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nice write up....though some of us are not yet married,hopefully we are getting set for the big game

the fact about life is you can't be doing a particular thing and see success in other things you never worked for.
Sex never made anyone tall by any inch.just find away to seriously connect yourself and the girl back to God trust me you will see changes

[quote author=LeonMacJames post=32404241]For how many mins bro. I can help you.
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well op you're correct ,but that seems to be fun of most guys because its like chasing a she goat......

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Let us greet the OP. Weldone from me to you. #OkuOriReRe..thnks bro,you know the feel that you begin to compare yourself with others instead of appreciating yourself..!

comparison with others
Comparison is the act of
evaluating personal self worth in
terms of others.comparing
yourself with others is very much
good only within a certain
proportion at which you are able to
spring positively .
However most people get into
comparison resulting to self pity
at the end. This very attitude
should be extremely examine in
order to have peaceful daily living
as this may result to suicide “You
shouldn't compare yourself to
others!”,
people might tell you.
Of course, without an explanation
this is
about as good advice as “Just be
yourself!” or
“Just be more confident!”.
Most likely it will not help at all.
So, why shouldn’t we compare
ourselves to
others?
One reason is that there is always
someone –
or more likely, a bunch of folks –
better than
you.
If you focus your mind to
compare your life to
other people´s lives you will
always find
someone new above you. And
your self-
esteem will take a beating.
If you get a nicer car to feel better
compared
to Bill Patterson next door and you
will feel
satisfied for a while. The next day,
on you
way to work, you notice that the
guy who's
always out walking his poodle at
weekends
has an even sweeter ride than
you.
And if you buy a better car than
him six
months later then you will soon
notice that
the Amberson kid around the
corner has
made millions via some internet-
contraption
and now drives a Koenigsegg to
school.
One of the big reasons we
compare our lives
is to get approval. And in general I
think that
wanting approval from others is a
big obstacle
in both personal growth and living
a happy
life. We may want the neighbours,
friends
etc. to think/say: “Did you see
that new car/
swimming-pool/shoes? It is the
coolest on the
block. S/he´s is moving up in the
world”.
A problem with comparing
yourself to others
and wanting approval from them
is that you
let others control how you feel in
life. You feel
bad when you are saving for the
new car. You
feel great when you finally have
gotten
enough money to drive it home.
And then you
feel bad again when you see that
someone
else has an even finer automobile.
It´s a bit like being puppet and
having other
people pulling the strings. They
limit you
movements and your life. You
might have
some movement but the strings
controls
which way you are going.
How to gain that inner freedom
The thing about lessening your
need for
approval is that you have give up
both
positive and negative approval.
They are
connected because when if you
no longer
crave positive cheers and approval
from
people then you will no longer
have fears of
not getting that approval either.
When you really start to give it up
– which
might have to be done over time
and with
patience as your ego probably will
want to
snap back to seeking that sweet,
sweet
approval – you start to realise that
neither of
them are that important. They are
really only
as important as you decide they
are. You are
what you think you are and the
world is what
you think it is.
Another way to free yourself is to
put in some
massive, drastic action. Like,
instead of
driving your car, starting to ride a
bicycle to
work. This could catapult you right
into
disapproval and let you move
outside your
comfort zone quickly. When you
first move
out of your comfort zone it is
uncomfortable.
But after a while you get used to it
and the
discomfort starts to dissipate.
If you try this method you may
discover that
people don´t care as much as you
feared –
maybe they are busy worrying
about their
own problems and what others
may think of
them. Or you can find that youÂ
´ve had a
positive effect on others. Next
week maybe
you are not the only one riding a
bicycle to
work.
A third way is one I´ve
discovered recently
though Eckhart Tolle´s dvd “The
Flowering
of Human Consciousness”. It´s a
bit counter-
intuitive but bear with me.
Whenever you feel some feeling
you don´t
want to feel, like neediness for
approval from
someone then don´t struggle
with this
feeling. Don´t try and keep it
out. Then it
will just be further entangled in
your mind
and possibly even strengthened.
Instead, accept the feeling. Say
yes to it.
Surrender and let it in.
Observe the feeling in your mind
and body
without judging it. If you just let it
in and
observe it for maybe a minute or
two
something wonderful happens.
The feeling
just vanishes. Yeah, I know, it
sounds weird
but give it a try.
The funny thing is when you no
longer need
approval from others, when you
stop
comparing yourself to others you
will have a
greater inner freedom to do what
you want.
You will notice positive
opportunities in your
life that wasn´t there before.
And, as usual, don´t feel too bad
or beat
yourself up if you snap back to
wanting
approval. Just get back on track
the next day,
keep it up and gradually you will

