Munzy14:

She is putting herself under pressure...It will tell on her in the long run..

You guys are age mate..Are you comfortable with that?

Yeah we're comfortable


She's putting herself under into pressure without her knowing it

Munzy14:

Good...Tell her to remove herself from any pressure...She is appearing desperate, guys go want chop and run..sad reality.

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Yeah I've told her severally

Ungodly:
Op, she want a break for some time or she doesn’t want sex anymore at all? Answer this ahbeg before i go know weytin i go talk.

I'll be the one to cut her some snacks maybe 2 weeks or more because I hate it if I'm being bother for something I'm not ready for!

Munzy14:

Different guys?

Na community project?

Well if she is your choice, you take it up to the next phase...

Again, If guys come around her just for sex, she should work more on herself...She is the problem..Even, being married might not be a remedy.

She's nothing related to community project bro!

Munzy14:

Reading through and commenting, then wife her..

I Really get confused you know I'm 29 she's 28 sometimes I get feed up with all this marriage stuff of her...

Some weeks ago she' was talking about her female friend who's asking her boy friend isn't it time for you to come see my patents later on she' impose it to me I just told its enough I'll come when I'm ready...

Munzy14:

Then, she want you to come see her people.

Two things will make a lady you have sex with say such..

1.A new sheriff is in town.
OR

2. She want a next level(marriage)activated fast.

Aside the above two, anything that could be the reason is best known to her..

She once told me she's tired of being single different guy's coming around is just to have sex with her wish tells me most times

feelzie:
Why do I feel we were dating same girl bro... Cos this was same shit...my ex did to me...!!!!nothing different bro!!!!...wud like to know more about this girl.. Is she from kogi state?

are you currently facing similar issues

feelzie:
Why do I feel we were dating same girl bro... Cos this was same shit...my ex did to me...!!!!nothing different bro!!!!...wud like to know more about this girl.. Is she from kogi state?

No bro she's from Delta state

xproducer:


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Fornication definition - "sexual intercourse between people not married to each other."

"Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness," - Galatians 5:19

"Therefore put to death your members which are on the earth: fornication, uncleanness, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry." - Colossians 3:5

"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge." - Hebrews 13:4

"Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God." - 1 Corinthians 6:9-10

"Therefore, brethren, we are debtors—not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. For if you live according to the flesh you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live." - Romans 8:12-13

Thank you sir

chiomzy86:


She has said it all,go and meet her parents for introduction if you want more sex...children of nawa days heavenly race no dey una dictionary again.

Guy listen sex is not my problem or she just used the sex as to lure me into marriage wish I'm not financially stable yet

Tmcruise:
Lols. My guy is better u move on.. bcs she's getting it elsewhere. Speaking from experience ooh. Dis my Ex told me she wants to bcm a Celibate, dat no more premarital sex. Dats it's a sin. Dat she wants to give it all to God. So far it's for God i had to concur. 7 months later, a frnd of hers told me dat my babe is pregnant, she forwarded dia chats to me.. i was lk Wawu . This babe came bck home to my place n said we shld av sex.. i lol in Chinese . I no dull myself i quickly off clothes. As my Tin slide in lk dis guess wat... her P**** don expand.. i jst dey lol.. naxo i burst her d story ooh. She con dey cry.... Make i no talk more dan dis... Bros use ur senses

She see something nah...

ImaIma1:
Do how do guys plan to marry virgins if you can't do without sex in a relationship?

I don't know but I feel like as time' passing by I won't find her attractive like she's used too similar issues happen to someone I knew so I'm afraid I'm having same fate has his!!

Imjustagirl:



Guy your grammar and spelling is bad. So horrible, so terrible. I'm not insulting, but informing you. Please work on it. Get a private teacher etc.

Seriously it's so bad. I got a headache reading all your comments

How many headache hope fever join too

I'll just end the relationship I'd ask her someday back if she still want the relationship her respond was...

I didn't say I don't want the relationship anymore but I'm little caution about my spiritual life sex really weaken me see my patents so my parents will know its you...

Geeflow:
She just want to get you into marrying her even though it is clear you are not ready, perhaps another guy is currently asking her out with a huge promise of settling down immediately she said yes.

Hmm

Loreettaa:

You aren't ready to marry her you just want to fvck. I pray she listens to the voice of God and dumps you.

I didn't say I won't marry her!!

johnson8213:

You know the solution to this your problem. Do the needful and everything will be yours. Thanks

The needful you say I'm not financially stable yet I need more time its early talking about introduction I'll leave her alone!!

Hahjascho:
The beginning of poverty.

what's this

Aaron12:
What is the assurance that she will give you sex when you wife her..

I can't wife her now sometimes I feel like she wanted to lure me into marriage

Nemesis08:
She started by giving you sex, then later she stopped citing her spiritual life.
My advice is that you tread carefully, she could be pretending just to rush you in to marrying her. Shine your eyes bro

Yes exactly I've thought about that

prettyjo:
Your english di bad

You're quoting my English bad you're perfect with yours...

Y'all quoting my English is bad re you perfect in English simply because you're good in English then you see other as lowlife...

