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CelebritiesRe: Davido's Daughter, Imade's 1st Birthday, Julius Agwu, Peter Okoye Attend by edubekee: 4:35pm On Jun 21, 2016
Daminaj1:
He was sick and had brain surgery about a year ago. He was lucky to survive.
u mean it hope is brain is stil workin fine ohh nt tomorow now der wil tel us he is nt coonecting agin in brain
RomanceRe: 19-Year-Old Girl Commits Suicide In Lagos After Fight With Boyfriend by edubekee: 4:32pm On Jun 21, 2016
ijustdey:
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/06/19-yr-old-girl-commits-suicide-fight-boyfriend/
young. Uche obiora. Wht wil u tel God dt happened u stil v like3 or4years of a real relationship befor thinkin of takin away ur life for some sort of boy gal frnd thins,no man or woman is worth dyin for so non v rit to tak away his or her life for any no mata wht rather u work away and move although is gona pain for a a while bt it got to go for real,wher evr u are now uche I belive ur readin my wrd in spirit,in ur next life neva try such for any being alow God to be the judge
FamilyRe: Agonies Of A Child Born Of A Wicked Mother by edubekee: 4:14pm On Jun 21, 2016
Sabuta:
Hello family. I write this memo to seek your opinion about a pressing family issue am confronted with. My story is a very long one but I wil try and make as brief as possible.

I was dating this beautiful lady and all was going well until the issue of marriage popped up. I really loved her and I believe she loves me too. We are both working in thesame city and stay independent of our parents who are in the village. I introduced her to my family and there was little or no resistance from my dad and brothers. Unfortunately, my momsy and her sisters reject and forbid me to marry her. I ask her why and she came up with lazy excuses- the lady's background, family, and all that. I understand that my mum really wants to hand pick a wife for me- but I vehemently refused. I kept pushing for it- going after my heart and praying about it. Of all the excuses my mum gave me, non was personality related. This lady's personality is hard to come by. So I decided to go ahead with the wedding. A few weeks to the wedding the lady took in for me and I informed my parents. We are both cool with that as I counted it a blessing. I was already counting months to been a father.

On the wedding day my mum refused to turn up for the wedding. Now I know it sounds crazy but that what actually happened. Anyways, it was a success and we were pronounced husband and wife.

We started our little home praying for each other and for peace with my mother. Everyday my wife cries out to God to soften the heart of my mother and we kept seeking for forgiveness. She reminds me to call my parents and encourage me to remember my siblings after collecting every paycheck. She was always in touch with my dad and even sends my siblings little token after she collects her salary. I cannot express how much she loved my family and really wanted peace with everybody. She has committed more effort to integrate into my family than I have myself. In everything she does, she puts my siblings first before hers. They say women are selfish- but my woman is selfless.

After nine months, it is time to become a father. We went shopping, bought all the necessary things required to welcome our little angel. Our hearts were filled with joy despite all the hate from my mother. Thank God we are living very far from my mother. So it was kinda easy to manage her hatred towards my wife. But just when I was assuming how easy it was to manage her, trouble began.

A few days to My wife's EDD, she noticed slow movement of the baby in her womb, went to the hospital and doctors advised a CS. Baby's activity was fast decreasing and doctors evacuated the baby. Baby was born- and I was a father. Sadly doctors said the baby had an uncommon disease (name withheld) and would require a surgery. Surgery was done and baby pulled through. All the while we were praying as the disciples did on Pentecost day. We got many pastors involved and all that. Regretfully, baby couldn't survive this wicked world and she gave up after few weeks.

Now it was grieving time. I called my mom to tell her of the demise of my baby but guess what- she laughed over it and said 'this is just the beginning'. Thank God for my in laws, they were there every step of the way- may God bless and prosper them, Amen. I didn't receive any sympathy from my sister either, only my dad and brothers. Life goes on.

I thank God because I was able to be a man and stand by my wife. God gave me the grace to be there for her against all odds. Financially, I bless God. At my age I am able to do a lot of things my peers couldn't . The last time I received any financial help from anybody in my life was in 2010. Since then, God has always prepared a table for me before my enemies. Baba God noni.

Now God has a way of revealing things to the holy. My wife is more religious than me. I am more of an evidence based reasoning person than faith and all. However I always believe in doing good to people. That could possibly be the reason why my plate is always full with manna.

So my wife woke me up one night and told me of how God has been making revelations to her. She has kept this in her heart for so long because she doesn't want anything that will cause any further damage to the peace we are trying to achieve. But it was too much for her to bear- she told me of a dream she had. She saw my mum carrying our wedding photo to a witch doctor. Yes that sounds crazy, right? But you know what? It sounds crazier to me at first. Like I earlier said am more of evidence based person, so I started looking for evidence. Thank God to my Frnd working in telecom industry (name withheld). I started looking for my mum call records since my wedding. My Frnd at first told me of how sensitive it is to release such records- it has has cost people their career. Long and short of it- I was able to listen to her call records.

