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Damn. I foresaw this. These boys, we're already eating the food Cooked by one, the other is still Washing pot. M'FVCKERS

Damn. My friend, rest on. You use your youthful days for benefiting others, thereby writing your name on platter of gold. Shame on youths of nowadays, all you do This age is to talk about sex, relationship, gossip and sorts. You don't sit alone and think of how to benefit others. This is why older generation keep riding your l like horse, you're not serious with your future. You're not ready to take it into your hands. WAKE FROM SLUMBER. USE YOUR HEAD.
Though I won't still stop clamouring for retiring the old thieves, to pave way for the sound minded youths. God bless you all my children. Stay safe and out of trouble

Damn. This brother of mine makes me proud. God bless you for being exceptional. You don't shame we the older generation.

PrecioussB:
Just like the title says.
I have noticed, when guys talk about some exs, they will kinda hint that the girls is an addict or crazy, but then after looking into it, I just realised that these guys can bring a lot of it on themselves, oh do they know how much torment not having closure brings on someone. Not knowing why your once beloved girlfriend or boyfriend refuses your calls, why they won't explain or even see you, why they just disappeared can leave you very confused.

The women aren't crazy because they call you all the time, they are probably really desperate to find out the truth, which guys often don't say (though I've noticed that Nigerian guys, tend to just let it out which can be good at times). This feeling is like being stood in front of a brick wall, the truth is on the other side and the ex is the wall who refuses to budge, to even hint what went wrong, so you're left guessing, you can't see the truth and the ex is barely interacting with you too.

WE NEED CLOSURE, EVERYBODY DOES > now that can drive a woman crazy. All the questions roaming through our heads, of 'why did he leave?', 'why didn't he even tell me what I did?', then you start thinking 'Am I that disgusting that he won't pick up my call?', 'was I that bad a girlfriend that he avoids me?' and worst of all 'I don't want to seem psycho or like a stalker, I'm sure one simple phone call to him will sort everything out.', when these get unbearable, you try and call, and he doesn't pick up because little did you know he's so over you and he doesn't have the time, even just a little time to let you get over him.

MAYBE you guys actually don't want us to get over you. Maybe that is why the mess made is left there. Surely if you want us to move on, you will meet up with us, tell us the deal and move on.

GUYS please understand the power of closure, and so what if you hurt our feelings, at least now we can move on and so can you, and you won't need to explain to your new girlfriend that your ex stalks you and such. Ok, ok, I think the stalking is a bit much, but it is just some women are so desperate to find the answers that they will go to some extents, think of it from your point of view.

Your girlfriend of 7 months, just tells you one day that it's all over. Ok, so in the past 2 months she's been slowly distancing herself from you, less phone calls, visits and barely any enthusiasm, so of course, she's prepared herself for the breakup, but you are completely unaware, you think everything is fabulous, you're even thinking about what to get her for her birthday. The birthday comes, and she's all fantastic, you think you two are a match made in heaven, then a week later, she breaks up with you, and of course you're stunned so you don't ask all the questions you want to ask and the questions just float around in your head, you sulk for ages and then after the initial stage of upset, you now want answers, but guess what, she's moved on, she's now got a new guy, your number's been deleted off her phone, and you're calling to ask her why she left you, because you deserve to know, and she just speaks to you like your wasting her time, she is uneasy to talk to you or acknowledge the good 5 months you spent as a close knit couple, and it hurts, in order to move on, you need to know where you went wrong, so it's not too personal, after all it could easily be her cheating ways or wandering eyes. Just knowing this would save so much soul-searching, further heartbreak and just confusion.

Now do you understand the power of closure?? If you don't I will gladly go on and on and on. .

This is just my plea, so you guys give us a break, stop dragging things along, we know you hate confrontation and hurting our feelings, but being left to our own thoughts could actually really affect us, and is far worse for our psyche than being told the truth.

CLOSURE is KEY!

