₦airaland Forum

Sijo01:
Gush, why will our leaders subject us to situations like this?

because of our black hearts,black thinking,black ways, black deeds, i hope u now understand why we re called black monkeys?

OREMUSSANCTUS:
All dis are signs dat Buhari is not of GOD
Y is dis happening now?

foool, oga jona wey put us into this mess and suffering is of God...

Shut up u re a big fool and a dark hearted human being, because you dont like the truth, uba is a kabal making a living off the suffering of the poor masses, a devil cant turn good overnight, now he have seen that the corrupt goverment that shades his very dirty deals is fallen, he is trying to deceive who? Well he should be ready to face the music, when the merciless prosecution starts...

2cato:
Nigeria thirty five years ago under an illiterate dictator and now which is under a democratic leader is still the same to all the moronic posters above me. Instead of you people to be greatful to uba for breaking the monopoly of his fellow marketers. What do i expect from sildren of hate and anger? Foolirhness and stupidity.
Life is business and business has never been fair to any body. If you dont know how to do business and make a kill for the profit like ifeanyi uba i will suggest you swallow rock or hang ur self.

Sweetguy25:
Ugly woman, ugly children, ugly mind.

i dy tell you brother..

Chai thief country,thief bank,thief client,theif money,theify theify everywhere in naija...

Girls are cursed with chronic lying,they lie about everything that u dont even know which one is the truth, the only truth that comes out from their deceitful tongue is goodmorning..this girl lied and lied and lied and over lied,that she lied even to herself in the midst of danger of loosing her own life,she lied herself to the grave,and that is a disaster cos the lie may end her up in hell...

Dey there and be doing graduate,as people make history with their skills..

Idrismusty97:
You see why more people trek? The Nigeria Governor's Forum leader when elected would received lots of trekkers. Trekking is the new business in town now...

Eleven days of trekking for N250k, how much are our graduates paid per months.

falconey:
fatality! Dude I'm dissapointed and flabbergasted for this act from the opposite sex.


Breaking MY PS4 is like signing hell contract with the DEVIL!!

na wah ooo interesting so u dy rock ps4, how the experience dey?though i no too like am,still prefer ps3 and xbox 360 experience!

black man,black heart,black deeds,black ways, a race that choose the very unrighteous ways of life,greedy,very selfish, love lies a lot,and hate truth, thats why we are neglected by other races and constantly punished by nature..because all of our ways are wicked, leaders wicked, parents wicked, lecturers wicked,students wicked, goverment wicked, even clergies and man of God wicked..

U be real african man.,greedy to the grave..

mistypiper:
Make money and spend it, don't keep it for someone else to spend when you die. You only live once.

chai where this girl come from self? Kai all that glitters are not Gold, super pretty damsel,but lacks a lot upstairs,poorest of the poor choice making,lowest selfesteem, and a serious Gold digger..kai is so unfortunate that all she has just ends in beauty...

chai nairalanders i see this picture nahh blood of jesus commot for my mouth...chai i dy cry for women...

Mourin:
Wishin dem a wonderful marriage life.

mourin una women really mysterious, really now i believe that if money grow on the trees and jungles,una go even leave humans go happily marry and live and born for baboons and chimpazees..chai na so una life begin and end in extreme foolishness..haba.

SirLewis:
Love, gradually becoming an illusion these days. I pity the next generation coming.

i dy tell you brother, why pitying the next generation,pity us..

ProfGday:
IF MONNEY GROW ON D TREE WOMEN WON'T MIND DATING CHIMPAZEE.

chai i fear women, really these people can date and Bleep baboon cos of money,hei..

Vikkiboi:
What is love? Bullsh!t... you can have anyone with the right price...so make the cash first and all shapes n sizes will follow pants down!!!

chai brother i dy tell you, women strong pass me..

