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If someone tells you that they have had sex with several people in the past, it does not mean they may not be very faithful in marriage, but you may have to check how long they have stayed celibate after having sex with several people in the past.

A person with high body count may have to go for healing before marriage. The tendency to sleep with other people; the tendency to go for bigger sizes; the tendency to go for different body sizes etc. may come up even in marriage; if there was no healing, change or whatever good thing that can help them. Some married couples with high body count may be imagining another person having sex with them, while having sex with their spouse in marriage.

A person with high body count may have other good and beautiful sides that might make marriage beautiful, but such a person may have to go for healing, periods of celibacy etc. before going into marriage.

Do not be carried away with "it is my past I am changed; it is my past I am changed; it is my past I am changed". Try to know how long such a person has stayed without having sex, even if they had much sex with different people in the past. If a person with high body count in the past can truly tell you that he or she has not had sex or anything sexual for the last 1 year etc, such a person may be faithful in marriage: but if a person with high body count continues sex even till marriage, they may not be faithful.

If the person you truly love and want for marriage is a virgin, you may be very lucky, and such a person may be very faithful in marriage: though marrying a virgin may not totally guarantee that such a person will be faithful in marriage.

A person with high body count that has changed for good, may be very faithful in marriage.

On virginity, someone said, "when the gift is open before its time, no excitement".

Keep your virginity for marriage, and do not waste the best of yourself sleeping around, doing what is not good etc.

Preserve and make your marriage beautiful.

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If someone has good intentions to marry you, you may be privileged, but if the person you are in a relationship with has other motives of going out with you, then you may be in trouble.

Below are some reasons why your partner may be dating you, or in a relationship with you.

(1) For the purpose of marriage.
(2) To use you in satisfying sexual urge.
(3) To pass time before the person they want comes.
(4) To eat your money.
(5) To steal from your destiny through diabolic means.
(6) To have kids with you as baby daddy or baby mama.
(7) To use you in healing past heartbreak and dump you when they are fine.
( To just date you and share interests with you.
(9) To just be among those in a relationship.
(10) To intentionally waste your time and divert you from getting a good partner.
(11) To keep you so that no one else have you, but to discard you later.

With the spread of POS operators at different areas of the country, when last did you use and ATM machine?

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Abstain from pre-marital and extra-marital sex. Just one sex can give you HIV.

Long distance relationship

Pray all the time and pray good prayers.

It is good to pray always. Do not give up.

If you have good character such as being respectful, kind, generous, faithful, loyal, obedient on proper things etc, do not mess it up with bad hygiene or dirtiness... Imagine being respectful, faithful, kind etc. with offensive body odour and mouth odour, and dirty inner wear such as dirty boxers, dirty bra etc.

Bad hygiene, dirtiness, may be what is making several people not follow-up with despite being good and having a good heart.

Generally, it is good to be neat and hygienic.

Don't leave this world without Jesus Christ. It is better to accept Jesus and repent from all your sins now that you have chance.

It is only repentance through Jesus Christ that takes one to heaven.

If you check, many of the EXes disturbing people in their marriages or before wedding day, possibly with the intention to have sex with them, may have never for once proposed marriage to these people in the past.

If you have a spouse or you are about to marry, and your EX is disturbing you for sex or attention, please check back. Has this your EX ever proposed marriage to you in the past? Some EX may not need you at all for any other reason but may just be there to have sex with you in your marriage or before your wedding day.

Attaching yourself to you EX in marriage or before the wedding day may be dangerous for you. Your EX may not even value you, may not even wish to marry you, may even abandon you quickly if you leave your partner, but may be so eager to have sex with you in your marriage, before wedding day etc.

Value the spouse you have and focus on your marriage.

If you meet your someone you truly love and wish to settle down with, do not lie about your virginity if you are not. Say the truth!
You can get the best spouse for yourself that will truly love you even if you are not a virgin. You can also have a very beautiful marriage.

If you are not a virgin, you can start now in avoiding further premarital sex or defilements.

