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dhope:
I recently opened a thread here and someone said it is my undoing for not making $5 minimum a day if I have access to internet and browsing gadget but he didn't expatiate on what to do.
I also believed in this notion in the past but having tried so many things like; watch video and get paid, joining survey site and get paid after performing tasks but all to no avail(lori iro), I became discouraged. I know youths like me rake money from crypto and forex and I can say I am fast learning both although still a beginner, but aside forex and crypto what other realistic things can I use my data for to get minimum of $5 per day?

brosom:
Just like I said earlier, u re guilt trapped and u hate ur self for the way u treated her like she doesn't count.

Just like the popular saying, u never know what u have until u lose it. But if I'm being honest with u, it's meant to happen so that you can learn, though u re learning the hard way.

brosom:
You don't have to be alone Niggerr except u re introverted.

If u re an extrovert, it should be easily a walk away match for u just like when Liverpool meet Kano Pillers in an international club friendlies as u re already know the out come. See her as local champion and activate ur natural defense system to protect ur self from self distruct bro.

But if otherwise (introvert), that could be a deep problem and will take u whole lot of time to heal.

brosom:
Like I said, u re emotionally and psychologically grieving and u need a therapy.

U have to stop living in illusion, u must accept what is real and come to reality. She's gone pal, take it with heart else you'll harm ur self the more and the relationship u have with people might be compromised.

My 3%.!!

brosom:
That's not actually a dream, but an emotional/lucid dream.

U re guilt trapped with her in ur head, 80% of ur daily memory record activity is all about her because deep down u still love her and want her back in ur life. In as much as she has moved on but some part of u won't let go, thus creating a separate memory lane of her in ur head that plays out when u sleep.

Though I can't be sure of this but if I'm correct, it's simply ur past playing out and a possible future occurance between u and her which might be ugly.

brosom:
Op no mind the F.t.c person, him dey high on Igbo.




Repitetive dreams are not common as they're full of mysteries, which always denotes something deep about ur life.

From my experience, Dream consist of 3 elements which are (1) the past, (2) the present, (3) and the future. It could be ur past playing out, or what's happening presently in ur life, or what's about to happen to u soon or in future.

Op I would've explain more but sleep dey my eyes like this so make I no go type nonsense

Good luck!!

RickSanchez:
I'd like to start by saying I'm serving, Sorry if the story is all messed up as my mind is F'ed up right now.

I got into a corpers lodge which used to be a lounge. I didn't want to date anyone but this hoe kept disturbing me to. Gave in.

Usually I'm a crypto investor, I have money, I look good, I dress good. I'm not saying all these things to hype myself up but I'm okay.

Sexually I can last hours, I made her cum consistently. The only problem I have is delayed ejaculation. Which she complains about.

Now, I'm not the type to love hard as I'm already used to heartbreaks. So we dated and broke up after 4 months or so. I was okay with the breakup.

Only to find out she's been fucking around the whole time I was loving up, as she(in my mind) opened up to me about the guys that played her and broke her heart.

She goes to church frequently and if you see this girl outside you'd think she's a saint, she doesn't party, she doesn't usually drink and no smoking.

Anyway I found out that she'd be fucking her our fellow corper guys and was getting passed around, while still pretending she still loved me(after the breakup).

When I knew and she came to my side and I told her to go Bleep the guy she usually goes to she said she doesn't care.

This person who I thought had a conscience was probably a covert narcissist who wants male attention from anywhere she'll get it.

To be honest it pains me to say this but I felt foolish for actually loving the girl and started to doubt myself as a man.

I'm usually the one girls cheat on their guys with(when I was in uni) but this time around I got my share(after I became a good guy), it hit hard and it disgusted me how I got to know she was being pounded by other niggas.

Funny thing is now she doesn't hide it, she blows kisses to the nigga openly in everyone's presence.

Don't want to bitch all day about this but honestly it feels evil how someone can switch like the devil cause I had nothing but good intentions for her. And she not only did all that but boldly told people I was the one disturbing her life. Lol. It is well. I know it's the times we shared that's causing me to feel undeserved.

The one thing on my mind I Sha know is that at the end of the day I'm still an awesome dude, no matter how a hoe wants to pay me back I'll still make bank and get back out there. Thanks for reading and if you have things to add, both good or bad I'm willing to read through.

Addition ; wanted to marry her as I had enough money to and we shared(to my understanding) the same values and dreams. I doubt I'll ever fall for words or even actions of love again as I was genuinely convinced she was good.

nickyj19:
Wedding vows are oaths many couples ae
supposed to be bonded by.
However, a lot of couples break this oath with reckless
abandon.
Wedding vows include, “For better for worse, till death do
us part,” yet couples break it.
What if the vows included, “Let me die if I cheat on you” ?
Would couple still take the vows?
Would you take such vow?

