Maya2pretty:
yeah likewise, thats when hollywood meets real life lol, it's a cute thing 2 do

carmelion:

Edel doll,good to hear from you again,personaly my weekend has been about house chores,resting and ofcourse Nairaland.Sorry to hear about your brothers.Like you said,thay re really unlucky.

Please I want you to encourage them.At least with you as their sister,they should know that there re still good ladies out there.

Please when next,you want to introduce them to girls,please don't introduce any girl to them.Be very selective,go for somebody who will value them(at least you know them better).

Emmm...wait,did you just say they make breakfasts in bed?,that's romantic you know.

Kajina:

The difference is we Ghanaians are proud of our African skin, and Nigerian are not. Nigerians should learn from us and stop the bleaching. Because black is beautiful, while bleaching is fatal. A WORD TO THE WISE.... BTW do Nigerians think the closer they are to the white man the better they look? The most populous black nation in the world, yet they are not proud looking black Mother Africa weeps!

saxking:
Awww...hope you've eaten...

chikeorji123:

This is impressive! proudly Carmelion...don't worry ur page 19 is safe..

carmelion:



Truly she is.Wedding announcements to be made soon.

DailyNews: I wish u more edel, soon u will find that special man that will make u smile again, so be positive abt guys and stop seeing guys as a group of unworthy people becos there are wonderful guys that if u get to meet them, u will be dancing gangnam style everyday and thanking God for bringing them into ur life.

There are many of them.

Guddy and Rooney, u guys want to force words out of my mouth o

Okay, what I wanted to say is the same old stuff we all hear.

Ladies of today due to media hyping of bad as good, and due to societal disfunction, ignore the good guys a lot, and even when they meet a good guy, they take him for granted, they see him as too naïve, not hot, not everything assumable that the media and movie have made them to believe is an ideal man.

Good guys hardly chase, they hardly set out time to chase, u meet them by chance in d course of performing ur routine daily activities. But certain environments and areas hosts more good guys than certain areas, so ladies try and discover those environments and areas urself.

Above all, men are cunning in nature, pls zip up at all cost, u can't loose a good guy cos u refused to sleep with him. Even if he runs cos of that by mistake, he will come running back to u in no distant time.

I really wish to see more and more ladies n guys happily in love and getting happily married forever. But to achieve that, u must define what u want, u must stop comparing ur life with that of ur frnds or some folks u watch in movie.

U must stop using movie, and media couples as the standard of measurement for ur taste. U must be ready to face the reality and stop dreaming.

Good guys know that they are rare gems, so they are hard to get. U can hardly get a good to fall in love with u by being flirty, seductive. U can succeed in seducing him, bt u can't succeed in making him fall truly in love.

Now how do u make a good, real guy fall in love with u?

Be real, stop acting n behaving like the usual Nigerian girls of today. Make urself stand out. Stop wearing those revealing clothes everywhere u go. Stop exposing ur boobs to entice men.

Real guys fancy decent girls with integrity and respect for their womanhood.

Let's stop here for now.

Edel, I just checked ur profile pic nw, u are pretty enough to attract a nice guy, so open up and pls be real and nice. Goodluck, will pray for u ladies. @ Daily news. U were raised by a Queen truly and her teachings really sank into u. Blessed are u female relatives that are willing to learn. Yeah the are a whole lot of guys,but I never gave them chances, but just yesterday I made up my mind to give a try to one among all,d fear of choice was and has being my major problem. He is God fearing and has being patient and calm all through my chastity period, I really appreciate his perseverance,am taking it slow and stress free, just be myself all the way, like I have never being broken, its only fair I keep trying. Love is too beautiful an emotion to ignore, its a glimpse of Heaven! So as we speak Now, in my heart now I am OBLIGATED to one man,thanks to this thread truly and u! I will keep u posted. Kisses and hugs to all the intelligent and humble dolls in the house.

DailyNews: Hello ladies, I am sorry to deviate a bit this time.

I want to know, why do Nigerian ladies hate football and sports so much? Yy? This is killing our economy u know ask me how?

Most guys wud willingly go to watch Eyimba play with Kano Pillars at Ijebu if their girlfriends force them to take them to go watch the match, but instead their girlfriends would even complain and ask them to take them to a night club, eatery centre or to go watch cinema at Silverbird, yy? It is not like that with the western ladies and that's y their football n sports is growing fast n booming.

Wherever there is a sports event in Nigeria, its always an all male affair, and who knows if its d reason why Super Eagles don't always perform well maybe they want u ladies to come watch them n cheer them up thank God we won today, so happy

Pls u ladies shud do sth abt ur love n passion for sports, current affairs n other areas of life- life isn't abt movie, music, clubbing, party, eating n drinking u know

DailyNews: Seriously the initiator of this thread deserves an award for being so courageous to startup sth like this to assist her fellow ladies.

I saw somebody wrote- beware of dailynews, lol, anyway, u shud better fast n pray that ur sister meet a guy like dailynews, joke apart


I just read some great comments from guys this morning, guys kudos to u all for watching the back of ur sisters. To those bad guys out there, pls change for good, those girls u use n dump for another are also females like ur sisters, remember life is a BOOMERANG! Be careful!