They say wonders shall never end. I have heard of stories of parents halting their children successes and vice versa ( thanks to nollywood). I never knew that I would be the next victim. I tried not to believe it but the more I try the more I am in touch with reality. To cut the long story short, my mum has connived with her sister to travel to the east to consult a witch doctor with our wedding photo. Nollywood movie, right? May you never experience this in Jesus name.

Now let me take a flash back to my childhood days- my mom loved all her children a lot. She's a disciplinarian and she tried in raising us the best way she could. Several times when I was a kid, she selects my friends for me, regulates my movement etc. Even in my university days she scrutinizes my friends. But one thing she tried to develop in me was how to hate her 'perceived' enemies. Whenever she has a problem with any woman or family in the estate, she doesn't allow us to play with the children of such. She will stop us from talking to kids in that house and would paint that family black. But the stubbornness in me wouldn't let me follow her directives on this one. She want us to have common friends and enemies. Worst case scenario is I collect koboko.

A brief background of her sister: Her sister has similar character with my mom, very possessive and always exercising control over other people's affairs. About 15 years ago, I remember her visiting a witch doctor to help her solve some family issues. When our going was good, she once boasted to me saying 'the death of my mother in law was the saving grace of my marriage'.

It's been more than 6 months since I spoke to my mom. Crazy, right? Pls don't crucify me yet- this world is a wicked place. I and my wife decided to pray and fast about the dream she had. Coupled with the evidence of call records, I informed my dad of the malicious attack on my daughter and how she died. He encouraged me to pray and he equally joined me in fasting. #heartOfaFather. As I type this story on my phone, my wife and I have not broken our fast.

Recently, my mum sent me a message threatening that my wife will never give birth. In her words 'over my dead body will your harlot bear children'. Yes! She said that. Still doubtinghuh? Ride on...

Of recent, my wife started complaining of stomach issues- lower abdominal pains. She had several scans that revealed a growing ovarian cyst. It is growing at an alarming rate. Doctors said if it doesn't stop growing then she will need a surgery. In the last 3 weeks she has had four scans.

Two days ago she cried out to me 'baby my only mistake in this life is being your wife- I haven't done anything wrong to anybody. I was living a happy and fulfilled life before I met you. I have parents and family who love me. Why does your mother wants to take away my life? Am counting days to leave this wicked world. I have had enough of its wickedness.'

I consoled her, prayed over her and gave her hope. I told her these times are hard but we shall overcome. I immediately called my dad and request him to warn my mum from hurting my wife otherwise I will take unpleasant action.

Today I am to take a decision of what to do to save my ailing wife from dying. I want to save her without hurting anybody but if need be for me to hurt someone, I will.

Comments strictly for matured minds pls.
God is the answer to ur question if ur real and belive in wht God can do a reall man of God is neded in dis issueor don't u have any u trust?if no den let m know
PoliticsRe: Patience And Goodluck Jonathan On A Date In New Jersey by edubekee: 12:15pm On Jun 08, 2016
harbdulrasaq88:
Ex President Jonathan out on a date with dame Patience in New Jersey yesterday. There is love and life after power!


http://www.newshelm.com/2016/06/photo-patience-and-goodluck-jonathan-go.html
God let people talk der nonsense bt pl pl pl God make I reach dis level even pass am in Jesus name Amen.
PoliticsRe: Fulani Herdsmen Return To Nimbo In Enugu, Threaten To Unleash More Terror by edubekee: 11:12am On Jun 08, 2016
giles14:
http://sunnewsonline.com/herdsmen-return-to-nimbo-community-threaten-to-unleash-more-terror/

dis nonsense is getting out of hand.
wer are the so-called useless ipob massob ohaneze etc it's tym to wake up.
if the fulanis are callin for WAR al of them wil begin to kill thereselves frm this day onwrd and there wil neva be any war,may der evil cause burn dem all to ashes;evil shall slay the wicked in Jesus name Amen
SportsRe: Stephen Keshi Died Of Cardiac Arrest - Family by edubekee: 8:54am On Jun 08, 2016
MaQuin:
The family of Coach Stephen Keshi, former Nigerian football coach who died early today in Benin, Edo state has issued a statement confirming his death.

The family also revealed that the 54 year old former Nigerian defender and captain had planned to travel out of Nigeria today back to his US base, before he had a sudden cardiac arrest and died.