Some people that dress decently may have evil heart and may be very wicked; but another question here is: should someone with a good heart intentionally dress seductively? Should we support ladies that dress seductively with the point that they may have good heart?

Can a mad man who dressed badly claim that his dressing looks mad, but his heart is good? This idea I got from someone.

If truly your heart is good, why not dress the way your heart looks like?

You cannot intentionally dress seductively and support the fact that your heart is good. If your heart is truly good, it should tell you that the way you dress does not make sense.

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As a man or woman, be very careful about the marriage you have successfully built for years, with patience, understanding, love, good communication, kindness, tolerance, working together etc. You may have spent 10 years in marriage and may be enjoying wealth, riches, money, happiness etc. This may have come from your past efforts put into your marriage. Do not let a moment of adultery ruin your labours.

When adultery is committed in a very beautiful marriage, the marriage may be destroyed completely, especially if the wounded spouse never wants a reconciliation or re-union ever again.

Please do not commit adultery in your marriage; whether it is a new marriage or if it has stayed for years. Again, forgive your spouse if they commit adultery.

Dtruthspeaker:
Did Jesus not Say "woe unto that man by whom the Son of man is betrayed! it had been good for that man if he had not been born."?

And then Judas last act was to murder himself.

“The truth will set you free, but first it will make you miserable.” Gloria Steinem

If Judas had repented without committing suicide, Jesus would have forgiven him.

Can you see there was no prophecy that whosoever betrayed Jesus will not be forgiven? Forgiveness was still there if repentance was made through Jesus Christ.

Dtruthspeaker:
Not True.
JMatthew 27:3–5 but his grace had expired, so he God locked out from God.

Same thing happened to Esau, Joseph, King Saul, Solomon etc

God's Mercy And Grace Has A Time Limit!

https://www.nairaland.com/8292342/gods-mercy-grace-time-limit#133280130

Jesus Christ forgives the worst of sinners and Jesus Christ never told you so about Judas. Don't add to what Jesus Christ never told you about Judas.

Jesus Christ forgives even the worst of sinners.

If Judas had repented, Jesus Christ would have forgiven him.

It was prophesied that someone will betray Jesus. Judas finally betrayed Jesus Christ, but he never repented. Peter denied Jesus Christ, but came back to Christ and was accepted. Jesus Christ would have forgiven Judas if He repented.

No matter the sin you have committed against Jesus Christ, even if it is a betrayal, tell Jesus Christ to have mercy on you and forgive all your sins. He will forgive all your sins.

What sin have you committed? Adultery, masturbation, fornication, bestiality, murder, abortion, gay, hookup, lying, paternity fraud, lesbianism, yahoo yahoo, rituals, vodoo, juju, witchcraft, hatred, envy, malice, worldly dressing, forging certificate, bribery, gossip, rape etc. Tell Jesus to forgive you all your sins and repent never to go back again.

It is not good to do wrong things

Samantha125:
If removing a combination of cells that have not yet developed into anything is murder, then masturbation is also murder since you're killing your DNA cells.

Is killing mosquitoes also murder?
Is an unborn child in the womb a cell or a human being still in development?

All sins are sins before God; whether small or big sins; but their consequences on earth may vary or varies at instances.

God loves us and wants us to follow Jesus Christ truly and make heaven.

Samantha125:
You're still not answering my question, you only keep asking more questions on top of my question.

So until you answer my question accordingly, this discussion is over.

An unborn child or foetus should not be murdered.

Jesus loves us and forgives all our sins when we genuinely repent.

Samantha125:
You're still not answering my question, how is a foetus a human when it can't move, live, and breathe on its own like other humans?

Does a foetus of 4 month have human head? Does it have hands? Do you say a woman is pregnant with a child or do you say a woman is pregnant with a foetus?

A foetus is living. It has life in it.

Have you heard of premature babies that are put in incubator machine or which ever stuff that may be used?

God is a loving and forgiving God who can make life of even someone that has aborted so beautiful.