Dreyton36:
Omo buhari funny o
Banning crypto ain't no shit , the more dey ban , the more boys upgrade lol

How I wish he know wetin boys don move to now , he go shock to see heavy and wicked cashouts , bubu be loyal for once and let money flow so that the younger generations go fit cashout make Dem japa commot naija , cuz naija na dream killer

Drop ur cert hustle , salary no dey buy house o
But hustle dey buy house in few weeks sef if u know wetin u dey do , poverty must not touch the children of God Insha Allah ameen

UAE aza for pickup jare

RealGboy:
I looked up at Dare and chose the first option which is to join him...

He hugged me tight , I could tell he was extremely happy I chose to join him..

He left the room , and after a while came back with the herbalist, I was asked to swear an oath of loyalty., After that I was told I'll be spending 3 days in the herbalist house in a room the baba refers to as the power room...

1st day at Baba house...


Baba gave me some concoctions to eat ,
Then he made me repeat incantations after him , after that I was told to lie down in a grave he digged for me ..

While I lie down like a dead person in this grave , he walk round me saying some powerful incantations, then he used a red cloth to cover the grave with me in it...

He removed the cloth after a while and told me that the old weak me is dead and that the new me has risen .. he assured me that there is no fortification stronger than this ...



2nd day



I was taken to a flowing stream where I took my bath with the blood of a goat that was killed on that same spot ... After the bath I returned to the powerful room..

That night I had a scary dream...

I saw myself clad in white robe but all of a sudden someone in a white robe too commanded me to pull my white robe off.. after pulling it off I was given a black robe to wear instead .. immediately I put it on.. I woke up..........



3rd day....


Baba called me and sat me down , he revealed to me that I am now a powerful being and that i am ready..

" Just like that ? .. I wondered ..

" But how do I collect people glory or know who is glorious ".... I asked baba


Baba laughed then replied

" Very simple .. there are three ways in which people glories can be stolen

1)Sex
2)Food
3)money

With the power in you when you see a glorious person , a bright light will appear on the person head or all over the person indicating that he/she is glorious ,..

If she is a lady , get her to sleep with you ,spend on her , buy her expensive things ... Do this until the light is completely eradicated.. then you can move to the next person ..


If the person is a guy , invite him to your house , give him money and take care of him , as long as he is receiving money from you and feeding off you .. he will never reach you and all his blessings will be transferred to you....


Once in a while throw a party , kill ram kill chicken , invite people to eat ....you see all those people that eat from that food.. thier blessings for that year will be automatically yours.....



" Wow " .... I replied..


I remembered the gee bros house we went to when we wanted to learn Yahoo... The bros cashed out so much while we were staying with him... But nothing came to us... Who knows if this is what happened".... ..


After absorbing and collecting necessary informations , baba also revealed the heartbreaking conditions that I have to put up with .... I couldn't cry when I heard ...


But I braced my self up... Left baba house , I link up with dare , we left Oyo state together back to Lagos state .....


.Back in Lagos ...


A year Since I got back from Oyo state, I have atleast collected more 50 glories and tapped and still tapping more., it was easy ..


Dare had told me that universities are the home of glories, according to him , students especially Freshers are the targets and all I had to do is pull up in my Benz ..

I remembered the first day I tried it.. I pulled up in my G-wagon and stepped out in front of a hall in a popular university.. all eyes was on me.. I made sure I was dripping swag ....


I looked around and couldn't believe my eyes .. Dare was right .. I was seeing bright lights everywhere.... I called one who shines brightest and she ran to me quickly .. I offered her lunch and she agreed ... We stopped by a shopping mall and I bought her things... She fell in love and that was it ..I dated her till her light went off .then I dumped her...onto the next






I was enjoying my life ... I had so many boys living in my house .. I was feeding and taking care of them all ..

To these guys I was thier helper,thier master ,some of them came to learn Yahoo,some came for the free food and drinks .but the more they get ,the more I cashed out ...



Life was bliss until one day ..


I was stuck in traffic when I saw someone with a shining light like I have never seen before... The light was Soo bright... The person turned around .. and I was shocked to my bone marrow...



It was sholape.....






Typing............

Dreytonisback:
Work on yourself
Make money in big bag
Work out
Look good
Eat healthily
Then think of having a woman and ensure you treat her right and forget that ex who broke ur heart

pansophist:
Well-deserved. Let this teach you a lesson that you don't raise your hand on adults. Only animals and children you use violence for and get the intended desire results, not adults. Even if an adult can't defeat you physically, they may come for for you later with a superior force and obliterate you. We grow with experience not age. Age only allow us achieve experience that makes us a better humans.

