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Romance / Re: Mention One Good Thing Your Ex Did For You by edelweiss(f): 4:33pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
My ex tot me a lot of things but one tin I remembers him doing for me that brings tears to my eyes is him leaving work, parked his car cos of traffic and took bike (then) to come to d hospital when I lost my dad! He was the first person to come b4 my mum or my siblings and he covered my father's face. he told me not to only have this pix of my late father. It brings tears to my eyes till datem 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Only Advise Ladies On Relationships? Dont Men Need Reorientation Too? by edelweiss(f): 4:16pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
usermane:yes u are right. It all boils down to ur person as an individual, never will a person with sound moral upbringing, d fear of God and fair conscience will treat a fellow human so unfairly! I for one chose not to treat pple based on their IQ. I try to impact positively to their lives rather than rip them apart! Believe u me, some guys could be termed as fish brains or better still nonentity,but nevertheless I don't tell them my opinion, I will discuss what I feel the should observe about themselves believing that the would be grateful to me when they finally see reasons. We never know where we can be of help to one another in future. |
Romance / Re: Do I Leave Her Or: ? by edelweiss(f): 11:37pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
@ poster. A woman who is truly in luv with u will never stay a day witout keeping in touch with u. Atimes we do silly tins when we are younger but never to dis point. My own personal experience. My 1st bf I was cheating, I was cheating not because I wanted to hurt him, it was due to d fact that I didn't even know what I was doing! I felt d was more to sex so I wanted to experiment ofcos with protection. I didn't get a guy in sch cos I felt dating a guy in sch wld b disrespectful to him, I got a guy in d airforce, told him I have a boyfriend, that I just want to be doing it with him, no strings attached, and that at any point he comes to my house and sees my boyfriend, he will remain just a friend! I did dis for two yrs but really got pricked by my conscience then I told d 2nd guy that we have gotten 2 d end of d road, he was already in luv with me,but I soothe his feelings and told him to remember d deal. He lingered but I didn't go back. But despite dis I put my bf first! Am in my 2nd relationship,and I have vowed never to cheat! Not to even collect a bottle of coke frm anoda man, I confessed to my first 2 free myself from guilt of the past. So if any girl is in a relationship and she doesn't respect d man she is dating,she doesn't deserve d man, no matter how busy u r,u will create time for him! I assign ring tone and even msg tone so I wld know when my bf is calling. Pls look for d right girl, she doesn't love u therefore doesn't deserve u. Goodluck! |
Romance / Re: When Your Lover Introduces You As A Friend To His/her Friends? by edelweiss(f): 11:04pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Mine introduces me by my name, but I know his both parent and all his friends, and have a key to his house in our base and his village. Now am confused oo |
NYSC / Re: Corper's Kids In NYSC Uniform by edelweiss(f): 12:02pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
greall1: I like where dis kids start their education from NYSCchoi u funny die! How did u come up with dis? LMCAO |
Romance / Re: Ladies, Can U Fart In D Presence Of Ur Boyfriend? by edelweiss(f): 8:00pm On Dec 06, 2012 |
Sure I do, I mean its natural and the isn't no pretence in our relationship, we bath together and I keep him company in d loo likewise him, we even drink tea dre! Cos he stays so long dre! Lol,but not just weeks in d relationship oo 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Is The Meaning Of Ur Name: Is It Romantic? by edelweiss(f): 7:53pm On Dec 06, 2012 |
My english name means PEARL, and my Native name means 'the one who have being looking for' |
Romance / Re: Why Only Advise Ladies On Relationships? Dont Men Need Reorientation Too? by edelweiss(f): 3:47pm On Dec 06, 2012 |
jhydebaba:and u feel manipulating the' fish brain' make u a better person? why don't u think about correcting and not taking advantage of her? U said she opens her legs for suya? Means she's cheap ba? What about the ones that only open with a very reasonable money? What is that? Or the one who opens for no monetary value? Or the one who doesn't open at all? What will u call those?Men really have to change their attitude, instead of manipulating and teaching her the hard way, why not be human and teach her with tenderness,like u wld want a man to treat ur sister, daughter or mum. The option is all left to u. |
Romance / Re: Why Only Advise Ladies On Relationships? Dont Men Need Reorientation Too? by edelweiss(f): 10:46pm On Dec 05, 2012 |
jhydebaba: Not only that u have fish brains, u also litter everywhere with unwanted pregnanciesThe pregnancies the women got thru the immaculate conception? Why put a woman in the family way if u aint ready? Why sleep with a woman without protection if u can't face the consequences of being a father? Its a man's world u said, I agree, so far is the world a better place so far?men need re orientation! And it begins with u!Don't get carried away in the tides, stand firm. 1 Like |
Romance / Why Only Advise Ladies On Relationships? Dont Men Need Reorientation Too? by edelweiss(f): 10:30pm On Dec 05, 2012 |