Samantha125:
You can't be comparing masturbation with menstruation that is beyond our control... A man voluntarily decides to masturbates and use condoms in order to interfere with nature while with women, menstruation just happens naturally.

Masturbation and using of condom for pre-marital sex is sin before God, but no child is formed in these. I am not sure if married couples using condoms for birth control is bad.

Again, is other acceptable family planning or birth control evil? Since the sperm that may be released during sex may not be allowed to fertilize the egg.

When a lady is pregnant, a child has come. Even Jesus did not come until Mary first got pregnant.

Intentionally terminating pregnancy is murder.

Intentional abortion after pregnancy is murder.

Go and ask your doctors if it is murder.

Samantha125:
How is it a human with a soul, life, spirit, and body when it can't live on its own just like sperms that can't survive on their own after masturbation or making use of condoms?

Sperms are also living cells stored in your balls that can swim independently and by masturbating and using condoms, you're killing your children... One of those sperms could've swimmed its way into a woman's womb and fertilised her egg had you not been selfish and interfered with nature.

Are sperms living cells? Are foetus cells or living human that keeps growing to a full child? Is a foetus of 3 months not an unborn child? Does a foetus of 5 months look like a cell or human? Does a foetus have human head?

Is menstruation murder? No. Is the menstrual flow a living child that exited? No. No child was formed. But in pregnancy, a child is formed. It is only in pregnancy a child is formed, and intentionally terminating pregnancy is murder.

Go and ask a doctor if abortion is murder, if sperm is a cell and if foetus is an unborn child?

Is sperm cell and unborn child? But is foetus an unborn child?

Let someone go to the public and say she aborted a foetus and argue that sperm is living cell.

Samantha125:
A foetus is not a human with a soul, spirit, or body until it has fully developed into a human... For example, if you take it out of a woman's womb, it wouldn't survive while humans can... It's no different from spermatozoas that die from the moment you ejaculate them without any form of fertilisation happening... That's why masturbation and the use of contraception are also considered a sin before God.

A foetus is human. It is a formed human with soul, spirit and body. It has been created but develops. It has life already. Intentionally killing a foetus is murder. It means the person has blood in her hands and needs to repent genuinely. Jesus can make the person's life beautiful again.

Other things like masturbation, fornication etc are sin before God, but if life has not been formed yet from the act, murder cannot happen. But if a foetus is formed, life has been formed. A foetus is a living with life.

Samantha125:
Not that I'm promoting abortion or anything like that, but men also unalive their own children through masturbation and using condoms... In all those semen that you release, one of those spermatozoas could've been your child, but you chose to kill it.

The woman creates the child in the womb etc, and the child has soul, spirit and body. Abortion becomes murder. Murder only happens when there is life created and killed. And it is inside the woman life is formed biologically. So if there is unprotected sex and no pregnancy happens, then life was not created, then no murder can happen.

The sperm alone does not have soul, spirit and body, and it does not create human life on its own. It is when human life is created that murder can happen. And human life is created inside women.

As of condom, then what will you say of other birth control pattern? Are you saying that if a family is doing birth control, they are preventing a child from coming, and it is bad?

No body kills a child by using condom. Though pre-marital sex and masturbation are sins before God.

A child has a soul, spirit and body when formed in the womb of a woman, but has no soul or spirit or body in a sperm alone.

Many ladies and guys suffering one or more issues today may think the root cause of these issues are coming from haters, village people, unfriendly friends, witches and wizards etc, but the root cause of these issues may be the consequences of past abortions committed. These issues may be chronic singlehood, being jilted, being used and dumped, financial issues, stagnancy in certain things, backwardness in many areas, prolonged dating without marriage, certain marital issues, delays in getting certain things, looking for love while others are looking for sex from you etc.

If you have aborted before, you have killed a child, but you can have a beautiful and excellent future without any consequences. The best thing to do is to pray to God rightly, sincerely and deeply, for His mercies and compassion on you, and that He should forgive you and remove every consequences of any past abortions you have committed.

When last did you read a newspaper?