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To so many Christmas is one very time of the year we celebrate Christ ,that is WRONG ,you may ask why?
1.Christmas was not exactly born on December 25th
2.The very worst of iniquity in the world is committed in the said month of celebration .people are initiated into evil of alcoholism ,fornication ,lies of all shape n sizes are said to acquire gifts from people ,
3.this life is just a vapour that vanishes away why concentrating much every into Christmas from January when you can use the time in living one day at a time .
5.though it might not sound pleasant but why celebrate Christ on a said day when you can do it every day

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Being financially secure enough to enjoy your
life in retirement is the last thing on the minds
of those under 30. After all, with the stress of
all the expensive "firsts" that often come about
during this period, like purchasing a car, buying
a house and starting a family, it's hard to even
think about saving for the future. However,
working toward financial security need not be
an
exercise in self-deprivation, as many people
assume. Attaining this goal even has some
immediate benefits, as financial insecurity can
become a serious source of stress - something
"20-somethings" have enough of already.
So can you achieve long-term financial security
without sacrificing your short-term goals?
Read on for 10 tips on how to do just that.
1. Have Fun
Enjoy yourself while you are young - you will
have plenty of time to be miserable when you
are older. Living a successful, enjoyable and
happy life is about achieving a proper balance
between time with family and friends and
between work and leisure time. Striking a
proper
balance between your life today and your
future
is also important. Financially, we can't live as if
today was our last day. We have to decide
between what we spend today versus what we
spend in the future. Finding the correct balance
is an important first step toward achieving
financial security.
2. Recognize Your Most Important Financial
Asset:
Yourself, Your skills, knowledge and experience
are the
biggest asset you have. The value of your
future
earnings will dwarf any savings or investments
you might have for most of your career. Your
job and future career is the most important
factor in achieving financial independence and
security. For those just entering the work force,
future career opportunities are as bright as
they've ever been. The large number of retiring
baby boomers is expected to create labor
shortages. There will be room for advancement
as companies scramble to fill the positions held
by these aging baby boomers. Those who are in
a position to take advantage of these
opportunities will benefit the most.
Look at yourself as a financial asset. Investing
in
yourself will pay off in the future. Increase your
value through hard work, continual upgrading
of
skills and knowledge, and making smart career
choices. Efforts to improve your career can
have
a far bigger impact on your financial security
than tightening your belt and trying to save
more.
3. Become a Planner, Not a Saver
Research has shown that those who plan for
the
future end up with more wealth than those
who
do not. Successful people are goal oriented:
they
set goals and develop a plan to achieve them.
For example, if you set a goal to pay off your
student loans in two years, you'll have a better
chance of achieving this goal than you would if
you merely said you wanted to pay off your
student loans, but failed to set a timetable.
Become a planner. Set goals and develop an
action plan to reach them. Even the process of
writing down some goals will help you to
achieve
them. Being goal oriented and following a plan
means taking control of your life. It is an
important step toward improving your financial
independence and security.
4. Set Short-Term Goals - Long-Term Goals
Will Take Care of Themselves
Life holds many uncertainties - and a lot can
change between now and 30 years into the
future. As such, the prospect of planning far
into the future is a daunting task and in many
ways, it's often an exercise in futility for young
investors.
Rather than setting long-term goals, set a
series
of small short-term goals. These goals could be
a simple as trying to pay off credit card debt or
student loans in a matter of months. Maybe
your goal is to contribute to your company's
pension plan with a set salary reduction
contribution each month. Setting short-term
goals that will help you to advance in your
career is important in helping you get ahead.
Remember, these short-term goals should be
measurable and precise. You can't win a race if
there's no finish line.
As you achieve your short-term goals, set other
short-term goals. Maybe you want
to acquire a higher degree (masters or
doctorate ) ,house,earn a promotion at work or
start up a new business from which you can
buy your dream car. The constant setting and
achieving of short-
term goals will ensure that you reach your
longer-term goals. If your goal is to be worth a
million by age 40, you cannot achieve
this without first achieving smaller goals like
having what people call "peanuts". Remember
Rome wasn't built in day
.
5. Planning For Retirement:
Forget about it?
Just out of school, retirement planning is the
last
thing on your mind. So, if you have to for now,
just "fuggetaboutit". If you follow the other tips,
you will not only be more financially secure and
prepared in the short term, but you will also be
financially prepared for the distant future as
well.
However, if you take a few steps now to start
