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Many men believe they have to attain a certain financial status before they can settle down and marry the woman of their dream.

Then, there are those who have comfortable jobs yet choose to delay getting married because they want to sow their oats before tying themselves down with marriage. It’s commonplace to hear people talk about how the female folk need to get married early because of their biological clock, but early is also good for men.

Dear men,

Here are 25 reasons to run to the altar before you clock 30.

1. You grow up together.

2. You do it without family pressure to marry or have kids.

3. Less baggage (reduced number of former lovers, and a lesser chance of getting your heart broken too many times).

4. You can share a lot more together.

5. You can have a cost-effective wedding (No one can berate you about working all these years and being stingy with your one special day).

6. It’s easier to blend and bond.

7. You are happier and more balanced than most people your age.

8. Motivation to earn more money (You have people depending on you, get to work).

9. A strong support system for a possible midlife crisis (When the going gets toughs, there’s someone to hold your hand).

10. More sex.

11. No worries about protection, contraceptives.

12. You can share crazy and weird moments (You don’t have to worry about acting your age).

13. A higher rate of fertility.

14. Opportunity to reclaim passions when the kids grow (Once they are all grown, you can get back to living your life).

15. Enough strength to balance career and parenthood.

16. More energy to raise kids.

17. More likelihood of marrying someone you truly love (This way, you don’t have to wonder if she is marrying you for the money or fame).

18. Reduced chances of having an emotional bridge between you and your kids.

19. Keeps family bond (You get to attend all those family functions and keep the family together, no room for drifting).

20. You have enough time to learn on the job. Lower risk of STDs.

21. People take you more seriously.

22. Good kick-start for your savings.

23. Makes you more responsible, reliable and accountable.

24. Let’s face it, you will never be ready (You will get more dreams as you grow older, just get to it now).

25. No room for idleness.


SOURCE: http://www.gistsstack.com/25-reasons-men-get-married-30/

A 42-year-old man is in police custody for killing his daughter after bursting her having sex with her boyfriend.

A man from Akibwait village in Teso County, Kenya is in police custody for killing his 16-year-old daughter. The 42-year-old man Cleophas Emodo reportedly walked in on his teenage daughter engaging in intercourse with her boyfriend before killing her. The deceased was with her boyfriend in the bathroom when the suspect heard commotion in the bathroom.

See Photo of the girl here: http://www.gistsstack.com/man-kills-daughter-bursting-boyfriend/

A young man asked On Air Personality (OAP) Freeze if it is a sin to engage in masturbation or use of intimacy gadget if one wants to get Sexually satisfied

Read the boy’s post below:

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Freeze replies:

“This is one of the most difficult questions anyone has ever asked me. From the way the letter is constructed, you can see that the young man is not only intelligent and well educated, but he is also polite which indicates that his parents brought him up well. From his tone, I can see this is a genuine question that is bothering not only him, but a multitude of other people, young and old, irrespective of their religious inclination.

The religious righteousness in me wanted to tell him that masturb@tion is a sin and must never be engaged in, but where does that leave the 46-year-old widow, who confided in me last year, that she had to buy a intimacy gadget because her husband died, leaving her with 6 children and no man wanted to marry her, and instead of jumping from one man to the other, she decided to please herself?

Or an unmarried man at 35, when I know it’s unhealthy, according to empirical research, not to empty your prostate regularly, as it predisposes men to prostate cancer later in life?

Marc Garnick, M.D., Editor in Chief of Harvard Medical School’s Annual Report on Prostate Diseases, says:

“Two relatively large studies of this question, reported in 2003 and 2004, yielded good news for S3xually active men: high ejaculation frequency seemed to protect against prostate cancer.”

Ejaculations included Sexual intercourse, nocturnal emissions/masturbation. According to the study available at www.harvardprostateknowledge.org, the scientists found that men who ejaculated 21 or more times a month enjoyed a 33% lower risk of prostate cancer compared with men who reported four to seven ejaculations a month.”

