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Falling in love in Nigeria and from a distance may not be a funny thing at the moment. I actually talk of long distance relationship.

Coping with long distance relationship is likely more challenging now because of Insecurity, except you are boxed up to always move by flight or other convenient means. Going by flight to see your partner may have lower risk.

If you are in a long distance relationship, please tell us how you manage it with the current security situation.

Several singles want to marry the right spouse, but one question they need to ask is if their character is good enough for God to help them get the right spouse?

Several singles are not worthy in having the right spouse, as they may even traumatize the right spouse. Some singles have anger problem, intolerance, bad view of marriage etc, yet they may want a spouse who must fit into their demands.

Work on your character.

AllMight:
Wrong. Not several,but all women.


Peace out

You mean all women? Are you sure?

If you generally ask several women and several men what they prefer inwardly for marriage, several women may say rich guys as first requirement and several men may say virgins as first requirement.

The best option for any guy is the lady God wants for him, whether she is a virgin or not: and the best option for any lady is the guy God wants for her, whether he is currently rich or not.

Do not idolize virginity or riches when looking for a marriage partner.

Omoawoke:
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You like F?

As a man, say the truth from your heart, which of these ladies will you rush to marry quickly.

(A) Virgin, Very Beautiful, Average Character, Low Intelligence .

(B) Average Character, Non-virgin, Average Intelligent, Very Beautiful

(C) Good Character, Average Beauty, Virgin, Average Intelligence.

(D) Good Character, Non-Virgin, High Intelligence, Average Beauty.

(E) Average Character, Average Beauty, Virgin, Average Intelligence.

(F) Good Character, Non-Virgin, Average Intellegence, Very Beautiful

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Your sexual cravings can destroy your life and may give you a wound or lifetime scar that you may regret.

What are your sexual cravings, kill them today. Are you sexual cravings in this list?

(1) Quest to sleep with a married woman.
(2) Desire to sleep with a married man.
(3) Quest to sleep with someone's fiance or girlfriend.
(4) Married couples having group sex with other person or persons.
(5) Group sex.
(6) Video-taping your sex act.
(7) Anal sex
( Gay.
(9) Lesbianism.
(10) Bestiality: craving to sleep with dogs, goats etc
(11) Urge to commit adultery.
(12) Urge to sleep with an EX few days or weeks to wedding day
(13) etc

Whatever the sex craving is, kill it today, get married and stay faithful to your spouse.

God wants you to have proper sex only in marriage.

Firstly, the only advice I will give you is abstain from pre-marital and extra-marital sex.

If you check in the past, several people were keen on using protection in pre-marital sex or may be extra-marital sex, but today, if several people meet, they may just have unprotected sex without concern.

Many fresh-looking people moving about are already infected with HIV without even knowing, and many people may still want to have unprotected sex with these same fresh-looking people.


I am still giving 0% support to any form of pre-marital and extra-marital affair, but the rise in unprotected sex is a danger.

If Jonathan contests with all seriousness, Tinubu may leave power

Since I came to Lagos, I had eaten Akpu maybe just once. And its been over 4 years living here: but I travelled recently to my state, an Eastern state. I ate nice Akpu severally. I enjoyed myself when I ate most of the time. I am back in Lagos, but if it were possible to get them and travel with them without issues through my flight, I may have done it.

Some Akpu are done well.

Several single ladies who are side chics, may have their marriage tied down with diabolism by their sugar daddies.

Several sugar daddies may like their side chics, but may not want them as wife, and may also not want to lose them to marriage. They may tie them with diabolism to keep "enjoying" them, and may dump them when these ladies lose the attraction they probably saw.

If men were insisting on only virgins the several ladies want rich guys, maybe there will be general adjustments.

If a cheat wants to make sure you do not suspect them when they are in the act, they may call you and "innocently" say "hope you are not cheating on me, are you sure". They may even ask "who are you with?" "where are you?". These questions may be used to transfer any suspicion that you may have on them and probably make you look like a potential cheat.

Is it right for a wife to prevent her husband from bathing her little daughters? Is it also right for a wife to monitor her husband in the name of protecting her daughters? It is wrong.

If you married a responsible husband, such actions should be out of it. It is like an insult restricting or monitoring your husband when he is with your daughters. You may go rent another apartment and stay with your daughters. But if in any way you notice any funny behaviour from him, deal with it to the root.

Several people have wasted and abused true love, and they may regretting it today.

Yours may be that your partner was clingy.
Yours may be they apologized all the time.
Yours may be that your partner borrow large some of money to help you.
Yours may be that your partner was putting all their best for the relationship to work.
Yours may be thar your partner was too kind.