I see you feel really pained like you loss a jewel, that's a good life lesson which will prohibit you for raising your hands on a woman and also to cultivate self control. Because you are angry and can beat someone doesn't mean you're right, it simply means you're physically stronger. And to be physically strong as a means to abuse others instead of protect them is weakness, not strength.

Dreytonisback:
You're hurting her bc of your last experience with ur ex
You must've really trusted your ex and love her so much that's why it's hard to love another

Y'all should always get rid of your ex's memories before venturing into another relationship
And slapping lady is so stupid of you

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Dreytonisback:
You're hurting her bc of your last experience with ur ex
You must've really trusted your ex and love her so much that's why it's hard to love another

Y'all should always get rid of your ex's memories before venturing into another relationship
And slapping lady is so stupid of you

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Dreytonisback:
You're hurting her bc of your last experience with ur ex
You must've really trusted your ex and love her so much that's why it's hard to love another

Y'all should always get rid of your ex's memories before venturing into another relationship
And slapping lady is so stupid of you

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Spider20:
Op, if I were you.
I must attend the four corners of a University.

InTheCloudySky:
She's the one for you, but you're not the one for her. No girl deserves an abusive guy like you for a boyfriend. I'm sure you said the same thing about your ex that you haven't gotten over.

You were verbally abusive towards this girl through the relationship and took her efforts for granted, then you broke up with her (you did her a favor though she herself should've bounced long before then instead of putting up with your verbal abuse), then you went to her workplace to not only verbally abuse her some more but to design your insults with a slap. You need psychiatric intervention.

Stay away from her and from any other relationship for now. Some of you men don't like to be alone with the way you jump like frogs from one relationship to another. Get over your ex because you're still not over her. As you can see, going into another relationship right away hasn't helped you one bit because all you've been doing is unleashing your anger onto the next girl.

You need some time to yourself to heal, to appreciate your own company, and to work on that anger. Your type can turn somebody's daughter into a punching bag, so check yourself.

InTheCloudySky:
You should've gotten over your ex before jumping into another relationship and abusing this poor girl.

Idk where Nigerian men get the audacity to slap women from. It's sickening. Stay away from her and work on yourself.

rickpat:
... don't really..all will be fine...just heal from the hurt from your previous relationship...you are good to go

rickpat:
OP...you should have healed first from the previous relationship before going into this one,the baggage from that previous relationship is the issue.....

secondly hitting her was wrong and even in public...just calm down,work on yourself, while you continue pleading with her...she loves you,she would forgive but please try not to let this happen again especially the hitting her..good luck

OVB123:
I think with your naration, u are not matured enough for a relationship. I will advise u to go to her again; this time with all sincerity and apologise to her and assure her that it won't repeat itself again.

alphabbey1:
No need to disturb time, you are simply a woman beater. Leave the girl alone to find a better husband... Since my childhood till now, I have never experience my dad raising his hands on his woman... Person wey u never marry, u Don dey let anger take over u.... rest and leave the beautiful girl alone..
.

immortalcrown:
Na so some men too dey abuse good women and some women too dey abuse good men. Life no balance. She loves you and treats you so nice but you never reciprocated the love. You need no advice. Every action has an unavoidable consequence. If she comes back to you, you will hurt her more either consciously or unconsciously.
Nonsense!
You maltreated her because it was not stressful for you to get her. You are among the ones that give girls a reason to form hard-to-get.

helinues:
Sometimes, we do not appreciate what we have until they are gone

Pasima:
Good evening guys, yesterday I posted about how my girlfriend told me to stay outside that she wants to dress, I got angry and left. Today I went to see her she told me that the Relationship is over that I hurt her on valantine day. I beg and cried like a baby in front her she gave no listening ear. She went inside and bang the door behind me. The reason i find it difficult to leave her is because she has the sweetest pussy a man can suck and won't leave. It is very clean, up till now I have sent her 25 messages yet no reply. My pillow is socked in tears.

Stephen0mozzy:
"The bigger they are, the harder they fall".

This seems to be a very common among people today esp celebrities/young adults, one minute you're seeing their pictures flooding internet looking all lovely and cute together....you repeatedly see them flaunting loved-up moments on their statuses and all.

And then one thing or the other happens; and these two people who once had the most intimate of moments, shared their deepest secrets together, start fighting DIRTY! Hurling curses on each other and seeking the best way to bring the other person's downfall.

1. What do you think really happens?
2. What will your partner do that will make you so much hate them?
3. Does this kind of prove that, "there's no love, we're just in a symbiotic relationship and when it becomes unprofitable, the bond breaks faster than Van Der Waals forces

900warriorz:
You've got nothing to far if you follow up your process well...My statement was made in a past tense.