Now, before that righteous Yahoo Boy, who you intend to give your January salary to, jumps up and starts calling masturbation a sin, let’s remember that Isaac married Rebecca when she was only 3 years old, according to research done by scholars, and the average marriage age for boys in biblical times, was around 13.

Furthermore, David had several wives and concubines, Solomon had 1000, Abraham 2 wives several concubines, Jacob 2 wives and their housegirls, so emptying the prostate wasn’t such a problem back then. And since in the times of Moses, Jacob, David and Solomon there was no DSTV and electricity, most people tended to entertain themselves in the other room.

However with the peculiarities obtainable in today’s society, a 13-year-old boy is still in secondary school and won’t be eligible for marriage for another 12 years at least. I know people who are in their 40s and single and I am sorry but I can’t preach abstinence to them… And even if I try to, would they listen?

When the choice of having several Sex partners presents itself against masturbation, I won’t pick several partners, instead I will preach that masturbation, like alcohol, is extremely addictive and has its own side effects, so extreme caution should be exercised when the overcoming urge to relieve oneself from Sexual ‘congi’ comes knocking on your door.

If you feel guilty about masturbation, which is normal, pray about it. God understands those feeling, because he put them in you in the first place.

Also remember, your body is the temple of Christ, so you must protect it! You won’t want to open it up for different S3xual spirits or for prostate cancer.

I sincerely hope I answered his question well… FREEZE

SOURCE: http://www.gistsstack.com/freeze-replies-boy-masturbation/

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village people...reason why Nigeria is backward, jealousy, hatred, envy, evil everywhere

A shocking video of a female police officer assaulting a woman on a road block went viral on social media on Monday, January 2, 2017.

The female police officer is shown pulling the lady behind severally whose hands are firmly clasped on the car's window while pleading with the Police officer to leave her alone.

The woman claimed she had requested for some information from the police officers which led to the fight.

During the tussle other passengers in the vehicle started arguing with the officer which forced the motorist to be arrested for further action.

Watch the footage between the woman and the police below;

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxUl1FkEGe4&feature=youtu.be

SOURCE: http://www.gistsstack.com/police-officer-assaulting-woman/

mayatweet:
Hehehe this Man had strong issues while growing up he needs a counselor hehehe

You are right, Even a boo get a boo

one of the Reasons why many marriages crash is due to lack of planning and rushes as a result of the pressure from people like that counselors.

It's ok

Saturday Beats has released the list of some of the artistes whose light didn’t shine so brightly in 2016. Below is what was written about them.


D’banj

Thank God for his song ‘Emergency’ which was released early in the year, it was a good work and so many people felt D’banj had finally survived the break-up.
Alas, Dbanj's ‘Focus,’ ‘If no be God,’ ‘Breaking New’ and ‘Gifted’ didn’t make any impact at all. D’banj needs to step up his game in 2017; otherwise, his career would land in Emergency Room!

Waje

And like her best friend Omawumi, Waje was almost pushed to the background in 2016. She has been busier on social media than in the studio this year. Yes, fans got to know more about her grown up daughter and her cool dresses which she proudly showed off every now and then.


Omawumi

Thank God for social media, but for Instagram where the babe would always post one or two stuff, her presence would have dwindled considerably.

Iyanya

Well, thank God for ‘Kukere,’ nobody would have known Iyanya apart from the fact that he was a sensation at the then Project Fame competition.
Iyanya's controversial exit from Ubi Franklin’s Triple M Records made more headlines than the release of his following songs, ‘Type of woman,’ ‘Nothing Mega,’ ‘Yoga song,’ ‘Sukumma,’ ‘Why,’ and ‘Heartbeat.’

Wande Coal

It seems Wande Coal found his sound late this year with the new song, ‘Iskaba,’ which he released a few weeks ago. Before then, nothing much was heard from the young man.