saving, like setting up automatic monthly
contributions to a retirement plan the better, or
if probably you're still in school you can make
this an agenda or prioty when you have started
working .
If you implement this pay yourself first ideal,
you won't have to worry about how much
you're contributing; the most important thing is
to develop the habit of saving. The rest will
take
care of itself. You can increase your
contributions when your income rises or when
you've achieved more of your short-term
financial goals.
6. Make Sure Your Lifestyle Costs Lag Your
Income Growth
Many new graduates find that in the first
couple
years of working they have excess cash flow.
Still
used to their more frugal student spending
habits, it is easy to make more money than
they
need. Rather than using excess income to buy
new toys and live a more luxurious lifestyle,
this
excess could be put toward reducing debt or
adding to savings. As you advance in your
career and attain greater responsibility, your
salary should increase. If the cost of your
lifestyle lags your income growth, you will
always
have excess cash flow that can be put toward
paying down debt, making investments, saving
for a home, or achieving any other financial
goals you may have.
Where many people get into trouble is that they
feel entitled to a standard of living that
exceeds
what they can afford. However, if you keep
your
standard of living below what you earn, you
won't have to cut back to accumulate money;
instead, you will naturally have excess cash flow
because you earn more than you need to live
on. For all you know, you may
make more than the Joneses, who may be
funding their lavish lifestyle with debt anyway.
The good life should be a reward for your hard
work, good fortune and successful planning, not
something that you are entitled to. Once you
have established a certain lifestyle, it is
psychologically difficult to lower it. It is very
easy to raise it.
7. Become Financially Literate
Making money is one thing; saving it and
making
it grow is another. Financial management and
investing are lifelong endeavors. Making sound
financial and investment decisions is important
for achieving your financial goals. The more
knowledgeable and experienced you are in
financial matters, the fewer mistakes you will
make.
Research has shown that people who are
financially literate end up with more wealth
than
those who are not. There is a strong monetary
incentive for becoming financially sophisticated.
Taking the time and effort to become
knowledgeable in the areas of personal finance
and investing will pay off throughout your life.
8. Seize the Opportunities:Take Calculated
Risks.
Taking calculated risks when you are young can
be a prudent decision in the long run. You
might
make mistakes along the way, but remember,
mistakes are the lessons of wisdom. You often
learn more from your mistakes than from your
successes. Also, when you are young, you can
recover faster from financial mistakes, and you
have many years to recover.
Examples of calculated risks might include
moving to a new city with more job
opportunities, going back to school for
additional
training or taking a new job at a different
company for less pay but more upside
potential.
Starting a new company, working for a small
startup company, or investing in high risk/high
return stocks, is easier to do when you're
young. Younger people can afford to take risk,
and the same opportunities might not be
available later in life. As people get older and
assume more family responsibilities like paying
off the mortgage or saving for the kids'
education, many are forced to play it safe and
are unable to capitalize on riskier opportunities
that present themselves.
Taking calculated risks when you can afford to
do so is necessary to get ahead financially.
Playing it safe might be the bigger mistake in
the
long run.
9. Borrow Money For Investments - Never to
Finance a Lifestyle
As mentioned before with the Joneses, you
should never borrow to finance a lifestyle you
cannot afford. Using credit for a life you feel
entitled to is a losing proposition when it comes
to building wealth. The constant borrowing will
assure that there is no money available for
investing, and the added interest expense of
borrowing further increases the cost of the
lifestyle.
Borrowing money should be used only for
investing - where your gain will outrun your
borrowing costs. This might mean investing in
the literal sense (for stocks, bonds, etc.) or it
might mean investing in yourself for your
education, extra training, to start a business or
to buy a house. In these cases, borrowing can
provide the leverage you need to a reach your
financial goals faster. Borrowing to meet short-
term desires is wasteful .
10. Take Advantage of Financial Freebies
Not many things in life are free invest only you
time to study financial times ,journals of the
economy.Be very much ready to receive advice
about been financially free such as this, it
shows you're wise it doesn't cost any penny as
such but your time and patience which will pay
off greatly in the end.
Achieving financial independence is a goal most
people strive for. It is not necessarily easy, but
it is achievable if you understand your
priorities,
set achievable goals and take the proper steps
toward reaching them.
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now this is vanity of the highest order ,
some ladies have to sell their sanity?,for so called lust for humanity,
gone were the the days morality rules ladies activities ,
but it shall not tarry because some will marry ruins of inquity ..

