₦airaland Forum

A man said "When the gift is open before its time, no excitement".

As a lady, if you are still a virgin, please keep it. Several men are looking for virgins. Even, the rich guy you may want to marry, may prefer you are a virgin.

Note, we also have good non-virgin ladies with good character. If you have a good lady you want to marry, that is faithful, loyal, good etc, but not a virgin, please marry her and take very good care of her, if you truly know God is with you in the agenda.

If you are a Virgin, please keep youe virginity. If you are a non-virgin, you can start abstaining from sex until you marry.

AllBlack:
and what exactly are we to do with this your baseless information?

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If you have groundnut oil and wish to fry, you may

You may have heard the saying that "ladies like the bad guys". Now, have you seen any bitter lady complaining that she was damaged or messed up by a simp or nice guy? A question!.

Most damages such as loss of virginity, abortions, use and dump, heartbreaks, wasting of years, abuse, rejection etc, may likely be caused by the bad guys. Now, if several ladies like the bad guys, they should be ready to bear the cost that may come from going into relationship with a bad guy.

Feminism, bitterness etc amongst some ladies, may be the consequences of them probably following bad guys when they were young.

That is shameful if it is true.

Have you ever gone to an occasion, having high expectation in having food, only to have the occasion come to an end without food reaching you?

Please if it is the right time to retire, please retire. Do not over-stay your welcome.

For Ronaldo, you have built legacy: but If you over-stay, it may spoil many things.

Can you eat bush meat comfortably, the way you eat domestic animals like cow, goat, chicken, turkey?

Choose from these options your best swallow and why it is your best

(1) Pounded Yam.
(2) Akpu.
(3) Amala
(4) Semovita.
(5) Wheat
(6) Garri
(7) Tuwo Masara.
( Tuwo Shinkafa.

Be careful and use your youthful days wisely

Several people who have good hearts may be victims of tears, heart break, cheating, domestic violence, abandonment, rejection etc, in relationships. Some of these people may be over-used in relationships while they may be begging for the relationships to continue.

Since some people with good hearts probably suffer in relationships, should others now develop wicked hearts so as not to suffer in relationships? No.

The reason why some people with good hearts may suffer in relationships.

(1) Emotions: If you have a good heart and you are also very emotional, you may suffer a lot if you are in a bad relationship. If you are too emotional, even if a relationship is bad, your emotions might make it difficult for you to quit.
Now, you may need to learn this: you can have a good heart and still not be too emotional: with this, you may be able to walk away calmly if a relationship is not good for you.

(2) Lack of Watchfulness: Some people with good hearts may not be watchful. You can have a good heart and still be observant. You can have a good heart and still identify red flags: but some people with good hearts may not be observant.

(3) Poor Will Power: Some people with good hearts may have poor will power. They may be "victims" of Yes Yes Yes Yes, and may hardly say No to what they do not like, need or want.
Note: You can have a good heart and politely say No or even walk away without looking back, if a relationship you want for marriage is making life hell for you.

The show has lost its previous touch.

No sex till marriage is a good thing. It is good to wait till marriage, but if you are in a relationship and your partner is insisting "No sex till marriage", then you may have to verify if they are truly abstaining, or if they are sleeping with someone else or many other people, while keeping you for marriage.

Someone insisting "No sex till marriage " may not mean such a person can cope without having sex. Such a person may even be a sex addict, but may have seen you as a marriage material and may not want to lose you to sex: but may still be sleeping around.

Whoever tells you "No sex till marriage " should not have sex with you and should not have sex with anyone else till marriage.

You may have read or heard people criticize some churches for building mega structures. They may have said that these mega structures should have been used for factories.

Note, the church is to help the society according to the will of God, but is not to take full responsibility of what a government should do.

If a government is failing or stealing money, you cannot put blame on any church who may have built tangible structure with their money. Go and face your government.

If you want the church to have major role in infrastructural and economic development, then your government should be willing to allocate tangible budget to the church for such tasks.

Why not suggest that your government allocate budget to those churches who are good in building, management etc, so that they can help build roads, good hospitals, schools, other facilities, companies etc.

Give some government budget to churches who know how to build and see if they will fail.

We have good ladies who are not virgins. They may have lost theirs maybe because they were naive, deceived etc.

A good lady with good character but who is not a virgin has possibility of becoming a good wife in marriage.

Now, do not lose your virginity with the aim of using good character to substitute for it in future. Your virginity is for marriage and should not be thrown away. Again, another sign of virtue is resisting pre-marital sex and remaining a virgin till marriage.

Note, several men are looking for virgins to marry, and several ladies are looking for rich guys to marry. Your being a virgin as a lady may give you access to the man you truly want, and your being a rich guy, may give you access to the lady you wish to marry.

Do not sleep around with the aim of developing good character later, when you are done sleeping around. Being a virgin is good.

