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No matter how convincing a revelation or vision is; whether the one you got or the one another person got, it should not become a doctrine or a template to follow more than the Bible. The Bible must supersede every vision or revelation.

As a Christian, read the word of God, focus on it, meditate on it, pray it in and let it be your compass on earth.

Jesus is the word of God.

Since you were born have you felt averagely or greatly the impact of Nigeria's mineral resources in your Life?

Have dated someone before that was absolutely faithful. I know you cannot know an individual hundred percent, but were you at peace with the person as regards faithfulness, was there real openness and was there zero traces of cheating?

Again, have you ever been in a relationship where you never cheated at all? It may have been dating, courtship or a legal marriage if you are legally married and still faithful.

Being faithful is good.

If you see a lady that is very good for you to marry and not a virgin. Please marry her if you are sure God is leading you. We have several good ladies that are not virgins and they will make good wives.
But do not totally blame guys who want virgins as we have ladies too who are bent on rich guys.

For guys, do not shame ladies who are not virgins.

Have you guys sorted your own insecurity issues?

May God help me and you in Jesus name. Amen.

You are not wiser than God, and He knows the cost of sexual immorality.

If you are not addicted or into any form of sexual immorality, please guard your life with all you can by God's grace.

These are the burdens of sexual immorality.

(1) Memory bondage: It stores in the brain, and memory of past fantasies can torment even in marriage.

(2) It can lead to addiction, and the enemy may fight so hard to ensure you are not free.

(3) It can divert destiny. E.g., a lady that should be a general overseers wife may end up a nymphomaniac, prostitute e.t.c.

(4) Inability to rise spiritually: Bondage of rising and falling all the time.

(5) Marital problems: Adultery can cause several issues such as divorce, paternity issue, diseases e.t.c.

(6) Setbacks: It can make a very bright student, successful career person, prospering pastor e.t.c, become ordinary & "local".

(7) Glory exchange: It can lead to exchange of glory. If a christian sister or brother out of lust for money, sleeps with an occultic person, he or she may become useless.

( Diseases: Several people have Hiv and other diseases, even many healthy-looking people.

(9) Addiction: Sexual addiction is indeed a torment. It torments its victim with unbearable pleasure triggered by demonic powers. It can make a person who just enjoyed a powerful message in church, go straight to a prostitute joint for sex just after service.

(10) Being tied to demons: It may open doors for a person to be tied to demonic spouses, mermaids e.t.c.

(11) It implants lust: It can make a person lust perpetually.

(12) It causes secret sin. It makes several "christians" leave in secret sin.

(13) It lowers authority: It can lower someone's authority over evil, demons e.t.c.

(14) It send people to hell fire.

Aside the normal meals, its long I ate native meals. E.g of native meals includes: African salad, ukwa e.t.c

Please tells us if you still enjoy access eating native meals.

Pray aggressive prayers to kill any relationship that is making you feel hopeless. Also speak against the life of such relationship for it to die.

This is not applicable to any proper and legal marriage that is known by God.
You just have to bear it and find ways around it.

A partner you are so attached too, yet still treating you so badly and probably like "trash", may be the most insecure in the relationship you are in with them. They may be the ones more scared of losing you; but they may have tied you to diabolic powers for the purpose of making you under them and feeling secure.

Jennyclay:
But it’s definitely cool when it’s vice versa

What is good for the goose, is also good for the gander my dear

Shoir!!

Which gender is known for this rubbish? Is it not the female gender when it comes to pre-wedding?

So will you like to start marriage with your EX child?

If DNA testing becomes rampant like wild fire, maybe your gender may buckle up on this if they are still slacking.

You may be doing Hallelujah challenge now for a husband; but if God answers your prayers, do not cheat with your EX or anyone.

Try to be a good person and do not cheat on your husband or wife.
Divine intervention in Jesus Name. Amen.