Haters will always see your error

Vinemeka1:
Then go and see her parents, except if you don't love her,bet love her pusy.

Listen I can get free pussy else where if I want too but I'm not after her pussy...

she's wife material.

I can't go and see her parents its too early we just started dating November last year

koyyes:


Go back to your ex. She is your type and missing rib.

You have no ideas about my Ex Girlfriend I hate pride she' get carried away so easily on what's trending!!

storm001:
Avoid any lady who is using sex to lure you to marriage. It's all nothing but set up.

I broke up with one today who tried that shit on me. Babe been calling since morning... but me..... I move .

Yeah I understand women often use such trick to lure men into marriage.

I still love her but I'm not financially stable yet

LMM1:

Please which other advise are you looking for, someone told you that having sex without marriage weakens her spiritual life that if you want to continue you should come and make it official by meeting her parents. All you need to do is either go ahead and meet her parents or cut off the relationship and move on with someone who is ready to offer you what you are looking for

I didn't ask for yours

Premiumwriter:
I'm in the same shoe as you.

This is the second time she's saying that. But I've not gone to school yet, so we've not seen each other.

When she made that statement the first time, I just ignored her. Start giving her less attention and time.

Understand this, your attention and time is as valuable to her as her p*ssy is to you.

So, if she's giving you less sex, give her less attention. If she cares about you as you think, it'll only take a few days or weeks to run back to you.

Don't beg. The moment you start begging her or trying to pet her, you kind of give her the reassurance that what she's doing is right.

So, start giving her less attention. And most importantly, never make her feel so comfortable that she thinks she can't lose you.

Meet other girls. Let her know about this but secretly like you don't know that she knows that you are going after other girls.

And then seduce her. A girl you've slept with the first time becomes easier to sleep with the second time.

Try cuddling her in bed. Touch her body. The breast and nipples especially (that's most girls weak point anyways). Make her feel Hot. My girl always fall for this every few days.

But if she genuinely want to focus on her religion and you can't Stay without sex, do I need to tell you that you guys need to go your separate ways?

But if you are like me and love your girl Soo much, then you'll have to learn how to put up with this kind of attitude from time to time.

It's not easy dating over religious girls. There was a time my girl almost always break up with me every Sunday

You just have to be patient with some of them. No be small fear dem De put for their head

There was a time I just decided to ignored her because we had little misunderstanding I didn't pick her calls for 3 day's I always reject her calls the four day she came to my place with tears ruining down I was so sad I felt like I did something really bad..

Premiumwriter:
I'm in the same shoe as you.

This is the second time she's saying that. But I've not gone to school yet, so we've not seen each other.

When she made that statement the first time, I just ignored her. Start giving her less attention and time.

Understand this, your attention and time is as valuable to her as her p*ssy is to you.

So, if she's giving you less sex, give her less attention. If she cares about you as you think, it'll only take a few days or weeks to run back to you.

Don't beg. The moment you start begging her or trying to pet her, you kind of give her the reassurance that what she's doing is right.

So, start giving her less attention. And most importantly, never make her feel so comfortable that she thinks she can't lose you.

Meet other girls. Let her know about this but secretly like you don't know that she knows that you are going after other girls.

And then seduce her. A girl you've slept with the first time becomes easier to sleep with the second time.

Try cuddling her in bed. Touch her body. The breast and nipples especially (that's most girls weak point anyways). Make her feel Hot. My girl always fall for this every few days.

But if she genuinely want to focus on her religion and you can't Stay without sex, do I need to tell you that you guys need to go your separate ways?

But if you are like me and love your girl Soo much, then you'll have to learn how to put up with this kind of attitude from time to time.

It's not easy dating over religious girls. There was a time my girl almost always break up with me every Sunday

You just have to be patient with some of them. No be small fear dem De put for their head

You're totally right sir we're both similar she put up this stuff mostly Sunday after she just return from Church then No sex thing...

Something tells me to forget about her while the other tells me to never let her go because she' has everything I ever wanted in a woman just I've others things to take of I'm not financially stable yet

Premiumwriter:
Never take relationship advice from a woman as a man

I'm really confuse sir should I reassured her about marry her...

Fathai:
I want to tell you something from experience. This same scenario happened at one particular time of my life. I will tell you what the outcome will likely be.
1, she is getting else where
2, she is already having someone around who is assuring her about marriage
3, she just want to manipulate you with the no sex stuff because all in her mind is marriage and if you cannot offer her the marriage, there is someone that is not really up to your standard that is ready to give her that marriage.
4, you are about to lose her or you are about to get her fully if you dance to her tune, i.e obliging to that introduction she told you about.

My own advise to you is don't follow a lady's thinking if you are not ready. Don't force what is not in your capacity to do. If you act as if you don't even need the sex, she will use it to beg you trust me.

Thanks you're right sir

gfon:
baffles me how you guys can just vouch for a lady like this!!! Dude never vouch for any woman ooo,you go just die throway

Bro I didn't vouch oh or neither do I bet my ball's I'm just saying from my point of view hmm

doggedfighter:
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You have taken your decision then and that's fine.


Good luck to you.

No its not..

I'm thinking of giving it a try like let's see how it gose but I haven't come out with any decisive decision...