AKPOSbaba:
Poverty na baddstard!

i dy tell you brother...see damsel and beast.

chaii women would marry monkeys and chimpazees just because of money, kai see oshiomole like one small black very ugly devil and then compare am with this dammsel.chai money brought women into this world thats why they worship and adore it more than God..

nigerians are so funny with our nonchalant and valueless way of live, and we think others are like that,nooo these people value pets just like humans,cos they are also very important in their own ways,and they love these animals a lot....

times have gone baad, very baad, this generation of women came from the devil himself,cos they are the 65% cause of these marital woes we see today, these women are too wordly that they drive men to do all soughts of things to satisfy their insatiable needs, Greed and wickedness is their motto, they bring untimely death to their men..from a young age these carnal ladies boast of dating their fathers and married men,just for the cash and fun,remorse and morals is dead in their very wicked hearts..playing with men's feelings and later dumping them is just normal for them, multiple dating and sex partners is no big deal again.my fellow men we are so unfortunate to exist with these calamity women, we are suffering in their hands and we continue to suffer, we wont enjoy them cos they have nothing good in the them to offer,sorry men..

adexsimply:
LOL..Keep deceiving yourself. Most of those marriages lack love. The wives are mostly in bondage, they just avoid divorces because of societal ridicules and shame...

monkey..

pocohantas:
Humans are changing, evolving...call it anything.

You can't compare their ideologies to life then and now. Women way back were more tolerant and 'timid'. They were trained to take everything that comes their way. Divorce was never an option.

I wouldn't be far from the truth if I say the women were in a kind of bondage then.

With the advent of feminist and misogynist, there has been a clash of ideologies. The problem is the present day men and women. I think I love it this way, marriage isn't a do or die affair.

You either in it or out of it.

well i have heard ur words,u made a good point and later deviated, let me then correct you, women those days where no timid,they were trained to understand their role as a woman in the life of a man, morals where highly valued and they were so intelligent that they understood life so well more that u terrible breed of nowadays girls that only sees life from fantasy view,dreams of riches,riches,a caring man, with endless wealth, without flaws,life without hardship, only easy easy way..

vfactor:
Cos modern day people too get sense! And too much sense....hmmmm....well the end justifies whether too much sense is a good thing or not!

yeess bro, i feel ur comment..

Taylor86:
y e no go crash

wen ur husband go dey untop of u dey do everything humanly possible to satisfy u


u dey ping dey reply message

i dy tell u brother, so many reasons are responsible for this marriage death..

brownlord:
Kai so many reasons.

Parents was the one making choices for their kids.

It was an era when the most important thing was family background, unlike today, it is pocket background,

Even when family background is considered, it's about how wealthy the family is, honesty, good morals etc no longer count, just have money, the would-be inlaw's don't care about the illicit activities in the family.

I noticed then, A woman never get to know her partner until the day of marriage, which in most times she will refuse, they had little or no choice, even though there was no courtship like we having today, they still get to love themselves... the love was not there from the beginning.

Their priority was raising a good family.

They were not looking for 6 packs in men and men not all about light skin, yellow-label skin etc, it was about decency, honesty, modesty, integrity...etc

It was a time, the man was the head of the family.

It was a time, women were shy of losing their virginity before getting married....Unlike today girls boast of how many yahoo boys they have slept with.

What went wrong?

i dont know my brother, something badly went wrong and things are going from baad to worse...

umarc19:
See also 12 things that can surely cause Marriage Failure (Both Modern and Olden Day)

1. You work more on your wedding than on your marriage.

You spend hundreds of hours planning and preparing for your wedding—the venue, the dress, the guest list, the bridesmaids, the groomsmen, the ceremony, the vows—but choose not to spend time planning and preparing on growing your marriage.

2. You believe that marriage is a contract.

Even though you don't say it, you really believe that marriage is a transaction between two people, a contract and not a covenant. You have the mindset that most things in your relationship are negotiated—"If you do this, then and only then I will do that." You think that marriage is a 50/50 partnership rather than a 100/100 give-it-all-you've-got relationship.