After praying or crying to God for a husband, it is irresponsible and wicked to look for your EX for sex few days or weeks to your wedding day: either when you go to share wedding card or whatever it may be. Even if your EX initiates a conversation for good bye sex, why didn't your EX marry you all this while? Are you only good for sex to him? Is your mission paternity fraud?

So as you keep going for religious programs with the main aim of getting a husband, do not make mockery of your husband by sleeping with your EX close to wedding day or in marriage.

If it is possible, beg God in prayers that the woman you will marry will not sleep with her EX few days to your wedding or when she goes to share wedding card or even to sleep with anyone else some days or weeks or months to your wedding day.

If it is possible, marry a virgin, but if she is not a virgin, let her be a very Godly, responsible and decent person.

Ladies, aside from men probably chasing you for sex or fun, do men still toast and chase you randomly for serious relationship?

Again, does hard-to-get still exist?

There is reasonable restored order and relative peace in the South-East. This should be seriously protected and preserved for businesses, livelihoods, education and other good things to thrive. No one should participate in any violent act that will take the region backwards.
If there are grievances, the right approach should be followed. We cannot afford to go back to chaos and things that will take the region backwards.

Do all things to the glory of God.

When it comes to sexual fulfilment in marriage, to what extent are Christian couples allowed to explore sex?

There are certain sexual patterns in marriage that are ungodly. They do not glorify God e.g. anal sex.

Married Christian couples are free to enjoy sex to the fullest, but must be sensitive and watchful in not engaging in abominable sex pattern.

Make sure you prayerfully repent and clean up yourself from your past sexual issues before you marry.

May God help you in Jesus name. Amen.

No matter how some people "pretend" to be homely, good husbands, good wives etc. they are "tormented" with thoughts of past sexual escapades and may want to replicate it again even in marriage. They may complain about their spouse performance in bed, but their spouse may be normal and okay, probably suffering the consequences of their own stretched sexual life and experiences.

Now, what are the negative impacts past intense sexual experiences may cause in marriage?

(1) Sexual Satisfaction from External Thoughts: Many married people may be suffering from the issue of having sex with their spouse and at the same time imagining their past sexual partners in order to get excitement or maybe fulfilment.
I got part of this insight from someone.

(2) Tendency to Commit Adultery: A married person with past wild sexual experiences may be used to varieties and may see it as a burden having sex with only one person throughout their lives. This may lead to committing adultery if care is not taken.

(3) Introduction of Unacceptable Sex Patterns: A pervert who is used to certain perversions may "endure" for some time in marriage and may want to begin to force or introduce such perversion to their spouse.

(4) Recurring Sexual Struggles: Even couples who are genuinely serious about becoming sexually responsible in marriage may have recurring sexual struggles because of past intense sexual experiences. These may come as strong memories of "past sexual escapades, undue sexual urge, hard endurance in subduing temptations e.t.c.

(5) Inability to attain Orgasm from Moderate Sex: What may seem to be moderate and enjoyable sex, may not be sufficient for someone with past intense sexual experiences. This may lead to frustration from the unsatisfied spouse and probably depression to the spouse who has done his or best in satisfying them sexually.

(6) Tendency to Resort to Masturbation: A person with intense past sexual escapades may sort for things like intimacy gadgets to augment for what their spouse have not fulfilled. Those who do not want to go outside may see masturbation as a way of cooling off. This is also wrong.

You can be good and better if you work on yourself.

Akpu and sharwarma?

Abi Popcorn and Fisherman soup

PatientofYabale:
Which yoruba girls abegoo!!!!

We have several fine Yoruba ladies too.

Igbos have several fine ladies too.

Which of These Options Scare You Most in Modern Day Marriage?

(a) Paternity Fraud.
(b) Cheating in Marriage
(c) Disrespect
(d) Fiance or Fiancee Sleeping with EX/Someone before wedding day.
(e) Spending your hard-earned money on the wrong person.
(f) Deceit.
(g) No true love in many people.
(f) Past body counts.

