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RomanceRe: Those Days When Guys Chased Ladies For Relationship. by ebubeson(op): 1:49pm On May 23, 2025
NoahHadNoArk:
Why chase a lady who has gone down with a thousand men before you, when you can chase money and thousand women prettier than her will follow you.


Thank you Ubunja!


May your days be long
We have good women.
CelebritiesRe: Pictures of Some Mbaise People: Which of these Ladies or Men Would You Marry?. by ebubeson: 1:27pm On May 23, 2025
yyba:
Op show us their LEGS na if you know you know
Many Igbo girls are fine. Point how many Igbo actresses you know that do not have the kind of legs you want.
RomanceRe: Those Days When Guys Chased Ladies For Relationship. by ebubeson(op): 1:25pm On May 23, 2025
AllBlack:
never oh
Never?
RomanceThose Days When Guys Chased Ladies For Relationship. by ebubeson(op):
Generally, in those days when guys may have to endure hard-to-get before a lady says yes or maybe no. Many ladies were like a trophy to win those days. They were special in the chase. Those days, a lady may give a guy 4 months of hard-to-get before she says yes or maybe no. A guy may have to prepare himself on how to speak to her. A lady may even "torture" a guy in the hard-to-get process before saying Yes, and the guy may not count the pain of the "torture" but may see himself as a hero for holding on to win her.

Today it is not the case. Relationship is partly like business. Hard-to-get is partly out of fashion to a great degree. If a lady tries it today, she may never receive feedback or communication from her toaster. Some guys may end it all with the chase immediately a lady does hard-to-get once. Some guys may not wait more than two weeks for a chase.

As a good lady, you are still very important and special. If you have built yourself in capacity, character, decency, good qualities e.t.c., you deserve someone who should look for you specially.

Finally, keep your virginity. Virginity is a trophy. Virginity might make a man hurry a wedding process to marry you. It might make a man put more energy in marrying you without delay. It might make your husband so proud of you.

If you are not a virgin, you are still special. You can work on your character more and more, avoid pre-marital sex and wait till marriage.
RomanceRe: Dangerous Impact Of Paternity Fraud On Innocent Child by ebubeson(op): 7:31pm On May 20, 2025
Unseen:
They still will not hear..... Every father should run DNA test on his children before they clock 18 years
But we have faithful couples.
PoliticsRe: Bandits Leader, Ado Aliero's Wife & Mother Arrested In Saudi Arabia by ebubeson: 9:43am On May 20, 2025
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RomanceDangerous Impact Of Paternity Fraud On Innocent Child by ebubeson(op): 8:58am On May 20, 2025
Before you sleep with your EX or someone else outside your spouse, please count these cost and implications your act may cause on your innocent child.

(1) Paternity fraud if discovered by DNA testing might make a very loving father abruptly hate his child whom he probably ones loved so much, all because DNA testing showed child is not his.

(2) It may cause trauma to the innocent child. Imagine a child who has enjoyed so much love from the father, facing sudden rejection and hate because DNA testing shows father is not his or hers. It may cause trauma.

(3 It may cause disconnection from other children in the family. Imagine children enjoying themselves with love, tenderness and care, then one of them is taking out from the family because DNA showed the father is another person.

(4) It may cause low-self esteem and feeling of rejection. Imagine a child being rejected by his father because of paternity issue. That child may have feelings of rejection and low-self esteem.

(5) It may cause painful change of fatherhood. Imagine a child with a loving, rich, providing, tender father, then being transferred to his original father who may be a drunkard, gambler, womaniser, careless, irresponsible person; all because the good father is not his original father.

(6) It may cause painful change of family. Imagine a child in a loving family being transferred to another family with different mother and children, all because his original father is probably married to another woman and in a different home.

(7) Disparity of Siblings: A child from paternity fraud may not have true identity of siblings because his original mother may have her own family with children, and his original father may have his own family with children.