Now to the single ladies, try these tips:

Beauty is nice, all guys want a beautiful girl with nice shape, but that's not enough to convince real guys to put a ring on ur finger, have u ever wondered y most great men end up not marrying the most pretty girls in town? Not talking abt some fake celebrities trying to make up or to follow the trend, talking abt real men of integrity.

You can list out some great and successful married men u knw n check out their wives- they didn't just married them cos they were miss world n universe, nope.

Here are the tips:

1.Try and work on ur intelligence; even if u weren't born intelligent, u can improve ur intelligence tru diligent study and learning. Spend more time reading newspapers, sci-fi novels (not just romance n love novels), history books or browse some online, reduce d time u spend watching NOLLYWOOD/HOLLYWOOD films cos they most time create a negative world of bling bling on ur head which indirectly influences ur entire reasoning n actions in life. Develop passion for current affairs, listen more to news channels- CNN, Channels TV, Aljazeera TV, CNBC, etc and if possible stop watching Channel E!, Channel 0, etc.


2. Learn to communicate effectively n freely. Learn to argue intellectually with ur brothers n male cousins at home to groom ur level of intelligence, n not abandoning them when they are discussing politics, business, sports, etc to watch film. Guys love girls who are intelligent, who can direct a good conversation. It pisses most guys off when they go out with u and u can't talk; all u reply is- fine, ok, that's nice, really, no problem, why, better, etc. It kills passion and it has murdered so many relationships that wud have led to sth serious.


It tells the guy that u are dull, shy, unintelligent, not brainy, not smart, not interested in him, thinking of another guy, etc. In fact u replying a guy with one word, one word reply during a chat or conversation pushes him away and give him bad impression of u. So the bad guys will pretend, and hang on, n giving u d impression that they love u d way u are calm n dull until they succeed in sleeping with u and then they run away, but the good guys with good mission will just disappear gradually without giving u any reason.

But pls don't be a talkative, just be a good listener and an effective communicator who can keep a good conversation flowing. Communication is d key to success in a relationship, don't kill it, learn to interact intelligently.

3. Be contented with what u have. Mind u, guys are hustling to make money to have a good life n to take good care of their gfriends, fiances, lovers n wife, but dnt give d impression that u are after his money n wealth, it hurts n pisses every man off.

Of course my wife wouldn't need to contribute a kobo in our marriage, but she needs to be industrious n financially productive so that she wud understand d value of money n to be able to take kia of her own family (siblings, parents, cousins) without having to border me now n then. So try and be productive in any way u can so u won't be too nervous abt a guys money.

4. Learn to dress- wearing half clothes to look sexy n hot will only attract randy and hot guys who are of course- DOGS looking for tigers to wrestle with, so watch ur dressing, and stop emulating celebrities u dnt even know their life ordeal behind d camera.

5. Be respectful, humble and obedient. No man wants to propose or marry a disrespectful lady who argues, fights and quarrels with everyone around her- her parents, siblings, colleagues, friends, neighbors, school n room-mates. Even u were born disrespectful n pompous, u can pray and learn to be humble with time, work on ur character.

6. Open up ur mind to good friendship from guys and dnt be in a hurry to date. Stop feeling that u are lonely and engage urself with productive things, u can use ur lonely moments to write poems, short stories, study, knit, or learn a special handwork.

7. Above all, run to God, run to God! It may sound nasty but its for ur own good. Once u are close to God, believe me, u won't find things difficult, and all d good things u need will surely come ur way and even when tribulations come, there must be a way out soon, so be strong.

Note: DailyNews isn't searching pls n pls. I only got touched by this thread n I am only trying to contribute to help this cause. Pls n pls dnt ever develop likeness or hate cos of wotever I have typed here, I may be or may not be d kind of person u maybe thinking I am. And pls beware of online dating, look and search around ur environment, remember, d enemy u know is better than d devil u dnt know.

Rooneyboy:

hmmm , quite an epistle , pls I wld like to know if u were working while in ur relationship, cos I don't understand why a matured lady would have no life other than her relationship ,....... again u might have been a liability and ur boo saw u exactly that way and was able to take good care of u.

He obviously perceived u as someone that was in the relationship for the financial benefits and nothing more, that's y he easily cheated on without thinking twice.

Babzilla:
HMMM? SOUNDS LIKE UVE BEEN DAMAGED TOOTS. Y NOT FOCUS ON MORE INTERESTING STUFF. PICK A HOBBY, BUILD UP UR CAREER. DONT THINK ABOUT GUYS U WILL GE THE MR. RIGHT WHEN U LEAST EXPECT TO

......MEANWHILE WHO WATCHED THE CAVALIERS V THUNDER GAME YESTERDAY?

kagari:

End of discussion. U make sence die

jim jones:

sistrin, shun those idiots wey just go find any reason to criticize. i agree with you completely. this is a carnival, not some church or mosque parade. in cross river we understand that and have no problems with that. any cross riverians/non-cross riverians/more-catholic-than-the-pope/more-muslim-than-mohammed -type hypocrites, could very well fvck off to the argungu fishing festival, lagos, port-harcourt, abuja or any other one of them shitty carnivals. Cross River is a progressive state with prodigious tourism ambitions. we major!