3. You think that your spouse's job is to make you happy.

4. You are not trustworthy.

You cannot be trusted by your spouse when you don't speak the truth at all times, you keep secrets or you don't do what you say you'll do.

5. You always put your kids first.

You pour all of your time, energy, attention and affection into your children. You give them your freshest and best and always serve your spouse leftovers.

6. You give in to temptation.

You talk about your personal pressures and problems with another person besides your spouse. You feel like the other person empathizes and understands you better. Instead of running from this temptation, you run toward it and end up in an intimate emotional or physical relationship.

7. You always expect your spouse to change.

You see your spouse's faults and failures every day. It's really irritating and frustrating you. They're messy, they're lazy, they nag you, they don't help with the kids, they're always at work. You think you've done all the changing, and they haven't done a thing.

8. You treat your spouse like the enemy.

You think they are on the opposing team so you keep a marital scorecard. You keep track of who spends more, disciplines more, does the dishes more, cleans more, mows more and works more. And you become bitter and resent your spouse for not helping enough or for having more fun.

9. Your words constantly tear your spouse down.

You're sarcastic, not supportive, disrespectful, comparing words are toxins of the tongue that poison your marriage.

10. You don't respect your spouse.

You don't respect your spouse's judgment. You constantly question their decisions and abilities.

11. You fail to ask for forgiveness and forgive.

Your spouse says you hurt them. You don't see that you did anything wrong, so you're not going to apologize. They get bitter. You get bitter.

12. You listen to foolish marriage advice.

You listen to well-intended but foolish advice about your relationship from a "friend" who wants you to join their man-hater or woman-hater club rather than listening to wise advice from a trusted source.

excellent work brother, u did ur research well..

eleojo23:
Because people are looking for easy comfort. If there is a little problem, they just quit, no effort to resolve the issue.

Marriage is work. Many marital problems can be avoided when couples take time to understand each other and try to resolve issues that may come between them. But people would rather prefer to live in the dream world and ride high on feelings. That is the modern day philosophy - it has to feel good all the time.
Anyone who has a good understanding of how life works knows that it won't always be easy and that hard times are the test of your seriousness with the relationship/marriage.
If someone only holds on in good times and gives up when things aren't smooth, one cannot but question his/her commitment to the relationship/marriage.

(I understand that this subject of marriage is one in which many people claim to have 'Phd's' and thus opinions may vary The above is mine )

well said brother, u just hit the major points..

tobtap:
MORALS.....OUR ladies clearly lack it now

and men also.

RickRichards:
Because Romancelanders have complicated everything with: 10 Reasons Why Married Men Fart; 0.5 Ways of Telling if Your Wife is Your Wife; 20 Types of Conversations Married Couples Should Avoid While Watching a Plasma but not LCD TV in 3D and not 4K.
You get my point now? Phew!!!

u re a very intelligent man, well said brother, u see all sorts of advice and useless tips posted on how a man should do that,a woman should do this, and people is badly mislead by such..

igbo mess is smelling everywhere, see there life..a clueless life,in igbo land everybody wants to be rich, the blind,the lame,the dumb,even the slowpoke..

omenka:
Yes, an Igbo, but most importantly, she's a NIGERIAN. The foreigners don't see us as Hausas, Yorubas or Igbos, but as Nigerians.

You guys really need to chill with all these ethnic tinged utterances. They're gonna do us no good.

it is an igbo mess out there brother, that tribe get serious craze for being rich over night, everybody wants to rich including the lane,blind and the dumb and deaf...

Spaxon:
its my 1000th post on nl

an illiterate is always an illiterate.... . .. .
meanwhile....



A man needed a brain transplant
The surgeon brought him 3 diff brains ..
The first he said cost just $500 -it belonged to albeit Einstein (90% used)
The second cost $2000 - it belonged to Henry Ford (75% used)
The third cost a whooping $1,000,000.00 - it belonged to a Nigerian army General (it has never been used)



Last Bullet:
There's a diff b/w a ph.D holder and an FSL holder.....

hbd chiam55

u re a monkey and nothing else..