Peace

Damn. To wear my glasses reading this isn't easy. All being said, my daughter, why is this generation all about sex, fashion, body and sorts? Damn, I missed my time! When will you think about taking your future in your hands? When will you think of being a leader? Those that are still leading you now started leading you at your age then, they don't take all these as a priority then. Lemme say WE. Though, ain't a politician.
Come off these relationship talk, talk about POLITICS. Decide for your future or your posterity will curse you all. My daughter, and to all my children on NL, THE FUTURE IS YOURS TO DECIDE NOW. TAKE IT IN YOUR HANDS. We've failed u, Don't fail yourself. My 2cents. God bless you all my sons and daughters on NL. Stay safe

tega2luv:
[b][/b]please my fellow NLs , what are the ways or rather a step one can take to avoid getting a girlfriend.

Damn. My son, Don't be foolish. You should be older than 20yrs, are you saying you can't decide for yourself? What a sissy you are! This is why older generation are riding you like horse. You're old in age but not in mind. Get some balls and decide how to yourself, you don't need any advice So don't take one Stay out of trouble son.

Damn. M'FVCKERS. Both APC and PDP.
Youths, take your future in your hands. You need third force coming 2023, you shouldn't be mumu forever. Retire these old thieves. We the older generation has failed you but don't fail yourself. on behalf of them, I take the blame and apologize. God bless you all my sons and daughters on NL. stay out of trouble

Sweetgoodie:
for your girlfriend to hack your phone shows that you don't deserve a girlfriend.

Topsic70 my son how far?

Damn. My daughter, when did you also beget?

SultanOfAbia:
This girl just fvcked up my paroles
I don't know how on Earth this girl can hack my insta,WhatsApp and telegram. Wtf??
She hacked into my Instagram account last night and changed the password.
She is threatening to release all my chats even my nudes with some girls in insta.

I have some clients that are following my Instagram page. My boss too
This owerri girl want to destroy me.
I'm thinking of reporting the insta page so they can block it.
But it will affect my business. What should I do??

Damn. My son, you fumbled. What is wrong with youths of nowadays. All you know is about sex sex. That's why my sets are still riding you like horse because you're not ready to take your future in your hands. you're not ready to be free of this old politicians' clamp. I wish you the best son. Be ahead of your game another time

marisdgreat:
nairaland guys can be useless and stupid some times, had it been the post is talking about a girl's nude pix and sex chats. All these ugly, frustrated and depressed asslickers would be generalising all girls are these and that with diff names calling. But it is related to a guy, they will be careful with their choice of words. As if na thru man ynash dem take come out

Damn. my daughter, you've spoken my mind

Damn. Nigeria politics sucks, the best schemers wins

oyeb15:
Government should provide jobs. Life in Nigeria is very hard.
Moreover, a great revolution is coming in Nigeria. It will happen in January 2022.

Damn. My son, God bless you. Don't clamour for revolution that leads to blood letting. Let the revolution be COMMONSENSICAL. Let it be a THIRD FORCE. Enough of old leadership. The future is in your hand. My sets has FAILED you, don't fail yourself. On behalf of them all, I take the blame and apologize

Damn. Our Government has failed us, they turned our children into this. May you all be paid in your coin.
Youths, don't be unfortunate in 2023, THIRD FORCE is very essential, get ride of those old thieves that have stolen and keep stealing your birth rights. Open your eyes.
#NoToOldLeadership

pocohantas:
Don’t blame them. Getting a good partner is hard, now adding another variable (genotype) makes it harder. I understand you though. The way they quickly ask could be “scary”.

Damn. My daughter, I love your personal text. Stay out of trouble though dear daughter

Nwaotu10:
Yet, you cry them a river on hearing they want leave.

Damn. I got accused by one of my son before I modified (my original intent) the sentence. Whereas Despite the modification, son you still went ahead to try roping me with Tribalism! My son, Don't be silly. You should be able to Assimilate my words, don't let emotions overshadow and affect you. Stay out of trouble son. Father cares

Damn. Congratulations. You're all doing wonderfully well sons and daughters. SHAME THOSE USELESS CORRUPT POLITICIANS. The other day, it was Ondo, Today Anambra

Damn. Criminals

MrOjay1:
Derico Nwamama and Diezani

Damn. My son, Diez... what? May you not be unfortunate son. Haven't you heard of her Corruption. How can the MOST CORRUPT WOMEN IN NIGERIA HISTORY BE SOMEONE OF SIGNIFICANCE TO YOU? Stay out of trouble son and take enough memory boaster

Vyzz:
Which people?....

