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A fellow here was paying me 6k for three consecutive months. Each month I received credit alert of 6k. He did that so I can sustain myself while I search for another job after I left a very bad one.


And, I begin to wonder the kind of mystery this life is. They people you knew for years would be as If you never knew them while someone you haven't seen or known would be as If you have known them from Adam.

ikenna930:
I hope you hv not told her that you love her, you can't do without her��
You shouldn't hv told her directly that u wanted sex, depending on your friendship with her already. Try sexualizing your discussions with her. Make her think you are a bad boy(even if you are not).. Let her know you wouldn't mind having sex with her,even as just friends or in a relationship.
Then set simple traps for her. If she likes you..she will willingly fall for the trap. If she doesn't want you. It will be obvious even with all your love.
If she no want you. Free her.
She no be your own

Sexualizing discussions?

I do this a lot with some babes recently & all d parole casted. I am beginning to have a rethink whether to shun that strategy.

We would flow well while chatting & plan on hooking up but most of them don't show up. I don't know maybe I overdo it.

I think is time I adopt telling them I will like us to chill & have fun directly.

Another thing I noticed is, if u don't make ur intentions known from onset & directly, most of d babes will come to ur crib if u invite them but will deny u access to their coochie unless d ones that really want to get down with u.

My observations: It's easier if u tell them what u want directly from d onset.

Something like, I really like u & I wouldn't want to pretend like other guys do. I don't like beating around d bush & I like being sincere.

I will like us to chill & have a nice time. U are a woman, a very beautiful one at that. U know what I want, I am a man & u know what I want as well. I will be there for u should u need my support. If u are committed I can do that if I am in d position.

If she agree, we roll. If she disagree, I bounce!!

Another option, I try to get close to her as friends. Flirt a bit, then take her out for little flexing. Some coded babes already know what u want, they offer themselves.

Some, u need to stylishly invite or take them home.

But seriously, this dirty, sex chats & calls stuff isn't working for me with my recent parole.

Let me mark my presence here

Glink2018:
Daughter of Jezebel...you don't have any saying in this matter because you are under the rulership of the devil...

When a purpose is not known abuse is inevitable...Bishop doesn't want those lazy youth to abuse heavenly mandate and ask them to leave ....

Read what d she posted very well. She hasn't done any wrong. U guys are saying same thing.

QuinModah:
It's a must to merge. Do it fast

Will it stop me from collecting d 25%? How long does it take?

Yep! 2014, I travelled to Ibadan for a job & I was to squat with a friend.
Some days later we got talking with a woman in the compound & she asked me If I am so...so... person from Nairaland.

Omo!! I was shocked. I am sure that she's my follower. Though she refused telling me her moniker. She's a Ghanian, married to a Yoruba man.

I lost the password to my first NL account though.

Activist001:
Hausas obviously. Maybe yorubas next? Maybe.

I'm igbo but igbos no near this kind list.

Don't mind that guy attacking me. It isn't about my tribe but that's my knowledge & experience.

I am not even Hausa so I am not siding.

SchoolGate:
Ipob

At the same time they are the most stingy

shut your fucking mouth there fool

Are U fucking kidding? I mean what I said & I stand by it.

U are entitle to ur opinion. U sound archaic, the world does not revolve around U. Travel around, mingle, tolerate & accept others, & the world will be a better place 4 U & I!!!

Hausa!!! Very generous but don't joke with their religion.

Also, working under a Hausa man as your boss is nice. They treat u same & not bossy.

Emotionss:
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I don't know about others, BUT me I have always been direct with them. So far my success rate is something around 70/100.

But in your case, I will suggest you playfullyl chip it in once in a while whenever you guys are having a conversation. If you're observant enough, her body language and reactions will give you the needed clues if you're to continue or abort the FWB thing with her.

The way you say it matters a lot.
Also it is of extreme importance you take account of her mental and emotional maturity.. (Before them go accuse you of Sexual harassment)

One of the Advantages of FWB is that your Fainancal status in most cases is irrelevant.

When it comes to MY FWB experience, MY physical appearance and sexual Aura do most of the talking for me. Then My mental and emotional maturity before my fainancal status.