We have good marriages anyway.

The ladies of your own tribe are wonderful & awesome creatures of God.

If you have your view about the tribe with the finest set of ladies, you can contribute. If you feel its your tribe, you can put it.

So you want people who have been stark naked with their sexual partners in bed fornicating, from monday to saturday, to rush and hold microphone on sunday? So is the urge to work in church better than the urge to spend time in repenting and dealing with fornication?

How can someone be living a lifestyle of fornication and still be dedicated worker in church? This is not an issue of maybe a one-time carelessness of which someone can repent of and seek counsel from trusted leaders; but a conscious lifestyle of fornication.

Where is it clearly stated in the Bible that a Christian should not take cocaine? But is taking cocaine a righteous act?

immortalcrown:
You want to change the topic because you cannot justify your post.😂

The topic is not about whether I am a fornicator or not. The topic is that you are telling fornicators not to work in the church but God himself has not told fornicators not to work in the church.

So you want people who have been stark naked with their sexual partners in bed fornicating, from monday to saturday, to rush and hold microphone on sunday? So is the urge to work in church better than the urge to spend time in repenting and dealing with fornication?

How can someone be living a lifestyle of fornication and still be dedicated worker in church? This is not an issue of maybe a one-time carelessness of which someone can repent of and seek counsel from trusted leaders; but a conscious lifestyle of fornication.

Where is it clearly stated in the Bible that a Christian should not take cocaine? But is taking cocaine a righteous act?

immortalcrown:
Waiting for you to use any Bible verse to support your point.

If you are living in persistent fornication, be a normal church member.

You want me to pamper fornication with church workforce?

Where is it clearly stated in the Bible that you should not take cocaine? But is taking cocaine a righteousness act?

immortalcrown:
The same way God does not force anyone to serve him is the same way God does not say that certain people should not serve him. So, why are you trying to set the boundaries that God himself did not set? Are you wiser or holier than God?

Don't serve God in church with iniquity.

Someone cannot be wallowing in fornication, abortion e.t.c, and be serving God. The person should take a break and sincerely tell God to deal with the fornication & sins, then the person can become a dedicated church worker after been set free.

What is the point fornicating from monday till saturday, then rushing to church as a church worker on sunday. Is that not self-deceit?

God is very merciful to sinners and He wants them saved; but same sinner should not do rush into church workforce until been saved.

immortalcrown:
You are yet to mention the Bible verse that supports this your opinion.

Do not serve as a dedicated church worker with iniquity.

God did not force anyone to serve Him as a fornicator, sinner e.t.c. Such services is useless to God.

A church worker may fall into fornication and repent; maybe due to pressure e.t.c, but fornicating regularly while being active as a church worker is a useless service before God.

Kobojunkie:
1. Why? 🥱🥱🥱

2. Why? 🥱🥱🥱

3. Why? 🥱🥱🥱

You can do other normal things for the church like sharing of handbills, joining in any general church sanitation for members e.t.c...

To be having regular fornication and still rushing to church as a dedicated worker is self-deceit.

You can be a normal member and if you have repented and God has helped you on the issue of immorality, you can become a dedicated church worker.

A dedication church worker may fall into fornication if not watchful. But fornication shouldn't be a regular thing for a dedicated church worker.
If a dedicated church worker falls into fornication, the person can repent and seek counsel from trusted Christians. But doing fornication regularly as a dedicated church worker is bad.

immortalcrown:
Where are you getting this idea or principle from? Does the Bible stipulate how near a sinner should come to God?

A sinner is very free to come to God. God does not discriminate. But a sinner that fornicates often should leave pulpit work or as a dedicated church worker.
See, a Christian may even fall into fornication and repent. But let it be a "mistake" or an issue of not being careful. But a committed church worker regularly fornicating should leave church work. He or she may help on stuffs that are for church members in general.

How do you see it if someone fornicates 15 times in a month and still hold microphone to sing or preach or serve as a dedicated church worker?