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Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Reference(m): 7:47am On Jul 04, 2018 |
Be specific about the effect it is having on her. |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by mindworx: 7:51am On Jul 04, 2018 |
pacino26: Thank you very much bro |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by pocohantas(f): 8:09am On Jul 04, 2018 |
franchasng: And you think the women don't know? Or because they don't whine about like you guys are fond of...everyone assumes only women deprive their husbands of sex. shior! 1 Like |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Mr9ija: 8:10am On Jul 04, 2018 |
I actually went through same 2 years ago but was able get out of it. Are you 40 and above? My own case started when i turned 40 and many of my friends have experienced same after 40 but never worry it's solvable. I don't know how your wife is able to manage the situation as i read others said you should be open to your wife and discuss but mine wasn't so convincing in managing the situation and i think most women will have that attitude of leaving you to solve your problem or unnecessaryly anger cos of sex. 3 things you need to do, you need to change your pre-intimacy and do some other wild pre-intimacy to get in the mood, stop using missionary if you are not hard enough, i hope she will be ready with you on that because they are mainly beneficiary of wild pre-intimacy, BJ will help you. 2ndly, try and work on your anxiety and state of mind of thinking you will disappoint her once you starts or getting scared of having sex with her, it's hard to do but try and occupy your mind with some other thing before pre-intimacy and during penetration, once you enter her with good hardon you will be fine and your 2nd round will be better than 1st. 3rdly, you need to get some herbal roots to always get your horney. Best of luck pal. |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by vo55555: 8:14am On Jul 04, 2018 |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by John902(m): 8:14am On Jul 04, 2018 |
you had enough of it when you was in your youthful days and as time passes things changes everyday and you loss desire for sex cause of your long involvement in it when you was unmarried... Our women often don't do things they did before they got in our home ,they now consider themselves being a mom and won't try work on themselves...in America ,you'll see a 50 years old woman rocking Jordan and look like she in her 20's these things attracts men younger to those women. our women needs to be aware and more counselling will help them improve...I hope this help |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Imustreturn(m): 8:19am On Jul 04, 2018 |
Techsupport:I salute u bro |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by guru03(m): 8:33am On Jul 04, 2018 |
evilspirit:I pray the evil in you does not dominant you for the rest of your life, repent. |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by srclark: 8:47am On Jul 04, 2018 |
nomsreal:hahaha just a Nigerian by birth |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by franchasng: 8:51am On Jul 04, 2018 |
pocohantas:lol ImaIma1:you are right, sadly |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by pikkasso(m): 8:53am On Jul 04, 2018 |
Eberex:Tested Trusted & Reliable.. That's when u want to boost ur sex urge.. U also take more of banana, un-ripped plantain porridge (that helps in increasing manHood) .. I would quote u once I get my jotter with all the sex goodies |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by franchasng: 8:53am On Jul 04, 2018 |
Eberex:I am not married yet but I have married friends who complain of this effect and it usually gets me worried because its not as if they are cheating on their wives, but sexual urge generally is dying in them after they got married, life sha God will strengthen you married guys, stay strong |
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Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Eberex(m): 9:17am On Jul 04, 2018 |
franchasng: Guy, it is not a joking matter at all at all. Let me try and explain. You know when you are maybe in a club or party and you see pretty girls in seducing wears, your dick responds immediately and if one doesn't take time, you might start feeling Hot there. Now if these ladies are to go completely naked, your dick would definitely get more excited. Shey, you get? But when i am at home, my wife walks naked around the house, yet junior doesn't respond. Explain that! I asked her to do me a favour just a few days ago, that she should reduce the "walking naked" thing in the house. That the mind is very crazy at times, and that seeing something every now and then tends to diminish its interest. I tried to paint it in a picture that she also would understand. Luckily for me, she did. Personally, i have a complex mind. Things tend to get into it and its hard to get it back to default. I love sex a lot, but suddenly its no longer like that, even when you know you can have it with your wife. But i have resolved to deal with it and find a solution, starting with my mindset. All i would see, eat and touch would be my wife. All my thoughts would go to her, be it a naked lady, i would put her face on hers. I need to start finding her super attractive even without being naked. I need to touch, cuddle, caress her more. The moment a man takes his eyes off his wife, things starts to fall. Love is not the same thing as sexual attraction, that is what i have found out. You can love your wife but you dont feel sexually attracted to them, and this should not be the case. IT IS ALL IN THE MIND. MINDSET IS A BITCH. Anyone who has a control of his MIND,can do ANYTHING. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by goodies4life(f): 9:39am On Jul 04, 2018 |