So those who may be having sex with EX or others before wedding day, sleeping with EX or others in marriage, please count the cost if DNA is done for the children you may have through paternity fraud.
RomanceRe: Ladies, How Would You Like Your Man? (photo) by ebubeson: 8:48am On May 19, 2025
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Christianity EtcRe: Enenche Listens To Pastor Kumuyi’s Message In Church (Video) by ebubeson:
That is good.
Christianity EtcRe: Can A Christian Still Be Holy With The Way The World Is Corrupt & Immoral? by ebubeson(op): 8:56am On May 18, 2025
ebubeson:
The temptation for immorality, corruption, gambling, clubbing, hookup, gay, lesbianism, rituals, fraud, pornography, infidelity may be highest than ever before. Now, can a Christian still be holy with all these? Is holiness possible?.

A Christian in this era can even be holier than Christians who were in the era of no social media, low indecency, low corruption e.t.c. But one of the issues why it is more difficult to be holy in this era is not just the issue of immorality, corruption e.t.c, but the issue of no gospel power. If the undiluted gospel is preached with power and preached regularly in churches, many Christians will be transformed and become holy no matter the level of corruption and evil in the society. One of the things that kept Christians of old was not the fact that there was no social media, low corruption e.t.c, but that the gospel preached at that time was undiluted and with power.

If the church can go back to undiluted gospel with power and operate with the Spirit of God instead of religion, many Christians will be transformed into the image of Christ. But if the church focuses more on favour, religion, church tradition, worshipping of church, idolatory, prosperity, making money, marriages, riches, getting visas, progressing in career e.t.c, it may not have its people become holy.

Heb 12:14 "Follow peace with all men, and holiness without which no man shall see the Lord"

You can start your journey into holiness by saying " Lord Jesus Christ, forgive all my sins, break the yoke of sin and come into my life today"

Find a good church. Happy Sunday!
It is possible to be holy.
Christianity EtcCan A Christian Still Be Holy With The Way The World Is Corrupt & Immoral? by ebubeson(op): 8:53am On May 18, 2025
The temptation for immorality, corruption, gambling, clubbing, hookup, gay, lesbianism, rituals, fraud, pornography, infidelity may be highest than ever before. Now, can a Christian still be holy with all these? Is holiness possible?.

A Christian in this era can even be holier than Christians who were in the era of no social media, low indecency, low corruption e.t.c. But one of the issues why it is more difficult to be holy in this era is not just the issue of immorality, corruption e.t.c, but the issue of no gospel power. If the undiluted gospel is preached with power and preached regularly in churches, many Christians will be transformed and become holy no matter the level of corruption and evil in the society. One of the things that kept Christians of old was not the fact that there was no social media, low corruption e.t.c, but that the gospel preached at that time was undiluted and with power.

If the church can go back to undiluted gospel with power and operate with the Spirit of God instead of religion, many Christians will be transformed into the image of Christ. But if the church focuses more on favour, religion, church tradition, worshipping of church, idolatory, prosperity, making money, marriages, riches, getting visas, progressing in career e.t.c, it may not have its people become holy.

Heb 12:14 "Follow peace with all men, and holiness without which no man shall see the Lord"

You can start your journey into holiness by saying " Lord Jesus Christ, forgive all my sins, break the yoke of sin and come into my life today"

Find a good church. Happy Sunday!

RomanceIs This True Of Toxic Feminist? by ebubeson(op): 11:42am On May 16, 2025
For ladies who want to be Feminists, is this true?

CelebritiesRe: Pictures of Some Mbaise People: Which of these Ladies or Men Would You Marry?. by ebubeson: 9:16am On May 15, 2025
lilvicky68:
So??
should I now boil garden egg?
Boil garden egg?
FamilyRe: Pastor’s Daughter Reveals Why She’ll Never Seek Marriage Advice From A Pastor by ebubeson: 10:25am On May 12, 2025
Parents be a light to your children so that they will want to marry someone like you if possible.
Christianity EtcRe: Can A Genuine Born Again Christian Not Know The Date He Or She Got Born Again? by ebubeson: 12:46am On May 11, 2025
cutecommend:
Every salvation experience must come with a valid encounter, situation, happening, place e.t.c, but a person may know the encounter, happening, place and situation, and may not know the exact date. For example, if uneducated people were preached to in a village and they got saved, they may not keep record of the date but may know what happened and the place the salvation encounter happened. So do not judge people who told you of their salvation encounter without remembering the exact date.