Chidinma

This year, Chidinma was busier arousing people’s curiosity as to whether she is dating artiste, Flavour or not. It seems that the star is fast fizzling out of the industry

SOURCE http://www.gistsstack.com/see-stars-didnt-shine-2016/

Australian singer, songwriter, SIA tells fellow American artiste, Azealia Banks, to stop sacrificing animals in her African shrine for fame.



Read Azealia Banks reply here http://www.gistsstack.com/stop-sacrificing-animals-sia-azealia/

Popular Ghanaian radio and television relationship counsellor, Reverend Cyril George Carstensen Lutterodt has described unmarried men as ‘useless’. Reverend Lutterodt Likened unmarried men as spoilt vegetables in a dustbin.

He said single men including reverend Fathers and even the Pope lack the blessings of God in marriage.

In an interview with Atinka FM, Accra, Ghana, the controversial counsellor said: “Marrying a woman is a blessing. A man who is of age, yet not married is as useless as a spoilt vegetable in a dustbin including the reverend fathers and popes. I, therefore, urge the men of today to wake up and marry. Stop the laziness for the grace of God to shine upon your entire life! There is a special form of blessing reserved for only married people”

The marriage Counsellor said, though some women will scare men from marriage, it is not a guarantee for any man to remain a single.

He maintained that “marriage is what makes you a man and he who finds a wife obtains favour from God. No man can be very successful if he is not married so if you go for the woman and you can’t take care of her curses await you.”

SOURCE: http://www.gistsstack.com/unmarried-men-useless-marriage-counselor/

George Michael, a British singer who became one of the pop idols of the 1980s with Wham! died at his home in England on Sunday. He was 53.

Wham! was one of the most successful pop duos ever in the mid-1980s, ahead even of Simon & Garfunkel, with singles like ““”Careless Whisper”, “Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go”, “The Edge of Heaven” and “Last Christmas”.

“It is with great sadness that we can confirm our beloved son, brother and friend George passed away peacefully at home over the Christmas period,” his publicist said in a statement.

The statement said, “The family would ask that their privacy be respected at this difficult and emotional time. There will be no further comment at this stage,”

British police said Michael’s death was “unexplained but not suspicious.” “I am in deep shock,” said Elton John. “I have lost a beloved friend – the kindest, most generous soul and a brilliant artist. My heart goes out to his family and all of his fans.”

George Michael was born June 25, 1963, in London to Greek Cypriot immigrant parents in a flat above a north London laundrette, Michael once played music on the London underground train system before finding fame with Wham!.

George formed Wham! in 1981 with a school friend, Andrew Ridgeley, a partnership that would produce some of the most memorable pop songs and dance-floor favourites of the 1980s.

SOURCE: http://www.gistsstack.com/george-michael-pop-superstar-dies-53/

After i relocated a few months ago, I had to fill out some paperwork for my tenancy agreement. One of the required fields was an occupation. I sat there for a while trying to decide what to fill. Simply put, I filled BLOGGER. But there is something about that title (blogger) that is not taken seriously yet. I wanted a title that accurately described what I do as a blogger. As a blogger, you wear many hats.

Here are some titles you can use on job applications, your LinkedIn profile, or for any other occasion that requires a job title.

Blogger

This is a common title for “a person who keeps a weblog or blog” Short and simple. I think it is totally okay to use this title because you keep a blog.

Author

“A person who writes a novel, essay, poem, etc.; the composer of a literary work, as distinguished from a compiler, editor, translator or copyist” You are the composer of the blog. I feel that this is more appropriate than a writer (if you are the sole writer for your blog) because it gives you ownership of the blog.

Writer

Simply put, a writer is “a person engaged in writing books, stories, articles, etc., especially as an occupation or profession; an author or journalist.” Your words are the main focus of your blog, the reason people come to your site. You write on a daily basis.

