by Eberex(m): 12:59pm On Jul 04, 2018
Remember EPL is close at hand. I wonder how you plan on winning your first half with half of your team away?
FamilyRe: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Eberex(m): 9:17am On Jul 04, 2018
franchasng:
I am not married yet but I have married friends who complain of this effect and it usually gets me worried because its not as if they are cheating on their wives, but sexual urge generally is dying in them after they got married, life sha cry

God will strengthen you, married guys, stay strong smiley
Guy, it is not a joking matter at all at all.

Let me try and explain. You know when you are maybe in a club or party and you see pretty girls in seducing wears, your dick responds immediately and if one doesn't take time, you might start feeling Hot there. Now if these ladies are to go completely naked, your dick would definitely get more excited. Shey, you get?

But when i am at home, my wife walks naked around the house, yet junior doesn't respond. Explain that! I asked her to do me a favour just a few days ago, that she should reduce the "walking naked" thing in the house. That the mind is very crazy at times, and that seeing something every now and then tends to diminish its interest. I tried to paint it in a picture that she also would understand. Luckily for me, she did.

Personally, i have a complex mind. Things tend to get into it and its hard to get it back to default. I love sex a lot, but suddenly its no longer like that, even when you know you can have it with your wife.

But i have resolved to deal with it and find a solution, starting with my mindset. All i would see, eat and touch would be my wife. All my thoughts would go to her, be it a naked lady, i would put her face on hers. I need to start finding her super attractive even without being naked. I need to touch, cuddle, caress her more. The moment a man takes his eyes off his wife, things starts to fall.

Love is not the same thing as sexual attraction, that is what i have found out. You can love your wife but you dont feel sexually attracted to them, and this should not be the case. IT IS ALL IN THE MIND. MINDSET IS A BITCH. Anyone who has a control of his MIND,can do ANYTHING.
FamilyRe: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Eberex(m): 7:42am On Jul 04, 2018
pikkasso:
sir, I might not be married but I know how u feel ..100% .. I have a girlffriend that I was dating and we started living as couples for almost 2 years. The first 3 weeks was almost steady or too much sex.. I later discovered that within 2 months to the relationship I was tired of having sex with her, she wasn't fat noo. Perfect figure 8.. I would rather opt to cheat with someone who is not up to her standard..she noticed it too and steped up her Do you know how iwe solved ithuh Role play!!!! I would go out and by the time am back in the evening she might be cooking and maybe she might just be wearing only my shirt, she started looking sOo hot that even if am tired, JUNIOR would not be.lol and we both had the understanding as a couple that its not "my" problem but "our" problem.. Cause as a couple u have to defeat the mindset of thinking bout urself alone, once u start seeing ur partner as ur half... Not with mouth but with both mindset and thoughts . That issue would be long gone, spice up ur bedroom life, get her some sexy lingerie.. Drink Kunu + Milk + GroundNut = Ever Ready for action.. Thank me later
Are you sure on the bolded?
FamilyRe: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Eberex(m): 7:39am On Jul 04, 2018
franchasng:
It is normal....sex is overrated....women don't know that men do get tired of having sex with their wife once they get married.

But in most cases, it maybe as a result of financial stress...family/work/business pressure. Sometimes it might be as a result of over familiarity...you now see your wife as your sister; happens to lots of married men but in Nigeria, men pretend about it in order to keep the marriage going....but whitemen will divorce once they experience that.

My brother don't kill yourself about it....relax, with time, the urge may come again....all humans; man or woman must understand that sex can be tiring and boring, especially when u get married with too many responsibilities; mostly money matter.
True. I married few months ago and suddenly, the poo is happening to me. I used to be crazy about sex but the knowledge alone that she would be there whenever i need it is also part of the problem. The mind also is a VERY powerful thing. If the mind has conceived something, one had better work out on way to control and reset it back to default.
FamilyRe: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Eberex(m): 7:35am On Jul 04, 2018
xynerise:
You can't force what is psychological or health related.

If there is any habit you just started that is literally against your sexual activity with your wife, quit it as soon as possible.