It is a good thing to know the date you got born again.

Today is another day to have a date for your salvation. So please humbly and genuinely say this: Lord Jesus, today is a good day, please forgive all my sins, come into my heart, break the yokes of sin, be my Lord and personal Saviour in Jesus name. Amen.

Attend a good church.

Happy Sunday to you.
Keeping date of such encounter is good.
Christianity EtcRe: Christians: What Makes Dressing And Appearance Worldly And Ungodly. by ebubeson: 7:50am On May 04, 2025
A Christian's appearance is also good.
RomanceDo Ladies Still Feel Guilty Committing Abortion? by ebubeson(op): 11:55am On Apr 27, 2025
Do ladies still feel guilty committing abortion and killing a baby or are they just after the guy not dumping them after abortion?

Please does guilt for abortion still exist? It does exist because God gave conscience. But maybe some ladies have dead conscience on that.
RomanceRe: What Made You Stop Eating In A Restaurant? by ebubeson(op): 11:49am On Apr 27, 2025
ebubeson:
In the past, I used to eat in a local restaurant and their food was nice, until a day I was there and someone was pounding fufu. When he was probably done, packed sweat and poured on top of the pounded fufu. That was the last day I came to that restaurant.
RomanceRe: How Ladies With Big Tommy Can Reduce It In Two Weeks by ebubeson(op): 11:48am On Apr 27, 2025
ebubeson:
Did you register in a gym, yet your tommy is not reducing or are you personally trying to reduce you tommy but it aint working? Please try this in two weeks and see the feedback.

Do these everyday for two weeks:

(1) Drink only hot water or semi-hot water for two weeks (whether after eating or random drinking of water).
(2) Eat excess vegetables with your meals for two weeks.
(3) Never take any milk or yoghurt or milk product for two weeks.
(4) Never eat heavy food after 6pm, but if you want to eat after 6pm, let it be excess vegetables with little meal.
(5) Eat at least by 11pm for two weeks.
(6) Drink much hot water or semi-hot water before 11pm.
(7) Do some exercises.

Just for two weeks. Try this and see impact.
Christianity EtcRe: What Christians Must Do To Those About To Die. by ebubeson: 1:52am On Apr 27, 2025
cutecommend:
We will live long and fulfill our days in Jesus name. Amen. But my message here is for Christians to be very very alert when they meet those who are very sick, who had accident, who slumped e.t.c. It is not just a time to pray fire prayers, but a time to lead those individuals to Christ very quickly.

If you meet an accident victim, very sick patient e.t.c, the first first-aid should be leading them to Christ, while running around to see they are taken care of.

While it is good to evangelize to everyone, put more pressure and concern in leading to Christ, when you see those who are between life and death. This boils down to close ones: it may be your relatives, friends, neigbours e.t.c. if you see any of them passing out, please lead them to Christ first before you go ahead with other helps. Eternity is so real!!!

It is a beautiful Sunday and God has kept you alive. So please sincerely tell Jesus now to forgive all your sins and come into your life. Jesus loves you so much.