Curator

“A person who selects content for presentation” This is one of my personal favourite job titles for bloggers. It gives your title a little freedom but still accurate describes what you do. You pick out an article topic, design images to go along, etc. Feel free to add to it and be a “web curator” or a “content curator”.

Editor

“A person having managerial and sometimes policy-making responsibility for the editorial part of a publishing firm or of a newspaper, magazine, or other publication” I feel that editor sheds more light on just how much you do for your blog. You are the author, but you also manage every other aspect of the job.

Founder

“A person who founds or establishes” Go big with this job title. You did start your own online business after all! Wear it proudly.

Content Manager

“A person who has control or direction of an institution, business, etc.” I actually like all titles for bloggers that start with content. I like this part of the definition of content “substantive information or creative material”. This is an accurate description of your occupation.

Copywriter

“A writer of copy, especially for advertisements or publicity releases.” You could always copy the Copyblogger folks and use Copyblogger as your title

Brand Ambassador

“An authorised messenger or representative” for brands. This one is really popular for Twitter profiles. If you write a lot of sponsored posts, a brand ambassador is a great job title.

Do you use any of the above as your title?

SOURCE: http://www.gistsstack.com/job-titles-blogger/

As good-looking lady may be on the outside, but there is an underlying insecurity that lies deep within, and that is cellulite. Perhaps this is why many ladies fear stripping in front of a man, and prefer sex in the dark.
Consider this article is a guide to help you overcome those insecurities by realizing that the ‘innocent’ things you consume may not be good for your shape.

Here are the 5 foods ladies consume that are slowly eating away their dream body:

1. White Sugar
A peculiar fact is that white sugar provides no nutrients in your body whatsoever. Rather, it is a risk factor for developing diabetes and increasing the fat content in your thigh area. Honey or brown sugar would be nice alternatives.

2. Deep Fried Foods
You might want to cut down on the nicely fried KFC chicken and chips, as they contain more cholesterol which is low-quality fats. With low-quality fats comes a low-quality body in the long run.

3. Alcoholic Beverages
While they do not directly cause cellulite, they contain what nutritionists call “empty calories”, which in turn leads to weight gain.

4. Table Salt
The sour crystals we usually refer to as table salt is simply a modest way of saying refined salt. Refined salt only contains sodium chloride, and causes fluid retention and poor circulation. This, too, leads to cellulite.

5. Junk and Processed Foods
Junk comes as no surprise to many. If you must junk up, be prepared to hit the gym or simply avoid such foods altogether.

Foods that have been through a factory before consumption contains toxins which, if not checked, turn into cellulite.

SOURCE: http://www.gistsstack.com/foods-reason-losing-shape/

See smashing

Afonjas and U know d rest.

I love creative, hardworking women.

Gerat ofhia!!!..Shit!

Indirectly shading Tonto..Nigerians and show-off...when people like Seun, Mark and other young entrepreneurs r investing, this one is here wasting money on some b**** he's not going to marry..
When they wreck tomorw, they will start blaming it on witches in their village.

Nigerian porn actress, singer, and movie producer, Judith Mazagwu, popularly known as AfroCandy, has lashed out at some Visa agent flooding her inbox with unsolicited (spam) messages about visa procurement for United Nations conference in Italy.

See what the alleged scammer has been sending to her..

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The U.S-based soft p0rn actress responded on IG.

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SOURCE: http://www.gistsstack.com/afrocandy-scammers-na-hunger-go-kill/

9. Zonke Dikana – South Africa
Dikana rise to stardom was in 2011 following the release of her 3rd album Ina Ethe which was certified double platinum and was nominated at the 18th South African Music Awards. In 2013, Zonke Dikana recorded and released Give and Take Live which went on to be certified gold just 2 months upon its release

There are other singing beauties that can be squeezed in this list.

Seyi Shay – Nigeria

Feel free to add yours

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Source: http://www.gistsstack.com/hottest-female-musicians-n-africa/

5. Tiwa Savage – Nigeria
She is probably the most seductive female artiste we have in Africa. Now you need to click into her Girlie O remix with Patoranking and see what we mean.