If you are undergoing stress or trauma...you need to find a way to curtail it. Sexual urge works with the brain. You need a relaxed mind. Make madam sef dey nake"d for house most of the time na
Being naked will only make it worse. Seeing a naked woman every time diminishes the desire
PropertiesRe: A $7.6m Dollar House That Looks Ordinary From The Outside(Photos) by Eberex(m): 2:34pm On Jul 03, 2018
THE OWNER IS DEFINITELY A GOT FAN.
SportsRe: Kanu Nwankwo And Wife, Amara Celebrate 14th Wedding Anniversary With Cute Photos by Eberex(m): 2:06pm On Jul 03, 2018
LOVELY PICTURE AND CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU PAPILO.

THERE ARE POSTS YOU WILL COME ACROSS, NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU TRY TO TYPE A NEGATIVE THING TO IT, YOUR BODY WILL FIGHT YOU AND YOU WILL END UP BLESSING INSTEAD.

LET ME SEE IF SUCH A POST WILL EMANATE.
FamilyRe: Man Spots ‘dead’ Wife With Another Man In Lagos by Eberex(m): 8:47am On Jul 02, 2018
This happened at a Boys only boarding school. So no one should come here and tell me rubbish because it happened.

There was this boy called Tony who is very good at athletics, so good that he was very popular in the school.

There is another boy called Francis, a stubborn and a trouble-maker; as part of his routine, most times he jumps the school fence on weekends and goes into town to eat a good meal at his aunt's place. Most of his friends encourage him because he always comes back with goodies.

During this period the school was preparing for her inter-house event so there was a time for practice. Tony was the star. Beating other students in all track events. But on this very day, he collapsed while training and everybody panicked. They rushed him to the school clinic but he didn't make it. Come and see the mood in the school, because it was something almost everyone on the field witnessed.

On Sunday night, two days later, some students were in one of the classrooms upstairs, trying to study and at the same time gisting about Tony's sudden death.

Francis has already jumped the fence into the school and was heading back to his dormitory. As he walked he saw the light in the classroom upstairs so he decided to holler at the students there. As he made to climb the stairs he met Tony walking down the stairs. "Hey what's up gee" They shook hands while Tony kept walking. Francis continued up the stairs and entered the class.

He hailed his friends as he entered, but no one even paid attention to him. All faces were sad. "wetin dey do una", i dey greet una no fit answer, abi what is the problem"? "the students looked at one another and realized Francis didn't hear about the news, so one of them asked him, "so you haven't heard what happened on the field on friday"

"how i go hear" replied Francis, "una sabi say i dey enter town for weekend"

more silence as no one was ready to be the one to break the news to him.

"wetin happen na? You guys should talk and stop acting wierd"

One of them said "Tony collapsed on the field and died later at the clinic"

Francis was like "Una dey craze ni? Which kin joke be dis na, abeg if na play make una stop am o! it is too expensive".

They replied, "we are not joking, how we go joke for person death"

Na lie jor !!! he started laughing, and then said "As i dey climb the stairs, no be Tony i just greet now? abi no be from this class him bin come out from?

"The look on the students face was both of shock and disbelief. Suddenly Francis shivered, and then ran from the door and went to stand close to the students. Other students got up and out of fear started screaming. Some started packing their books and bags while others are still in shock.

Come and see scrambling as everyone ran out of the class.
FamilyRe: Man Spots ‘dead’ Wife With Another Man In Lagos by Eberex(m): 9:43pm On Jul 01, 2018
I will say my own later tomorrow, right now I am watching penalty shoot out between Croatia and Denmark
TV/MoviesRe: DC EXTENDED UNIVERSE (FILM) by Eberex(m): 11:33am On Jun 29, 2018
Lh19:
Apart from that awful movie he hasn't been adopted for live action TV yet so it would be a good take on him.
Robin is a calm fighter and a good strategist.
Batman seems better off fighting alone. I don't see the usefulness of Robin
TV/MoviesRe: DC EXTENDED UNIVERSE (FILM) by Eberex(m): 8:49am On Jun 29, 2018
Lh19:
This Titans TV show Robin's suit is movie grade chaii....


