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D snakes re not dead o!! See the way d guy hold d head very tight becos any mistake he's gone.

OrestesDante:
I think they are. Cos if dey are dead, why needlessly run.
Buh all na for show sha

Ask those pics were taken in a day oga!!!!!

"I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.

In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts.

It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.

With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married to? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings and it is the great arsenal that destroys those unhelpful impulses.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship in many cases.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.

On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.

It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong, be self disciplined and above all, have the God factor that will give you the grace needed to reign you in.

Please imbibe and share with the young adults, married and unmarried couples

FROM UR WRITEUP, I'VE SEEN YOUR LEVEL OF EXPOSURE AND REASONING, VERY POOR. WHO TOLD YOU THAT LOVE IS ABOUT GIVING YOU MONEY? Then what difference are you from a prostitute.LOVE is mutual. If he didn't have and u have, give him.overseas, if two lovers go out, they do so to enjoy each other's company while spending independently except either of them wants to take the bill.YOU don't base LOVE on MONEY, it's POVERTY OF THE MIND!!!!

Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

"I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.

In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts.

It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.

With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married to? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings and it is the great arsenal that destroys those unhelpful impulses.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship in many cases.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.

On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.

It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong, be self disciplined and above all, have the God factor that will give you the grace needed to reign you in.

Please imbibe and share with the young adults, married and unmarried couples

It could be used for a club or restaurant.

informant001:
An Aircraft was seen parked on the service lane along Oshodi-Anthony expressway, Lagos.. Citizens who have been left baffled by this -are still trying to understand the reason behind the plane being parked there. See pictures below; ...

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/12/aircraft-parked-along-oshodi-anthony.html

This is tropicana Uyo na. Well congrats

madam na in air not on air. Besides they re yet to take off, they re not air borne yet.

midehi2:
Agberos everywhere, even inside the plane, on air oooo chai, disgrace

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[size=30pt]do u belong to d cucumber group?[/size]

rosalieene:
abeg make Una leave this girl matter

[size=30pt]After one girl go suck/fu*k d dirty man. [/size]

[size=30pt]When she is leaking and its painful [/size]

[size=39pt]y is d pictures u took not dated? So we'd be sure its not an old pics. [/size]

She[size=30pt] she could be mammy water [/size]

[size=30pt]Re u justifying the act? What is he then preaching to his congregation, Adultery? Hope u re not one of those that seduce pastors?

goldbim:
What?? .this is very wrong!!let he without a sin cast a stone first....you'll see a cradle robber and rapist mocking the pastor too..smh!!its supposed to be nobody's business!!.afterall,its with a consenting adult he had it with!!it should be within the concerned parties families they'll settle it not community!..

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[size=30pt]it is appointed for a man to die once after that judgement. Its contradictory.[/size]

[size=30pt]u ve only seen her in black and white. See her in coloured, I bet u, u will change ur mind.

toba400:
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Nollywood actress Ruth is so hot in this photo that she got a marriage proposal....


See below:

Source:http://www.flexygist.com/2016/07/07/fan-proposes-to-ruth-kadiri-after-she-posts-hot-photo/

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[size=30pt]I think say na my eyes o, I just dey look d nail quote since.

jossy26:
Check the quote for the nail again

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[size=30pt]There's no perfect man/woman anywhere, bring out the perfection in ur partner.[/size]

tollyB:
It's true...
I can relate to every point...
But where are we going to see a perfect man?
London,america,afghanistan,israel......
I don tire jare

[size=30pt]why use all that energy to fake work when u can still do something worthwhile.[/size]

Cieno:
Whether or not you are getting your work done, it’s important to look busy. If you look like you’ve got a lot of downtime at work, people might think you are expendable; here are some great tips to looking really busy, even if you’re not . .

1. Always walk around the office briskly and Often with a sense of urgency.
It doesn’t matter where you’re going: a meeting, the bathroom, or on some random stroll around the office. When you walk the halls, keep a brisk pace. If someone tries to stop you for a chat, give that person a quick hello or wave without missing a step. You’re too busy to talk and can’t waste one second lollygagging around.