The statement was issued by Emmanuel Ado, brother and aide to the late Keshi:





http://www.maquinsblog.com/2016/06/family-reveals-cause-of-stephen-keshis.html?m=1
brother may ur soul rest in perfect pace Amen
Foreign AffairsRe: Obama's Home After White House by edubekee: 8:48pm On May 27, 2016
CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage And Jamil Fly To Dubai On Emirates (Video) by edubekee: 8:20pm On May 24, 2016
queenstl:
Tiwa Savage and Jamil fly to Dubai on Emirates.


via (http://www.timenaija.com/watch-tiwa-savage-and-jamil-as-they-fly.xhtml)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oqCdr74Krcg
my dear tiwa kep it up ok soonsst it wil be my turn my woman and my baby wil travel anywhere der desire with the best flight
NYSCRe: Open Letter To The Director General NYSC By A Stream 2 Prospective Corp Member. by edubekee: 9:05am On May 24, 2016
banme1:
Na by force to serve. U people should not disturb us here. Abeg. Rubbish!
watch ur word man
Christianity EtcRe: Joshua Iginla Celebrates His Birthday, Gives Out 16 Suvs, 16 Cars & Millions by edubekee: 11:23am On May 23, 2016
emamos:
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/05/pastor-gives-out-16-suvs-16-cars-millions-of-naira-to-celebrate-birthday/
May God bless and favor me to do more dan he has done for true belivers in Christ Jesus Amen
PoliticsRe: Fuel Subidy: Protest Ongoing On Ikorodu Road (Photos) by edubekee: 6:05pm On May 18, 2016
mcboyeson:
please any informations on happening in kwara state
der cutin peoples head there in kwara dnt near there ohhhh shocked
PoliticsRe: Fuel Subidy: Protest Ongoing On Ikorodu Road (Photos) by edubekee: 6:00pm On May 18, 2016
mcboyeson:
please any informations on happening in kwara state
der cutin peoples head there in kwara dnt near there ohhhh
PoliticsRe: See The Bag Solomon Dalung Is Carrying (photo) by edubekee: 2:00pm On May 16, 2016
itsdumebi:
What Type Of Bag Is The Minister Of Sport, Solomon Dalung Carrying?

That kind of looks like a Hunting bag...or some Juju bag like that..What do you think?
http://dumebiifeanyi.com/kind-bag-minister-sport-carrying-photo/
na baba lawoo bag bi dis ohhh
Car TalkRe: Innoson Vehicle Manufacturing Roll Out Latest Product by edubekee: 9:08am On May 16, 2016
osita76:
Innoson vehicle manufacturing company is moving higher with latest innovation in their new product
may see u tru,ur doing we'll and I lok forward to sky rocket in my own field in Jesus Name Amn
CelebritiesRe: Davido's Daughter, Imade's 1st Birthday, Julius Agwu, Peter Okoye Attend by edubekee: 9:15pm On May 15, 2016
Daminaj1:
The one year birthday party celebration for Davido's daughter with SOphie Momodu is currently going on at his Lekki residence. Imade turned on yesterday and her popular dad is throwing her a party to celebrates.

Notable guests include Julius Agwu and his beautiful family.



http://www.daminaj.com/2016/05/julius-agwu-family-pictured-at-davidos.html
pl wht happend to J.agwu he looked leaned?
CelebritiesRe: Nigerian Female Celebrities With And Without Makeup (pictures) by edubekee: 11:38am On May 14, 2016
mikron:
Nigerian female celebs with and without makeup – We have been used to seeing them on television, pages of magazine and on billboards looking fabulous and all caked up. We shall be sharing the make-up photos of these female celebs in a ‘before and after’ style.
While quite a lot of them look unbelievably beautiful without make-up, few of them might need to have a d ouble dose of a make-up session before we can recognize them for who we know them as. Let’s take a look at some of our Nigerian female celebrities without makeup.

See More at : http://theinfong.com/2016/04/20-photos-nigerian-female-celebs-without-makeup-youll-surprised-see-real-looks/


lets start from the 20th to the 1st, lets go there cheesy cheesy cheesy

20. Anita Joseph
19. Yvonne Nelson
18. Yemi Alade
17. Ini Edo
yemi loks gud too witout make up
CelebritiesRe: Nigerian Female Celebrities With And Without Makeup (pictures) by edubekee: 11:35am On May 14, 2016
mikron:
Nigerian female celebs with and without makeup – We have been used to seeing them on television, pages of magazine and on billboards looking fabulous and all caked up. We shall be sharing the make-up photos of these female celebs in a ‘before and after’ style.
While quite a lot of them look unbelievably beautiful without make-up, few of them might need to have a d ouble dose of a make-up session before we can recognize them for who we know them as. Let’s take a look at some of our Nigerian female celebrities without makeup.

See More at : http://theinfong.com/2016/04/20-photos-nigerian-female-celebs-without-makeup-youll-surprised-see-real-looks/


lets start from the 20th to the 1st, lets go there cheesy cheesy cheesy

20. Anita Joseph
19. Yvonne Nelson
18. Yemi Alade
17. Ini Edo
ini edo loks beautiful witout make up and swet

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