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Kobojunkieee:
Sounds like you are a case of avoidant personality/dismissive-avoidant attachment style coupled with abandonment trauma stemming from a rough childhood.
https://www.wholewellnesstherapy.com/post/abandonment-trauma-attachment-styles

My suggestion is that you put relationships on hold for a time, make an appointment immediately to seek help from a professional psychotherapist, and take needed steps to resolve the issue of the cage you keep running around in there.

Nothing like that. I was born & raised by a lovely family consisting of both parents and siblings. I also maintain cordial r/ship with people from different backgrounds. The community where I grew up relate like one family. So, there's no case of abandonment or avoidant whatever.

remi4ever:
It sounds like you're going through a tough time. It's good that you're recognizing a pattern and want to change. Maybe it would be helpful to take some time for yourself to figure out what you really want in a relationship. Talking to a therapist could also be a great way to get some clarity and support. Wishing you all the best!

Thanks

Skyfornia:
You be wómanizer...change before it is too late. Take this advice from me

I won't deny that but I now found out that I am hurting myself and no one else. Infact, in my neighborhood, most people believe any girl they see me talking to, I am dating her even though nothing as such.

I was surprised when a lady I was chatting with in my area said that "me that is dating every girl in our area". It's funny but that's how bad I have been casted.

dammyco:
You no get wahala, na normal thing jaaree. If any babe love you dem go stay. Just hustle get money and be serious with one babe. If you no need serious relationship give woman Belle collect pikin

😂 Lol! Thanks, bro. I really appreciate ur advice and concern.

xtianchris:
Nothing wrong with you bro.. You only realized the life you living isn't favourable.. So just do the opposite of what you have done ..... And you good ..

Seriously, if u ask me about my woman. I will even be confused. I usually ask "which of them". At a time i thought it was a spiritual problem ooo

I have problem keeping a serious and committed relationship.

I always found myself keeping multiple partners & still maintain contact with some of my exes which add to the pool of women in my circle. I find it difficult to detach from them.

This really drains me emotionally and financially as I could get several demands from these ladies at the same time and it really stressed me. Moreover, age is no longer on my side.

In the past, I have lost good girls who were really committed but because I wasn't committed, as I had to juggle all of those girls together.

How do I do away with this problem? I will appreciate any suggestions or advice.

CP should do something by responding to this lady abeg. I wonder if he enjoy being dragged.

His family should also intervene by advising their son to do the needful if he knows he's responsible for the baby.

MissOpe:
I can relate with this...
I am married and given the numerous disagreement btw my spouse and I, at this point I don't mind if he has a small wife that takes his problem away from me....I don't like sex and ive told him numerous times he can get someone to warm his bed.
Marriage is not a do or die affair...
If I have my way I don't mind an opened marriage....

To get another wife? Forget it, U will be sharing with other men and Uncle is scared

Ibechris2:
This advice is wrong.

If what u are saying is true...how come I made close 11million in just three month from this same business.
Jan to March as at yesterday.

U people just keep dishing out lies in form of advice deceiving young minds from doing well.

I have been into this business for the past 12 years and i have consistently made so much from this.

Last year alone,I made 30million and above.

Mention the investment companies that are folding up?

Most of my friends who left banking just as I did are into licenced lending and cooperatives and we are all doing great...so stop painting everything bad.

My father used to say; "that Nigeria has never been good but one thing is sure,that Nigeria money can never finish...not even in 100years to come".

I will like to get some info from you. Can we chat privately?

Federal government will not call FFK to order now ooo!!! Until he cause problem for us.

I am managing myself here. So FFK should not invoke the wrath of Israel & US upon us.

FFK should mind his business.

Israel, please, the opinion and comments of FFK is solely his and does not represent Nigeria or our collective opinion or comments.

We remain neutral to your regional or country's affairs.

I was shocked to learn that the English Gold Necklace I bought for less than 6k around 2010 is now sold for 150k.

I regret selling my necklace at a giveaway price in 2013 when I was broke.

Legendguy:
Can you speak hausa?

I can speak Hausa and have experience as a Call Center Agent.

aylive02:
safety first. Forget the amount you will make in KD. Devil wey you don know tey tey better pass sexy angel wet you just dey meet

Nothing wrong with KD. KD is safe, you guys should stop spreading false information.
Like any other state, most attacks occur in the remote villages. Also, KD hasn't experience religious riot for a long time now.

Op! Go to KD if you want.