The sexy video has hit over 16 million youtube views and we all know why, and we haven’t even started talking about Wanted, the video that all Africa talking after it was released in 2014.

Tiwa whose illustrious music career has seen her become a continental name recently separated with her husband who is said to have been too jealous and even accused her of cheating on him. Hot cannon this one and we now understand why they call her goddess in Nigeria. Have you watched her new Bad video featuring Wizkid that is almost hitting two million views barely a month since it was released?

6. Irene Ntale – Uganda
Since the likes of Iryn Namubiru and Cindy have been here long enough, we will let her pass and represent Uganda. Irene, who came into public limelight after winning the Best Female Breakthrough Artiste category during the 2014 Hip-hop Music Awards has a baby face and confuses enough men. She is social and has a happy soul.

Then there is this 27-year-old Sheebah Karungi who is arguably the hottest musician in Ugandan music industry. Sheebah began her music career as part of Obsessions girls before quitting four years later. The musician who was in Kenya last year for the third season of Coke Studio and did a collabo with Palasso has released songs like I’m in Love with Kitoko, Baliwa, Fighter, Goodbye, Fighter, Jordan and Kambalage just to name a few.

7. Habida – Kenya
Currently in South Africa and having given birth recently, the 32-year-old Kenyan star has captured the imagination of many with her elegance and height as well as her chocolate skin complexion.

She is happy and social and despite the fact that she is married, men drool for her – day and night. The other two Kenyan female singers who come close to qualifying in this list are Sosuun and Vivian.

Sosuun, who is rapper Kenrazy’s wife, has that sexy, no-nonsense demeanour that men like. She has a bold attitude and a sexy appeal as well as a great sense of dressing. As for Vivian, she is that beautiful girl with a good voice that you would want to hear over and over, but not yet as hot.

8. Lira – South Africa
The South African talented singer was the crush for hundreds of men some few years ago. That was before the heart-breaking news that she was taken and ready to settle down.

Lira is musically talented and has an alluring sex appeal that men love flirting about even now when she already belongs to another.

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Source: http://www.gistsstack.com/hottest-female-musicians-n-africa/

The year 2016 has been another great year for Africa’s music industry as we have witnessed a significant growth in several superstars with hit songs, tours, endorsements and so on.

However, in no particular order, we are glad to present to you, our 9 topmost, hottest, sexiest Africa’s most desired female musicians.

1. Cynthia Morgan – Nigeria
The stylish and sassy Nigerian dancehall queen, Cynthia Morgan made her debut visit at the Coke Studio Africa in July, 2016, in a mission to collabo with Ethiopian artiste Henok Mehari of the Mehari Brothers Band (MBB).

The Nigerian-born songwriter-cum-singer has men turning their heads over her “German Juice” single.

2. Victoria Kimani – Kenya
If you have never met this Kenyan artiste in person, then you probably need to watch her Prokoto video to get an idea of what we are talking about. So you know what she is talking about when she sings Booty Bounce and Mtoto. Like her or hate her, Kimani is irresistible. In the last few years, Victoria has had Africa talking not only because of her massive music talent but also because she is one sizzling hot number.

This Chocolate City sensational singer has men from near and far falling for her and news that she is dating are not helping at all.

Recently, during her birthday that was held at the Marion on Nicol Boutique Hotel in Johannesburg, South Africa she posted photos of her with Stanley Obiamuli, a rich Nigerian investor, giving a hint as to whom she could be dating.

3. Waje – Nigeria
They call her the queen of soul and truly, Waje has been touching bodies and souls in equal measure since she joined the music industry a few years ago. Her video Coco Baby, which features Diamond, is a testimony of how irresistible Waje can be.