Ever since I got to Nairaland all I see on the romance section is ladies do this and do that and I seriously wonder are we seen as fish brains? Don't we think the men themselves need some orientation?Guys tend to talk about the ladies alone and feel as if we are the only ones with relationship issues, all thanks to u all though we pick some of our mistakes and adjust, but seriously guys u need to re orient yourselves too! Guys have lost all morales, cheating is the order of the day, the think being romantic or loving is being weak,the have lost their true self to the society and made up believes! How can u be a good husband or be responsible man when u think u are prefect? We are all human, we learn everyday. I would like to see the responsible ones who have set their priorities right to educate some of the rest. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: The 50-50 Odds? by edelweiss(f): 10:06pm On Dec 05, 2012 |
For me nothing like a 50 50 or 70 30 or whatever ratio! I like my femininity Its my primary self, I don't want to lose that! Mine is a simple logic, he is the HEAD and I am the NECK!lol |
Romance / Re: Ladies: A Romantic Man, Or A Responsible Man? by edelweiss(f): 9:53pm On Dec 05, 2012 |
First of all a responsible man. And I know if a man loves a woman he will be romantic in his own way not necessarily the generally accepted way of romance maybe. But first of all he has to be responsible, that is so so romantic to me anyway! 1 Like |
Fashion / Re: Colours You Will Not Be Caught Dead Wearing? by edelweiss(f): 11:48pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
I like all colours but am particular about d shades, but what I will never touch with even an 11 foot pole is LEMON GREEN! Jeez,its just like Neon sign and those funny jacket/bill board those Lord chosen members wear. I hate that colour. |
Romance / Re: Given The Chance, Will You Get Back With Your Most Recent Ex? by edelweiss(f): 1:12am On Dec 01, 2012 |
I have had just 2 ex, 1st religious barrier, recent one took me to hell and back,nice guy reallyn but doesn't feed u emotionally! He believe footing ur bills 100 percent will make u happy. after 6 yrs I set my priorities right! I don't believe he can change so no going back,despite I love him still. |
Romance / Re: How Do You Respond To This Message From Your Ex “I Miss You” by edelweiss(f): 12:49am On Dec 01, 2012 |
My reply is ok, u wil be fine. Have a good life! But its not working cos he keeps sending msgs and calls after like 2 yrs! Well d best thing I do now is allow d phone ring, and busy it, then IGNORE d text msgs! |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Cheated On Your Partner? If So Why? by edelweiss(f): 9:39am On Nov 27, 2012 |
linda_1:yes am single cos am not married, but the point is that,people preach forgiveness I have forgiven him, him and other guys are still around me,am just confused. I really don't know what to do and I don't see u giving an opinion and I really want opinions, cos its said two heads are better than one. |
Romance / Re: 23 Months After I Broke Up With His Cheating,he Wants Me Back!what Should I Do? by edelweiss(f): 9:27am On Nov 27, 2012 |
dmcdad:thank u very much, its well noted, am grateful |
Romance / Re: 23 Months After I Broke Up With His Cheating,he Wants Me Back!what Should I Do? by edelweiss(f): 9:24am On Nov 27, 2012 |
mondi_cheeks: Almost 2yrs later... I don't even remember the last name of the guy I dated 2yrs agohahaha, u got me cracking!so I should just ignore him and don't take him back? |
Romance / Re: 23 Months After I Broke Up With His Cheating,he Wants Me Back!what Should I Do? by edelweiss(f): 9:22am On Nov 27, 2012 |
kitty kat:thanks well noted am grateful |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Cheated On Your Partner? If So Why? by edelweiss(f): 11:52pm On Nov 26, 2012 |
CAMEROONPRIDE: i didn't call her ashawo ...m still looking for the right word this is beyond ashawoismI respect guys who respect woman even if she doesn't deserve it, when a man gets abusive when passing a msg it makes him look small in IQ to me so I ignore d man and think of him as small. A real man is a man who chooses his words right. The thing dey body! U can't change your primary self because of anybody's actions or inaction! Period! 1 Like |
Romance / Re: 23 Months After I Broke Up With His Cheating,he Wants Me Back!what Should I Do? by edelweiss(f): 11:37pm On Nov 26, 2012 |
acidosis™:I didn't state d mate is for 23 months, like I said I am not in a rush for anoda relationship, I was doing other things in my life but sometime dis year,I got a mate, just there, purely physical and that's d truth and I try not to lie about it to him either. |
Romance / Re: 23 Months After I Broke Up With His Cheating,he Wants Me Back!what Should I Do? by edelweiss(f): 11:24pm On Nov 26, 2012 |
merciie: Girl, 24months is enough time for you to have moved on, taking him back (no matter how much he's sworn to have changed) is dangerous, cos he'll now feel "I can do whatever n if I come begging she'll take me back" since you could still take him back after 23 long months. Let him go jare, you deserve better.thanks sister! I kinda moved on, but not trying to get into a relationship, but making my self a much better person, financial independence,setting my priorities right, I have a mate, just a mate, dunno what else to call it, I have been so scared to even care for any man again, and am just here telling myself not until I fall in love again will I be obligated to any man again. So am just confused. |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Cheated On Your Partner? If So Why? by edelweiss(f): 11:14pm On Nov 26, 2012 |