Father4all:
The father must be the culprit

Ogar go and read the main gist again. You skipped where it was written that "unfortunately, her father died few years ago".

Always looking for security personnel. It shows something isn't right with your organisation's employment conditions.

I am sure she is Achimugu's daughter. Achimugu, an Igala man from Kogi state owned the then Arewa Textile PLC located in Kaduna.

The moment she hear an Idoma guy say "I love you".

Thanks to you all. I have successfully reached there

Please, how do I reach Ajah around Abraham Adesanya from Alapere, Ketu?

I am working on identifying skills, training and experience someone who have worked in the hotel, customer service roles and private security can leverage to register a company and offer services.

I have been able to come up with few and I will appreciate more.

Here are they ones I have come up with;
Hotel Reservation
Staff Outsourcing
Hotel & Hospitality Management
Training & Capacity Building
CAC Business Name Registration
Event Planning & Management
Security & Safety Audit
Project Management
Procurement & Supply

virginprincess:
Such a wicked and heartless fellow,may God not let this kind of beast come my way .

So, u want to cheat and go scot free?

U guys are always looking for Security Personnel. Hmm!!!

Initially, I thought something was wrong with me when I couldn't comprehend what the Op posted until I saw other people complained of same thing.

Op, you deserve hurt slap for making me go through this mental stress!

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This is a public forum with anonymous posters. So everything boil down to you.

You can hardly stop such persons from the way the respond to inquiries or requests like yours which is job.

You can decide to ignore them or succumb to their demand. All depend on you!

Nobody is forcing anybody to do anything here. Just be wise!

AmancalledGod:
Please guy's, I'm into Supply of chippings and local stones, for buildings, how can i maintain my customers to keep on patronizing me, as the business is very competitive....
Please help brother's

* Treat your CUSTOMERS AS KINGS
* Try to give your customers an exceptional experience that will leave them exclaiming WOW!!
* Know that any bad experience a Customer have with your product or service, there's likelihood that he would tell someone else about it and that person will tell another person. So, treat customers good and ensure you give them what they want.
* Respect your customers. Listen when they are talking to you and respond to them to show that you are with them.
* Define your selling points. Check on your competitors to know what they are doing differently. Offer Unique products/services, discounts, timely delivery of products or services, warranty, after-sale services or follow-ups.
* Be emphatic and proffer solutions when appropriate.
* Document requests, complaints and feedbacks and suggestions.
* You can offer gifts or send simple good wishes messages to your consistent customers during their birthdays or festive periods to show you CARE.

In all, pray to God for ultimate direction.

Wish you all the best!!!
You can reach me for your staff training on CUSTOMER SERVICE.

This is where and how the scam that produced the LG Chairmen and Councillors in Kaduna took place.

Just In;

The Kaduna State APC in collaboration with SIECOM (State Independent Electoral Commission) has refused to deploy it's staff and electoral materials to the Local Governments and Polling Units where the Local Government elections are suppose to hold today being 19th October, 2024.

Earlier this month, there was an attempt to illegally amend the state electoral laws which was exposed and halted. Followed by a propaganda that some PDP Candidates have defected to APC and boycott of the elections by the PDP which were all propaganda.

Security agents are also used to commit this crime.

Watch and listen to the attached video of the situation report.
Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/tzuNedZOT6g?si=k1ktT9WyB9_D1SIW

Bloggers! Food don done.

JapaToDNext:
okay your choice

But think well and critically before u make a move

U know getting a job in Nigeria is hard now

Thanks

JapaToDNext:
I will suggest u don't go back there, since u have worked there before

If I may ask, why did they choose u?

Where u not good enough to be made a supervisor, before you left them

As a man, don't go back to your vomit, it makes you priceless and gives you value

Is because you are priceless and of value, that's why they want u back

So I believe they cannot get someone with your hotel experience, that why they want u back

What's the guarantee, if they see someone better than u in experience and qualification they won't toss u off like paper

A bird at hand (in your case two jobs), is worth millions in the bush

I will suggest u do not accept it, continue your two security work and look for job opportunities else where.

Sorry, I mean to say that I have worked in a hotel before ( hotel work experience as a Receptionist) but not in this very hotel that want to employ me now.

SporaD8:
"Opportunity comes but once!"
Forfeiting half salary is the least of sacrifice you can pay for a better opportunity.

Yes, I am looking at opportunity the hotel job offer. I have work in the hotel in the past but not in a Supervisory role. So this is a kind of progression.