2. Always keep a stack of paper or binders in your hand while away from your desk
The papers can be blank, or the binder empty. It doesn’t matter. No one will know. Better yet, stuff the papers into the binder. Either way, it will look like work. This is especially important when hanging out at a coworker’s cubicle or workstation. An armful of paper makes it looks like you’re talking about work when you’re really just talking about how wrong America was for not choosing your favorite person to win the Voice.

3. While at your desk, run the tape on your adding machine with random calculations (if applicable).
Not only does it make you look busy, it makes you sound busy. Rip the tape off and sigh loudly every few minutes to make it seem like you’re working diligently to solve some major problem.

4. Stare intently at your computer screen.
Keep your hand on the mouse and click three quick times. Then feverishly type on your keyboard. Repeat. To be even more convincing, open an email draft and start typing stuff. Create a shopping list or something.

5. Constantly write things on Post-it notes.
This is works if you don’t use a computer at work. You can use them to jot down that shopping list or a playlist you want to create on your iPod. Perhaps you want to practice your signature or come up with a list of potential names for the kids you plan to have one day. Or, maybe you just want to doodle. Whatever you do, keep that pen moving. Make sure at the end of the day to collect all your notes. You don’t want any evidence of your busy work laying around for prying eyes.

6. Wear your glasses.
Even if they’re just for reading, keep them on. Always. And if you don’t need them, buy a fake pair. Busy people wear glasses.

7. Don’t talk. Don’t say a peep.
If a coworker calls your name, ignore her. When she comes to your desk, pop your head up from your pad of post its, computer monitor, or adding machine with a surprised look on your face. Apologize and explain how all this work has made you completely oblivious to world.

8. Use your cell phone to call your desk phone.
Answer it and carry on a fake conversation. Keep it brief and throw in a “right, yes, and ok” every few words or so. End the conversation with “I’ll get right on it”, and clumsily hang up the phone. Throw in one of those loud sighs for good measure. It seems the boss has just assigned you with yet another project that is sure to keep you busy for the rest of the day.

9. Type and Scribble Furiously
Whether you are doing actual work, finishing up your shopping list, or chatting with your mates, you should always be typing or scribbling furiously. Because you are a busy person and you need to finish this task as fast as possible to move on to the next . . .

10. Do some actual work..but not too much
Use this as a last resort. When all else fails, do a little work. But don’t spread yourself too thin! Easy there, tiger. Don’t do today what can wait until tomorrow.

Source: http://www.naijasauce.com.ng/how-to-look-busy-at-work-without-really-working/

[size=30pt]have u not seen some men with cash but don't know what to buy?[/size]

Atmmachine:
That man na big time fool.

His wife bought him a Rolls Royce with his own money and he dey laugh

[size=30pt]ode!!!![/size]

D2diff:
Your sistrs and your daughter's own go reach o

Heaven sef go shock, na so e go take worse pass death sef

[size=30pt]use love charm on him. U re sensing he wants to use u and u re still there! Wating u dey find, u go soon see am[/size]

post=45736532:
Hi everyone. So, in this age that almost every guy that comes to you is thinking of how to sleep with you, my question is how can you make or how can a guy who just wants to sleep with you, fall in love with you? Please mature responses only. Thank you

[size=30pt]why was she married if she doesn't want to sex her man. U lucky say na so e reach. Dem force u marry? Abi u come break melon for d marriage?[/size]

abeeceebee:
See How My Sister Was Bartered By Her Husband


A man did this to his wife all because she disallowed him to have intercourse with her. I don't usually post on nairaland but I enjoy reading the contents of nairaland forum, and that is why I felt it is the right place to bring this.

[size=30pt]it's like u re talking out of experience.[/size]

amtaken:
Is it not the same house where Esema takes under-aged girls into and use his big toes on them?


Abeg free Ann!