Happy Sunday to you.
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RomanceThe Rich And Romantic Bad Guy Being Cheated On by ebubeson(op): 8:40am On Apr 26, 2025
You think being a rich and romantic bad guy will make a lady not cheat on you? Not all ladies cheat, but if you date a lady with strong sexual addiction of sleeping around, no matter how you do redpill, be the bad guy, spend cash, go on dates, stay romantic, stay in charge, she may still cheat on you because she is in bondage of sexual spirit(s).
Be sure the person you want to marry is not an addict of sleeping around.
PoliticsRe: ONLY Option For Atiku And Obi Is To Merge And Enter The Race by ebubeson: 2:28pm On Apr 24, 2025
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PoliticsRe: Mass Defection Hits Labour Party As Gyang Zi’s Defects To APC In Plateau by ebubeson: 2:24pm On Apr 24, 2025
Even God knows that many Nigerians are not serious. Maybe that is why He hardly answer prayers relating to politics.

If Nigerians prefer APC, they may go ahead. But let APC solve issues in the country.
RomanceDo Not Waste Your Youthful Days. by ebubeson(op): 1:37am On Apr 21, 2025
Are you young yet wasting your time in gambling, visiting prostitutes, doing multiple dating relationships, smoking sisha, doing hookup, being unserious with your studies, being stubborn and unwilling to work e.t.c? Be wise now else age may "advice" you later in life.
SportsIn The Last 17 Years Anyone Team Won Barca In Semi-finals Took Champions League by ebubeson(op): 9:51pm On Apr 16, 2025
Check History and see for yourself.
Christianity EtcRe: Should A Born Again Christian Restitute Or Just Move Forward In Faith? by ebubeson: 7:37am On Apr 13, 2025
Making peace is good.
RomanceWhy It Is Good To End Courtship Early When You See Red Flag(s) by ebubeson(op): 10:23pm On Apr 11, 2025
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage and it is better to be single than go into a marriage that is hell. But now, this is what you should consider before entering a relationship that leads to marriage.

(1) If you enter a courtship or relationship that leads to marriage, do not allow your partner invest much emotions, time, money, resources e.t.c, when you have noticed a red flag that will make the marriage not to hold. Please break up early and do not keep play along.

(2) The one who has red flags may love you genuinely, but may have traits that are not compatible with you and your future, so do not waste their time, emotions, resources e.t.c., when you know deep down you won't settle with such a person.

(3) If on your wedding day, you feel you cannot marry such person, please end the whole thing, but remember that the families, friends, relatives, associates e.t.c. that are planning to come are not animals: so it is better to end on time any relationship or courtship that is not good for you.

(4) The person partner you are seeing red flags in, may be seeing more red flags in you, but may have desired to continue with you; so be considerate not to allow your partner spend time, resources, emotions e.t.c, when you know deep down you won't settle with such person.

(5) At all cost, do not marry anyone your spirit is restless about or you know deep down that such person may be a danger; except things change and the person becomes yours in compatibility and approval from God.

These points are a mixture of my points and one or more persons.
BusinessRe: Pascal Dozie Dies At 85 by ebubeson: 9:19am On Apr 08, 2025
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Christianity EtcRe: How Committed Christians Can Overcome Stubborn Sexual Weaknesses. by ebubeson: 2:40am On Mar 30, 2025
Avoid bad habits.
Christianity EtcRe: How Committed Christians Can Overcome Stubborn Sexual Weaknesses. by ebubeson: 2:38am On Mar 30, 2025
It can only be God.
RomanceWhen You Truly With Love Want To Marry A Lady With High Body Count by ebubeson(op): 1:06pm On Mar 29, 2025
If you have accepted a lady with high body count and wish to marry her, please note this:

(1) Do not let her pressure you with any expensive wedding. If possible, do a low-key wedding.
(2) Let her accept your financial state and be truly patient with you. Do not pressure yourself or take much risk to make money to impress her.
(3) Let her accept who you are and let her also have something impactful to bring to the marriage.
(4) Let her not keep close male friends, males besties e.t..c.
(5) If she is stubborn and does not want to do things that will boost your trust, please it will be better or best God gives you a good virgin wife.
CrimeRe: Fulanis Protest After Edo Youths Burnt & Killed Travellers (Video) by ebubeson: 9:02pm On Mar 28, 2025
Killing them is not supported.

That was barbaric and wrong act.

There is no excuse for that.

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