Finally, if you meet a good lady who is not a virgin, but is very good, you can go ahead to marry her if you know God is backing it. Again, as a lady, if you meet a guy that is not rich, but has potentials to succeed, you may go ahead to marry him if you know God is backing it.

It is not good to cheat. It is good to be faithful

Some time ago, there was probably news of some Nigerians divorcing or separating in UK, and this was probably coming from the women mostly.

From what I learnt, in the UK, if your currently divorce as a Nigerian or maybe other countries, you will be sent back.

When last did you hear any news about Nigerian women filing for divorce or requesting separation in UK?

Several marriages are not currently enjoyable. Some may just be enduring their marriage: but if you are enjoying your marriage, please tell us what we need to know or the secret of a happy and long-lasting marriage

Some people are not good enough for marriage, they have bad character in them, but may still feel they are genuinely good or probably good in some areas for marriage. They also may not be good, but may have emotions and feelings of love for the person they want to marry. These people are not the most dangerous people in marriage.

Who is The Most Dangerous Person in Marriage?
The one that eagerly wants to marry you, knows that he or she is a bad person, has planned or thought of evil against you when the marriage happens, does not have feelings or emotions for you, is actively involved to see the marriage happen, makes the marriage process easy for you, pretends to love you, but has zero percent feeling of love for you, and may even want to kill you in the marriage.

When you use good heart without wisdom, it may become a problem.

You can have a good heart and still be in control of your emotions, decisions etc.

Have a good heart and watch too.

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Jesus Christ is the only that can make us genuinely clean: whether as virgins or not.

We have several Christian ladies and guys who are not virgins; though every truly born again lady or guy is a virgin in Christ.

A man said this about virginity. He said "When the gift is open before its time, no excitement".

As Christian ladies and guys, if you are a virgin, keep it until you get married. It is not a good thing to have body counts before marriage or sex before marriage. Again, marrying as a virgin may give you more respect.

Many people probably gave their sexual purity to their boyfriends and girlfriends, and may not give the best to their spouse.

If you are still a virgin, keep it. You have done well. If you are not a virgin, do not continue in sex. Jesus Christ can make you so special.

Christian sisters and brothers who are still virgins should not lose their virginity before marriage.

It is a good thing for Christian sisters and brothers to marry as virgins.

In occasions, is it men that share food better or women?

Have you ever been to an occasion were food did not reach you? Did you feel so hurt? What gender do you think will do better sharing of food?

Many people are HIV positive and they do not know about it: some are not positive but have not been tested. If you can, go and know your status.

One of the reasons you may need to know about your HIV status is to be sure about yourself and what actions you may start taking.

If you get tested and you are negative, start leaving a safe and careful life. If you are positive, start working out things for your medications.

HIV is there! One wrong sex can change your HIV status from negative to positive.

Dress to please God always.

As a Christian, if you have a good heart, dress the way your heart looks like.

If you say your dressing does not matter, but your heart, then would you believe if a very mad man says that his heart is not mad though his dressing shows madness?

Every good Christian should dress decently, Godly, and not worldly.

God wants you to glorify Him in the way you dress and with your heart.

This information is from me and one or more persons.

Closure? Is it advisable to do so?

As a lady, do you still get strong advances for relationship or marriage?

As a guy, when last did you woo a lady for relationship or marriage?

If you prayed to God for a husband or wife and He gives it to you, is it right to go sleep with your EX, colleague or someone else as last sex before wedding day?

While you may be advocating no-sex before marriage with your fiance or fiancee, it is sinful to be sleeping with your EX, colleague or someone else during the process of marriage, before wedding day. It is hypocritical because your fiance or fiancee may think it is a no-sex relationship, while you may be satisfying yourself with someone else or however.

Good bye sex with EX or someone else before wedding day may cause these and maybe more.

(1) Paternity issue on firstborns.
(2) Wrong seed in marriage.
(3) Inability to rise into a great woman of God or man of God, or even rising spiritually.
(4) Damages on a very sweet or peaceful marriage when there is any DNA result problem in future.
(5) Demons may hold such records against you in marriage, and it may affect some of your prayers in marriage.

Godly Christian couples should be pure before marriage, and should avoid things like last-sex or good-bye before wedding day, all forms or cheating, all forms of defilements etc

Rucheen:
We were told that Heaven is by Grace and it's probably true. I cannot be threatened with sin! because to make heaven by merit is harder than rocket science.

How could that be possible?

Fornication sin! I dey laugh!

Greed sin! 10th commandment,that is, no politician, no Igbo man, no pastor, and non among all corrupt Nigerians

Any anyhow God dey

Please do not miss heaven at all cost.

Beautifulday:
Can a born again go to hell

Make sure you don't live this world with any sin not repented of.

Please are there tangible reasons why some watches are expensive? do they perform very special functions?