CAMEROONPRIDE: did u read her story a fam ? your bf left a party because of an urgent call and the only thing you can is to cheat on himeven at that we weren't asked to be judged. She simply said what happened, and she shouldn't be condemned, this girl was just a secondary school girl very immature and wasn't even supposed to be in that environment in the first place, so is to be blamed? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Cheated On Your Partner? If So Why? by edelweiss(f): 11:10pm On Nov 26, 2012 |
sensisosu: have you noticed that most of the replies are from men and the few women that contributed all lied... most women cheats.. no come here come dey lie for us abeg... all of una dey cheats..mind u I didn't say I never cheated, but the ones that said they never cheated should search their conscience or kudos to them! But its an age thing, teenagers don't know their left to right atimes, I for one didn't know jack about relationships or cheating! But when I became an adult I made a decision and even came to d realisation that one man is more than enough! |
Romance / 23 Months After I Broke Up With His Cheating,he Wants Me Back!what Should I Do? by edelweiss(f): 10:36pm On Nov 26, 2012 |
Hello nairalanders please I need your sincere opinion, I broke up with my ex of 6yrs and 23 months after he wants me back for commitment. I loved him silly, I was faithful, I did all my best but he was cheating so much and always begging for forgiveness. I got tired and took a walk for real, he let me! But now he is hot on my case. My question is do people really change?why does he want me back?he hurt me real bad,should I even be accepting his calls?I lost my confidence as a woman with him then, am today am a stronger woman though. Should I take him back? Please I know this sounds like stale story but I need sincere opinions. Thanks |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Cheated On Your Partner? If So Why? by edelweiss(f): 9:06pm On Nov 26, 2012 |
Yes I have! I was young,in my first relationship! I didn't even know what cheating was all about! My 2nd relationship I didn't cheat and he was cheating like hell!but I have learned that when u are in love a man is more than enough! 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Should A Man Not Hit A Woman? by edelweiss(f): 3:26pm On Nov 19, 2012 |
gameaddict: Hey people!is dat supposed 2 b a joke or a question? |
Romance / Re: Your Dating Mistakes That You Have Learnt From by edelweiss(f): 3:02pm On Nov 18, 2012 |
1.I have learnt not to EVER check a man's phone even if he checks mine!NEVER! 2.Never to love a person more than I love myself! Because for selfish or selfless reasons Self comes first! 3.To have my standards. 4.learnt not to make excuses for him, it is what it is! 5.I have learnt to have MY own life despite the fact that am in a relationship! These are the things I wasn't taught at home or school, I was taugt in the school of life and am grateful to God for the experience. |
Travel / Re: Name 10 Best Nigerian Cities by edelweiss(f): 9:41pm On Nov 17, 2012 |
afam4eva:maybe u shld have ur head examined or u eyes! Can't u read ur post? Anybody who want to make it in Cally is either thru prostitution or kidnapping! And I simply asked how many have u heard?pple go just dey blab sha! *smh*we weren't talking about money making cities dah! |
Travel / Re: Name 10 Best Nigerian Cities by edelweiss(f): 9:28pm On Nov 17, 2012 |
nasty45: FOR AL THOSE EX MALABITES AND MALABRESS EVEN THOSE PRESENT WEY DE HYPE CALLY PASS NORMAL MK UNA PIPE LOW.CALLY NO GET MONEY,D ONLY PLACE U GET PAID IS TRU D ATM,AM SAYIN DS COS I GRADUATED DR MANY YRS BK AND STAYED A WYL,MK NOBODY DECEIV UNA OH,BALERI NO DE CALLYomo leave that tin! I be calabar babe, ex malabress, we no dey talk about money here!sure say una pass waec?best cities they said not money making cities abeg! Cally is clean, accommodating and peaceful! The air u breathe in Cally is different from any other! Wetin Dem dey talk wetin u dey talk? |
Travel / Re: Name 10 Best Nigerian Cities by edelweiss(f): 9:19pm On Nov 17, 2012 |
jarkatá: Victorial-islandmennnnnnh u just gave me a good laugh! I don die u said VI/ ikeja that is Lagos state ba? What about we wey dey for surulere? Fashola dey do us well Oº°˚˚°º especially we wey live close to hin house !enough light and good roads! |
Travel / Re: Name 10 Best Nigerian Cities by edelweiss(f): 9:12pm On Nov 17, 2012 |
afam4eva:I beg ur pardon, pls if u want to make statement do without disrespecting! We are known for our honesty, how many kidnapping have u heard of in calabar? If we want to put the ratio of the ibo girls and croSs riverian girls who wil take the price? Mind u its mostly the outsider that do such! I mean who does that in their own state anyway? Calabar might not be flowing with milk and honey but we are sure contented people! Not for once have we heard of calabar boys as gentlemen of the high way because its Christmas or kidnaping and rituals cos their mates are rich and the are not! Abeg no addd the one wey we no be to us! We have dangote, we are tinapa, we have hotels, tourist centers to create employments in calabar! We have ministries , u can't compare the unemployment rate of ur town to dat of calabar! Young boys and girls have little things to do and are contented! |
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