If you look at today, you may hardly find such. You may find gold diggers, or guys who want sex and then get out. You may eveb be begging for love now.

May you love go in the right direction and not to wrong people.

Try akpu and yoghurt

The best Nigerian movies?

These movies were ...

(1) Isakaba
(2) New Jerusalem/ Last men in new Jerusalem.
(3) Father and Son
(4) The Price

Being moral without salvation in Christ does not make one righteous in the sight of God, but being saved in Christ Jesus makes one righteous: with morality as part of the evidences of such a person's salvation.

Any unsaved person that is moral may have rewards, but such rewards will only be on earth and is useless in eternity. But any believer in Christ Jesus who is moral, has his morality tied to the grace of Jesus Christ, and will be rewarded on earth and in eternity with God.

An average husband of today may have to accept the past of a lady who may have given her virginity and sexual best to her boyfriends or sex partners.

Should ladies keep their virginity for their boyfriends or sex partners, while the husband who is to pay the bride price to then accept what is left?

I saw a post relating to this write-up I wrote, and that's where I got the idea.

We truly have good ladies who may have lost their virginity because they were deceived, maybe naive, maybe promised marriage etc.

God helping you, if you find a good & faithful lady whom you are truly convinced is your wife, but is not a virgin, please marry her, cherish her, protect her and do her good.

Whenever you meet someone wounded by their bad past, do not quickly provide a shoulder for them to lean on, else, if they use you to recover their pains, they may still go back to their past life.

The first thing to do is to tell that person to pray to God for recovery and depend on God, then you may assist in one or more ways: but do not be a full recovery plan of such a person.

No sex before marriage is the best. If you love someone and want to marry them, and they say no sex before marriage, support it: but tell them no sex before marriage means no sex between us and any body else.

Do not let anyone tell you no sex before marriage while they probably satisfy themselves with a sex partner or whoever.

Heaven is so real. Hell is so real.

If there is anything like "gate man" in heaven, it is eternally and extremely better than a billionaire etc that went to hell fire.

Heaven is not an easy place to enter. It demands righteousness and holiness to get in. Your good service in church cannot take you to heaven. You can only be rewarded for your good service eternally if only you enter heaven.

Jesus said "strive to enter in". He said "few there be that findeth it"

You will get to heaven. But you need to fight for your soul. It is a personal race. It is not a denominational race. Your Pastor, Rev Father, Apostle etc, cannot save you. They may only guide you. Only Jesus can take you to heaven. Fight so hard for your soul. So many people are in hell fire.

You will get to heaven in Jesus name. How will you feel when you get there ?

Which Smelly food do you eat comfortably despite it's smell

As humans, it is good to smell nicely, but situations may arise that may cause unpleasant smell. Please avoid any unpleasant smell before sex, during sex and after sex in marriage.

Unpleasant smell may affect your spouse psychologically and might make them lose interest in having sex with you for a long time.

If you notice any bad smell in you, avoid sex with your partner until you sought it out.

Do ladies truly prefer tall dark and handsome guys?

Please look at these questions.

The questions here are:
(1) Will most white ladies from France, Italy, Spain, Netherland, Germany, Sweden, USA, Ireland etc, prefer a tall dark and handsome guy to a white guy from their own country?

(2) Will most African ladies prefer a tall dark and handsome guy to a white guy from France, Spain, Italy, Netherland, Germany, Sweden, USA etc?

(3) Do ladies prefer tall dark and handsome guys only when their options are only within Africa, Asia, Arab?

You can speak to her about the issue in a mature way. You must not shout, except if need be

Have you seen any guy you know boasting that he is sleeping with married women that you know? If such is revealed and he has friends, they may abandon and reject him with disgust. Also, have you seen any married you know boasting openly that she is sleeping with men?

While it is very wrong to cheat, some married men may talk of side-chics, and some side-chics may talk about their married sugar daddies: but a guy sleeping with a married woman may be ashamed to say it, and a married woman may be so ashamed to reveal she is sleeping with someone else.

Married women are sacred.

The rate of complain in marriage is much. If you have a beautiful and successful marriage, kindly tell us how to make marriage a beautiful thing.

Does your church accomodate poor people or do poor people feel like outcasts when they come to your church?

If your church is trying to maintain a particular swagger and class that will provide no placement for the poor, then it is not following the purpose of Jesus Christ.

In the past there was a generalisation that "men are cheats", but I am not sure that statement is rampant as before. The hands of both genders are not totally clean, so no one may have total effrontery to call another a cheat.