....yea ,you are quite true but the very thing is we should not allow peoples' attitude to change our very good character .. perhaps our good attitude can change theirs

There goes the famous saying "no one can
survive as an island" God has so wired us that
we so interconnected to each other to achieve
fulfillment .well this is circled around
friends .friends share your brightest moment
and brighten your ugly times ,If you have one
good friend, you are one of the few lucky
persons in the world, who is optimistic that
when things get wrong, there is always a
shoulder to lean on. People who
have friends whom they trust and depend are
more likely to live happier. They are also able
to have a better sense of their
place in the universe in other words, a
sense of belongingness. Studies show that
people who have strong friendships not only
experience happiness but they are more
likely to enjoy life, have stronger immune
system, have better self-esteem and are
less likely to suffer from depression.
Do you have at least one friend whom you
know you can call in the middle of the night
if ever you are on a tough situation?
If you do, you are in good shape! If you
don’t – this may help you.
After reading many articles on friendships
and relationships, here are some of the
most important ways to keep a friend, and
how to make your friendship last longer.
1. Praise and compliment whenever
necessary – Sometimes that is the
best remedy for a bad hair day! So, go
ahead shower your friend with lots of
praises, but only if you mean very
well.
2. Listen and then listen again –
oftentimes just being there is the best moral
support you can give.
3. Go out and have fun – life is too short
not to do things together. Leave your busy
schedule a few hours and just spend some
time with your friends. It can save your sanity
and make you
feel your age again. Do something fun– for
girls/boys only!
4. Forgive each other – when you did
something wrong, let go and be willing
to ask for an apology. If your friend
asks for an apology, accept it and then
forgive each other. Learn the lesson
and then move on.
5. Keep your promises and build trust –
nothing is more discouraging if an
individual cannot be dependable. If
you said something, follow through. Be
trustworthy and true to your words.
6. Give your opinion when asked and
let them decide – it is great to give
your opinions – but only if it is asked.
If your friend needs a rude awakening,
tell the truth and if she/he takes it,
thank yourself – if not, don’t worry – it is not a
big deal!
7. Show them you care – it doesn’t
matter whether you offer to hug or give an
opinion or rather
to cook their favorite food – whatever
it is, show that you care.
8. Accept who they are – your interests,
lifestyle and opinions can be different
and varied, but accept them. People
are born to be unique.
9. Share your life – Share your dreams,
your future, your problems and who
you really are. It’s through sharing
that friendships grow.
10. Laugh together – laughing is always
the best medicine. It can take away
many wrinkles!
11. Stay in touch – whether you are
extremely busy with your family and
work, take time to say hi or hello once
in a while. Keep abreast with the
happenings in each other’s lives. Let
them know that you are still alive and kicking!
12. Thank each other – for the
friendship, the time and for knowing each
other!
13. Don’t spill any secrets – once this is
broken, you’ll likely have to start all
over again. But it is okay, life is meant
to be a learning curve.
Don't forget their special date such birthday,
anniversary ...
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There goes the famous saying "no one can
survive as an island" God has so wired us that
we so interconnected to each other to achieve
fulfillment .well this is circled around
friends .friends share your brightest moment
and brighten your ugly times ,If you have one
good friend, you are one of the few lucky
persons in the world, who is optimistic that
when things get wrong, there is always a
shoulder to lean on. People who
have friends whom they trust and depend are
more likely to live happier. They are also able
to have a better sense of their
place in the universe in other words, a
sense of belongingness. Studies show that
people who have strong friendships not only
experience happiness but they are more
likely to enjoy life, have stronger immune
system, have better self-esteem and are
less likely to suffer from depression.
Do you have at least one friend whom you
know you can call in the middle of the night
if ever you are on a tough situation?
If you do, you are in good shape! If you
don’t – this may help you.
After reading many articles on friendships
and relationships, here are some of the
most important ways to keep a friend, and
how to make your friendship last longer.
1. Praise and compliment whenever
necessary – Sometimes that is the
best remedy for a bad hair day! So, go
ahead shower your friend with lots of
praises, but only if you mean very
well.
2. Listen and then listen again –
oftentimes just being there is the best moral
support you can give.
3. Go out and have fun – life is too short
not to do things together. Leave your busy
schedule a few hours and just spend some
time with your friends. It can save your sanity
and make you
feel your age again. Do something fun– for
girls/boys only!
4. Forgive each other – when you did
something wrong, let go and be willing
to ask for an apology. If your friend
asks for an apology, accept it and then
forgive each other. Learn the lesson
and then move on.
5. Keep your promises and build trust –
nothing is more discouraging if an
individual cannot be dependable. If
you said something, follow through. Be
trustworthy and true to your words.
6. Give your opinion when asked and
let them decide – it is great to give
your opinions – but only if it is asked.
If your friend needs a rude awakening,
tell the truth and if she/he takes it,
thank yourself – if not, don’t worry – it is not a
big deal!
7. Show them you care – it doesn’t
matter whether you offer to hug or give an
opinion or rather
to cook their favorite food – whatever
it is, show that you care.
8. Accept who they are – your interests,
lifestyle and opinions can be different
and varied, but accept them. People
are born to be unique.
9. Share your life – Share your dreams,
your future, your problems and who
you really are. It’s through sharing
that friendships grow.
10. Laugh together – laughing is always
the best medicine. It can take away
many wrinkles!
11. Stay in touch – whether you are
extremely busy with your family and
work, take time to say hi or hello once
in a while. Keep abreast with the
happenings in each other’s lives. Let
them know that you are still alive and kicking!
12. Thank each other – for the
friendship, the time and for knowing each
other!
13. Don’t spill any secrets – once this is
broken, you’ll likely have to start all
over again. But it is okay, life is meant
to be a learning curve.
Don't forget their special date such birthday,
anniversary ...
To Enjoy the beauty of friendsh ip make it a fine
art !

