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NoahHadNoArk:We have good women. |
yyba:Many Igbo girls are fine. Point how many Igbo actresses you know that do not have the kind of legs you want. |
AllBlack:Never? |
Generally, in those days when guys may have to endure hard-to-get before a lady says yes or maybe no. Many ladies were like a trophy to win those days. They were special in the chase. Those days, a lady may give a guy 4 months of hard-to-get before she says yes or maybe no. A guy may have to prepare himself on how to speak to her. A lady may even "torture" a guy in the hard-to-get process before saying Yes, and the guy may not count the pain of the "torture" but may see himself as a hero for holding on to win her. Today it is not the case. Relationship is partly like business. Hard-to-get is partly out of fashion to a great degree. If a lady tries it today, she may never receive feedback or communication from her toaster. Some guys may end it all with the chase immediately a lady does hard-to-get once. Some guys may not wait more than two weeks for a chase. As a good lady, you are still very important and special. If you have built yourself in capacity, character, decency, good qualities e.t.c., you deserve someone who should look for you specially. Finally, keep your virginity. Virginity is a trophy. Virginity might make a man hurry a wedding process to marry you. It might make a man put more energy in marrying you without delay. It might make your husband so proud of you. If you are not a virgin, you are still special. You can work on your character more and more, avoid pre-marital sex and wait till marriage. |
Unseen:But we have faithful couples. |
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Before you sleep with your EX or someone else outside your spouse, please count these cost and implications your act may cause on your innocent child. (1) Paternity fraud if discovered by DNA testing might make a very loving father abruptly hate his child whom he probably ones loved so much, all because DNA testing showed child is not his. (2) It may cause trauma to the innocent child. Imagine a child who has enjoyed so much love from the father, facing sudden rejection and hate because DNA testing shows father is not his or hers. It may cause trauma. (3 It may cause disconnection from other children in the family. Imagine children enjoying themselves with love, tenderness and care, then one of them is taking out from the family because DNA showed the father is another person. (4) It may cause low-self esteem and feeling of rejection. Imagine a child being rejected by his father because of paternity issue. That child may have feelings of rejection and low-self esteem. (5) It may cause painful change of fatherhood. Imagine a child with a loving, rich, providing, tender father, then being transferred to his original father who may be a drunkard, gambler, womaniser, careless, irresponsible person; all because the good father is not his original father. (6) It may cause painful change of family. Imagine a child in a loving family being transferred to another family with different mother and children, all because his original father is probably married to another woman and in a different home. (7) Disparity of Siblings: A child from paternity fraud may not have true identity of siblings because his original mother may have her own family with children, and his original father may have his own family with children. So those who may be having sex with EX or others before wedding day, sleeping with EX or others in marriage, please count the cost if DNA is done for the children you may have through paternity fraud. |
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That is good. |
ebubeson:It is possible to be holy. |
The temptation for immorality, corruption, gambling, clubbing, hookup, gay, lesbianism, rituals, fraud, pornography, infidelity may be highest than ever before. Now, can a Christian still be holy with all these? Is holiness possible?. A Christian in this era can even be holier than Christians who were in the era of no social media, low indecency, low corruption e.t.c. But one of the issues why it is more difficult to be holy in this era is not just the issue of immorality, corruption e.t.c, but the issue of no gospel power. If the undiluted gospel is preached with power and preached regularly in churches, many Christians will be transformed and become holy no matter the level of corruption and evil in the society. One of the things that kept Christians of old was not the fact that there was no social media, low corruption e.t.c, but that the gospel preached at that time was undiluted and with power. If the church can go back to undiluted gospel with power and operate with the Spirit of God instead of religion, many Christians will be transformed into the image of Christ. But if the church focuses more on favour, religion, church tradition, worshipping of church, idolatory, prosperity, making money, marriages, riches, getting visas, progressing in career e.t.c, it may not have its people become holy. Heb 12:14 "Follow peace with all men, and holiness without which no man shall see the Lord" You can start your journey into holiness by saying " Lord Jesus Christ, forgive all my sins, break the yoke of sin and come into my life today" Find a good church. Happy Sunday!
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For ladies who want to be Feminists, is this true?
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lilvicky68:Boil garden egg? |
Parents be a light to your children so that they will want to marry someone like you if possible. |
cutecommend:Keeping date of such encounter is good. |
A Christian's appearance is also good. |
Do ladies still feel guilty committing abortion and killing a baby or are they just after the guy not dumping them after abortion? Please does guilt for abortion still exist? It does exist because God gave conscience. But maybe some ladies have dead conscience on that. |
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cutecommend:True |
You think being a rich and romantic bad guy will make a lady not cheat on you? Not all ladies cheat, but if you date a lady with strong sexual addiction of sleeping around, no matter how you do redpill, be the bad guy, spend cash, go on dates, stay romantic, stay in charge, she may still cheat on you because she is in bondage of sexual spirit(s). Be sure the person you want to marry is not an addict of sleeping around. |
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Even God knows that many Nigerians are not serious. Maybe that is why He hardly answer prayers relating to politics. If Nigerians prefer APC, they may go ahead. But let APC solve issues in the country. |
Are you young yet wasting your time in gambling, visiting prostitutes, doing multiple dating relationships, smoking sisha, doing hookup, being unserious with your studies, being stubborn and unwilling to work e.t.c? Be wise now else age may "advice" you later in life. |
Check History and see for yourself. |
Making peace is good. |
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage and it is better to be single than go into a marriage that is hell. But now, this is what you should consider before entering a relationship that leads to marriage. (1) If you enter a courtship or relationship that leads to marriage, do not allow your partner invest much emotions, time, money, resources e.t.c, when you have noticed a red flag that will make the marriage not to hold. Please break up early and do not keep play along. (2) The one who has red flags may love you genuinely, but may have traits that are not compatible with you and your future, so do not waste their time, emotions, resources e.t.c., when you know deep down you won't settle with such a person. (3) If on your wedding day, you feel you cannot marry such person, please end the whole thing, but remember that the families, friends, relatives, associates e.t.c. that are planning to come are not animals: so it is better to end on time any relationship or courtship that is not good for you. (4) The person partner you are seeing red flags in, may be seeing more red flags in you, but may have desired to continue with you; so be considerate not to allow your partner spend time, resources, emotions e.t.c, when you know deep down you won't settle with such person. (5) At all cost, do not marry anyone your spirit is restless about or you know deep down that such person may be a danger; except things change and the person becomes yours in compatibility and approval from God. These points are a mixture of my points and one or more persons. |
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Avoid bad habits. |
It can only be God. |
If you have accepted a lady with high body count and wish to marry her, please note this: (1) Do not let her pressure you with any expensive wedding. If possible, do a low-key wedding. (2) Let her accept your financial state and be truly patient with you. Do not pressure yourself or take much risk to make money to impress her. (3) Let her accept who you are and let her also have something impactful to bring to the marriage. (4) Let her not keep close male friends, males besties e.t..c. (5) If she is stubborn and does not want to do things that will boost your trust, please it will be better or best God gives you a good virgin wife. |
Killing them is not supported. That was barbaric and wrong act. There is no excuse for that. |