Waje has a voice to die for and her vocal range is so unique that it covers three octaves. It is because of her unquestionable music talent and gorgeous body that Waje qualifies among the ten hottest female celebs in Africa.

4. Efya – Ghana
This loved Ghanaian singer was crowned the best female vocalist during the Ghana Music Awards 2 years in a row. That was even before she released an album. It is these soothing vocals and gorgeous stunning figure as well as a winning smile that have made Efya the most adored female singer in Ghana, giving her a cult-like following. She is one of the best neo-soul artistes in Africa. She is a butterfly and her songs such as Forgetting Me leaves lasting memories in our minds.

The other Ghanaian singer who qualifies in this list is Lady Jay Wah arguably the fastest rising female singer in Ghana since she burst onto the scene in 2012.

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Source: http://www.gistsstack.com/hottest-female-musicians-n-africa/

A wife has lost her husband in Uganda after she screamed popular artiste’s name during sex

The artiste posted the story on Instagram after it appeared in a Ugandan newspaper.

A woman has been divorced by her husband in Uganda after she called him (husband) Jose Chameleone during sex.

The story has gone viral in Uganda after the man swore to leave his wife after she screamed the Ugandan AfroBeat artiste (Valu Valu) singer’s name.

Meanwhile, Chameleone, felt respected and took a snapshot of the story that made it to a Ugandan local newspaper.
He captioned the photo. “Husband sends away wife for calling him Chameleone during sex,”

Recently, the Ugandan singer worked with Elani for their collaboration “My Darling”, a love song that showcases the challenges, love, and misunderstandings that love sometimes brings.

See Photos here http://www.gistsstack.com/husband-divorces-wife-afterr-sex/

A recent study has revealed the dangerous age where most individual tend to cheat on their spouses.

In the current century, cheating in marriage is turning into more and more common.

The behaviour is increasing at such a fast rate, for a few reasons that have caused researchers to conduct several studies on the situation

A study has been done that reveals the dangerous age when a man or woman is at more risk to cheat, 39-years-old.

Is your partner approaching 39? Do they show cheating behaviour?

Then pay attention, be more observative.

According to infidelity website, people at 39 years old-time range measure double a lot of probably to cheat than at any other age.

Similarly, ages 29 and 49 were also ranked among the danger years but way lesser compared to the big 49.

The reason why spouses at 39 cheat is purely out of the ‘aging’ feeling or factor.

People at this age range measure a lot of involved concerning their age, their look and square measure troubled concerning their lives.

Is is meaningful? Am i growing old? Have i achieved something in life? It’s essentially worrisome for them.

Studies show such issues result in behaviours that make one seek for ‘meaning’ in life. In this case, an affair is the next significant thing.

Anything to make them feel more lively, more significant, more appreciated and much more.

The affair is more or less cushioning them from the truth and providing ‘meaning’ in their lives.
SOURCE http://www.gistsstack.com/age-couples-cheat/

Women are complicated creatures that men can never figure out. Whether that is true or not, this might add to the supposed complications. There are questions you should never ask a woman.

You might be having knowledge of some questions women hate being asked. If skeptical, then kindly try to ask any of these questions to your girlfriend, sister, cousin, niece colleague, and any woman you know and notice their response.

These are the questions they hate being asked:

1. How Old Are You?
Age is a very sensitive matter to most women. So, the age-related question is generally appalling.

2. Are You On Your Period?
Just because she is having those weird, funny reactions does not mean she is on her period. If you want to be given the eye, or be treated like an old book for a whole day then ask a woman if she’s being distressed due to her periods.

3. Are You Pregnant?
This question is probably the most insulting to a woman than any other. Do not ask a woman if she is pregnant; Instead, assume she is until she tells you herself. In short, you have insulted her look, her weight and compared her to a whale. Chances are she is not pregnant; she is struggling with her weight to which she does not need a reminder or maybe she is pregnant, but she is not yet ready to disclose to people especially a male friend or colleague.