It was shocking on hearing the demise of our great hero ,a man that has endangered his life for fighting the course of freedom.it is indeed a great loss not to southAfrica alone but to the entire continent and beyond.however,  Like  it said there is time for everything in life "a time to live and time to die" ,but our very own MADIBA has left us legacies and lessons that should  continually resound in our daily life.
There are 11 lessons (from many) that I would like to share from his legacy which
would help us make a small but positive mark in our society.
Here they are:
1. Determination in fighting for the right thing.
Nelson Mandela’s fought against
apartheid for was a struggle of more than 50
years from 1943 when he joined ANC to 1994
when South Africa became independent and
he became president. Of these years, 27 were
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the above topic has made many ;fatherless children ,destroy detinies n made many regret their existence ,what is the point of growing apples without eating eating apples ,sex is for married folks n if u need to enjoy get married as simple as that

most girls likes guys that act quite differently against the popular believes girls do have on most guys....to be liked by a girl should not be a prioty,success is a magnet to all ladies ,when the time comes you will begin to separate real ones from fake ones

it is often said be what you want to meet ,it is obvious most times guys loves going for the pretty ,hot ladies which do not belong to their class,but should all guys begin to hustle for a beauty queen somewhere at the expense of been caught as a thief or fraudster? ,it doesn't make alot of sense.To my perspective I think guys should let go of the pretty ladies and concentrate more on better things in life at a point those ladies will fall into place at a least expected time ....#real time

pls my HTC desire hd is giving me bugs by saying SD card removed often and I've to remove the SD card n slot it back everytime ,pls I need help ....plsss

Fynestboi: In an era, when the internet is synonymous with scams and fraud, it gladden my heart to see 'we' the 'future leaders' coming together and forming a bond that exists beyond the e-world in order to improve and impact the society positively. This debates is coming at the appropriate time when we continue to have a decline in the reading and writing habit of our youth, this we believe his our little way of re-orientating society about the important and benefits of positive criticism through debating.

This thread Will serve as a platform to get in touch with all undergraduates here on Nairaland, both Private, Public, Federal Universities, Polythecnic, College of Education..

Hence another debate will commence soon, this would be different from the former ANNUAL EDUCATIONAL DEBATE.

:::E-INTER SCHOOL DEBATE.:::


The former is an open debate for all forumites both graduates, undergraduate, secondary school students etc. But this INTER SCHOOL DEBATE will strictly be for undergraduates, to commence as from next year, so planning and other discussion, ideas would be going on here.


Volunteer would be needed for the following post..

Coordinator: in addition to the moderator of this section, two more other coordinators would be needed.

Consideration would be given to the most active poster on this section..


Other posts will be unveil soon.

Regards.

....I Enoch the Eblazer reps FUAM

O.michael.O:
who told you that? I upgraded a friend's HTC DESIRE AND G2 TO 4.2.2 and they are flexing bbm

in other words it changes everything

...pls I have HTC desire hd ..I need upgrading

Dr.Gboy:
There are alot of gospel songs out there, ranging from rock to contemporary, solo, jazz from a plethora of artistes.
What is that single piece of music which brings a sober reflection , just at the right time when you need it ?

As for me it's definetly Hillsong united : Cry of the broken.

..All I need is you lord..by hillsong .and Grace by Michael smith,I am yours by Jesus culture