NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

Am interested

Trajan:
Hello Nlers,

So, my 7 year old child recently had his British passport mailed to him in Nigeria. He now has a flight to UK coming up.

My question is, will he be allowed to board as he doesn't possess a Nigerian passport? Please, note that I paid the airline for chaperone service.
I would really appreciate answers from immigration guys or frequent travellers.

Thanks all.

From the foregoing, ur child has dual nationality. So he will be treated at the airport based on the international passport he presents to immigration. If he presents his British passport he would be treated as a British citizen and thus must meet the travel requirements for British nationals, while if he presents his Nigerian passport, he will be treated as a Nigerian citizen

Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?

Oga, thank your God you didn't do the act. Fornication and adultery most often leads you to a miserable life. Better to go visit your wife or ask her to come back, or better still just try hold your body till she returns. Thank your God for helping you against the devil

Eminemdstan:
Assalam alaikum.
actually,i started masturbating early this year around june.
i do it to the extent of ejaculating and i feel very ashamed after this sinful act.am willing to stop and have put many steps to stop masturbating but i just find myself breaching the rule i set for myself.
pls i need steps i can follow to stop.
be it duas,supplication or anything just help me.

thank you.

Wa alaikum asalam. Jumaah greetings to you. Well it's quite obvious that masturbation is Haram. Because what is bad is clear and what is good is also clear and then there are ambiguities in-between. That's according to an Hadith. If u take a look at masturbation, it only leaves you with negative effects if it were to be good, or permissible am not sure any one would come out to seek help against it. For those who may say, it safeguards against committing fornication, the truth is, the more u engage in it, the more u are likely to go beyond masturbation to commit the actual fornication with the opposite sex.
Some recommendations to overcome it:
1. Control your thoughts, keep yourself busy with work that would leave with less chance to engage in or think about masturbation. Also take up sports or any activity in which u are carried along by the group
2. Try to avoid staying alone or indoors alot of time
3. Seek refuge from Allah against the shaytan alot and do alot of dhikr
4. Speak to your mallam about it, so he can help u pray against it
May Allah help u overcome the challenge cos once u have become addicted to it, it will take the grace of God for u to overcome it no matter what efforts u put in. Cos u will always be at risk of suffering a relapse. Old habits die hard

LegendHero:


Errrm, I know a lot of hypocrites will be on this thread showcasing their hate for the religion instead of those individual Muslims attacking Salah.

Below is where you fellow Biafrans are condemning BBC Igbo Facebook page for wishing Igbo Muslims Happy Eid.

Crazy and intolerant people are in both religion so stop making it seems like it’s a Muslim thing.

Bro, nice one. But they won't see nothing wrong with this Igbo comment on BBC, they only see wrong when its Islam or northern Nigeria

edoairways:

It matters, that is what makes him unique. The ability to interpret script

am not sure he would want to interpret a script that portrays his family members as rapists

Arrewa:
Didn't he read script??

The Government sponsored an anti shitte movie you carry your big head go join because of money.

Those guys way no get joy.

I never knew Pete Edochie with his age and years in the Nollywood movie industry will still accept to play shameless roles. Shameless old fool. He has lost my respect for him. you are an elder in the industry, by now you should be setting standards for others to follow.

Masha Allah

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