Sha Young Justice's release date has been shifted to 2019
Is it just me, or why am i finding it difficult to think they are trying to resurrect the dead. i can't remember the last time i read about Robin. For me I think they didn't do justice in making Robin relevant during his days with Batman. What are his abilities? How good was he? Which of the current superheroes can he beat if we are to have a face-off battle? For example. what would be his rating against spiderman.
CrimeRe: "Pastor Gave Me Human Blood To Drink To Become A Millionaire" - Suspect by Eberex(m): 1:18pm On Jun 28, 2018
Kai, fraudsters are just everywhere. Any little opportunity they see they exploit. Brainwashing is taking centre stage.
SportsRe: Ighalo: 'I Enjoyed Every Bit Of The World Cup' by Eberex(m): 9:01am On Jun 28, 2018
opsyswagger:
Ighala my advise for you is go and resign.. seriously$$ in anoder new see as person squander 5 million on bet 9ja..... what will will call dis!
MHEN, THIS GUY GO DON FAINT O!
CrimeRe: Man Gets Accused Of Rape By Lady He Ignored For His Laptop (Pics) by Eberex(m): 8:34am On Jun 28, 2018
I can definitely relate. If the gal turned out to be a FINE gal and beauty, my guy wouldn't have touched the laptop. But what do you expect after travelling all the way from Berger to Ajah? traffic, stress plus the sweat all over her. I bet her make-up would have been messy by the time she got to the dude's house.

The first sight of her broke the camel's back. But being the kind of person he is, a gentleman, he allowed her to stay over (if he could send her back that day he would, trust me).

If na me na hin i go do too o! if no laptop, na movie i go watch till daybreak
PoliticsRe: Plateau Killings: Questions Fayose Is Asking Buhari On Attacks by Eberex(m): 3:05pm On Jun 27, 2018
Belluchii:
This Fayose is at it again, he takes everything as joke, i don't know why he uses every opportunity to hit on the government. he is acting as if he has the interest of this country at heart. its glaring that he is just happy that this has happened, at least he has seen something to attack with, he is so heartless, using a very terrible situation to pursue a career. I don't know why he is judging, he should focus on his state and let the FG do their job. He was not the one who advice the FG when they introduced operations across the country that comes out successful, he should stop making people have a negative impression about the Government[color=#990000][/color]
Shut up there!

CrimeRe: Teenager Rapes Autistic Patient In Ogun, Gets Arrested (Photo) by Eberex(m): 3:23pm On Jun 25, 2018
gistblogger:
sad

SEE THEIR UNCENSORED PHOTOS HERE>>> http://www.gistmore.com/teenager-arrested-raping-autistic-patient-ogun
SHARAAAP! WHICH UNCENSORED PHOTOS!!
CelebritiesRe: Pictures: Game Of Thrones Kit Harington And Rose Leslie Tie The Knot In Scotland by Eberex(m): 11:11am On Jun 24, 2018
Only GOT fans would comment on this post. Others would be like "who are these people "?
TV/MoviesRe: DC EXTENDED UNIVERSE (FILM) by Eberex(m): 11:57am On Jun 22, 2018
Avengers infinity. The adverts made it look like it was gonna be a breath taking movie. I initially planned on seeing it in a cinema but I got the HD download from a friend.

Seriously speaking, first time I watched it, I didn't understand the story line. The whole thing looked jam-packed as if they were trying to compress 5G memory into a 100MB flash drive.

I plan on watching it again so as to understand the movie, but two weeks and counting, I am yet to because I wasn't really impressed.
SportsRe: Denmark Vs Australia: World Cup (1 - 1) On 21st June 2018 by Eberex(m): 11:41am On Jun 21, 2018
AUSTRALIA IS WINNING
SportsRe: Argentina Vs Croatia: World Cup (0 - 3) - On 21st June 2018 by Eberex(m): 10:19am On Jun 21, 2018
FIRST HALF UNDER 1.5
RomanceRe: Recharge Card Printing Business For My Boyfriend: What's Your View On This? by Eberex(m): 4:35pm On Jun 14, 2018
BUT HAVE IT AT THE BACK OF YOUR MIND THAT MANY PEOPLE ARE NOW RECHARGING THEIR PHONES STRAIGHT FROM THEIR MOBILE BANK ACCOUNT. WITH TIME, BUYING OF RECHARGE CARDS WOULD FADE
Christianity EtcRe: Lord's Chosen Members In Warri Sit On Wet Ground During Publicity . Photos by Eberex(m): 1:37pm On Jun 14, 2018
WHERE IS THEIR GENERAL OVERSEER NA? HE SHOULD BE AT THE FOREFRONT
PoliticsRe: Tinubu: Why Buhari Deserves A Second Term by Eberex(m): 12:20pm On Jun 13, 2018
BETRAYAL. THAT IS WHAT THEY ARE GOOD AT.

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