BUT

Most importantly, she must be sexually attracted to YOU FIRST before anything else can Happen

Thanks

How long does it take to merge one RSA to another RSA?


I applied for 25% pension contributions with Fidelity Pensions. I completed d documentation today, later in d day I got a call from their Head Office that I need to merge my Trustfund Pensions account to d Fidelity Pensions account b4 my application can be process.

Note: I also have contributions with Trustfund Pensions under a different organization where I initially worked & have collected 25% from same contribution.

How do I arrange or colonize a girl for a FWB?

Must I use money?

After several chats, I have being using indirect approach to invite this babe to my crib but she wouldn't come.

I am thinking of telling her directly that I want a FWB relationship wit her.

Elxandre:
Yeah, you don't need to completely ignore her. Just reduce your interactions.
Shutting her off completely shows you're too affected by whatever she does.

Alright

Elxandre:
You're already acting desperate by refusing to chat with her.
Psychology says, the more you show desperation, the less attractive you are.

Desperate?
I think one need to let this gals know what he is up from d onset in order not to waste time & also know d one is game or interested.

Falomo211:
Na lie make ur friend no worry him go soon understand naso e do me when I first be novice for bet

He has now seen d difference from yesterday's game.

He played & twisted that match into different HT/FT.
He won d one of 2/X, now he understand d option.

SmartPunter:
It depends on you bro how you dey play ur parole . Girls believe on what they see . Once you have the money , you won't stress yourself that much . Like me I own a shop that's worth millions na me self dey form for girls . Now look at it any girl I collect her number around my shop that knows my worth doesn't take me long to invite her to my crib na she self dey request to come know my place because they know I'm capable women like soft. But outside my shop is not easy because I don't do show off and girls I meet they don't value me . So it depends on you.

And you have to be smart don't make it look obvious that you're inviting her for sex , you have to pretend . Girls also like to pretend they even enjoy sex more than us. When girls visit me for the first time I don't get close to them I pretend . So that another day she'll still come without having anything in mind. Doing things with girls is all about mind games.

I believe U

EngrXrix:
Patience is the key my friend

Bro, since April ooo!!! At times when u decide to be patient u end up in d FRIEND ZONE and she will start billing U.

Don't u think she should have check on me even via chat since 2 weeks that I stop chatting her?

ravensckar:
That one dey use you catch cruise! She has made you nothing more than a chat mate to cure her boredom. Please bone her as quickly as possible and let her realize that you're much more valuable than that. I was once a victim of such nonsense, I use boning & forming busy torture her. Me wey survive 9 months for my mama belle without talking to anybody? Nonsense!

The thing tire me, bro! If u see our chat ehnnn, u go think say I don lash dis gal finish but nothing.

She go even ask me which side I dey stay as per we dey same area na. I tell her where my crib dey, fix match but na lie.

overdrive:
It's the same everywhere.

Don't mind d guy. Im matter tire me sef.

Now, Italy Vs England ended: 2/X but dis guy will come & be claiming he won.

overdrive:
The game was 1/1. Argentina won ht/ft.
If Argentina won first half and Brazil equalised 2nd half to make it full time draw, he would have won. That is 1/x

Thank u. It's BetKing options different from that of Bet9ja?
He said that he once won on Bet9ja wit d same option & same result. Though he played dis controversial ticket on BetKing.

My friend played Argentina Vs Brazil game = HT/FT
1/X
I am sure that Argentina played 1:0 first half, and 2nd half was 0:0 but the match ended Argentina 1:0 Brazil.

My friend check coupon & it showed lost but he insisted that his game entered. I tried to explain to him that d game has lost but he still insisted that he won.

Pls, your verdict on this will be appreciated.

How do u do with dis parole? There's dis gal that u have had enough chats, whined her & engaged her in sex chats. U invite her to your crib but she tell u that she's not gonna be available till on Sundays.

Sunday reach, u invite her but she still said that she will be going out. The girl will still wanna chat but I am getting pissed off at d moment. I no longer chat wit her.

Any format?

Chapter1vs6:
Hey boss I got your pm but don't have access to that mail again

Let's chat via Whatsapp: 0703***

It's still a marketing role.

ireneidiva:
I wish you all the best.

Thanks so much