Damn. My son, don't bring me into your TRIBAL JINGOISM, The people in context there are the SCAMMERS. Stay of trouble son

Gandollaar:
I don't need your unsolicited advice. Stay in your lane please.

Damn. My dear daughter, in as much as you're on NL, I'll keep dashing advice out for you all my son's and daughters. So you won't be exceptional. Even lala is among. Stay out of trouble daughter

Afikoo:
I have been receiving constant debit alert from Fidelity on my Savings Account each time I receive alert .

It ranges from 50, 100, 150 etc.

I have called them, they said is CBN directive . Like debiting me 150 Naira for a credit alert of 100k?
Ontop job way dem no give me ohhhh.


I no understand watin dey happen for this country again ohhh.

This is daylight robbery

Damn. My son, why hiding your Figo from the public. Get balls and let see your Figo. Stay safe Son

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Zukiemoniey1:
Jonathan is training snipers - OBASANJO.
I will make your Govt ungovernable - ATIKU.
Jonathan is the most corrupt president in the history of Nigeria - DINO MELAYE.
One million man match protest against insecurity - ADEBOYE.
Jonathan govt stole a lot of money - PASTOR SULEIMAN.
Jonathan is a bad luck -Rev. Fr. EJIKE MBAKA.
Monkey and baboon will soaked in blood if Jonathan continues in 2015 - BUHARI
We will form a parallel Government, if Jonathan won - Rotimi Amaechi.
Jonathan is the sponsor of Boko Haram - Northern Elders.
Jonathan is a kindergarten president - EL RUFAI.
PDP and Jonathan have failed Nigeria - SOWORE.
Jonathan, bring back our girls - OBY EZEKWESILI.
The Government that failed to restore power in six months is a failure -Babatunde FASHOLA.
Finally we used Almajiris to vote out Jonathan -KWANKWASO.

Today Jonathan is getting more encomiums, promotion and recognition from the West.
And:

1. Atiku has been rewarded
2. Kwankwaso has been rewarded
3. Dino Melaye has been rewarded
4. Mbaka can't even talk again
5. Suleiman is quiet
6. Oby Ezekwesili has been shut up and banned.
7. Obasanjo has been shut down
8. El-Rufai has been sidelined
9. Northern Elders are crying
10. Adeboye can't talk again..
11. Sowore is receiving his own punishment.
LESSON:
Mind what you say or do because of selfish interests, because it must surely haunt you back.

# What_Goes_Around_Comes_Around

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Damn. My son, Don't be unfortunate. The memory of how our money was truly squandered by this friend of mine is still fresh. Is this one of the youths we're fighting for to take mantle of leadership. MY SON, YOU'RE VEGETABLE YOUTH. YOU'LL BE WORSE THAN YAYA BELLOW

Damn. This boy is a disgrace to you YOUTHS. We hope the words are as it is though.

Gandollaar:
Who's your daughter? Are you high on cow pee?

Pls respect yourself and don't ever try this shii with me again pls

My daughter, this was what I advised you of. Don't be unruly to me. Stay out of trouble daughter

Amy of them that hasn't stole our money. I can't forget myself though.

lalasticlala:
Dora Akunyili

Damn. My son, I give it to you.

Da. This is defacing. These people are making us miserable in the eyes of the World. M'fvckers

Modified:
People in context are scammers. Don't bring me into your tribal bigotry

Damn. You've spoken friend.I give it to you

Damn. Lots of criminals

Damn. My brother is a sage on his own. I give it to you

Damn. My son and daughters, be civil with your utterances, this is public forum. Stop using uncouth words, the World is watching. Most importantly, stay out of trouble please. God bless you all. Stay safe Son and daughters

Gandollaar:
I'm the mummy that gave your stepmother the juju she used to destroy your destiny.

Amarabae:
I know that stupidity runs in the family but don't transfer it to ur kids

LukasPodolski:
keep quiet.

quack Nurse, what runs in your own family? Ashawo business?

Damn. This is bizarre.

[quote author=ProWalker post=90955104]Bastard

Son, Stop using uncouth word in public forum. This doesn't speak well of you. My two cents. Stay safe Son

YorubaKinging:
If you don't burn it down

You're a bastard

Igbo bastard

Damn. You're uncouth. Why the insult my son? This is public forum son, be mindful of your utterances. Stay safe Son