4. Why Don’t You Have Kids?
This is another insulting question which can be interpreted in so many ways as being disrespectful, judgmental etc. Maybe she is struggling to conceive a baby, or she is waiting for the perfect time. Some are not married, therefore not thinking of having one. Who knows maybe she lost a pregnancy or even worse.

5. When Are You Getting Married?
This is a common one. Some women who are due for marriage are usually terrified of the word ‘marriage’ At a certain age, everyone expects you to get married, settle down and have children. Not many decide not to get married; perhaps there’s a personal reason why they are still single. Who knows, it is their business, not yours. So, stop nosing around.

6. How Much Money Do You Make?
When it comes to money, it is more intimate details only for the chosen few or none at all. Only your employer is allowed to ask such a question or a spouse who is committed to. Not even siblings or parents are allowed to know such details of your life. Even if one chooses to disclose, it is only to those who is important.

Be pre-occupied with what you earn, not what others are making.

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Source http://www.gistsstack.com/6-questions-never-ask-woman/

Juxtified:
If they had no money for blood, who did you expect to give the child his blood?

People donate blood free without selling it. Pray not to be in this desperate situation.

My heart is in shreds after watching this (child) heart-breaking video.

This is so sad.Just because the father of this little child had no money for blood, the hospital watched this innocent girl die. This happened few days ago at AMASAMAN hospital in Ghana.
Hospitals spend so much money in convincing people to donate blood.People donate blood free without selling it. But,when it’s time to give this blood and medical attention they patient, they will deny them.

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VIDEO SOURCE http://www.gistsstack.com/child-dies-1n-hospital/

Behind every successful man, there’s woman. Behind every successful marriage, there are obviously two people who have done some tremendous things together before deciding to tie the knot. Have you considered a “must-do” list before getting married or putting the ring on your finger? Maybe you should, as there are 9 things everyone needs to do before getting married.

1. PROMISCUITY

Work on your promiscuity. The deadly blow to any marriage is adultery. Adultery destroys marriage. Do not cheat on your spouse

2. ANGER

Anger is a normal emotion, but it’s important to deal with it in a positive way. Uncontrolled anger tells on your health and your relationships. Learn how to control your anger. Shot temper damages marriage.

3. MATURITY

Maturity comes with experience not age. Increase your level of maturity. Marriage is for the matured minds and not kids.

4. FINANCES

Love, they say doesn’t cost a thing. That may be true, but then how many women are ready to date or marry a man who is not financially stable? We all know the economic situation of our country and most women as a result, seek men who are financially stable. Is money an important factor in marriage? The answer is, yes. You need money to make your family work & be comfortable.

5. TRUST

Trust your spouse at all time. If this is highly attended to, your marriage will do just fine. Do not marry a person you don’t trust.

6. PARTNER

Work on your Choice of partner. According to a research, 60% of most beautiful and handsome humans lacks intelligence; as a man you need a beautiful wife though, but when she can’t read her book or write her name you will surely remember this piece of mind someday. He or she will someday grow old and ugly. So, be informed.

7. CHARACTER

Good character sustains marriage. Bad characters are consistently responsible for many broken homes. No wonder character is noticed as the block for building marriages. Work on your character, treat people equally.

8. HOW GOOD ARE YOU IN THE KITCHEN?

Some women are so poor in the kitchen. This has destroyed so many marriages. “Don’t marry a woman who can’t cook,” Pastor E. A. Adeboye said. “A girl who cannot cook will not be a good wife.” Ladies, go learn how to cook.

9. PRAY AND BE COMMITTED TO GOD

And finally, Prayer matters a lot in everything, be it Christian or Muslim. Commit yourself to your creator and you will succeed. Remember, he who finds a wife finds a good thing. Pray lot and God will guide and provide you with your rightful partner.

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Source: http://www.gistsstack.com/9-things-t0-d0-bef0re-marriage/

so embarrassing!!

Thanks