SO YOU THINK ONLY MARRIED PEOPLE KNOW BETTER? IT WILL SURPRAISE YOU TO KNOW SO MANY SO CALL COUPLE'S KNOWS NOTHING. GO AND TREAT INFECTION FAST. |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by nuclearboy(m): 9:41am On Jul 04, 2018 |
Diet plays a huge part in libido... most marriages turn to solid regular foods and coupled with little exercise, madam grows fat and Oga becomes lazy Take fruits or smoothies as breakfast... especially watermelon (the skin is the power), pineapples, cucumbers, avocado pears .... but ALL fruits help... and cut down on pasta etc get some exercise too Some of us can easily "damage" in our late 40s/50s and have to regularly, because we live right |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by guru03(m): 9:46am On Jul 04, 2018 |
goodies4life:What a married person has seen even if you that is single even if you climb the highest mountain is still blinded, wait for you time. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by guru03(m): 9:48am On Jul 04, 2018 |
nuclearboy: Noted, Nice one. |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by onwuakpachris(m): 10:11am On Jul 04, 2018 |
start taking tramadol...as simple as that |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by cokoesang: 10:12am On Jul 04, 2018 |
Take her on a holiday, i mean away from home for a day or two, u two alone, without the kids, sometimes change of environment sparks up things, u will find out the urge for good lovemaking will heat up and remember u two should wear something very hot. thank me later 1 Like |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by VictorEkwere: 11:03am On Jul 04, 2018 |
guru03:Many factors could caused lost of sexual appetite a little tips that can be of help is alcohol and watching porn movie. These two element are good to arouse sex urge. |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by franchasng: 11:11am On Jul 04, 2018 |
Eberex:I totally agree with the part in bold. I think at that point, you now see her like your own sister and the love is now blood, platonic and commitment instead of sexual. This loss-of-sexual-attraction for wife syndrome I hear many married men confess secretly to their closest male friends always get me scared because I can imagine it....and in most cases, the woman may not understand what the husband is going through and she may start to accuse him of cheating when he may not be cheating with any woman. Just like me...even though I am single...my brother for the past 4 months or more, I have lost interest in sex. I rarely find any lady sexually appealing like I do see some pretty ladies in the past and feel this instant sex appeal for them...now I feel nothing....the thought of sex now even make me wondering why people disturb their life because of sex....I can then imagine if I am married and facing this situation, that may cause marital issues if the lady is not understanding enough, life sha, hmmmm |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by franchasng: 11:13am On Jul 04, 2018 |
goodies4life:This has nothing to do with infection my sister...its about mindset, and another reason I can think of is financial stress, career pressure, business failure, etc |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by smart6(m): 11:22am On Jul 04, 2018 |
onwuakpachris:Tramadol will soon kii you dia! |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by coldfingerz: 11:33am On Jul 04, 2018 |
guru03:Give me your wife's number, I have an opinion for her. |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Ezypretty: 12:06pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
please start taking aya(tiger nut) juice, coconut and dates, it will help a long way. Also talk dirty with her to be in the mood. |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by folamsimper: 1:12pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Hello fellow, I am sorry for your situation, but please you need to start working on yourself with knowledge of your wife. Since I started reading the comments of people here I hardly found anyone who has addressed what might likely be the challenge that you are facing. Although of them said something about psychological issue, which I agree with, but if I may be direct in declaring to you what the main issue is, I will say that you are likely suffering from Erectile Dysfunction (ED), which Yoruba people usually call "idakole". I do not want to talk much, but my suggestion to you is that you should quickly find a urologist to check you up. For example, you may try a firm called Men's Clinic International (MCI). They have an office around Anthony Lagos. This issue may adversely affect your marital home if you don't start making moves to counteract this problems. In case you need more helpful information, feel free to communicate with me. |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by sexdoll: 2:03pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
talk2max: abi? oya advice am na, or what are you waiting for? |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by MrxxxSmart(m): 2:50pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
guru03:The only reason you've lost interest in your wife is because you don't find her attractive anymore... but if you still find er attractive but not Sexually attractive,all you need is just like a month distance from her...that's all..Just a month without physical contact might spark tat fire... If not you need to see a therapist or check if you ave erectile dysfunction. |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
GAZZUZZ: That went to the left quickly |
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